I must say that this mail blew me away when i first read it and i am still blown away!.....ah ah
''Hi Stella,
Am in my late 20's and my girlfriend is in her mid 20's, am gonna make it brief, we started dating November 2009.
She cheated 2010 with two different guys ,the first guy was her ex and the other one was with a separated man who has a child , I saw her text messages ,facebook messages and emails .
In 2011 cheated with the same separated man and another guy in school which she later confessed to me , 2012 she cheated with four different guys and two are working in same place she did her PPA( NYSC).
1st guy helped her secured a place to stay temporary in his friends place after promising her 20k to help her get her own place , they dated for 4months and he never gave her a dime, 2nd guy she met at a pool after cds , a week later she slept with him, 3rd guy, a pharmacist , she followed him to kubwa and spend the weekend there, 4th guy is another Dr working in same hospital she was serving with the 1st guy, I read her chat and how she told him she will suck his cum and blah blah, even after finding out before it happened and after pleading With her to stop she still went ahead and slept with the guy twice, she confessed about everything and pleaded for forgiveness which I did forgive her but am afraid she is also heading towards same direction.
we both understand each other and can share any secret but am just scared of this kind of girl,worst is that she has never bought me any gift for the past four years not even singlet but am the one always spending and taking her out. 2013 I can't really say cuz am always traveling out of Lagos.
I always do what any average man will do for his girl, I always take her out to the best of the best places, spend time with her,support when she is in need,I just don't know why she is always cheating and never faithful even her previous relationship is same.
Am 6'3ft,am Ok,good looking but what else can a lady you give your good four years of love,care,loyalty ,honesty and trust want again? Am just fed up and tired,have been thinking about this all night ,can't sleep.
She is currently working in a bank in VI and am about traveling out for my masters.
should i quit the relationship and move on? Or should I still stay?
Am just scared of wasting my time and resources on just another girl.
Note: she is a beautiful girl,good looking, nice, caring ,loving and good wife material but don't know why that cheating can't stop.''
*You want to know if you should still stay in the relationship or quit?no,stay and wait for her to dash you std or HIV/AIDS…….
Really you are the only one who can answer this question on whether you should stay or quit…i only want to ask you one question….do you love yourself?
Aunt Stella has said it all.. Its funny though.. guys are more jealous than ladies, I can't understand y u can't use ur tongue 2 count ur teeth, its obvious if u marry her, she will stil cont d unfaithfulness..no one can decide 4 u bro, u know what u want.. Search ur @.. Sin
ReplyDeleteIts either this guy has a small dick or he is lousy in bed cos he didnt mention dt, only talked abt his good looks n behaviour. Cos no correct guy ll put up wit dt.
DeleteStella u r the bomb!! My point exactly... Do u love urself? U r in Nigeria and is like these let alone when u r not. Dear poster, I carry God beg u dnt waste our precious time. U know what's best 4 u.
DeleteMy 2cents- if she's cheating for money, I for understand. Get rid of a confessing-cheating gf biko. Coz I won't lie o I love my bf to death and I still cheat(I know guys can't understand y) but I'm bored sometimes, I need resident love as I'm in a distant relationship. Its so emotionally draining. B4 I even start sef, I tell you I have a bf o if he comes 2day, i'll deny u not even d money I'm trying to scheme out of u will make me leave him.
DeleteAnybody that cuss me return back to your generations
You are wrong, I have a long P and I always satisfy her sexually infact she always climax whenever we have sex. Everything in the relationship is Ok just that she is addicted to cheating and whenever she does it , she always cry and always regret it and funny thing is that she does not have a good reason for doing it.
DeleteAnylady dat know dia man is not gud in bed should please works away, not giving d guy hope and still cheats on him. 4 years no b beans.... so she can't use dat as an excuse even if he his bad in bed.
DeleteStay with her, hou deserve her.
DeleteWish i could get the mind to cheat on dat my useless bf altho he says he doesnt care. this life is twisted aha. one man has head no cap the other one has cap no head. mtchewwe
She's just a flirt since. It's not about money or sex,just like some men are randy,there are the women specie!
DeletePls let her go,she doesn't deserve u cos u are a gud man,
She needs to end up with 'agaracha' like herself!
Juz a statement 4u dude. A leopard can't wash off its spots no mata how hard it tries. B wise.
DeleteMr. Poster,
DeleteMajority of d Girls don't really dig nice guys.@ dis point in her life,she craves series of flings wit diff. Guys & u're probably not a good fucker. Take a walk,re-evaluate & developed urself regarding how 2 control women .I.e. Sexually,Money & Romance(without suffocating d would babe) & u'll thank me later.
