Hi stella,
I prefer to remain anonymous,am a big fan and I have learnt a lot from your blog aside from reading latest gist,read testimonies from blog visitors.I decided to share my issue with you and other bloggers,I am 27years,pretty,I work in a multinational company,everything is beautiful for me but I have a big problem .......bedwetting.
Now it doesn't happen every other day,it happens only when am visiting a very important friend or my boyfriend's house.
Trust me it has embarrassed me,I have lost a lot,my dignity.I have tried everything in my power medically,deliverance,babalawo,drank my mothers pee all in the name of cure.when it happens it is as if I should just die ,enter the ground as in..... words can't express what my mind wants me to do..please I need blog visitors to help me
Thank you stella''
*OMG.....OMG...OMG....i dunno what to say...lost for words.
very simple ,any time you have to visit ,stop eating from 4pm ,and if on your own stop eating once is 6pm,once is 6pm stop drinking water ,if you drink liquor ,don't drink when u are with a special friend and u intend to pass the night,learn not to eat anything once is 8pm,and when u are about going to bed make sure you pee,and if u aren't a deep sleeper like me ,wake up every two hours to use the bathroom,i know this because i use to have a cousin dat was bed wetting till age of 16,if you try all this method you will thank me later.it goes like this you are in a dream having the best piss of your life when u finish u are awake ,so try all this methods 100%it will work .
ReplyDeletePoster follow this advice. Am sure it will work. Be very patient though as it may take a while before seeing changes but believe me with perseverance and prayers, it will be over before you know it. Goodluck.
DeleteTel ur bf to always wake u up to go and piss if he no want make u turn him bed to toilet. Then no drink water anytime after 2pm.
DeleteYou are right dear
DeleteThere are adult pampers now dear
Delete1st post very true. Then u can set ur alarm to wake u 2-4hrly so that u can wake up and pee. All the best dear...
DeleteHi.. well forget my name, but I am in my 20ties nd I was a professional bedwetter...seriously jis pray to God,forget babalawo...i started bedwetting at age and dint stop until 20... beg God...sow a seed
DeleteIf u r in Lagos,go get anointing water from synagogue church of all nations...I'm a catholic! From a catholic back ground,but God is there at synagogue. Ur case is very common n people testify! Use it with prayers and fasting. Also FLEE FROM PREMARITAL SEX!!! FORNICATION IS EVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!...God bless you!
Delete@bootylicious diva,cant u see this situation is clearly spiritual?it only happens when she's going visiting and I know dat it's not like she eats more or intentionally have a different lifestyle during dose visits,it just happens!its not a coincidence but a crious spiritual attack to disgrace her,stop her from. Marriage and all!
Delete@poster pls handle it strictly spiritually go for deliverance in a living church with. Fasting,prayers and faith,then don't give up and God will do it,he never fails!
Simple thing when u notice u re peeing too long just know its a dream and u re probably wetting the bed convince urself to wake up..... when u start that and with d first comment it would stop... talking from experience.
DeleteHmmm! I believe this is a spiritual problem.. You need to pray..
DeletePlz I'm anathesia I have been bed-wetting for 20 years now and I need help.. Plz pray for me
DeleteD poster is phrinkies,but d lied about workin in a multinational coy
ReplyDeleteDafe and obodo una no fit kill me with laff lol.poster no need for self pity. When you go to bed always bear in mind this problem and then wake from time to time and use the toilet , you will see that you will over come it with time. Goodluck
Deletedifferent strokes for different folks. Poster is very lucky honestly. Na mess and shit my babe dey take wound me whenever she comes around. She wil let out a fart accompanied by some very smelly watery poop,then she wakes up and begins to cry. Very pretty girl with good manners and a great career. We hav tried all we can,yet no respite. Wanted to tel my mum perhaps she may knw how to help bt my babe says No.
Delete@ Obodo. I don't even know what to say to u at all. Mtcheeeeeeeew. Olodo rabata.
