Stella,I'm tall,dark and beautiful. I am married with kids but Port Harcourt men don't let me rest.
I dress very decently and I am a quiet lady. I wear my wedding ring always but that doesn't deter them.My hubby is on transfer.
Once I went to a pastor and complained about this,he gave me Bible passages,prayed for me and told me I have SEDUCTION SPIRIT in me. Then he started toasting me and I Left in anger.
Please,I need help. I have never slept with another man except my hubby. I married at 19years and I am 29 years now.
Blog visitors please what do i do?where do i go to cast out this spirit?
*spirit of seduction?i dont now how to advise you on this one..please does anyone know anything about this and how it can be removed?the pastor prayed and ended up toasting you?wonderful!
My dear don't worry ph men na their trade mark be that. There's nothing wrong with u. If you are a child of God no evil spirit dey worry you biko
ReplyDeleteYou'll be damned when u eventually cast out the seduction spirit and even ur husband don't find u attractive anymore. Mtcheeeew! If dey toast woman na wahala if dem no toast am na wahala. Rubbish!
DeleteI'm married wit 3kids,30yrs old,I and my ex bf are still very good friends,I visit him anytime I'm in his vicinity,we jst talk and I go home,doh we talk dirty most times.lastweek I went 2 his house and out of curiousity and lack of sex 4rm my hubby,one tin lead 2 anoda and we started kissin,neckin and even gave him a blowjob and he came in my mouth and wen he wanted 2 start undressin me 2 start d real show,I started feelin bad and told him 2 stop and he did,I picked up my hand bag and ran home,feelin so guilty and bad till now cos I've never bin wit any oda man since my 8yrs of marriage,bt anytime I replay d incident in my mind I get turned on.God pls 4gv me and help me not 2 ever get close 2 anoda man cos I love my hubby scarra
DeleteNever heard of that before..Madam e dey your body, and you said you never slept with another before??? Yea yea, i beg i beg i beg..
ReplyDeleteAnd u don't believe her because?*confused
DeleteI dont believe that such a spirit exists.I cant imagine myself praying that people should not be attracted to me.Instead I pray aginst the spirit of adultery.Nothing should make me ever sleep with a man thats not my husband.Im happily married but I get passes from men alot.They shower all sorts of praises on me but I never let it get to my head.Im married with 3kids and men are still proposing to me.Say I dont even look like a married woman.Trust me all they want to do is chop and clean mouth.Thank God I've never fallen victim.
DeleteMoi u re jst senseless, Haba! its hard for u to believe cos dats wat u do around.
DeleteMoi,we know ur type.we know u can't keep ur panties up.ashewo oshi.can u imagine,she doesn't believe a lady can be faithful.I wonder d kind of mothers that raised people like u
DeleteWhat's so hard to believe there,when she married at the age of 19,
DeleteMFM is the place 2 go they are good @ such deliverance cases.
ReplyDeleteDat is it
DeleteCLAM OMOLE u need to see pastor wole oladiyun
DeleteFine boy George! U dey go mfm?
DeleteMfm or clam no dey look fine boy o you'll be surprised when you see fine dudes shaking their heads and praying die by fire
DeletePoster go MFM,them go cast all the seductive spirit wey dey follow u. Dem no go even look weda u fine pass agbani or not. Dem no send u 4 there. I'll recommend MFM Prayer city for you. 3days dry fasting go follow o but no fear,u go overcome
ReplyDeleteMake dem do deliverance finish make her hubby no find her attractive again?issokay o
DeleteDon't believe in this so called spirit. It might just be that you have the aura of confidence. Your wedding ring could also be an attraction, because some find attached people attractive. Just continue to be you. Don't go to MFM for any deliverance nonsense or else, you might end up being delivered with a huge Rod and you sure know that it wouldn't be the type Moses used in parting the red Sea. So take thing easy and just ignore.
DeleteMy dear,there is no such spirit...do not let any pastor fool u...why are u worried cos men are after u,does that means u ve seduction spirit??? No! Men toast married women every day,u are not the 1st..keeping saying no to then..they will leave u alone...and prayer too...beware of fake pastors oo
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeletePoster is just a worry-lord
That's a lie. Practical example na stella oduah! She reeks of seduction. I have the same problem. Men love to feast on me if your bf like size8 or fair skinned which I'm not, just wait till I waltz in. No worry make I no give gist. Truth is seduction isn't always for sex but I get favours&beef as a result. I'm honestly worried no guy truly likes me they all just want a piece of d booty. mostly I try to be in control(coz I know what they all want) I don't really like people complementing my body at times. It makes me self conscious&rritable.