Note: snivelling & grovelling ova a serial cheater makes u pathetic.be a warrior
Poster,swear you have not cheated on her before..you guys can cheat for Africa but when she does hers you will start screaming...well your gf is nt only a cheater but a chronic RUNS babe...there's no good girl in abj.all of them are corperate ashewos..that's why guys don't marry them
ReplyDeleteJust likee you abi? Gad forsaken jobless retard called Linda. How dare you genaralise abj women? I live and work here and I am not an ashewo so speak for yourself woman. Kitikpa sagba gi anya. Trashy hoe linda.
DeleteThunder fire u a thousand and one times there. Now I kw y people cuss u out on this Blog. I don't comment on SDK b4 but am doing that just 2 cuss u and ur generations. Didn't u read where he said she is current in Lagos working in a bank in VI. Illiterate goat. Clearly u didn't read the post 2 end u just flew dwn here 2 make ur lousy comment as usual. Ewu Gambia!!! Desperate Lesbian!!! We all know ur type. Swear u r not dying 2 cum leave in Abuja.
DeleteU are a big FOOL. There are decent girls in abj, bcos u aint one doesn't mean u shud generalise. Asshole
DeleteLol, aunty abeg don't judge abuja girls o, I stay n abuja and have never slept with a man, talkless of for money. *long hiss* #iampained
DeleteClear mark of an unrepentant fucklicant
DeleteUr sick for saying that. Abj still has good gals Anu ohia
DeleteI can't believe this is coming out of the mouth of my fellow girl. I don't usually comment but I have 2. Since I got 2 abuja I have never done runs. I had a bf I was faithful 2 til we broke up May this year. Since then I haven't seen any man. I got a job immediately after my nysc batch C this year n I can't swear 2 almighty God no married man has seen my pant. Pls talk 4 urself. That's who u r. I am not going 2 b on anonymous so u can see my face. There r good girls here in abuja. Ur the whore. Idiot. Mtcheeeww!!!
DeleteBesides marriage take place every saturday here. Most of them r good abuja babes. Even the bad ones which a few covering the good ones marry so u say that. If a girl decides 2 mis with the wrong crowd she becomes bad. So don't insinuate that all girls in abuja r ashawo the kobo like u. Mtcheww!! Awusha *in flavour's voice.
DeleteHaba dts hasty generalization,I'm a good girls dnt do runz,I'm comfortable nd I stay in abj and there are so many ppl like dt too
DeleteThat's a lie!!!
DeleteMay Thunder seal ur mouth for saying all girls in Abuja are ashewos. Why generalize? There are good and bad girls everywhere, y not keep quite if u don't have an advice for him. Rubbish!
DeleteLinda!,comments like this "there's no good girl in abj.all of them are corperate ashewos..that's why guys don't marry them" is why people don't like u!
DeleteGet a grip of yourself!
RME!
Madam I beg to differ o. I have been in abuja for two years now. Stop generalizing abeg. Depends on the company u keep. As for me and my friends, we stay together and it has been that way right from calabar. Yours faithfully... Hurt reader.
DeleteIts obvious ur un exposed datz y u think every gal is a prostitute in abj!! Most likey only ur frds and family and sistas r. Nigerians can be so daft sometimes shaa,dat was hw u guys spread d rumor dat all bankers were sluts. If u sleep wit a guy for him to open an account dat means u wee continue to sleep wit him for dat acc to be funded cos d bank reviews u every month.
Delete@befe muriel,u r ugly,no man in his right senses wil ask u out.dats probably why ur bf broke up wit u
DeleteYimu to all of you..you people think I comment to gain favour!!! Hahahahahahahaha....who pays your 1mill naira self contained houses?? Your parents abi or the 10 kobo salaries you get each month???? Abeg all of you should clear make I see road....Abuja girls are all akwuna akwunas...hit your head on the wall*tongueout
DeleteMadam, I can see that you're not loved, and for your information all self cons here don't cost 1M, and some women earn enough to pay rent of 1M. When you stop depending on a man to pay your bills and actually earn money for yourself you'd understand. For now take your ignorant and backward ass to Mars. Ntun
DeleteLinda Eze! Watch yr mouth o! If pple insult u now, u will start cryin, tellin us we rocks and how yr hubby's mouth smells for Africa! I have been in abj for 3 yrs and I can bodly say I survive on my own, some pple actually sweat for their money, work real hard-8am to 8pm! We aren't like u-full housewife who smells their hubbys mouth so dey can write how it smells to d world! I work, sweat hard for my money not wit d help of any man, so shut d fuck up ok! Oniranu jatijati
DeleteEwu linda.
