Do they ever come clean?
Some people say ex-asawos make good wives/husbands but some others have also said that after a few years,they are lured back to their old lifestyle and when married they chop more tohtohs/blokos' per day than when they were single.
Note here that in saying ''ex prostitute'' i am referring to both male and female.
Did you marry an ex prostitute?how is it like living with them?do you monitor their every move?
Are you knowingly dating someone who has confessed to being an ex pro?planning to marry them?
This post arises because Sunny who lives in Akure is dating an ex prostitute she did the initial toasting but he is scared that she might still go behind him to meet other men.he says he knows she loves him 100percent but that is not enough.he feels after settling down with her she might go back to the work.He also says her jealousy is out of this world when she sees him talking to another woman..His initial intention according to him was to give her strength to leave the job,he advised and counselled her but along the line,she she toasted him and they began dating,now he is in love but scared stiff to start life with her because of her asawo life.
Would you date or advice anyone to date an ex prostitute? Is the regular chick out there better than them?If you would advise anyone to marry or date an ex prostitute,would you still give the advice if your sibling or relative is involved with one?
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Even wen u try 2 remove the spot on a leopard,their will still b unclean spots. They still live with d stigma. #FiNEWiNe.
ReplyDeleteAbeg make I commit dis my matter wit una to God as anyone wey go cuss me again eh, baba God go judge us.... Sterra, ashawo make sense oooo...but me neva do anytin wit anyone of dem but bcos 2day na World Women Rights Day, I go like make one ashawo come visit me.... Make I appreciate am in my own lil way...#alinko
DeleteMaheeda comes to mind...lol, she may not be sleeping around(I hope) but she's jst morally bankrupt!
DeleteI can never advise anyone to marry an ex-prostitute. The bitter truth is that they never change.
DeleteMy younger brother made the greatest mistake of his life by getting married to one. The girl has succeeded in separating him from his friends by spreading rumours about them. The funny thing is that his friends have also slept with her. In fact, my stupid brother met her on the street, slept with her and got hooked. His friends advised him to let her go when he was getting too serious, but he foolishly continued and in less than 3 months, they were married. It was after marriage we got to know of her past and when I confronted her, she told me to go to hell. The worst part is some of my ogas at work have also slept with her. They tease me everyday and I'm so ashamed of going to work.
Five years down the line, she's yet to get pregnant and she came up with one story that her husband's family are the witches and wizards preventing her from getting pregnant. The mumu husband believed her and now, no one knows where they live. My brother changed houses and changed his number.
My brother travelled to Dubai last year and he spent a month. Throughout the time he travelled, my friends were calling me, asking if my brother has divorced his wife cos they kept seeing her at different hotels. Can you imagine? One even snapped her and sent the pic to me and it was true.
Me sha, I know God is not asleep and one day one day, goat will go to the market and not come back. The juju she has used in tying my brother will expire and him eyes go clear.
So, my advise is once a prostitute, always a prostitute. Unless they really fear God, they no dey sit down one place.
Its complicated.
DeleteDid u say EX prostitute?
We are all ex-sth.
I say make I ask all those pple wey dey carry my matter for head, how market?...#alinko
DeleteAnonymousDecember 11, 2013 at 2:01 PM, your family is too relaxed. Is it until she kills your brother?
DeleteWhere is your mum? She too relax o.
@ kehinde, this is d 2nd time I'm replying to ur comment cz I agree with u.
DeleteWe are all ex sth.
If christ can forgive u and an ex prostitute, who are we to judge?
@ kehinde, this is d 2nd time I'm replying to ur comment cz I agree with u.
DeleteWe are all ex sth.
If christ can forgive u and an ex prostitute, who are we to judge?
They say ashawo wey marry,na holiday she go!she must to return to venue' hehe!
DeleteA word is enuf for the wise.
let story begin....am a babe buh u knw d only constant fin in life is change...
ReplyDeleteDepending on her reasons for engaging in prostitution.These days its all about the Runs girls now..Whats the difference between both?