DeleteOnly cooz I love my bf I do extra to be faithful these days. I fear a lot o. I have even told him to work his posting here o coz I won't be held. Responsible oo
4 a pastor 2 toast u too!haha no b ordinary again.Enta d next available flight or bus straight 2 synagogue church an get ursef delivered
ReplyDeleteU pple have come again abi?
DeleteWe no dey house
Is a pastor not a human beign? Poster listen, mind the places you go to, who are your friends? If they are single ladies then you are inviting the men . Always be formal with your greetings and carriage when it comes to men.Talk about your husband in a very loving manner and.above all make hair do that befits a.married woman if you don't use to and always be prayerful.
DeleteMadam, it's not every man of God that claims to be of God that is truly worshiping him. It sounds like the "pastor" you visited is just a sex fiend and wanted to use it to take advantage of you sexually. Because he had his own agenda, I'd be wary of any pronouncements he made about you.
ReplyDeleteFrom the sounds of it, you're an attractive young woman and have the same problem many attractive young women have... you're attractive. It's not a spirit.
Thanks a lot. I was dying in silence cos d disturbance was getting out of hand.
DeleteIs there any woman who doesn't get attention from men?? No matter unattractive u think u are, u are someones spec. I don't see any issues with men being attracted to you, you are just the one making an issue out of it. Nothing is wrong with you abeg...There is nothing to cast out...
ReplyDeleteI agree with you.... I don't rest in nigeria too but don't think much abt it. Too many dogs walking around in man form that's all it is . Posters there is nothing to worry abt. Why worry urself, just continue to ignore them and remain fabuolous.
DeleteNaija sha .. pple focus too much on d devil or evil spirit . Imagine talking abt casting spirit... Smh
Madam nothing is wrong with you. It's good to know that you are in control of your emotions. You are just beautifully and wonderfully made just like me. Since you already know that you attract men to yourself, management is all you need. It's normal particularly when you have a beautiful face, skin, shape and height. There are many women out there who would go to babalawo just to attract men but God made you beautiful. All you need to do is thank God for making you the way you are and when they approach you, just let them know you aren't interested. In my case I tell them off politely but that doesn't mean they won't come back. Just Keep telling them off... Sometimes I involve my husband. All these men want is to ruin your life and they won't succeed in Jesus name. God will help us. Amen.
ReplyDeleteSeduction Spirit. Not very sure about this but I can relate to you phrase "..dress very decently..". It's defined in different ways: the Deeper Life, Methodist, Catholics, Anglicans, Muslims, etc, all have different perception about "decent dressing". If you dress decently as prescribed by your pastor and he's already into intimate discussions with you, it's either you're not decent, or your pastor is among those that show another level of grace. Remember, whatever you do that doesn't Glorify The Big Guy Upstairs, is sinful. Ask yourself if you can stand before the THRONE, wearing what you are wearing right now. If your answer is far from comfortable, then by all means, change your perception of decent dressing. Be Blessed.
ReplyDeleteEvangelist memphis igweeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
DeleteRestrict ursef to wearing 'aunty plz gimme cake' gowns, 'mary-amaka' skirts.
ReplyDeleteRub charcoal on ya face.
If toastin still persist try TB JOSHUA let's hope 2 God e doesn't toast u.
Aunty stella plz try n post dis comment. Na all my energy I tk write am. Biko-nu!
Welcum bk oo. @ pinkshell
DeleteTanx @ anony!
DeleteBuh I no go anywia na.
I oly reduced d freq of my comments.
Bends hand like person wey get boil for 'Abia'
Do nyash like crab
Spread leg like...hehehehe
As I gallantly walk out of post.
Rushes back to do 'NTOIN' for stella.
Tells stella 'u see som ppl actually appreciates me'
Re-adjusts self,
Now, catwalks out of post like water wey wan pour!
@Pinkshell u got me rolin on d floor wit ur last coment u get mouth die. Notin do u. # Me too catwalk out lk water wey wan pour.#. Verde
DeleteSo the same randy man that told you you had a spirit of seduction started toasting you as well and you still believe him?
