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On October 18,2013 i did a post sent in by a blog visitor who said
''I have a relation in my home right now. She got married to a winners chapel pastor in 2010,the marriage was awesome. The wife got delivered of a bouncing baby boy in 2011 and a baby girl just last month. But alas! She called me around 7am last week Sunday crying that she can no longer bear it, I was shocked. She narrated her story that this her pastor husband has been beating here mercilessly for a very long time . .......
Read the rest of the story and comments here
Its been three long months and i just got a feedback on the dicey situation.
here goes
''I just want to use this medium to say a very big thank you. A lot of winners chapel came to my sis's rescue after a long wait,the husband even swore on the altar that it will never happen again,that he was frustrated because he was the only one fending for the family and all that. Winners chapel has offered her employment,she's to resume by January. But the family said they are giving the husband the last chance. Thank you so much,God bless you real good''
*Thank God for intervening in this situation!
Good news from dis blog 4 a change!!
ReplyDeleteAfter all d bickering!
Letts hope he doesn't demand all her salary!
Billie jean
Helloooo Annie Idibia, u don born?
DeleteSome people can mumu sha. Anon 11:44,how you take know say na Annie? Olofofo number 1. Hahahahahah,lol.
DeleteReal Good news.
DeleteThat man had better have the fear of God.
Shamelessness in the highest order.
How can he be frustrated by providing for his family???
I won't be surprised if he demands her salary from her.
Awwwww so nice. That's why I love my sdk blog coz it like a family we stand by each other.
ReplyDeleteIm sorry but once a beast, always a beast.
ReplyDeleteGood luck ma'am and may God protect and keep you!
Thank God.
ReplyDeleteI hope the pastor keeps to his promised though I doubt that very much. Only a beast beats up a woman, never mind one that just put to bed.
He also sounds lazy. Who's supposed to help him fend for his wife and baby? One child o, if they have 4 kids nko?
Madam, please save your salary o and have backup plans. If he fucks up again, please move.
Thk God 4 intervention.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. See excuse, so because he is the bread winner, he wants to kill his wife so he will have no one to feed? That pastor is a disgrace to manhood! Thank God she now has a job, I hope things gets better between them. Smh...
ReplyDeleteIn most cases of DV the women re liabilities.
DeleteWhat liability? Is a man not supposed to be a provider? A fool is a fool. I know a lady who provides and still gets beaten. Don't make excuses for a stupid wife beater jo.
DeleteI'm so happy for her.
ReplyDeleteGod bless and perfect your marriage
You are blessed in the name of the Father,and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
Amen!
Wow! Lepa na you be this? Thank God for your life
DeleteTake a hike sister, wen dey start dey neva stop don't b fooled. Getting a job is nt a criteria nt to b beaten anymore cos when matters arise he ll whip ur damn ass lika baby
ReplyDeleteThat's what they always say....mtcheeew
ReplyDeleteWow! Thank God, but why didn't he just talk her into getting a Job and helping her get one than letting out the anger on her. Na wa for this kind pastor o, I wonder the kind of counselling he would give couples in situations like his.
ReplyDeleteThanks to GOD!!!
ReplyDeleteThank God oh. May it never happen again. Stella God bless n increase u. U have done well.
ReplyDelete*heaving a sign of relief*...at least dis one ended well.....and they lived happily ever after
ReplyDeleteNot yet
DeleteHeaving a sigh, my dear.
DeleteThat means that every man that unilaterally fends for d family has automatic ticket to be frustrated and transfer d aggression to their wives....na wah o
ReplyDeleteThank God o. This DV sef. In my beloved Don Moen's voice, Lord, have mercy. It is well..
ReplyDeleteNo story from your Sister, neighbour or friend to buttress your point?
DeleteOh puleeez shut d fuck up dirty pig! Must u comment???????? Gosh get a laid already Oluyomi! (hardcore sex) let's see if u will be a Lil happy and real!!!
DeleteHonestly, I didn't want to reply, but I just couldn't ignore your gbagaun. It is get laid already, not get a laid, inugo? Dictionaries are still for sale o, shogbo?
DeleteOluyomi don't mind the haters. Won't go and learn English before coming to show themselves.
DeleteVery stupid man ooo!
ReplyDeleteSo na bcos oly u dey feed ur family
Is ur reason for beatin ur wife like a drum. Hehehe
Y not go to d garage n meet touts
Make dem quench the fire of weed for your eye (Yoruba translation)
Mshweeetch
She had better save her money and not hand it over to him.
ReplyDeleteAll praises n tnks goes to God
ReplyDeleteAll praises n tnks goes to God
ReplyDeleteJist!!!! Wot a dumb excuse. Pple, don't be fooled. Once a beast, always a beast. When she starts work and he continues pummelling her, the excuse will be dat its bcos she's working and therefore she doesn't pay attention to d home, She always comes back late, she's sleeping with someone from work, she has abadoned her duties at home, she doesn't respect d man again,,,, blablabla. Should I go on? Abegi, who be fool?