DeleteLinda Eze..., do you pay 1m 2 live in Nyanya, Abacha barracks, Karu, Kado, Gwarimpa, Kubwa, Apo resettlement and others???
DeleteAbeg find another thing talk Runs girl.
Linda may God forgive you, change your reasoning and lead you away from this dark path You're hell bent on pursuing.
DeleteI am a barrister, I served in abuja, passed out and got a job. Your statement is a Terrible lie....
If I can't speak for others ....I can beat my chest and say proudly that I am a decent, hardworking and God fearing lady And I can state with authority that there are numerous decent hard working ladies in abuja.
FYI; self contained accommodation can be found in town for as low as 350k...in kubwa 200k. If u don't know something, ask questions humbly.
*Nicole*
I live in a 4bedroom terrace terrace house in jabi I own it too. I have 2 cars 2013 and 2012. I earn in excess of Usd 18k monthly. Ask me again I took a mortgage from a bank and bought my home its in excess of 1m usd I will pay over 20years. If I choose. I had a. 1st degree in Nigeria, Msc@ imperial college and MBA from manchester uni. I am 28years old. Should I tell you more? I work with an Oil and gas firm. So get your statistics right Mrs linda whatever you are. There are lots of corporate career women in abuja.
DeleteOloriburuku ni Linda eze yi,for d fact dat u are a lazy jobless asshole of a wife does not mean all ladies are like dat.stupid fool like u,werey,olofo,oloshi..ofo ni o she! Onye ara,ewu Tanzania! Afo sa gbuo gi
DeleteO boy! Is beta u run. My own hubby is a serial sex finder. No 1 cheat, I wished I ad left him while dating... so sad
ReplyDeleteSame thing with me dear. My hubby knows all d dating sites. I ve confronted him severally n he jst can't stop. Planning to start mine but d tot of my 3 lovely kids won't let me
DeleteHmmmn. It's easy for those of us not in your shoes to tell you what to do. All I'll say is this. Pray to God to lead you to your own. Clearly, this flaw of hers isn't manageable.
DeleteFile for a divorce...
DeleteGOD forbid he comes home with Hiv......
Hmmm
O boy! Is beta u run. My own hubby is a serial sex finder. No 1 cheat, I wished I ad left him while dating... so sad
ReplyDeleteO boy! Is beta u run. My own hubby is a serial sex finder. No 1 cheat, I wished I ad left him while dating... so sad
ReplyDeleteIs your husband's name ABEL? Is he delta?
DeleteAbi most Abels are cheaters too? There's this one married with 3 kids but won't leave my friend alone. He has been dating her for a while now and cheats on her too. She complains he is a dog and sleeps around with anything in skirt both married and single. He's from delta too, urhobo. Not that he's even rich o yet he spends money that he doesn't have on numerous women, buying phones and recharge card up and down. Children attending cheap school. We just pity his wife. My friend don talk say she go poison am one day because he has infected her more than once with STD.
DeleteI pity women married to chronic cheaters o. Not a good ton at all. Na so thus foolish big belle man prick full every where cus he will always send it. And he still dey stay rented apartment.
My dear walk away simple
ReplyDeleteGuy abeg combine Superman,Batman,Ferrari,BMW etc jst dey waka no luk back,unless u wan get HBP 4 ur young age.luv ko luv ni.try do general test 'plus includin' HIV n STDs b4 u travel.u cnt make a whore a wife,dey neva change.
ReplyDeleteThank u.
DeleteOMG! What are you still doing with her? She obviously doesn't love you and she doesn't respect you either. My advice is to end it! I'm pretty sure you are not happy. Its one too many times with too many people.
ReplyDeleteLeave her pls, dts one thing I hate most in relationship, aint got time for cheating.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I don't know the kinda advice some folks be asking. MARRY HER!! A cheating lady that is wife material #smh
ReplyDeleteThank you Jare, so we will now teach you how not to put your hand in fire because you're a child and can't see the handwritting on the wall. Shebi she's giving you mad styles on the bed,that's why you have refused to use your God given brain. Marry her oh.
