Jeffrey and his lovely wife
Entire savings in the Netherlands withdrawn from the bank; land sold in Nigeria; he called family members in Nigeria to borrow money; friends, country-men and associates in the Netherlands gathered to put funds together ... All to raise capital for a night-shop (mini supermarket) in Vlaardingen (Rotterdam). Then two nights before the grand opening of the shop, everything went down in flames, leaving Jeffrey Ekhator with over €80,000 worth of damages and irretrievably in debt.
How did Jeffrey Ekhator survive this financial tragedy to become one of Africa's growing business success in the Netherlands?
In 1999, Jeffrey Ekhator entered the Netherlands - the end of a long road escaping Nigeria’s Sani Abacha’s regime. After seven months in a refugee camp in the North of the country; a residence permit ; and a home in Rotterdam, Jeffrey got a job at McDonalds . His plan was to save for his own business - the only logical step for a young man who had started in trade at the age of nine (helping his mother) and owned his first kiosk at the age of fourteen. Two years into saving, in 2001, Jeffrey made the first attempt to set up a business. That attempt failed because someone frightened him away from the plan. But the fear that that individual put in Jeffrey’s heart was not strong enough to kill his burning desire to start a business. So it was that Jeffrey took the opportunity in 2004 when the opening came in the form of an old Dutch man who was looking to sell his shop (mini- supermarket) in Vlaardingen (Rotterdam).
On the grounds that the mini-market could and would be turned into a night-shop, Jeffrey signed a contract with the man, taking over ownership of the shop. Takeover cost was €30,000 - to be paid in instalments, while upfront payment was Jeffrey’s entire savings of €7,500. Jeffrey quit his job at McDonalds to concentrate on the shop. But the shop could not begin without an official permit to turn the mini-market into a night-shop. Since the old man had assured Jeffrey that getting the permit was going to be only a matter of course, Jeffrey expected an almost immediate response from the city council (gemeente). On that understanding, he prepared the shop for takeoff.
The gemeente sent Jeffrey a reply. No night-shop at that spot. Phase one of Jeffrey’s problems had begun. Phase two progressed in quick succession. The old man would not return the advance of €7,500 since the condition upon which the contract had been signed was no longer applicable – as in no night-shop. But he did agree to drop the €30,000 take-over bid, leaving Jeffrey to negotiate a compromise with the gemeente. A compromise was reached: a semi-night-shop. But by this point – already months into the takeover - the utility and rent bills of the shop and other costs had mounted to such a degree that Jeffrey’s financial pressure was beginning to become stifling. He turned to his family in Africa and his countrymen in the Netherlands for help. His mother sold two plots of land, other relatives borrowed, and country men in the Netherlands pooled money. Finally, in April 2005, after eight months of steep lows and tampered highs, the shop was ready to open. One day before the opening ceremony , the shop disappeared.
THE SHOP DISAPPEARED OVERNIGHT!
Jeffrey had taken a friend (one of the guests of the upcoming opening ceremony) to see the vicinity; but instead of the shop, they found huge plank barricades. What happened? This happened: The shop went up in flames the night before, during which time the police tried in vain to reach and alert Jeffrey by phone. The place was now barricaded and under investigation.
Two weeks after the fire, Jeffrey received a letter from the police: they could find no leads on the cause of the fire. Case closed. Jeffrey was now left to deal with the arsonist (for informal information on the cause of the fire (arson) and the suspect had come to him). But harming another human being was less urgent to Jeffrey than recovering. Jeffrey turned his attention to his insurance.
ONLY WAY OUT.
The insurance told Jeffrey that they were not paying. By this time, Jeffrey was already over nine months behind on a shop rent that cost €1200 a month. His young wife and 2 year old baby were, along with him, subsisting on the remaining canned products that had not completely burnt down in the fire. Jeffrey had no lights - Eneco, the electricity company, had cut off his electricity. Coca-Cola,
whose €18,000 worth refrigerator went down with the fire, wanted their money and so sent a deurwaarder (creditor) to confiscate Jeffrey’s properties. Jeffrey’s contact person at the housing corporation came to visit him too. Both Coca-Cola and housing representatives , meeting a man living with no lights, no food, and hardly anything worth confiscating, decided to work out a payment arrangement with Jeffrey. Jeffrey went to the social office for financial relief. The social office told him that they could not help a man registered at the KVK as a business owner. It was either strike out his name from the KVK register or do without their monies. Jeffrey could not strike out his name from the business register because doing so would render him illegible to bring claims against the insurance on business-related issues.