ReplyDeleteThey'd both fuck at the right price and seeing that after engaging in Runs aka Prostitution,they even get the best men as husbands
Same applies to men.After screwing everything available they settle down with a good woman and give off the impression of responsibility even while still fucking outside secretly.
There is someone i know..but his good wifey reads this blog..
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ReplyDeleteMajority of them stop when they get married....they only goes back when the husband cannot provide for the family.
ReplyDeleteNne it is GO back biko!!!
DeleteLmao! Odikwa too much!
DeleteLol nwanne tell her, is go back o. Lol I've this blog. It makes
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Anyone who isn't married and is not a virgin and You weren't raped is a prostitute! Because we nor dey stand for road? Abegi make I hear! If You've ever willingly slept with any man/woman who isn't Your spouse You're a prostitute if You collected or expected money in return then You're a HOE! Pls marry her if she's ready to settle down
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True tlk..buh dts harsh..
DeleteI know a virgin pretty girl in abj then that refused to sleep with any man until she gets married me sef I envied her only for her to get married and now she goes after men she said she has married her husband as a virgin now she's free to do whatever she wants! She sleeps around ehn! My point is just bEcause she "WAS" a prostitute don't mean she won't be a great wife, I know "good" girls who married as virgins and right now they will give hoes a run for their money! So pls use Your heart! If You think she's the one go for it no woman/man is perfect make sure You're 100% in all the way and always put God first it will be fine!
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteOh pls shut up.
DeleteAnyone can change that's my take on it, if you allow God in, that's all you need
DeleteAnd you would be made new
We are all works in progess God hasn't finished with you, so why can't one change
Any1 can, the good can bcome bad and bad become good
True talk at push up.
DeleteAll these members of Prostitutes associations are still pushing this their overused mantra of "every woman is a prostitute"?
DeleteI sorry for una.
I sleep with my BF and he gives me serious money when he likes. You sleep with hundreds of men and they must settle yoou with stipends before you jump to the next dick. Honey(in Afro Candy's voice), we are different
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DeleteIf u like sleep with ur bf or with 100 men n u receive money, you are all acting out prostitution.
We are all ex something. Some of us haven't even dropped our vices.....
@anon 3:10
DeleteIf u like sleep with ur bf or with 100 men n u receive money, you are all acting out prostitution.
We are all ex something. Some of us haven't even dropped our vices.....
They will never come clean unless they have the Grace of God in them
ReplyDeleteHoney, our holiness is filth in the eyes of God......we all need his grace....
DeleteMrs D, you making me laugh and my belly up to the chest are killing me.
DeleteLaugh o, my dear.....life is too short
Deletei think it is very rare for an ex ashawo to not relapse, most of them even after a guy gives them the world they go back, its like hard drugs. it is addictive.
ReplyDeleteVery true and well said. Problem is dat they ve lost thr conscience and shame, trust me, those pple dnt Change. God pls protect my brothers from such women
Deletestella ,na ashawo u call am ,our orhubo forefathers call am opio,now e don upgrade to runs,so how do we conclude this matter ,when even decent girls have upgraded ashawo and opio to runs ,some people will come hear now and start running mouth ,even the so called married women are also into runs ,sterra this is a delicate issue ,first we have to address what is runs ,runs is sophisticated ashawo ,opio.akwuna,most women married their husbands through runs,oya i dey wait for comments ,let me see what my fellow sdks got to say
ReplyDeleteDamn
ReplyDeleteOfcos they ar also humans n love conquer it all
ReplyDeleteOnce a prostitute always a prostitute don't let them deceive you. If you choose to marry them it will be at your own risk, just keep it in mind that they can go back any time.
ReplyDeleteSharaaaaaaaaaaaap!
DeleteU re shouting sharaaaaaaaaap! Re u a prostitute,we ren't judging but a leopard will always b a leopard. #FiNEWiNe
DeleteSDK readers oya...wana read gist abeg
ReplyDeleteOnce an ashawo always an ashawo. Take Maheeda from example. She's itching to hit the streets again even after having a decent comfortable life.