DeleteShe won't change,dump her ass
ReplyDeleteWhew! Actually tot I was d one being referred to until I got to the part where he mentioned NYSC. Thank God, *dances*
ReplyDeleteOn a more serious note, I cheat on ma guy once in a while becos he never givs me sex! Wen he does, he barely spends 2mins. As in, sometyms, I just regret fucking hi$ after it. So, sometimes, I get together with my ex and we get all luvd up n all. Sometyms, my bf knows this but he tells me to either stay or go. Now we ve bn dating for a while nw bt he just doesn't get it! Smh
I'm sorry this may come across as harsh but I think there's a knot/screw missing in the poster's brain. Someone cheats on you serially and she's "wife material" still? Pls what's the definition of this wife material sef? You go ahead and marry someone that cheats on you so much even after getting caught and confessing several times and you think you'll have peace? That kind of woman you'll be wondering if your kids are really your kids that's if she doesn't give you an std like Stella already pointed out. Biko, go for deliverance cos there's something wrong with you if you're still contemplating a relationship with this girl. Nonsense. Actually, maybe that's why she even cheats on you with such impunity - you must be a weakling, lacking in self confidence, self worth and self-love. You need deliverance stat!
ReplyDeletewat balderash! Pls run for dear lyf b4 she gives u 1 tin or d oda
ReplyDeleteYou want to know whether u should leave a cheating girl?Really!
ReplyDeleteAt first,I thot u were a weak man but I decided to cut you some slack,it happens to the best of us when you are in love!
But trust me,love without peace is useless and will be malnourished!
I advise that you leave her.you said you are in ur late 20s right?if not that I'm older,I would have shown you how a good man is treated!☺
That said,I know some silly people will come here and say the poster's dick is small,he's lousy in bed or something is wrong with him,blah blah blah...
Bullshit!,its not by force,I believe if you are not satisfied with the one you are with,leave!!!no one deserves to be cheated on and that person you are not satisfied with is someone's perfect match,stop being a stumbling block!
@ Poster,wish you all the best in whatever you decide!
You are a big fool. If I was related to you, I'd disown you rightaway. Even a man that is handicapped, blind, deaf and dumb wouldn't put up with so much rubbish. Only one girl committed so many atrocities and you are still asking mumu question. Definitely, she's rubbing those affairs in your face so you can do your worst. Unfortunately, your worst is to whine like a Retard on SDKB. You are complete disgrace to the woman who carried you for 9 months.
ReplyDeleteMadam stellina has said it all, gat nothing more to say. U can stay if u want STD. My guy u need to win Guinness book of record ooo for knowing how ur girl cheats on u and still love her.. she cheated not once not twice..... Omo guy na u biko ooo
ReplyDeleteO men I cheat a lot on my boo, God help me I wanna stop *crying*
ReplyDeletePoster, l'll make it brief as well-
ReplyDeleteQuit this sham of a relationship!
Pls share your endometriosis stories @ endochallenges.wordpress.com. Let's beat endo together!
Really? U asking if u should leave ha afta all u just said? I really hope nd pray u hv nothing to do with y she is cheating on u...cos dis story is 1 sided but if evritin u said is true..run for ur life! If u have fault..rectify on ur syd nd watch how tinz unfold!
ReplyDeleteAm here 4 u baby.I don't cheat,n I have all d gud qualies u can think of,but If u dear cheat on me,u will see d bad side of#rollingmyeyes#very serious
ReplyDeleteMove on with ur life cos she is not gonna stop any time soon even wen she settles down.
ReplyDeleteShe won't change. Leave her now while you still can, not when she infects you..
ReplyDeleteD mumu guy is collecting money from d girl dats why he can't leave.gerrout jor
DeleteNa wa oo, person wey get cap no get head o, but anyway sha,I dnt knw wat 2 say abt dis matter.pls decide 4 ur sef,unless na STD\HIV u go see 4 ur doorstep.#iwansleepsmall#
ReplyDeleteStella there's nothing like "cheater"!!! you say that a lot, it's called "Cheat"! e.g my boyfriend is a cheat not cheater, in fact it doesn't exist in the dictionary. i had to correct you before i even read the post, thank me right now
ReplyDeleteAmerica English is cheater; British is cheat.
DeleteAnd we speak British English okay!
DeleteShe left you because of *am* instead of *I'm*...........
ReplyDeleteMy ϑε̲ãr. Pls in d name of God. Leave d Biatch. Her p***y is for d public u can't ever privatize it. Run for Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ life. Unless u like high Bp, hiv, stds and heart breaks.
ReplyDeleteomg,u still asking for help,dump her cheating ass and move on,there are lots of beautiful girls out there looking for men like u.