Jeffrey called a friend at McDonalds and pleaded to get his old job back. He got it.
STANDING AT A CROSSROAD.
The decision of the insurance not to pay the insurance claim sent Jeffrey to a lawyer. The lawyer accessed the situation, filed in a case, and called Jeffrey one afternoon. He required €4000 from Jeffrey. Shocked by this request, Jeffrey told the lawyer that he could not produce such an amount. The lawyer explained that the money was necessary to hire more lawyers to fight the band of solicitors that the insurance company was bound to unleash on the case. Jeffrey offered to give the lawyer 50% of the claims money once the case was won. The lawyer replied that he could not guarantee that the case would be won. The conversation ceased; Jeffrey would return to the lawyer on the matter. Jeffrey did. He thanked the lawyer for having taken on the case, asked him to please drop the claims. “I have nothing more,” Jeffrey said solemnly to the lawyer, “I have nothing to fight with. Let it be like that. Let it end. It is over.”
It was over for the human eyes but God was about to show that he is God in Jeffrey's life.
JEFFREY EKHATOR’S UNBELIEVEABLE RECOVERY!
JULY 2005
Jeffrey went to his room after this conversation with the lawyer, went down on his knees and prayed one prayer: “God help me. ” Then he told God that his life was now in God’s hands. Thereafter, Jeffrey picked up his phone and began calling his creditors, telling them, one by one, that he did not have the money to pay now, but if they gave him room and time to recuperate, he would begin the process. Jeffrey did not know where he was going to get the funds to begin paying back. But he knew he wanted to pay his creditors back, and was going to have to start somewhere.
OCTOBER 2005
The job at McDonalds continued. Jeffrey worked without any clear idea what to do about the monies he owed. One afternoon, at a bus stop in Nieuwe Binnenweg (one of Rotterdam’s busiest streets), Jeffrey entered into conversation with an elderly Moroccan man. Their conversation moved to
Jeffrey’s tragedy three months earlier. Struck by compassion, the Moroccan man lamented Jeffrey’s fate and told Jeffrey that the city centre was a better place to do business in, rather than city fringes like Vlaardingen. He himself was at a business crossroads, he told Jeffrey, for he wanted to sell his shop at Nieuwe Binnenweg and move back to Morocco for good. Alas, said Jeffrey, if only he could buy the shop. Jeffrey said this partly in jest, but the old man was not jesting when he replied that he would talk to his son and see what they could come up with. For someone with Jeffrey’s history, the idea of a business take-over of any sort should have been scary. It did scare Jeffrey’s wife. But Jeffrey was now acting on the certainty that he had asked God’s help and was now the wiser. The man’s son agreed to go with his father’s plan - to let Jeffrey take over the shop on a no-strings-attached basis from October to December. They settled that if by December Jeffrey found that he did not want to continue with the business, the old man would take his shop back. If by this time Jeffrey saw that he liked the business, then from January Jeffrey would begin paying in installments the €15000 take over cost of the shop. No papers signed, no names changed, no monies asked, barely two weeks of meeting each other, the old man handed the keys of his shop to Jeffrey.
NOVEMBER AND DECEMBER 2005
Between October and December 2005, Jeffrey (in addition to the rent and utility bills of the shop and his family’s needs) started stocking the shop with African foodstuff to begin attracting clientele he was familiar with: Africans South-of-the Sahara. In December, the old man left for Morocco.
JANUARY AND FEBRUARY 2006
From January, Jeffrey began paying the takeover cost of the shop through the old man’s son. He also started paying off his backlog of rents... beginning with paying two months’ worth of backlog in a go.
MARCH 2006
From March 2006, Jeffrey started paying Coca-Cola and some other creditors. In April 2006, he finally signed the takeover contract of the shop. By this time, more and more Africans were flocking to the shop.
2006 and 2007
Between 2006 and 2007, Jeffrey paid off the €15000 take over cost of the shop. From 2007, everyone Jeffrey owed began receiving monthly payments.
2009
In 2009, Jeffrey found a bigger shop at 1st Middellandstraat. The shop at Nieuwe Binnenweg had become too small for both goods and clientele.
2010
In 2010, Jeffrey opened the first African nightclub (Club Mi & YU) in Rotterdam. The same year he began expanding his business in an Abacha-free Nigeria.
2011 - 2012
Jeffrey entered 2012 as an employer of six fultime workers in the Netherlands. He also entered 2012 with a multifaceted business empire mushrooming in Nigeria.