ReplyDeleteany girl who sleeps wt a man\men n expect monetary reward is basically a prostitute. We hav so many prostitute evn corporate ones so its nt just abt those who stand on d roadside @ nite. #myopinion. Ex Prostitute or no ex prostitute; its just d grace of God n discipline dat makes some of us stick t one man n one man alone.
ReplyDeletePreach it Lepa!
Delete@lepa Orobo, stop impersonating me bitch!
DeleteGet another blog name bitch
Well said @ lepa orobo...... the choice is yours, the changes you need to make after living as a single lady depends on the value you place on yourself. if you have slept with 10 men and counting you are for the lack of a better word - Prostitute. This label doesn't define you. How you live after settling down is what will define you...
DeleteTherefor if any man be in Christ he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. (2nd corinthians 5:17).
ReplyDelete#well said #
DeleteSaint Zizee
Tony dey quote from the Bible, you don't change over night, please keep it up.
DeleteHian she's jealous? Her jealousy is out of this world? I have notn to say. Just chilln nd waitn for comments.*CHIZZY*
ReplyDeleteIts a gamble, be careful pls.
ReplyDeletePls blog fam I've got a problem, I live in canada and my boyfriend lives in naija, he's the best thing that has. Ever happened to me, he's generous, kindd, considerate and every single thing good men are.
The problem though is that he can stay with me for a week straight and he won't even get an erection, I've got to beg and cajole and all sorts before we even do it even once. His best defence is that he does not love me for sex, and we don't ve a rship based on sex. This is all cool but I'm just sooo worried, does he not find me sexually attractive? Is there a problem? (When we eventually do get around to having sex, he's very agile and really does satisfy me) I think the problem is that he has extremely low libido. I've made okro soup cos I heard it increases libido in men but he's too picky with food and does not eat it. We've been together for 16days now and we've only had sex 3times and this is someone I've nt seen since july....I don't even get it. Canada is damned cold now and I don't knw if its part of the problem. But we had the same prob when I was still in naija (left in june for masters) Pls is there another like traditional remedy? He's everything I want in a man except for this.....he's refusing to identify this as a problem, I don't knw if its pride or what? He shld nt be cos we tell each other everything......I'm just sooo worried. Pls help me with tips(someone recommended cutting out diaries from his diet) he proposed on sunday, I accepted, but just this morning after another failed attempt to have sex I was asking if he was even going to recognize I'm a girl 5yrs from now.I love him and cheating has never crossed my mind but wld love to have my boyfriend up his ante sexually. He's perfect in all other ramifications.I knw I'm nt ugly, I'm nt fat (no offense to fat people) so its nt like I put him off. Help me cos he's still with me till new year, let me try out tips and see if I will get results before he travels back.
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Stop fornicating. Go and marry.
DeleteRUN!! He is gay
DeleteI don't know you in person but I know you and I know your boyfriend very well cos he was my friend. He is gay!
DeleteIf u ve nt had sex with anyone thts not ur lawful wedded husband/wife then u re justified......nuisance
DeleteHe has low sex drive and you have high sex drive. Please, there are little or no solution for this but please don't cheat or leave him because of sex. However, try these.. Early morning sex, force him to take a little alcohol before action, give him some sex induce fruit, try seducing him unexpectedly dressing like nurse, high school student.etc and.. ..pray to God!
DeleteI don't know what people really want. Person wey get cap no get head, the one wey get head no get cap. If this guy demands for sex 247, you'll come and ask for advise, he's not asking, wahala. Me I no know wetin to tell you oh.
DeleteLobatan. Investigate well and return the ring.
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Truth may be he's too happy to be with you that sex isn't the issue. My bf is out of town for 3-5months at a stretch. Truth is after sex1, I don't care much for more. I'm too content emotionally to just think sex sef is like. Spoiling it.
DeleteWhen he goes I can nearly run mad o that I even tried a vibrator once but refused to continue. Though a few years ago we used to have incessant sex.
Please I'm not gay. I'm even kinda homophobic(ish confuse me_
Get vaigra and put it in his food. Grind it till its powered like and put it in his fave food. He will chase you around the house.