ReplyDeleteKai, people are gullible sha. You would soon run into a "pastor" that would have sex with you in the bid to cast out the demon.
If you are still being hit on after kids, means ur hubby should be a proud man...
p.s. portharcourt men are randy pigs.
I fiinished having kids at 25. Maybe that makes me look single.
Delete@POSTER: This girl u funny, how does single look like?
DeleteMogbe!!!
ReplyDeletestella na wa oh i just got married 1 month ago and i met this guy on my way back from work it was raining and i stood under his umbrella, only for this guy to offer me to join him on the bike home , he collected my no even when i told him i was married, na so this guy just they give me attention , my hubby is in delta, i am even like 3 moths pregnant and the guy no one greee me he said i remind him like much of his late wife that died na wa oh i nova see this kind thing lol
ReplyDeleteAshewo full ur body,y did u give him ur number?
DeleteLike seriously,they will give their numbers out and start complaining that d person is disturbing them.u shouldn't have given him ur number if u didn't want him calling u.
DeleteTank u ooo zizi, well said. The great anon,fud wey u no wan chop mak u no smell am. Afta u go say prob dey ur marriage... Na u sabi
DeleteYou wanted him, that was why entered same bike with him. Mtcheww! And u think being married and pregnant will stop men from toasting u wen u give them full attention.
DeleteAre u ok at all????u just got married a month and uv started giving out ur numba...by d time u're 3yrs in marriage....u'll start bringing those men to your home nah......if u werent interested in d guy....y give him ur numba in d first place??so stop complaining.....all of a sudden....u don dey resemble dead body..........e dey ur body jare.
DeleteSame bike???? Whats this abeg?
DeleteMy dear, I am facing the same thing. Men always seem to come around or hang around me! I am married with kids also. My husband is in town and keeps on accusing me of showing perpetual green light! God in heaven knows I don't do that! I even try to dodge them as much as possible and I dress ordinarily just to avoid attention! I just believe the devil is working overtime! He wants to make sure I don't have peace in my marriage, and I am always quarreling with my husband!
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U re d one cosin prob for ursef, if ur hubby dnt lyk u around dem or callin u, den cut dem off.
DeleteU re d one cosin prob for ursef, if ur hubby dnt lyk u around dem or callin u, den cut dem off.
DeleteI am not attached to any of them for me to cut them off! They don't call me neither do I call them! If you want to know more visit my blog.
DeleteDont mind that stupid pastor abeg. I for one have never heard about seduction spirit. I think you should just come closer to God and take God's words more serious. Read the bible always and meditate on them day and night; that way you can always ask the spirit of God to speak on your behalf whenever the toasters come.
ReplyDeleteMen are mostly stupid and they believe that married women are safer when it comes to cheating, just be yourself and keep telling them that you are taken...its simple
Naija pastor. Nawa. My dear ur own good dat u are married, mine any were I go all guys wanna ave me, spend dia money on me and after a night or 2 nightstand dey run off. some pastor say na dia spirit husband dey disturb dem no b me... Do u know wat I did after a lot of deliverance without no gud result?? Ask me lerra cos am busy now. Blieve me God almighty live in our heart not in pastor heart. So peeps stop consulting pastors wen u ave mouth and a heart to pray.
ReplyDeleteChai!! My sister I can feel ur pain.
DeleteJust keep praying my dear and always try to call your husband to keep in touch,as often as possible.just believe they want ruin u. Personally I dnt believe in seduction spirit.its just d devil trying to bring u down n destroy ur home.
ReplyDeleteWell I will advise living faith church, that's winners chapel but the best deliverance would be self deliverance. Take time off work and engage in prayer and fasting, it works really well. Then seek a great man of God to pray with you to put a seal on your own prayers. Then keep on praying and stay away from trouble. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteWinners Chapel itself needs deliverance they can't be doing deliverance for people wetin dem wan deliver??? *lipssealed
DeleteDon't mind these fraudsters that call themselves pastors. You do not have any seductive spirit. A beautiful woman will always attract people, both men and women. My late aunt was very beautiful as you described yourself to be. Men would chase her to her gate untill the husband got her a driver. Continue to be faithful to God and your husband. Those men are just admiring you and wishing they could have you.
ReplyDeleteAbeg eee!!!! Seductive spirit kor???
ReplyDeleteYou are just a beautiful woman that randy men can't take their eyes off.