Jeffrey was awarded best entrepreneur 2013 at the ADMA Awards which held recently in Amsterdam and i asked him a few questions days after the awards.
WHAT IS THE SECRET TO YOUR SUCCESS?
Realising that my survival depends on God, and turning to God when things get impossible. Not being too quick to dwell on bad situations, always ready to challenge myself, my situation and to risk failure... not once, not twice but as often as is necessary to arrive at my goal.
HOW DO YOU START YOUR DAY
My day usually starts at 6 a.m. I take the children to school, then go to the shop in the day and in the evening to the night-club lounge Mi & Yu.
JEFFREY YOU BROKE DOWN AND CRIED WHEN YOU CAME OUT TO COLLECT YOUR AWARD,PLEASE TELL US ABOUT THAT MOMENT.
I felt very emotional because i never thought i was going to win any award,there are a lot of competitors.I was so shocked that it was God that gave me the peer to speak that day.i cried because Gods hand in my life humbles me.
The ADMA award was the third this year.i had earlier on received Best entrepreneur of the year 2013 Oodua progressive union Award and best entrepreneur 2013 at the Voice Magazine achievers award.
Bless God!
I like the detailed step by step narration of his grass to grace story. Its a believable story, not the usual miraculous stories that don't add up.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to bless you Jeffery. Your story is really inspiring. I wish today's youths in diaspora can be so hardworking and patient.
This God sef! He amazes me evryday! God iz indeed great.
DeleteMy family is next in line for a miracle IJN
DeleteI concur. This is one of the best & very explicit narrative of all time. Apt and encouraging. Matter of fact I have keyed into a pertinent aspect of this as it concerns God meeting u at a cross road.
DeleteI hope that those who are quick to moan and blame the govt for their failures will take a cue from this, that striving against all odds and against a failed system can behoove one in the long run. U don't have to push drugs or prostitute to make a living. This man's story ends a sweet one bcos his sweat met with the Merciful hand of God.
God arose for u indeed gentleman. I tap into your success story. God speed
Amazing. God is good o, from below the bottom to the top!!! Congrats Jeffrey
ReplyDeleteThe lesson here is that the power to change ur life its in ur hands, go on ur knees and pray to God. U dont need any damn daddy or mummy in d lord in d name of a pastor to pray for u. U can do it urself and God ll answer you.
DeleteHmmmmm, God help me! i love that, great story.
ReplyDeleteUpliftment can only come from God.
ReplyDeleteWow! Very touching. A big lesson to me also to always seek the face of God first in I do.
ReplyDeleteInspiring story, and why r u calling Nigeria Africa?
ReplyDeleteAwwwww so touching buh thank God for his infinite Mercies!
ReplyDeleteI actually cried reading his story, that's God for you. Though it may tarry, he would surely bring you to ur expected end.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Wao! I love dis story. Frm grass to grace.
ReplyDeleteWow! Very inspiring. God is great. We shoul always put our trust in him.
ReplyDeleteAm so inspired by Jeff's story...Heavenly father,I surrender all my burdens into ur mighty hands,You know all am going thru,d battle is now Yours....do what only You can do.Amen
ReplyDeleteStella thanks for this story. You just gave me hope. I woke up with anger and was even crying. Life taya me. No job,no source of income( hand to mouth phase of life),everything seems to be going south 4 me. I already ask God 4 mercy +pity,to help me cos i don't know what else to do. I decided to visit your blog 4 d usual laughter stuff, if I go see wetin go kill my sorrow, na I jam diz story. For me, I tk it as a personal message,say God no 4get anybody. God give me grace and Help me. Thanks stella, may you continue to go higher n higher and may God bless u to your 3rd and 4th generation IJN,Amen.
ReplyDeleteVery motivating, hard work pays
ReplyDeleteI cried after reading this post. God bless ur family Sir. SHAKI
ReplyDeleteOooh what an inspiring story, with God and hardwork all things are possible. But why open a club that will increase immorality when you involved God in your success.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
DeleteGod bless you
DeleteMy thoughts exactly!
DeleteWow. So Encouraging. Bless God for him.
ReplyDeleteA real story. Quite motivating and very exemplary. It shows that indeed perseverance pays. Ck
ReplyDeleteMan in all this pain and yet he had time to take his kids to school; Jeffrey is a man's man. not like Most men who when going through stuff like this might resort to becoming abusive to his wards. I applaud him. Good things by all means, happens to good people.