DeleteAmong all these good girls looking for husband here and there, Na ashh you go go Carry.....LOVE NKE A GBAKWA OKU!
ReplyDeleteTo me runs girls and boys falls into the category of prostitution and some people are happily married to them. whatever rocks ones both shaa, me I no fit ooo.
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Aunty Stee, I don't think its OK to marry an ex pro unless the person has genuinely given his/ her life to God. There is always the tendency for ex pros to go back to their former ways. E.g Maheeda. I no talk anything o.
ReplyDeleteI can't say. But the truth is 'Nacking things' dey hard to leave o!
ReplyDeleteC jamb quex o. Dunno o. I will ask a friend
ReplyDeleteThere is no regular chic out there,98% of girls are prostitute, to me as long as ure not a virgin u can't tell me uve been fucking just ur bf,u meet a guy cos he has a flashy ride and he looks clean u start straffing and u say u re not a prostitute, sister u re not different from the girl that stands outside in the night
ReplyDeleteThumbs up dear
DeleteAgreed....but oga r u a virgin too?na ur typ go dey deflower girls up and down later go village dey find virgin marry.oshisco.......ur talk of girls wat abt guys dat sleep with diff girls??oshisco
DeleteAm a girl biko
DeleteSo you're a prostitute too?
DeleteAm amazed at d way pple reason here, d world has gotten really bad o. I thank God for making me morally upright.
DeleteYou are mad. Who gives a fuck what car he drives or how much he has. Babe i got my own sexy car and make real cool cash so he call fall back and come correct kmt
DeleteHmm dis one pass me but frm my little knowledge, an ex prosti can be a gud hus or wife if the person is determined to change cos dt decision is only left for them to make n if u study her with time n c the necessary changes, my dear wife her cos no one is perfect n I v seen ppl like dt who r now good home makers.
ReplyDeleteI tink I will stay out of dis 1,u shuldnt judge a book by its cover
ReplyDeleteIt doesnt rily matter jes mak sure she has changed for good. Cos i know an army officer who met a virgin n rushed to engage her. Fast forward a few years ds gal eye don tear reach back! Calls d guy local n was sleepin wit his officer friend. Went ahead to marry d guy bt evn after d weddin was stil textin d oda guy sayin she wanna travel all d way to boko haram maiduguri. So being an ashewo doesnt matter o. Btw i can neva allow my person marry an idoma gal. Gosh dey r useless
ReplyDeleteYou are a fool for saying Idoma girls are useless.
DeleteYour whole generation of women are useless.
Mschewww.
Am proudly Idoma!!!@
Osej is your tribe any better? Isi ewu!
DeleteI have lived in benue state all my live prim, second sch and even university. Idoma girls are about the most promiscouis women on earth. It's just few of them that are good infact wetin be idoma sef benue women! Both tiv, igede and jukun very very ashawo-ish people
DeleteNa idoma girls full abj. Lol ur so right abt them
Deletestella is not easy one of my friend marry one of them they have being together for ten years with two children, My friend alway cry anytime he call me they both live in ltaly before they move to London in short the lady was the one that give him paper his wife is the oga at the top my friend don enter one chance.he can't call anybody or pick the phone if the oga at the top is at home.
ReplyDeleteTo me, its no big deal! Not like we are even better off. Provided that word Ex is there ie repentance we just have no choice than accept them and their past also...Many records of repented thieves, prostitutes et al i have heard or came across turn out to be better off than the so called saints/critics over them.. We can't talk of the ancestral lineage of Jesus without talking about rehab(An Ex Prostitute)Mattew 1-7... The first to see the risen Jesus??? Magdalene...we already know her story, So what are we not talking??? Pls, let's all give them our love, loyalty and mostly prayers!!! Rome was never built in a day
ReplyDeleteWell no body is perfect,although nothing can justify for being a whore buh I blive dat most of em out der are doing it not bcox dey enjoy it buh due to circumstances,I bliv dat wen dey realise their mistake and accept d fact dat prostitution is not life.certainly dey will depart from it nd repent.atimes once a prostitute will never b a prostitute.