ReplyDeleteif you have never cheated on her , then quit the relationship. But if u have cheated on her before, then I see no reason why u shuld point fingers. women mostly cheat out of revenge after their partner cheat on them, and when such happens, the partner forgives that cheating woman because he knows he started the chain reaction, and I suspect that is what is happening in ur own case.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, is either u are just coming from the moon or this is the first girl u have ever dated. If u want to marry her, u go ahead and marry her and stop all these useless questions. Women are the same, I bet u, u wont get any1 better.
ReplyDeleteIncluding ur mum and ur sisters u mean? agbaya.
Deleteabeg lemme snd u my contact mek u cal me coz i don dey find ur kind mumu as bf n i neva c. Oshisco!Namsense!
ReplyDeleteI'm not supporting her cheating not at all but let's discuss because every story has 3sides Yours, Hers and the truth! 1) if You always attended to her needs where were You when she needed a place to stay that made her meet a guy for 20k? Because You sound like You give her heaven and earth 2) have You ever cheated on her? 3) let's assume You give her everything are You giving her what matters most to her? She's cheating are You giving her the kind of Sex she wants? 4) her not giving You a gift isn't conclusive of her love for you I know girls even women that will never spend a dime on a man they don't believe in spending money on men! 5) have You ever heard of the story about the guy who left a girl because she told him she's had several abortions and married another girl who lied about ever having an abortion and later after marriage found out her womb was damaged from multiple abortions in the past? I will tell You that You are a lucky man because You've found what's wrong with Your woman before marriage now ask Yourself if You love her enough to try and fix this problem and if she loves You enough to try be honest with Yourself if You can't then walk away okay.
ReplyDeleteHow good do you give it to her ? Anyways, some people were just born cheats. Are you under an oath not to leave her? I don't understand.
ReplyDeleteHow good do you give it to her ? Anyways, some people were just born cheats. Are you under an oath not to leave her? I don't understand.
ReplyDeleteHow good do you give it to her ? Anyways, some people were just born cheats. Are you under an oath not to leave her? I don't understand.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha..hehehehehe…Stella i beg i no fit laugh again, you see this story sweet me not that i support cheating but because it is men that do most of the cheating ( i mean the type in this write up) now hearing a guy complain about it is like a dream to me, are you serious??? and the fool is still asking wether to stay or leave?? LOL. MAKE YOU STAY!!! OLODO!!! EWU!!!
ReplyDeletey wud any descent girl open her legs for any passn man.... shows she lacks self control... more like a prostitute for gf or r u planning to change her?
ReplyDelete#miss Ghana
Brodaly, jor,, end the relationship.
ReplyDeleteshe already sees you as a weakling and will never stop cheating on you.
Take a firm walk...now!!!
At first, I didn't want to curse u but seriously u are an idiot
ReplyDeleteHahhahahahah dis comment is dame classic lol.
DeleteHaaaaaa! O boy, you still dey ask question again? This one will kill you o. Please, let her be. I wonder how you describe a chronic cheat as a good wife material. You are probably smitten by her beauty and the stares you get from people when you are with her.
ReplyDeleteLeave her please!
Singing:
ReplyDeleteSince i was Born,
And now i am getting old
I have never seen a UNILAG virgin
Brother have you seen?
No..No..No..No
No..No..No...No
I have never seen a UNILAG/MAULAG virgin
ds lady in questn must be from UNiLag
##tONGUE oUT##
@GALORE
Hahaha
DeleteLwkmd.....u no well o
DeleteGalore u dey craze idiot. What do u mean? Y u attack us for hia? My roomies r virgins o... And my hubby deflowered me last year. So dnt say rubbish frm dt ur smelin mouth. Goat
DeleteOn a lighter note.....
ReplyDeletePls leave her...
A cheating parter is a murderer
It is well with you.
@Galore
Pls you two should embrace God, if you have already pls enjoin her to do the same cos there may be a more deep seated problem that leads to her serial cheating.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, she will cheat even as a wife, I don't see any reason wat soever why a working class girl can't be faithful, its she doesn't cheat for any reason but for ToTO dat is scratching her....lol, pls move on wit ur life my dear b4 u carry skelewu.
ReplyDelete@
ReplyDeleteLinda Eze, sup wit u n noshiri nosh? wetin dey quarrel una 2? did u see
her fbk update abt u? hahahahahahahahahaha. can't stop laughing tho
She just fooled her self.no comments,no likes!!! Hahahahahahaha... She should stop cyber bully..stealing comments from blogs and pasting on her fb.