Delete@Obodo, nw I av ur tym. Its as if u are high on Alomo Bitters abi... If u don't av any response to give d poster y nt shut d hell up instead of sayin Rubbish. Attention seeker oshi. Notice me. Gbeborun, Gbefila, Ma pe mi mo dasi. Oya we don see u, kon dey go.
DeleteTears in my eyes. Sad, sad, sad.u need a strong man of God, try and visit pastor SULE MAN I heard his a strong man of God or visit tb Joshua. .. I can feel ur pain dear, com.on finger wey I dey bite gives me headache talkless of dis.
ReplyDeleteI tink dis is d "dumbest" statement I av ever read on blogs...who is "SULE MAN"???heard he is strong on bed matters abi???na wa ooo...u ve just talked like a baby!is not even TB joshua,not until u visit all prophets be4 d Gud Lord will answer u.she had visited several places buh still no answers.I tink she shud prayer abt it and den follow bootilycious diva's advice...the Gud LORD will definately hear u some day.just Don't Give Up!!!
DeletePray and fast YOURSELF to God darling. You can ask ur mother to join in the prayer of agreement with you. Go to a prayer mountain if u most...if u tell me when u are willing to start off I can challenge God with u in the prayer of agreement. I swear it will stop. Even if it is a generational fundamental spiritual curse, who are yea mountain before Zerubbabel? C'omon darling you shall be free. Except if God has neglect His throne, which is impossible. God speed
DeleteIts Sign Fireman not Sale Man .his church is at Orile.
Deleteyour village family friend no want u to marry before her or never marry in life?,,my dear help ur self out,,
ReplyDeletego in 7days fasting and praising thanking GOD only,
then at the last day,you pray and ask ur wish,,only you must know about it,,,,goodluck
Go to mfm..and God will see you through, With your fasting and prayer.
DeleteSet your alarm to wake u up every 2hrs or less. You can also consider reducing your liquid intake.
ReplyDeleteI can't even begin to imagine! I hate it when a kid bedwets, especially if I had earlier begged him/her to pee b4 going to bed.
Every thing be a solution to it ' me I will say anytime you are sleeping outside your home don't drink much liquid ,get an alarm clock that will wake you up every one hour so that you can go pee. Then get a mackintosh to lay under the sheet before you sleep ' , that's how to be smarter than the devil ,keep doing this until you get a final help ,trust me it has happened to a close friend of mine until she outgrew it at 32yrs God will heal you for this is not normal at all .
ReplyDeleteIt happend to u my friend say the truth n shame d devil upon say u dey under anon tnz
DeleteIt happend to u my friend say the truth n shame d devil upon say u dey under anon tnz
DeleteDis is my first time commenting on dis blog. I think in d day time when u're pressed; don't go n pee immediately! Keep the urine and make sure u forget about it. Infact, drink more water... Dis way, ur bladder increases n will store urine for a long period of time.It worked for my sister. I believe u will get over it n also pray hard. It might not be ordinary!
ReplyDeleteBladder increases ke?
DeleteI once suffered a urinary tract problem from holding my urine for a long time. I dont think this is advisable.
Like we care if you have commented b4?
DeleteY can't people comment and move on? Annoying lots
Thank u jare, must u tell us its ur ist time
DeleteThank u jare, must u tell us its ur ist time
DeleteYour first time and you still used 'anonymous'. My dear, u r like d rest of us. Hehehe!
DeleteU guys saying y should I write it's my 1st time or not needs ur head to be checked. I see ur brain is made in Aba, cos I was only expressin myself for I was so touched to comment 4 d first time. Hello!!!! It's none of ur biz...U'd beta find another route, cos I wudn't take sh*t from any1 on dis blog. Infact! U're so inept for commentin, it only shows u re vulnerable to baldedash talks! Back to sender a million times any furda derogatory remark
DeleteGbagaun everywhere
DeleteLmao @gbagaun everywhere
DeleteChai, my friend has this same problem, just like epilepsy, it strikes at the least desired times......there must be a medical explanation for this....but please drink little or no fluid in the night and practice holding your urine.....pls if possible don't sleep on time when u visit some kind of places.....my friend does that, infact let me call her attention to this post, she has a lot of tricks she uses to curb hers, they re not foolproof but it works sometimes.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she can help......I really understand how painful and embarrassing this must be. But if nothing works for you, then I will advise u be upfront with anyone u want to have a sleepover with about your condition to avoid having to make the explanation after the fact. Its well......nobody has it rosy in this life ...chai!