ReplyDeleteAccording to Wikipedia, a prostitute is a person who engages in sexual relations in exchange for payment of money or other things in value.
ReplyDeleteSince the majority of Naija babes are runs girls who sleep with men for money or things if value, then most Naija men are already married to prostitutes anyway. So Stella, please redirect your question!!
I no gree oooo...once bitten twice shy.they will always go back in one way or anoda.
ReplyDeleteDepends on what u guys see as prostitution,for me almost all d babes are into it,wen u keep more than a guy at a time and then do small small runs here and there,what do u call it.I feel its based on individuals involved.my thoughts though
ReplyDeleteMore than 70% of girls are into runs. And what is runs? Runs is thesame as prostitution in a sophisticated way simple. Even the so-called married women are the worst. Prostituion is not only about the females, from statistic, male prostiution is the worst. Back to the post, the guy shld talk sense into her cos most ppl indulge in such act not for the fun of it; buy clothes,shoes, BUT bcos of condition! When u see them don't judge cos u don't know what he/her is going thu at that point in time. The guy shld talk some sense into her, establish a trade for her, and enroll her in any school irrespective of her age. If it persist, take her to a God fearing/living church for councelling and deliverance. There is absolutely no way she will want to go back as being a prostitute impossicant.
ReplyDelete@Princess charming@ hehehe! You and your bad mouth, you don turn to Sister Mary! Wetin you eat or drink today? Shaaarrrrraaaa, big head.
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i think almost everyone is a prostitute.......
ReplyDeletebefore it was women prostituting,,but now,,we have Men who prostitute as well
Married woman go to Motel to sleep with young sweet ladies
Married men also sleeping with young guys
The world has turned upside down
And mostly,,ds Prostitute make good home....not all of dem tho
@Galore
Its obvious u r a prostitute! And also dumb
Delete@galore!!!! Which one is your preference? Feminine, or masculine, are you a marry hoe or single hoe? Dummy.
DeleteOnce a prostitute,is a prostitute! Maheeda for an example
ReplyDeleteOne thing u fools don't understand is,a prostitute doesn't av sex for fun.they don't even feel anything when having sex.its possible for a pro to change for good,provided she's comfortable financially and the rest.then no reason for her going back..Mr poster pls marry her if u re able to take care of her in all aspects.okbye#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteWhat do u mean by u fools,u shld learn manners pls,everyone that comes here is not as stupid as u are
DeleteDid you have to say "fools" to get your point across? You sound dumb, some prostitutes actually enjoy the sex so STFU.
DeletePoster forget abeg! What makes you think the next person you will meet will be better off? The only problem here is jealousy, address it now and you guys are good to go. Nobody holy pass jare, unless u wan tel me say u ma na virgin
ReplyDeleteGo to empire now, go give them much luv for there and even the ones wey don turn to grand mama there. Mr holiness
ReplyDeleteThinking of it makes my skin crawl. Especially these ones that stand by the road. At an average of 1 man per night, that's 365 men fucked in a year. God forbid o.
ReplyDeleteMay it not be the portion of my brothers.
Abeg marry her nd stop making noisssssssssseeeee jooooorrrrr!!! Was once a pro,bt 2day am wif my husband
ReplyDeleteThere is no guarantee. One I know don dey waka kurukere now, even as a grandmother. Nk
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I won't advise my enemy to marry a prostitute o, my friend was stabbed to death by his 'ex prostitute' wife when he accused her of infidelity after marriage #Sobs#
ReplyDeleteMy friends ex prostitute wife stabbed him to death when he accused her of infidelity after marriage
ReplyDeleteMy dear,wat matters in life is change and determination if she has rily change and determined nt to go back to dat life u can marry and hand over ur marriage in the hands of God cos d bible says dat watsoever dat is being comitted into d hands of God is safe and secured.u said she's EX of which she's nw a new creature old things hav passed away n change has takin place in her life.Som of them is condition dat pushed them to such life n once they hav som1 who can bring them out of it they will change completely.Have faith
ReplyDeletewho go marry all these lagos girls wey dey do runs?