Keep dressing decently and pray to God that you do not fall into temptation that's all.
There is nothing like that please. There are some people who just have sexuality oozing out of them, its not by what they wear or how they look. They have the it factor. Dear Lady, you have no evil spirit but a natural attractiveness please keep your marriage vows and from time to time communicate with your husband about the passes and never let any toaster spend any extra time with you. Men are liars, some who desperately fall for you can formulate stories as they couldn't get in your pants hence my advise on telling oga from time to time
ReplyDeleteSexuality!
DeleteThink again pls
I Timothy 4:1.
ReplyDeleteThe Pastor was incorrect. A seductive spirit may not even be tied to sex. It's more of a manipulative spirit.
"Seducing spirits strive to influence everyone they can to depart from the faith, the faith of God, the true Word of the living God."
James 1:26.
"Those whose unbridled tongues thrive on gossip are seduced."
Doesn't that mean we all have this spirit? Yes.
"By yielding to lies and gossip, you yield to that which destroys. The spirit in the voice of the gossiper is seducing you, making you think the person talking to you would never mislead you. You don’t bother to check what the person is saying with the truth, with the Word of God to see if it stands the Word test. You are beguiled and deceived—seduced. In other words, you are abducted, kidnapped mentally from the truth and brainwashed by seducing spirits."
"If you are a person who carries anger, you can be taken over by seducing devils. If you are a person who holds grudges, the devil can seduce you. If you lean toward envy, strife and contention, the seducing devils can get to you."
IMO, men will be men. Married or not, they will always try as long as you don't fall prey. Continue to be faithful to your husband.
there is no such thing as seduction spirit. It is a common knowledge dat ph men always chase after women weda married or not. All i can advice you to do is pray aboit every thing and remain faithful to your hubby. Besides u are still a yoing woman joor. cheers.
ReplyDeleteDia's notyn lyk spirit of seduction dearie.Notyn is rng wif u nd if u fear it's true.Kneel down @ d corner of ur rm nd pray 2 God in ur own little way.It is well.#Mz treasure
ReplyDeleteThis one dsnt need advice, IÏ„̲̅ happens to me too, am 28yrs É‘̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ even pregnant with my third child now. My hubby is even so jealous †̥Ñ’É‘̤̥̈̊†̥ he dsnt want me to do any job, am a house wife, I fought É‘̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ tlked but he believes men cnt resist me É‘̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ am not Bianca , if you knw what I mean. But am beautiful I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ my own way, all I do is I hold on to my policy É‘̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ I pray dat no matter what I WILL NEVER CHEAT ON MY HUBBY É‘̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ is working for me again, I Ђ̥̊α̲̅√ bin tempted many times but what I do is call, get closer to my husy. So madam all d best.
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ReplyDeleteYou one of the many billion ladies men go after weather married or not. So you don't have a problem, men will always chase after ladies, especially beautiful ones. Its just 'a natural something' my dear.
SO JUST KEEP SAYING 'NO I'M MARRIED'. Chikena!
This one pass me.and moreover,I dnt think ther e is nothn lik seduction spirit,just that you are beautiful and snc men are attracted by beauty,they want to have a taste of you.keep ignoring sinc is nt new to you,always give ur hubby ur phone to pick for u.PJ
ReplyDeleteIts true ooooo,I ve also been told I ve d spirit of seduction too and every MOG that came to deliver me,I humped.
ReplyDeleteOhhh,I will never forget pastor Demola that kept rubbing his thick phallus on me untill I went under his anointing.
It is well
Ezewanyi 1 of igboland.
DeleteNa u scatter grammar for ground lik dis.
Thick phallus kwa! Na ur dauta go tish u oo.
U sef com no book, u no book wella, if u see book u go fit identify am, u go fit diff excercise bk frm notebook.
I don miss u die!
Na wia u com go na.
I know say phallus na prick naa
DeleteMy pikin no fit teach that one oooo
I dey wicked as u dey see me so
My dear I go see my children for america but I don come back
Chai nne, I missed u . welcome bk
DeleteEze Nwanyi 1! Igwe nwanyi! I keep seat for you hear since. Nno!
DeleteEze wanyi Internet no reach America? I don miss you scatter. Welcome back sir! Me I know say u be full grown man......