DeleteGuy there is obviously something wrong with you that u aint telling. Y would any confident person who knows what he or she want in life put up with such. Please marry her; they say love conquers all things...this ur love will conquer HIV, STD, shame and bad marriage.
ReplyDeleteEKA
My belle oooo my head oooo. Funny u
DeleteRUN RUN RUN!!! Abeg borrow leg if need be, she won't change so let go now and start life afresh. Wish Ʊ ∂ very best of life .
ReplyDeleteDont leave her.after all u guys cheat and we d babes still stay.so stick with her.
ReplyDeleteNa wah ooooo. No wonder Stella was blown away.
ReplyDeleteAm not judging her but her case i pathetic abeg for a woman. She won't change.
After wedding her, be 100% sure you will be sharing her with her male colleagues, your gateman, driver, male neighbors an friends.
In this era of STD's.............Biko count your losses and move on already.
E.g. Eze Wanyi
DeleteLol....you forgot to add the DOGS
DeleteNo! Sit down in d relationship, after ur masters u cn come bk to wed her nd plz try as much as possible to forget avin retroviral screening done b4 d wedding. And after u wed her, u can embark on 40days dry fasting nd prayer for her.
ReplyDeleteDn u will live happily ever after
What exactly is "Wife material"? Someone that sleeps around like that is a wide material? You guys never cease to amaze me. Meanwhile, you need to tell us your k-leg bc I no believe say you stand straight and this girl will be cheating like that and you still hang on ..
ReplyDeleteMy husband cheats like hell, he can even sleep with a goat, not dat I did not see d hand writing on d wall, but I thot he will stop after marriage, but my dear it got worst, now I can't stand him, I get irritated by everything he does, now I wish I never married him, my life would have been more better. I am plaining to cheat also, but d problem is dat I have not seen a man that is up to my taste or maybe I have not summon d courage. So my bro u don't need dat kind of relationship u are into now. It is better u run pass mad man ok.
ReplyDeletePlease madam I understand ur anger but please Dnt cheat on him, u better work out to divorce him and start a new life. U know his identity b4 u accepted his proposer so please work out or stay there faithful
DeleteYou just can't cheat on ur hubby cuz he is a gamed man. I bet he is a Warri guy.
DeletePlease aunty stella.. Where and how can I find a rich husband? Please I use God take beg you. Post this for everyone to see and answer my question. I tried to email you but all to no avail. I need a rich husband, I am tired of broke ass niggas who just want to sleep with you and take you to mr bigs. I want to enjoy too. Please please please help a sister out. I am 25 and not getting any younger
ReplyDeleteGo plan a better future for urself or die in poverty y insearch for a rich dude. Am 23 but am f*cking rich, now all rich dude are running over me. Do u think rich dude love to marry lazy fools like u?
DeleteGuy, you dey Mad? How can you stay with someone that doesn't even respect you, this one is emotional torture. She might not even be using condom with this guys. HIV and Hepatitis is no joke! the problem is that its not one guy but too many.
ReplyDeleteHow do you fuck the same pussy knowing that some guys you know and others you dont know is doing her while you are dating. Dont you have self respect? believe me, if you walk out, you are doing your self a favor. In fact, you are giving yourself and opportunity to find someone better.
Remember, in Marriage Love is not enough, respect, commitment, communication, faithfulness, submission, and the fear of God is equally important. Please don't get married to this lady only to get divorced tomorrow and leave your children to suffer. Bear in mind that you will defiantly find someone else. Don't be scared of loneliness.
Oooops! That is too much for a woman, i mean a woman should not be that wreckless with her life. She is promiscuous and licentious and would never change except deliverance by the Holy Ghost.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who was once like that and their biggest problem is that they don't see anything wrong with what they are doing. They call it having fun and not cheating or any other thing. As for your own life bro! You have two options.
1-stay by her if you know you truly love her and take her for deliverance to a bible believing church where she could be set free by the Holy Ghost and finally let the church(elders/pastors) know you will never use her past against her after deliverance. It is like taking an oath.
2-find your way ASAP if you know you can no longer bear it because if you do you will use her past againt her tomorrow and that is not nice in a relationship because it will never stand because of a faulty foundation.
Paragon7ven.
Oooops! That is too much for a woman, i mean a woman should not be that wreckless with her life. She is promiscuous and licentious and would never change except deliverance by the Holy Ghost.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who was once like that and their biggest problem is that they don't see anything wrong with what they are doing. They call it having fun and not cheating or any other thing. As for your own life bro! You have two options.