ReplyDelete@osej can you give me the name of a tribe that doesn't have prostitutes? @anon supporting osej why generalize when you haven't met every girl from benue state??? Shows how dumb you are
ReplyDeleteYES AM FROM BENUE STATE
@anonymous #78 . . . and what about the men that sleep with them every night at an average of one lady per night; that's about 365 ladies a year; are these men going to marry goats? Will these men not look for virgins to marry? It takes two to tango.
ReplyDelete@anonymous #75 you sleep with your boyfriend and he gives you money when he likes . . don't you see that you've got a problem; When you break up (or he breaks up with you) you sleep with another boyfriend and so on and on it goes. It is called SERIAL PROSTITUTION.. Why not call upon Jesus to forgive you and save you and give you life in abundance including a man who will love and marry you without asking that you open legs. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteD devil u knw,is beta dan d angel u dnt knw! Pple engage in prostitution 4 various reason(s),even thou its nt a justification dat d act is bad. Our God is a God of second chance if us repentance is genuie. Being a virgin or a pros. Is nt a criteria 4 making a gud wife/husby,character also matters.
ReplyDeleteNo body holy pass
ReplyDeleteWas watchin a talk show the other day. A lady brought her cuzin forward n askd evry1 2 tell her cuzin 2 stop her porn actin job. Dis woman has a fyn bobo o! Her bobo den askd her @ d show if she has cheated on him outside actin porn. She replied "uncountable times". Abeg, ex prostitute na mba!
ReplyDeleteSo your brother married a prostitute na juju? I hate that kind of stupid comment.....when somebody is in love don't you know they don't care what people say? Juju my royal arse.....he made his mistake so we pray he gets out but stop all that juju bullshit...outside her being a prostitute am sure she has qualities that he saw in her and liked, after al she is a human being like you....if she is still sleeping around then that is bad and dangerous for his well being...
ReplyDeleteIts 50:50.
ReplyDeleteSome will change if what led them into it was financial gain (poverty )....Meeting/falling in love with a man well-off
If the Prost....is a sex freak, money or no money, he/she can't change.
If God can love us and forget our pasts,then we are to love everyone fairly without paying attention to their past.However,ur problem is within ur heart.
ReplyDeleteYour mind seem to be warning/pricking u.
*You need to be sure ur girl REGRETS her wayward way and has FULLY CHANGED(repented)
*You need to trust her and get over those worries that comes to ur mind.
*You need to seek d face of God 4 HIS CHOICE for u.
*If u're nt too sure abt ur present relshp,pls pull out,metculous enof nt to hurt her.She kinda wooed u into d relshp where as u are suppose to do so.This wl make u to smtimes take her grantes.Let her undstand u want sometime to urself.
However,i think u shld pray for her and stay strong wid her.She might be d greatest thn to happen to u in life.Just know what u're doing.
If God can love us and forget our pasts,then we are to love everyone fairly without paying attention to their past.However,ur problem is within ur heart.
ReplyDeleteYour mind seem to be warning/pricking u.
*You need to be sure ur girl REGRETS her wayward way and has FULLY CHANGED(repented)
*You need to trust her and get over those worries that comes to ur mind.
*You need to seek d face of God 4 HIS CHOICE for u.
*If u're nt too sure abt ur present relshp,pls pull out,metculous enof nt to hurt her.She kinda wooed u into d relshp where as u are suppose to do so.This wl make u to smtimes take her grantes.Let her undstand u want sometime to urself.
However,i think u shld pray for her and stay strong wid her.She might be d greatest thn to happen to u in life.Just know what u're doing.
thank God for camera phones and social media,we now realise supposedly average normal girls do worse than prostitutes who are strictly in it for the money.although i have not dated an ex prostitute to my knowledge but if i found someone with all the qualities i was looking for and she confided in me she was a prostitute as long as she is clean and free of any STD I'm cool with it
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