DeleteEze wanyi!!! Missed you dude!!!hahahahahahahaha
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ReplyDeleteI wonder y pastors do things like this and I also wonder what kinds of people believe such pastors
ReplyDeletePoster I am not insulting u,bt use ur head don't be confused
Men will sleep with anyone ring or not
It has nothing to do with spirit...........women and children that have been raped is it forceful sedution spirit then
You'll only end up being used by some other so called man of god
And u better tell ur husband and the people especially the pastor cuz believe me such pastors have ruined homes.........ur d woman so our society will only put shame on u
Once again.......u have a brain use it and don't depend so much on spiritual nonsense that someone is telling u to get in your pants
You are very normal. There is no such thing as seduction spirit. Ph men are whores i am sorry to say that. That place is a sin city. On the other hand, being married doesn't stop men from admiring you. When my sis was pregnant and even heavy, she had loads of toasters. Like seriously? yes! seriously. just appalling.
ReplyDelete*that_Edo_babe!
There's nothing wrong with you. There's plenty wrong with men who refuse to control their sexual urges and respect you as a married woman. Because your scope of men is limited, you do not know some men have no shame and will have sex with anything that looks female. You don't have any spirit or demon inside you. It's obvious you have a naive look. That's why some men want to teach you the ways of the world. Your wedding band makes you more attractive. Please don't believe anyone or pastor who says you have a spirit. They will only take advantage of you. Stay away from pastors. Before you know what's happened, you'll have sex with him. Then he will say there's more spiritual work to be done. Just for him to continue having sex with you. Stop being nice. It will get you nowhere. Once they start talking, just shout at them that you don't want to have sex with them. If it's your husband's friends or relatives, tell him. Don't be afraid you'll strain their relationship. Because, given the opportunity, they will drug and rape you. I repeat, there's nothing wrong with you. Men, including pastors, just want to have sex with you.
ReplyDeleteAbeg o where dem dey find d seduction spirit I need am o!!
ReplyDeleteSeduction spirit? Well, not all pastors are men of God sent to preach the gospel of jesus christ.
ReplyDeleteThat you wear a ring won't stop men from making advances on you! I think you are so charming that men find it difficult to take their eyes off you, you should be proud of that. Don't leave your husband for too long and always tell him how much men flocking around you just to avoid temptation and suspicion. You have no problem!
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yes there is a spirit of seduction but most times when it operates the person whether man or woman who is possessed will always want to seduce the oppossite sex.......whether you have it or not is another matter but i can authoritatively say it exist.....as for men toasting you no be today matter....am 43 and have been married 8 years and dress decently but get toasted almost everyday......sorry but most naija men are randy cos they feel its their birthright to chase women.....as for port Harcourt which is a riverine area like most places operate under the demon of lust or seduction cos of the mammy water spirits prevalent in those areas.........if you believe this fine, if you don't it wont change the truth but i can only tell you to just live your life and of course ignore the men.....just be prayerful and if at all you have a seductive spirit one day it will manifest in the place of deliverance....
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI will wait to see if there will be other solutions aside from the usual 'go for deliverance*yimu*
Someone has told me I have serpentine spirit?watever that means?I also have such issues but I for sure know I am not possessed!
Relax madam,maybe uv got too much charisma and are attractive.its a gift from God so just deal with it and KEEP UR LEGS CLOSED with the MEN!cos they always want anyway!
Seduction spirit? Abeg! So, if I like drinking Fanta and I feel that I'm addicted to Fanta, is the problem with Fanta or with me?
ReplyDeleteI think that should answer your question, lady. Just keep being prayerful, decent and faithful and keep ignoring those stupid, greedy men.
Once you start hopping from church to church, you will just bring real problem into your life I assure you.
Men that chase/sleep with married women are psychologically sick. No matter how beautiful or attractive woman is, when she say married Or even has a bf that's put me off already bc I don't have time for such stress of trying to convince someone to dump bf for me.
ReplyDeleteIs only a sick man that wants to be with a married woman or even sleep with married pregnant woman. A lot of guys are attracted to pregnant women even when they know such women are married they don't care. Why should a responsible man even ask married woman out with all those beautiful single girls out there? Sick.