Kai my sister its sure sad n disheartening o but keep praying trusting in God. Go to MFM's Prayer City n spend d normal 5days deliverance prog there. Pls go with faith n trust me your life will not remain d same again.... Hugggzzz
ReplyDeletePoster,seems like you drink too much when visiting your friends.don't eat or drink once its 7:pm while with your friends.let's see how it goes.
ReplyDeletePissy, pissy.
ReplyDeleteAnon 12:52, you need help, someone is in pain and all you can do is mock. Smh
DeleteSeriously,ur comment is very cruel and stupid,if u hv nothing 2 say then dnt comment,everybdy hz problems,jst dat smppl's own are mre Dan sm,I dnt hv any wrds on this cos I've never hrd abt this,I jst think it's a spiritual problem and turn 2 God 4 help
DeletePissy pissy for body e nor dey shame .
DeleteHmmm you don't even know the spiritual implication of what you just typed...because you are under anonymous you think that God can not visit you with vengeance abi? Ask those kids that were making fun of Elijah what became of them...won't say more than that before I begin to curse you in anger
DeleteSomeone's heartfelt agony Is a joke to you? Idiot
Anon7:29 so nt gud! Its nt a laughing mata & yet u r mocking dis poor gal 4 sharing her plight. U no piss 4 bodi wen u dey small? If u dnt av any meaningful tin 2 say, Y nt jst read pple's comment rada dan mock d poor gal.. Its very bad of u, I pray u dnt find urslf in dt situatn.
DeleteDear Stella, thanks for this post. As if you know what is going on in my ming right now. My house girl has this problem. She is a good girl and God fearing but bedwetting is her only problem. And she does it every night unless I go and wake her at least twice every night. It's starting to annoy me, really. I can't be waking up every night to attend to my baby and house girl.
ReplyDeleteThe worst is that she is a very deep sleeper. Waking her is another work on its own. Sometimes I end up hitting her with slippers or dragging her up before she will finally wake, and I have to follow her to the toilet to make sure she pees or she will just fall back to sleep without going to ease herself. Before I saw this post, I went to her room and opened her wardrope,I was just smh at the urine stench that assulted my nose. She has gone to school and did not wash her bedsheet and pj she messed up last night. Maybe she plans washing them when she returns from school. I was even telling hubby this morning that I'm thinking of taking her to the hospital cos this is so abnormal for a girl of her age.
Please any suggestions will do. I really want to help her overcome this. It will give me great joy to see her stop bedwetting. Some people have adviced I send her home and get another help but I feel it will be a wicked thing to do. I will be happy if I get a solution here. #sadmuch.
Her case is different since she's an everyday bedwetter. It has no spiritual undertone. She should take her last meal and drink by 6pm and wake up by 12 midnight to pee.
DeleteThe problem with such people is that they are usually heavy sleepers and cant wake up by themselves. Fortunately i had a sister in law who slept in the same room with the maid afflicted with same ailment. Sister in law took it upon her self to be waking her after she saw the mess this girl caused when menstuation met bedwetting. Try a shrill alarm clock but i suspect she'll just go right back to sleep without getting up.
My baby sister is 15yrs and in ss3 she bewets. Notting we haven't tried. I'm really worried for her. No kind of beating,prayers,no eating late,counselling we haven't tried.
DeleteI'm going to take her to the hospital once she finishes her ssce coz I dunno how she'll fare in the university
What do you mean by "baby sister"? Your younger sister you mean. Pissed with hearing words such as "cousin sister/ cousin brother, etc
DeleteLike I care if you're pissed? My dear if u wantto teach/correct English #notlikeyouspeakbetter#, go ahead.