ReplyDeleteAnd by d way, I'm a guy.
Thks God !....Stella God bless u really good !...x
ReplyDeleteAlhamdulilai Stella cont. Wit ur gd work Love ur Blog
ReplyDeleteSHOLA
Am happy about this development. Please as for those of u sayin once a man hits a woman he can never change are not so right. He can and many do stop. Now dat she can earn, thgs will improve hopefully. Tks stella for using your blog to shine the light.
ReplyDeleteSo why get married?
ReplyDeleteThey say the man is the head of the house, but this one is frustrated for heading one known wife and child. You put a woman in the family way and do not want to provide? Who even sponsor that wedding? All these so called pastors that put hand in what they csn not shoulder.
All those that contributed towards the traditionaland white wedding ceremonies should also contribute to the up keeping of the wife snd child.
Madam pastor wife, brace yourself as this is only part one. He will have many more reasons to take out his frustrations on you. Please keep us posted.
Thank God for her but pls madam save some money Oº°˚˚°º!
ReplyDeleteWe can only wish her the best.
ReplyDeleteLady if you are reading this, while working things out with him, start saving money when you resume work.Save, save, save like your life depends on it. I sincerely hope and pray he doesnt beat you again but do not let your guard down.
It is well with you.
Chai,,see excuse o!!! In my moda inlaw's tone,,,Akuko nyanga eze!!!!
ReplyDeleteA leopard never changes its spots. Now I need help here why do Nigerians in Nigeria and those raised in Nigeria say "resuming" when starting a new job? Please do not use that term in Obodo Oyibo or with non Nigerians if you ever relocate it is not correct. To resume is to go back to something that you had already started so for example if Mrs Pastor commences work in January and then takes a holiday in April when she goes back to work we can then say she is resuming work because she is going back to what she had started but for now the correct terms are "start" "commence" etc or any other term that signifies a beginning.
ReplyDeleteU've said this before, trust me people r so set in their ways. They'll never change
DeleteTank God
ReplyDeletethumbs up to winners chapel...i knew they wont tolerate it
ReplyDeleteGood news!
ReplyDeleteI hope the man keeps his word!
The man head de shake o! No be im be head of the family to cater for his family?
ReplyDeleteAnywaz thank God the storm is settled. I pray he is truthfully repentant.
Testimony testimony testimony ,lepa shady have been delivered ,I give God all the glory
ReplyDeleteI can c dt majority of the cause of Dv in Nigeria are mostly linked to poverty, u can never do anytn meaningful to satisfy a frustrated poor man, chai God help us, I tnk God for her life.
ReplyDeleteHope he will change.
ReplyDeletestop domestic violence now
ReplyDelete.You see...... And some of you here especially the immatured ones were shouting "Divorce him!". Like every single qurrell in marriage must lead to divorce. Glory to God
ReplyDeleteTnk u jaree, no mind dem immature kids.
DeleteWell....we'r waitin 2 c if he is truly changed! So cos ur d only one fendin 4 d family,u decided 2 turn ur wyf 2 a punching bag......?very SICK!!ur a sick sick man!demented!
ReplyDeleteGood morning Stella from New York, I love your blog & naughyt blog visitors, keep up the good work... Pls Lepa shandy, Phrinkies, ur boyfriend Tony & others can't type now coz of my long nails (tongue out) 2014 is around d corner no more cussing, bikering & tafia; let there be change for ones even though I like some of d comments, Happy Holidays! Tafia from New York...
ReplyDeleteNawa o! Stories of DV makes me wanna puke. God save women frm d hands of wild animals dat call demselves husband!
ReplyDeleteNice one, hope he has really changed o! Some men are just idiots!
ReplyDelete@Dimma pearl
Lepa shandy i been see u for my dream oh! E be like say na u be the one for me! Make we collabo naw *winks @u*
ReplyDeleteSome people don't bother reading before they vomit their comment oh! Sho!!! Simple quarrel ke!! An animal who beat up his wife the night she returned from delivering her daughter? And again on the day of the christening, not to talk of the weekly beatings? Plus the bastard who threatened to burn her up with kerosine because she's an orphan and has no one to protect her?!? How does any of the above equate simple quarrel?!? Haba! Don't let me pray that all she has been through is your portion oh! Your kind will be the sort to now run here crying for sympathy and protection!! mtschewwwwwww
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster please,please tell your relation to watch herself oh,and her children,and save her money! A BEAST will always be a BEAST! And it will only take something little to trigger the wild animal inside,so she needs to be ever WATCHFUL. God bless and keep her and her children. Amen.