Don't mind the foolish pastor. I attended one of the private church unis and that is how at 17, in my first year of uni i told the head of the chapel that married men kept chasing me and i did not know what to do. The man said I needed to come for counselling and mumu that I was, I came the next day only for the man to start toasting me and trying to touch me. If you see the way I picked race! I thank God that my mumu had not gotten to the level of some foolish girls. My sister, you don't have any nonsense spirit pray to God in your quiet time and ask him to make these men leave you alone, don't let any yeye pastor "lay hands" on you in the name of casting out demons. I have said my own.
ReplyDeletezizi
ReplyDeletedid you think am timid like you when i was giving him my number i bluntly told him am married
and beside he has not asked me out he only been nice and dont call me ashewo if you no want make satan punish you
to each his own
Abeg let zizi b, ashewo dey ur body true true. U told him u re married bt stil gave him ur numba..... So ur numba don b fancy for him fone ba?
Deletebut u are already acknowledging the attention he's giving u that u are not getting from ur hubby cos he lives far away from u.....dat is y i dont really support long distance relationship/marriage......madam...retrace ur steps....ur marriage is too young for dis......can u tell ur hubby u gave a man u just met ur numba and he's been showering u with attention??? think about it.
DeleteAnd can u tell your hubby you shared the same bike in other words, there was a possibility you were sue mwi ye. Where's that edo babe. Come and translate.
DeleteGod bless u all ooo, tel her o. Frm sharing same umbrella, sharing same bic n sharing fone numbas.....dumb married woman my ass, say d truth u wan to fuck him sinc ur hubby is far frm u. Can u tel ur hubby hw u met him n wat led u givin him ur numba?
DeleteIt happens to every female. There is nothing special about. Go to sleep
ReplyDeletePlease shuttup!!! I'm. Sure no1 chykz u dats y ur pained!
DeleteAm surprised to hear this, because a woman once asked me to pray for her, that since she was born no man has ever toasted her.
ReplyDeleteHia!okuturugbe!
ReplyDeleteMadam,u could hv such spirit.Pray fervently against it.A girlfrend used to tel hw many guys/men used to disturb her,mostl married.She nd her pastor fasted and prayed against it and it stoppped..Watch ur mv and relshp wid men generally cos we suk big time.
I don't know if it is called seduction spirit but I have the same problem. My own is not only from men but women too.I only noticed it when friends refused to introduce me to their 'toasters' or boyfriends meanwhile they all know and I swear I have never slept with a friend's man or knowingly slept with a friend's toaster. The 3 easiest way to make a lady ur enemy is money, sleep with someone she has her eyes on and gossip, then u made an enemy. I can get mine so dont take from others.
ReplyDeleteI found out when a friend jokingly told me she didn't want me to come along to meet her new boyfriend cos he would dump her for me but she was squating in me and my fiance house and I trusted her, she said it in front of other friends and I felt bad Because it seems like an unspoken code for all of them( got rid of all of them because at the end they were the ones who tried to sleep with my man, only one of them didn't)I dont care about make up, I dont wear clothes that are revealing, all my clothes are knee length, no back, stomach, boobs or back showing and l have my natural hair.
I started dressing up more covered going out with my friends but when a guy walks up to chat any of of us up, it will be me even if I wear rag, I even turned the guys to my friends telling them I am taken but for where.
Then one guy that was a toaster but turned best friend after trying to hook him up with my girlfriend, he refused and I asked him y, he said he still wanted me and Iif it was going to take him years,, he would wait instead of me passing him to someone else.The babe he turned down was mixed( half cast) He replied that my simplicity, genuineness, elegance even if I dont know makes most men that come across me want to be close to me, want to make love to me. That I might try to hide these by looking unkempt and hideous but my eyes and smile shows so much life, love,kindness and beauty that cannot be hidden and funny when he said these I remembered mostly when I meet people the first thing they compliment is my smile and eyes that it lits a room up. So madam pls u r just a beautiful person inside that ur beauty oozes out and men just want to use u, to have that beauty and play with that beauty. Be wise,once they taste, they will either want to discard or destroy that beauty, it is only the person that loves u that appreciates and respects and treasures ur inner and outer beauty. Like I said I don't know if it is called seductive spirit.
Hian!
DeleteOn top wetin naa?
Anyway I no kukuma read.
In your dreams.. ..are you saying DAT your look is better than a mixed race? Maybe those guys prefer you because you look cheap.
DeleteWell pealie, if u r ugly doesn't mean everyone is.