DeleteWhen you're older than someone with over 20yrs, be there deciding if she's younger or simply aa baby still. Afterall d age Diff is constant.
She is my baby sister #tongueout# I'm certain u know what it means.
Biko lemme run along for real solutions proffered by better blog visitors who aren't "pissed"
sorry to hear about your problem. I had a friend who had the same problem. you need to see a specialist,did you ever try a drug called lithium?
ReplyDeleteAv u eva tried dis,
ReplyDeleteEating n drinking wateva u av to on or b4 6pm.
Peeing b4 going to bed.
And waking at intervals to use d bathroom.
If u do dis regularly, ur body bcoms adapted to d routine.
This is not a problem for SDKBers. This appears a serious spirititual problem whose aim is to disgace you.
ReplyDeleteYou and your parents should chook legs outside o. What are your parents doing about it? They need to consult widely and seek relevant spiritual assistance. Whatever your faith is, I'm sure there will be a soulution path for you.
My mum has done everything in her power and now I can't tell her again that is happens I just want her to be happy.am her only child it breaks my heart when she cries about d situation.thank u
DeleteOh Lord.. I pray you find a solution to this problem..God answers prayers, and he's sure going to deliver you..it is well..
DeleteIts a strange one since u said it happens only wen u are visiting a special person.babes,na only prayers. Buh trust me,it will work.just pray!
ReplyDeleteSIncerely speaking, prayers can resolve this problem as it is not ordinary. This means there is a spirit of disgrace assigned to humiliate you anywhere you are supposed to be glorified. Join me on the mountain and prepare yourself for a three day white fast ahead of your miracle.
ReplyDeleteIt is well
Me too :'( please help me
ReplyDeleteGo to a reputable hospital and get help from a specialist
ReplyDeletei am also a victim of bedwetting and I am 27yrs as well. im jst lucky tat past relationship and present have always been supportive esp my recent. been to my GP and still they have not been able to find any solution and I have prayed and prayed with my family and still cant find any solution. I always sleep in my boyfrnd's house now as I am scared my flatmates will discover my problem and he also doesn't like me sleeping in anybody's house so I don't disgrace myself. anytime I travel he books hotel for me for fear that if I stay in a frnds house I might be disgraced. tats to show u hw bad it is> we change his foam every month bt I jst discovered a waterproof bedcover of late and we have plenty tat we now change everytime it happens. please if anybody can help, pls do as me and we ever tat posted her story here need serious help. GOD BLESS U ALL. Thanks
ReplyDeleteWow! Where you jam that kind rare man? Arent you lucky.
DeleteYours is better u have a supportive partner (marry him if he ever asked. My advice).
DeleteYou can be using adult diaper while applying d tips others have listed above. Good luck.
Ehya I felfor you,u just av to use prayer,telk to God almighty and tell him dat dat bed wetting its a valley in ur life den to me ,make a convenant and promise God dat if u shd stop bed wetting dat u wil do sumfin for him. Cos I knw aw almighty God loves challenges.I knw God won't fail u, he's ur solution,its well
ReplyDeleteChiommy
babes it could be medical or spiritual..seek medical help or go to ur pastor or imam to soak u wiv d blood of jesus....as it only occurs rarely....