1-stay by her if you know you truly love her and take her for deliverance to a bible believing church where she could be set free by the Holy Ghost and finally let the church(elders/pastors) know you will never use her past against her after deliverance. It is like taking an oath.
2-find your way ASAP if you know you can no longer bear it because if you do you will use her past againt her tomorrow and that is not nice in a relationship because it will never stand because of a faulty foundation.
Paragon7ven.
Run as fast as your legs can carry you and never look back, that is if what u are saying is true cos I find it hard to believe.
ReplyDeleteI hope this is nt me o..
ReplyDeleteDo u now work in a bank in VI? And did anyone give u 20k when u had accomodation problems, do u cheat all d time with different guys and confess to ur boyfriend. If all these are YES, then it's surely u
DeletePls don't leave her....marry her so she can sleep with all ur friends,brothers,cousins,pastor n den ur father...u still dey ask yeye question.
ReplyDeleteBiko leave the gal o and find someone else! Her own baggage too much jare, her toto no fit stay one place o
ReplyDeleteMy advice!!! Run!
ReplyDeleteWife material my foot...wife material dat spreads her supposed honey pot for every tomdick nd harry for little change ...haba..dat babe is a public toilet abeg
ReplyDeleteThe poster says thst she is a wife material. Ha...The girl is a plaything. She is everbody's girl. None of the guys she has cheated with would even consider her for anything serious. So why dhould you.
ReplyDeleteI know a man who is married to a serial cheat woman. He is so unhappy now. His life is in tatters. Its a road you dont want to walk in marriage. Full of sorrow. She isnt going to stop. Shes not cheating with only one person which is the usual case. Shes sleeping with so many people. Whoever marries her can never be sure of the true paternity of the children she births. Its a long hard road. Leave her and go your way.
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CHEATEST
LMAO...THANK U
Bwahahahahahahahhaa.
DeleteCorrection: our sex life was great and she do climax when we have sex. Thanks stella for the post,I really appreciate all d comments, Broke up with her already.
DeleteGod bless u Stella
Lmaoo see what commenters on Stella's blog has caused LMFAOOOO @ broke up with her already so harsh...pele settle down where you going for your masters andfind a decent babe
DeletePoster plus I just want to ask. Is ur prick small? Or bent?? For u to take this shit u must have low self esteem or better still u are not from Naija.
ReplyDeleteSIr, I am going to tell you what I'd tell my fellow woman ..... On your marks, get ready, ... RUN!
ReplyDeleteRun without looking back or stopping.
That girl does not love you. Has no respect for you. And has no plans for a future with you.
Bros, no dulling. You no be her Maga, or even Mugu. Get yourself a someone who truly cares about you.
And by the way suggest to her to see a Psychologist. She needs help.
Hope you've been using protection o. All the same, get tested o.
If u dont want the mum of ur kids to be a loose woman,then quit.Forget the beauty my dear,sex with diff men will make it disappear with time....my 2 cents..
ReplyDeleteI guess d guy is an arsenal fan, I heard they are very patient and can withstand many heart brk. #runsaway#
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha, @Arsenal fan, so funny
DeleteI'm married to a selfish man..he doesn't like foreplay,he doesn't even know wht love making is..his own is just to have sex anytym he's in the mood for it..he rarely touches n even the sex isn't frequent..he makes me unhappy,not satisfied at all n always at his mercy for it yt he calls himslf my husband..anytym he requests for sex,I let him do it because it's not even something I get frequently..I'm so fed up n unhappy..I've talked to him severally on this yet he just wouldn't change to be romantic n unselfish. There's this male friend from the past that has been tempting me with the kind of romantic things he says like giving me head(which my hubby has never done,he keeps saying it's unhealthy yt he likes it when I give him bj o!). In all honesty,sdk readers,am really tempted to cheat on my hubby with this dude.
ReplyDeleteExplore ur wild side. Sleep with this guy and make sure he fucks ur brsin out. Then confess to ur hubby and explain why you did it.....if he loves you, he would definitely change.
DeleteMost stupid advice I hav ever read. How could u advice a wife to go cheat cos that is what u do. What happened to telling her to sit her husband down and talk to him about her heart desire. Do u know how many deaths cheating hav caused or homes that hav broken cause of cheating ? Marriage is for better for worse. It cannot always b rosy.
DeleteShe's probably cheating because u keep taking her back so she'll keep doing it because she knows she can get away with it...most people will take advantage of it if they're spouse is a doormat like u.