ReplyDeleteI hv lost my job since 2011 afta gettin married in 2010. Afta tryin in vain to get anoda job(I'm a graduate), I had to learn a skill dis year for which I believ I wil be be self sustainin. Its bn rough so far. My wife told me recently she cnt cope again afta sufferin high blood pressure as a result of d tough times. I was homeless for 6months last year. As I'm writin dis, I'm abt losin my wife and tins are still difficult but dis story has greatly motivated and challenged me. Wit God, I wil tedtify in due course. Pls I need ur prayerss too. Shola
ReplyDeleteGod is not man. He will do it and do it in abundance to the very end. Keep trusting and praying. Do good and your faith will lead you to the altar of harvest.
DeleteOne day one day Una go hear my story!
If your wife wants to go pls do not stop her. God has mighty plans for you. But be a good man, and support her in your own little way. God bless you and may he open your eyes and give you the spirit of recognition.
Didn't ur wife make the for better for worse vow?
Delete@shola, God will see thru ...amen.
DeleteNever relent in prayers ok cos dat all u have got down. I know as human sometimes we r weak to pray but u can do it silently in your heart.
Is tough for ur wife I must tell you but neva blame her ok. I don't pray she leaves, you guys are going through you trying times now. Is gonna end someday and both of you will testify like jeffrey. Never forgetting that "waiting is not easy". Am believing God for my own breakthrough too.
Lots of love
Praying with you shola. God hears
DeleteShola ur wife na bad luck since u said u lost ur job after marrying her and since then things has beet tough for u and at the same time she wants to leave u forgeting the the vow that says till dead do u path.if i were u i throw her out even becouse she does not love u enough to stand by u like jeffreys wife.
DeleteShola hear me please. Tell your problem thus; "who are yea mountain before Zerrubabel? Be moved IJN"
DeleteLet every mountain of lack be moved and be seen no more in urlife!! I join my faith with urs as a covenant partner and child of the most high...Shola this time nxt year you shall return to this blog to give a resounding and a glorious testimony. The bible says that "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh". For as u have spoken ur heart today, the Mighty God of Heaven and earth will move for you.
As for your wife I'll say that let the will of God be done. If she stays to endure a little more, fine. If not, goodbye. But what I do know is that with or without her, God will do what He will do. He is a respecter of NO persons. And He said "I will show mercy unto whom I will show mercy". Shola You shall receive of His mercy today!
His words remain.. "yea and amen", Godspeed!
Sapelewaterpikin... I love this ds inspire me, may God continue to help jeffrey, this are pple we call mentor that I can look up to cos am struggling to start ma bizness also and I knw ma God will help me out if he can do for jeffrey he will surely do mine.
ReplyDeleteThis is truly an amazing and an inspirational story.. Wow !!!
ReplyDeleteStarted from d bottom see where he's now....it can only be God..... God my life dey ur hand ooo as I forge ahead in ds foreign land
ReplyDeleteI am so touched by this story. God is ever faithful.
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What an inspirational story.. This is so uplifting.. God is indeed great.. We need not worry about the challenges and obstacles we face in life. All we need is to just run to God for his help and assistance and he will surely answer us as long as we are honest and focus.. Thumbs up to Jefferey- you are an Inspiration...
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ReplyDeleteFather pls bless ♍Æ” husband also bcos he is goin thru smtin similar to dis,its nt easy ♍Æ” sister wen u employ pple nd later realize dey r d greatest thieves on earth nd TЂε̲̣̣̣ manager was claiming to b a man of God!!
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ReplyDeleteWhat an inspirational story.. This is so uplifting.. God is indeed great.. We need not worry about the challenges and obstacles we face in life. All we need is to just run to God for his help and assistance and he will surely answer us as long as we are honest and focus.. Thumbs up to Jefferey- you are an Inspiration...
ReplyDeleteBaba Ijebu,e don do.
DeleteSuch a touching story.. If he had given up, he wouldn't b where he z now.. Lesson learnt is never gv up on ur dream!
ReplyDeleteGod will forever be God! Congratulations Jeff may God continue to meet us @ our points of need IJN...............
ReplyDeletei am inspired!
ReplyDeleteNow this is wat I love. The grass to grace story was detailed with dates unlike the so called big girls and boys (overnite riches) that Stella churn out these days.