ReplyDeleteMy dear, i'll Advise u to do 3things.. 1Prayer 2.Prayer 3.more prayer.. Ah! Cos uve done everytin medically.. Ask God for forgiveness 4 going to babalawo then build a Good relationship wit ur GOD. He'll make ur faith stonger, study the word of God too.. talk to ur pastor's wife or any strong spiritual woman in your church. Act on these things and believe then this case would dissapear. Trust GOD
ReplyDeleteMy dear, i'll Advise u to do 3things.. 1Prayer 2.Prayer 3.more prayer.. Ah! Cos uve done everytin medically.. Ask God for forgiveness 4 going to babalawo then build a Good relationship wit ur GOD. He'll make ur faith stonger, study the word of God too.. talk to ur pastor's wife or any strong spiritual woman in your church. Act on these things and believe then this case would dissapear. Trust GOD
ReplyDelete#19 your boyfriend is a very good guy and I pray that the poster can find a man to love her just as unconditionally. Dear poster, first off, I don't think you can afford to have flings. You need to be with just one man that you're sure, to an extent at least, sincerely cares for you. Explain things to him beforehand to avoid unpleasant surprises. As for the cure, I think this problem is spiritual, seeing as its only when you go to particular places. Besides deliverance programs you need to seek God's face yourself. Good luck.
ReplyDeletesad rily sad..................
ReplyDeleteI'm not a spiritual freak but please try and abstain from all forms of sexual sin(fornication), pray with all your heart, wake at intervals to ease yourself and God will see you through in Jesus Name
ReplyDeleteYou people offering all sorts of "waking up to pee" programs, did you read that the bedwetting happens only when shes out of her house visiting?
ReplyDeleteIts a psychological thing.. She needs to go for some counselling and maybe see a pyschologist as there might be some underlying issues or something may have gone wrong during her childhood.... I have a problem as well where I sweat on my palms ONLY when someone reaches out to for a handshake. Its some sort of fear that your body is sending to the sensory organs due to anxiety. I hope you get over this soon as it must be stressful and damaging to your self esteem!
DeletePeople get problem for this world oh!! SDK has made me realise...CHai pele babe
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls Visit SCOAN. I've listened to a lot testimonies of people who had the problem of bedwetting, some 30,35 years of bedwetting and they got their deliverance there. Deliverance is the only permanent solution, meanwhile stop visiting babalawos and keep on praying and trusting in God
ReplyDeleteSDFU which SCAON, u want her to go n contact excess demons. U better prayer ur way out
DeleteU better carry ur mouth and body odour away from my comment if u don't have anything positive to say. She asked for advice and that's d best I can give her. All of u talking bout reducing her water intake, setting her alarm clock to wake her at nights etc who told u she hasn't tried all that? Has it ever occurred to you that this could be a spiritual problem that only God can solve?
DeleteMy dear poster pls visit SCOAN, they have their services on Thursdays and Sundays. Don't listen to all those rumours from the pit of hell bout TB Joshua. And pls when u get delivered send ur testimony to Stella
hello,
ReplyDeleteThis is a medical problem.
Since you have a job and can afford treatment, I would recommend you to go to a urologist. This are people in charge of taking care of the urinary system. Urogynacologist would have been the best for you but I dont know how many of them are in Nigeria. Just go to your family Doctor and ask them to refer you to one of these.
I would say you have secondary nocturnal enuresis. This can be caused by a variety of things such as heavy sleeping, sleep apnea (suspension of external breathing), stress, urinary infections, chronic constipation, diabetes,Insufficient anti-diuretic hormone (ADH) production .
Medications your doctor may recommend is Enablex or ground fennel seeds. Mix 1 cup of boiling water and 1 teaspoon ground fennel seeds and steep for 10 minutes, then drink. HE might also recommend antimuscarinics. They work by blocking certain nerve impulses to the bladder, which relaxes the bladder muscle and so increases the bladder capacity. Please don't take them on ur own, go to the hospital and tell the doctors your suggestions, he will run some tests and give his recommendations.
Also like someone said try to limit your fluid intake before bedtime, visit the bathroom before going to bed, exercise your bladder by making fewer trips to the bathroom during the day or using bedwetting alarm clocks.
Also your doctor will have to consider if you have a weak bladder or Overactive bladder syndrome. If you can afford to travel abroad please do.
I have a younger brother who still bed wets and he is so ashamed of this and cries all the time and he is just 10, I cant even begin to imagin how you feel at 27.
There is nothing medicine can not cure, just meet the right specialist.