ReplyDeleteOr maybe she's a nympho.....either way, u can't help her.
Reading half way, I hissed as he kept mentioning the back and forth cheat-get caught-forgive-cheat again acts!
ReplyDeleteMister, Usain Bolt with your legs
Stolen bread is sweet at first but afterwaerds the mouth tastes like gravel. Dont cheat on your husband please.
ReplyDeletePlease my brethrens come closer to God, repent and accept Jesus christ because tomorrow may be too late n remember Jesus loves u no matter the sin u v committed, their is no little sin before the creator. Am not wishing u bad but tomorrow or dis night may be your last day n incase that happens, were will u spend your eternity?
ReplyDeleteStella pls I seriouzly need a gud relationship,jux want a nice guy money aint dat necessary but must b faithful 2 me
ReplyDeleteThe wife material in this your yeye girl is not even enough to sow a G-string.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I am single nd wen I mean single means single nd not sleeping wit anyone @ all 4 2yrs now, very beautiful too, pls if all these ur qualities re indeed true, pls ll u b my bf..... Tanx
ReplyDeleteTHE BABE WHO HAS NOT HAD A BOYFRIEND FOR TWO YEARS AND THE GUY WHO REPLIED HER WITH HIS NUMBER,PLEASE U BOTH SHUD SEND ME MAIL IF YOU WANT TO HOOK UP AND I WILL DO THE EXCHANGE BUT GUY I CANNOT PUBLISH YOUR COMMENT..SORRY.
ReplyDeleteBet y?
Deletehow can a woman that cheat be a wife material, My guy she will cheat throw out ur marriage, help yourself n leave
ReplyDeleteLinda Eze I think u need to take a break from commenting on blogs. U really don't know how to talk. U put ur pic and said ur hubbys mouth smells. I was so embarrassed on ur behalf. My dear it's not by force to talk. Nwayo nwayo o
ReplyDeletenigga fuck her one more time and split, go for your masters better yourself, and get a girl whose worth it.
ReplyDeleteCant say much on this. My ex bf will tell u he is handsome, caring, loving, gives me the best. yet he was not so goodlooking (face of d donkey in winnie the pooh), he was a liar, a gossip, highly controlling and manipulating, jealous freak, and very nosey. he would stay on the phone all day. claim to do 5, while he is doing only 1. he never cheated, but was in close communication with his ex gf whom he had washed in my face everytime he felt like. always used to check on my phone and call any number he sees to confirm if its d same name as stored. makes promises he cant keep sef.
ReplyDeleteYet when i broke up with him, just to have my sanity, everyone was calling me a heartless girl. not knowing it was one of my coded chairman that was doing all those things for me.
Dear poster, check yourself. if ur gf is so promiscuous and u are without fault, i believe if u ask her why and she gives you no reason, you will have left her along time ago. but for u to still be there, i think you have some faults u know about.
@Anon #133- let your God be my God oohh. I am 25 years and will be 26 next year. No good job or bf or anything tangible happening for me. But i have savings of almost 1.5m i have been trying to put together to get a small car for mobile business. thinking of using it to go and pursue a masters next year june, so i can upgrade my credentials and get a better job. everyone i ask for help say 2;2 in agric science cant do much for me. and getting hired at entry level without connections and a 2;1 is diff. hmm..,... be proud of who u are oh! i acknowledge women with hard work. no man can tell u shit. they will be rushing to marry you, cos u are an asset they can use to brag to family and friends.
ReplyDelete@anon #63- dont mind this linda eze. na for here she get power. why not go to fb and challenge noshiri nosh? i trust her, she go finish u keep u for corner. noshiri no get time. i dont know her personally oh! but i throway cap for her craze. she reminds me of sdk. no nonsense! like me *winks*
ReplyDeleteMy dear some things are spiritual. She may be possessed with the spirit of lust. Since u luv her, den u both should go for deliverance first in Mountain of fire. Lets see what happens from dere. For her to confess to u means a lot. She is in bondage n u need to her fast.
ReplyDeleteo boy kindly drop that ur babe pin ooo, i will like to taste it too, since she is a free agent like me... lolz
ReplyDeleteFirstly,I would like to say that I don't believe there would be some one who would Cheat continually like that only to always beg,EGO won't allow such.. secondly since I don't know the other sides of the story (herside and the truth) I would give you some advice skeptically... if truly u are that all perfect bf u claim to be and she is dat whore , u can break up but if these story isnt the truth you have a conscience telling you so, stick with her!, 'the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know'. Be wise and guided.
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