ReplyDeleteGod bless ur hustle Jeffrey and ur wife too for standing besides. U during ur bad moments, such wives are scarce to come by
Now this is the type of success story I like †o hear. №t some mumbo-jumbo stories of private jets et al from questionable sources.Determination and Hardwork truely pays; Ask Dennis of GUS 10. God is indeed faithful
ReplyDeleteI'm inspired Lord I ask that this be my hubby and I's and everyone's story In Jesus name
ReplyDeleteWhat did u just write? Well, God understands.
DeleteGreat story indeed. A great lesson learnt, never ever give up and always trust in God. Thanks for sharing this inspirational story Stella.
ReplyDeleteI'm a story teller by the Grace of God and I know a good story when I see one. It's inspiring, detailed and with breathtaking twists and turns. Thanks for this true-life story of perseverance. My only word to Jeffrey (hope he reads this blog) is this; please do not forget this God that has been so kind to you. Especially, make sure that that night club is "decent"; not a place where folks come to drink themselves to stupor, do drugs and misbehave. May it not be a place where unclad ladies abuse themselves and multiply the unfaithful among men and husbands. It can just be a place for "good entertainment" and relaxation. If you forget God, he will not forget you but you may just make your ways hard. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteEver faithful God
ReplyDeleteGod pls give me my own testimony. Settle me and my sisters maritally.
ReplyDeleteThis is God's way! What seems impossible to man is very possible for God. May my life also end in testimonies in Jesus name. Amen!
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Chai God is surprising.I want to start my popcorn biz,pls God let it boom for me ooo.Amen
ReplyDeleteTruly there's power in d tongue ask n u shall receive...
ReplyDeleteWasn't going to read the long story however I am glad I did.
ReplyDeleteInspiring story! But abeg make una no vex as i wan ask question. God supports businesses/ventures and expects to gain glory through it; right? How does a "night club" glorify God? Will nightclub make more folks draw closer to God or away from him? Just asking . . . Prince D
ReplyDeleteWow!so touching & inspiring.if we can just believe that God is forever faithful,when one door closes another ll open!its a matter of time .
ReplyDeleteIf u ask meeee...na who I go ask?? Ask d Pope. Winks
DeleteMost definitely inspiring. With God, nothing is impossible or unachieveable. I love his courage and am trusting God that in a few years time he would put me in a position where I would be able to share my own story and inspire other people too. Good work Stella.
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what a wonderful story. Thanks stella. Jeffery for giving God the glory may he bless you even the more
ReplyDeleteVery inspiring story... Trusting God and depending on him alone will always see one through, I use you as a point of contact too ooooo.
ReplyDeleteSola, God will do a new thing in ur life soon, just put ur whole trust in God, he nevers fails!
ReplyDeletethis is the heart of a real man, who has a vision and the heart to pursue it. God always blesses hearts that re true, committed,and ready. The reason why God blessed him is because he has a Good heart that is committed to the dream God gave him. I am so proud of you ma brother, more blessings...
ReplyDeletethis is the heart of a real man, who has a vision and the heart to pursue it. God always blesses hearts that re true, committed,and ready. The reason why God blessed him is because he has a Good heart that is committed to the dream God gave him. I am so proud of you ma brother, more blessings...
ReplyDelete@Shola....may God uphold u at this time,remember he's not asleep,keep looking up to him,ur season of harvest is here in Jesus' name.
ReplyDeleteCongrats Jeff...i'm truly inspired....i know my season of celebration is here too in Jesus' name.
Jeffrey is a cool headed guy. Thanks Stella for blessing ur readers with his story. Its me "L" will be back soon
ReplyDelete@ Shola, God will turn your sorrow into joy. Before the end of this year, God will send you help. You will find favour in men. Please be patient.
ReplyDeleteInspiring .With God nothing is impossible!
ReplyDelete@ Prince. If u ask meeee..na who I go ask??? Ask d pope na. Winks
ReplyDeleteWat a story,See grace,I tap into such grace,may God continue to bless u..
ReplyDeleteTo God be the praiseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. I rejoice with you brother. I have been going through tough times since the start of this year. visa issues and family matter not forgetting fertility issues. God please remember your daughter. I cry to you lord
ReplyDeleteGod is good....May He continue to bless us all.
ReplyDeleteThat was inspiring and motivating ,but wish it was that possible to overcome such in Nigeria . Wish u well brother .
ReplyDeleteWow.... what a touching story! Inspired to overcome...
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Reading this story, I almost shed a tear - Jeffrey Ekhator, you are such an inspiration. What would have happened if you had given up (The power of perseverance). It's time we realised that our survival depends on God Almighty. Thanks for sharing such an amazing story - I'm so inspired. Btw, Merry Christmas, everyone
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