DeletePealie, u would know too well that men prefer cheap looking girls, seeing as u r one. And if u think all mixed race are more beautiful or all light skin ladies are more desirable than dark skin girls, then u have a big complex and need to work on your self confidence, instead of coming here to pour your frustration on every post.well
Deleteall the same, love and peace.
Pealie you are a DIRTY FOWL....did you read the comment before calling her cheap?? Zombie
DeleteHey Pealie that's harsh... I actually believed her cos I also experience same thing.... My friend will tell me not to make up wen we are going out that NY face is ok, and she goes ahead to suggest cloths to wear for me (inside me I know it's jealousy) and I will just oblige, yet wen we step out, I'm the centre of attraction. This girl couldn't hide envying me and she asked me one day (sarcastically) "why is it that whenever we go out you are the only one people talk to" "is it bcos u are fair in complexion?" "may be it's the way u smile wen u talk"....I simply told her "it's bcos I'm confident of myself with or without make up".
Deletekai.....una fit run person down ooooo......
DeleteThis pealie is an idiot,I'm sure we would see more of your digusting comments cos I noticed u were quiet when you had the cartoon face up, now that u have shown this your digusting boobs your stupid comments would start rolling,see how big your eyes are sef.I pity chics like you that show their body shamelessly like this,you have never given any reasonable advice,jst to come here n tlk rubbish.u can open your mouth to call someone I'm amazed! When Slut is written al over your display pic. For the poster abeg don't mind the pastor he is the possessed one with the spirit of lust.
Delete*open ur mouth and call someone cheap,when you are trying hard to sell out your boobs as cheap porn,I'm amazed!
DeleteThere's nothing wrong with u oo. The problem is with the men. them no dey tire. infact they need the deliverance, not u. meanwhile, visit my blog @ www.raajusblog.blogspot.com and see how your virginity can get you money plus get inspired and laugh out loud.
ReplyDeleteHow come it is only women that have the so-called seductive spirit?
ReplyDeleteDear poster, there is something about you that attract guys; it could be anything from a super gorgeous smile/frown, beautiful eyes, lips great legs, clean, clear/radiant skin, great presence/charisma or even an aura of vulnerability or a combination of these and other factors.
My candid advice, be yourself, stop running from pillar to post looking for solution to a non-existent problem. Enjoy your marriage and every single day of your life. As long you are not intentionally 'green-lighting'.
I don't believe u have that spirit.If u re a christian n truly connected to God,no evil spirit will reside in u.If u re still not sure,then pray n fast.You don't need to go to anybody for deliverance.Go to God directly.
ReplyDeleteMost men get distracted by ladies that are beautiful whether they are single or married.I'm married with kids too and i get a lot of attention.
WOMAN THE BALL IS IN UR COURT, YOU NAME URSELF WHAT THEY CALL YOU.
ReplyDeleteNOTHING LIKE SEDUCTION SPIRIT SO DONT DECEIVE URSELF WITH IT.
WEARINGS WEDDING RINGS CANNOT SOLVE IT EITHER, I BELIEVE U ATTRACT SUCH TO URSELF.
DRESS AS USUAL AND STAND IN FRONT OF A MIRROR; THEN WHAT DO U SEE?
A DECENT LOOKING MOTHER OR A HOT LOOKING MOTHER? - Dr P
This is very common in PH, I have been married for 19 years with 3 kids. My first is in the university, you can imagine men toasting me when I got to PH two years ago even seeing my wedding ring. My dear I derived a method especially at work. I let them know that my husband is from Edo state and if such is tried the man will die. Who no dey fear juju especially if you are doing the wrong thing. Another thing I do for those true men in the office especially the foolish ogas going after people's wives and saying they are leaders in the church or workers my dear I try to get close to their wives. I remember to call and send their wives gifts on their birthdays. PH men, I no trust them when he reach married women matter.
ReplyDeleteyes there is something like seductive spirit. when its on ur body hehehe every man will be sexually attached to u once they see or meet u but they only want to go in between ur legs thats what seductive spirit does.... mostly prostitutes carry it arround! Be ware.
ReplyDeleteVoilet says so
Even the one that wears hijab still look sexy n attractive, noting do u Jor, still keep ur positive mind together with prayer, ur good to go..
ReplyDeleteLet me tell you what a married man told me. He said that he prefers having affairs with married women because they dont make demands like those small small girls who are always asking for ipad and Q10 and Z10 and money for brazillian hair.