My dear as cliche as it sounds it is Spiritual since it only happens outside your comfort zone. Please to go a bible believing Church, I'll suggest CLAM at Omole or MFM. Spirit husbands may be attacking you!!! Continue to Pray, Avoid drinking plenty fluid, don't let it weigh u down. Buy adult pampers if u have to sleep outside home and wrap it inside ur bag after use. No one wld know....All the best till then!
ReplyDeleteMy dear i can feel ur pain and frustration, they was nothing i didnt do or given to use, i was bedwetting till i was about 25, which was after i had long left the uni, my advise is that u try and eat and sleep early, also get an alarm clock to wake u every 2hrs or less, although at so point it was like my intake of water wasn't really the problem, but i was also a deep sleeper, like someone advised, u should get a Macintosh for the occasional wetting. you just need to me more aware at night times. hope this helps.
ReplyDeleteAs a doctor,go c a good neurologist..often times,bedwetting as an adult(secondary enuresis)cld b as a result of diabetet,urinary tract infection or neurological disorders,less likely as a result from stress or emotional instability....just go to a good hospital n gt checked,treatment wil depend on the cause...most of u ought to quit attributing lil tyns to religion or voodoo,sometimes there is just a simple xplanation,everything is not ur mother-in-law's fault,just go for a check up and remember,whatever your doctor says,always seek a second opinion from another medical expert
ReplyDeleteMy dear I feel for u o, let me share dis wit u guys, I had dis frd dat dated a married man for yrs nd d wife got frustrated nd decided to do dis to her, she only wets d bed wen she's wit a guy, her case was serious until one of her boyfriends took her to a man of God whom told her d cause of her problems , she had to go beg d man's wife nd beg God for mercy nd dat was d end of Bedwetting., try all dis methods if he doesn't work pls pray like never before u wil get a result , God didn't create u like dis so don't give up.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your problem. Pls seek a second opinion from a specialist
ReplyDeleteFrom personal n medical experience, il say chill...I dont think its a lot to worry abt.
ReplyDeleteIf der is anything organic or functional wrong wt you, it wont only happen once in a while.
The only thing I can see is d prob that is close to medical is mayb uv got neurosis or u just nervous/anxious.
Personally, der r times in my life wen I av dis prob. I can either be bedwetting or using d toilet up to 10 or 12 times a night. Sometimes I av urgency, which makes me sometimes pee in my pant before takin off my underwear. Babes, u need to work on ur self, its mere anxiousness...u can start by setting alarms wen u sleepin over in someone elses house...or if na ur boyfriend tell him to wake u up as many times as possible if he doesnt want to spread his mattress d next day...lol, I always tell my hubby 'oh av ad a bit of an accident in d toilet', he knws to get me a new pant cos av just wee'd on dis one, even wen we were dating.
Wat am saying is...its nt so much of a problem, sit down n device aw u wl work around it.
Dont eat/drink late into d night, dont be too tired as to sleep too deeply, set 2 hourly alarms for a start, reduce d amt of proteins u eat at night cos it gives d kidneys more work to do,u can use some meds that wl help calm u down at night and if ur mind/heart doesnt completely agree wt sleepin over at ur bf (if u think its wrong) den stop sleepin over cos it wl make u nervous n u wl bedwet. (Eg, my bf never believes in sex before marriage n so each time we try gettin close, he releases even before we do anything, I was so scared bt I kept on prayin n tellin myself I cant judge his performance or sexual life if we have nt had SEX before...yrs later we married now n d guy na baddest guy ever liveth in bed...he was just too nervous n afraid cos he doesnt believe in premarital sex).
And if al des does nt work, no worry, see ur doc cos der r plenty medications dt sorts dt out now...I dont want to prescribe anything on dis forum.
this is a serious medical condition that requires urgent attention. see a specialist . We know say world people dey do dia own but dear poster yours is a health condition. try going online to read causes of bed wetting in adults.