ReplyDeleteHe said that those ones are just hustlers who will get you into trouble with their numerous demands and indiscretion.
He said that married women are more attractive because most of those who will indulge in affairs are unhappy in their marriages and so will give their lovers the best and besides, they will still want to protect their marriages so they will not go about blabbing.
I think this might explain why some men are hell bent on dating married women.
Sweetie theres nothing wrong with u, am married and I get that alot, I discuss it withmy hubby nd we laff about it. Secondly my last trip to america, my hubby and I got out from a mall and some black american just stopped by and guess wat he said ur beautiful, can I ve ur number nd I said sorry am maried he said I saw ur ring but I still like u, Geeezz End time, my hubby was upset nd I walked away.men are stupid. They was another day I was in a fight from abj to lag and some man walked up to me and said my boss just upgraded ur ticket to business class, hello excuse me ???? Y? But my dear we were already abt boarding nd I had to sit beside this man , u know when I told him, u didnt have to do that, am married he said is because ur married dat I did dat. U have no evil spirit,, they are only appreciating u but dont get carried away, a woman is her mans pride.thank u
ReplyDeleteUr story eh?
DeleteU were in a flight abi na fight, somebody approached u to tell u that ur ticket has been upgraded (how possible is it wen u were already on d flight?).
Next u said and u people were about boarding (I thought u were already in d flight? So where were u about boarding to?).
... You had to sit beside that man - did he force u?
You knew u are married, why did u accept his offer? Bcos u are greedy n probably has not flown business class b4.
Oh and d man did it just bcos u are married? Lies. As if u didn't know what was up his sleeves b4 u jumped as his offer. Stop lying to yourself.
And u think they are only appreciating you? Sorry.
@Poster......u're disturbing urself unnecessarily.from ur explanation..the pastor who prayed for u and saw dat u have a seductive spirit is d same person who toasted u.......u should know he is fake...he only said dat to create an atmosphere of fear around u so as to achieve his aim.....Nothing do u jare.......
ReplyDeleteSweetheart there's nothing like seducing spirit...that pastor just wanted to brainwash u..The thing is that u're attractive that's why men are attracted to u..they don't care if u're married or not..all u gotta do is ignore
ReplyDeletemoi u r simply a fool. as simple as dat.
ReplyDeletePealie-the-down-right-nasty-chic!! Did you have to say that? Anyways....your bare-it-all no-holds-barred photo speaks pretty much about you! It reminds me of the Amsterdam-Show-Glass–Babes! Enjoy
ReplyDeletePealie pls pack in ur breast then they will approach u. Mumu mixed breed
ReplyDeletePoster abeg post your pic, let's see if you're that pretty, we can judge your situation better then :p
ReplyDeleteA pastor tells you that you have a seductive spirit and ends up toasting You? Come girl. Throw everything he said away! Don't even think about it! You certainly don't have any seductive spirit so don't go about looking for how to cast what isn't there out. You will only end up in more trouble. I have been married for 25 years and married men in all shapes and sizes still come after me. Its just a natural thing that happens. When your daughter grows up, she probably will face the same thing too. Just continue to be firm in saying NO-that's all.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I got from this post is people calling children of mixed ethinicities: mixed race. There is only one race and it is the human race.
ReplyDeleteMadam. You are only possessed with beauty. No seduction spirit. Ifnyoiu van keep or legs closed forn10 years then u can continue. Men are always after good things. It is q natural phenomenon. Just be disciplined and focused. Love or husband and keep him and thoughts off him very close to you. Long distance relationship can be tough but the key to strong relationship is constant communication. Never left a day or hours go by without hearing from him. Constantly remind him and urself of the love u have for him. You will turn out good and or marriage will he an example to many.
ReplyDeleteHelo madam,men toasting u is as a result of natural phenomenium.wt due respect 2 women on d blog,supose u do not gt compliment 4rm oposite sex,hw ll u fil.madam der is notin wrong wt u rather d pastor wnt 2 take advantage of u.ur beautiful as u said tnk GOD 4 dat.I leave in PH yes men go after ladies bt dat not 2 say all men in PH ar same.
ReplyDeletemy dear as long as u are not the one chasing the men don't let it bother you. You are just beautiful unfortunately some men can't control themselves not ur fault. keep being beautiful and make sure you don't fall for any of them because that will be when u ve a problem.
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