ReplyDeleteI av suggestions
ReplyDeleteUse adult daipers
Get an alarm clock n set it to ring every hour n when u wake up go n force urself to fee
Don't drink water after 3 hours b4 bed
Finally don't sleep outside ur house
Na wa 4 u lolade. Imam to soak her with the blood of Jesus? Choi!
ReplyDeleteTake bitterleaf water to reduce sugar. When using d restroom, urinate wit ease and do not force it all out. Reduce intake of liquids at most 6pm.
ReplyDeleteYes this is a big problem! Solution? Pray with faith.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, hmmmm..... please seek spiritual help.
ReplyDeleteIf you have tried all medical routes and the results all end up the same, no diagnosis nothing to trace or pin it to as the cause then you need to try the spiritual route.
Whichever spiritual route you choose to ply,let God guide you right. Take care and God be with you.
This too will pass.
Dear Poster, Anon 1:20pm: your problems are not normal at all, it is more spiritual than you think. I have seen and watched countless cases of bedwetting at the Synagogue Church of All Nations of Prophet TB Joshua as the people come back to testify. In this case i wasnt told as i am also an Emmanuel TV addict, so i see people testifying how God helped them out of this same problem either by praying along with the Man of God TB Joshua on Emmanuel Tv or going to the church itself for deliverance or by laying their hands on the Scoan Annointing water and ministering it by faith. Whichever one you choose to go with i assure you complete victory over your problem. i encourage you to seek spiritual help at the SCOAN, man cannot help you. Its a good thing you posted it here so i can see and help you out with what i know works for sure. Just have faith and believe, you will give your testimony just like i have seen many others do to the glory of God.
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ReplyDeleteCauses of adult bed wetting
The causes of adult nocturnal enuresis are many, although the individual may not know the reason.
Some adults may suffer from overactive bladder wherein the individual may wet even during daytime. They may have increased frequency to urinate, Urge to pass urine often and may even leak on the way.
Certain infections like urinary tract infection or other bladder problems may cause bed wetting.
Stress and anxiety may also be the reason for bed wetting.
Adult Bed wetting can be a symptom for diabetes and kidney disorders.
As the person ages, the muscles of the bladder may lose the elasticity causing bed wetting.
An imbalance in the muscle of the bladder can allow the urine to leak out without the person being aware of it. The bladder may be small and may not be able to hold the urine for long time as a result of which the urine may start leaking out slowly.
Remedies for preventing bed wetting
Do not reduce the fluid intake with the fear of wetting. Make sure that the intake of fluid is reduced only after dinner.
Limiting the amount of caffeine can reduce the urge to urinate. Caffeine is a diuretic and is linked with adult bed wetting.
Keep an alarm clock to wake you up in the middle of the night for urination to reduce adult bed wetting.
It is necessary to learn to increase the amount of urine that a bladder can hold. This is needed in cases where you have an urge to go to the toilet frequently in the daytime or if you wet frequently in the night. Learn to hold the urine as much as possible in the daytime. This requires willpower.
Enuresis alarms are designed to wake you up in the night when you start wetting either by sounding a buzzer or by vibration. This alarm will help you learn to hold your urine.
Avoid alcoholic drinks especially in the evening as they can increase your urge to urinate due to their fluid content.
Talk to someone whom you trust and share your problems. Sometimes the intensity of the problem may get reduced if shared with someone else. Contact a doctor regarding the problem. Think positively and have a positive outlook towards life.
In case of bed wetting, avoid nylon bed sheets or clothes as they may not absorb the smell. Waterproof fabrics may be comfortable. In case you want to go out or you are going to stay out, use disposable under sheets and pads.
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It could also be spiritual attack
ReplyDeleteI used to bed-wet throughout my childhood and teenage years (was in boarding school). Sometimes I would have very realistic dreams of being in a toilet and after emptying my bladder I would wake up and alas, it would be on my bed!
ReplyDeleteIt didn't happen everyday but I know how it damaged my self-esteem. By the time I got to uni it seemed to stop, but I was still conscious of it. It still happened a few times but never in school or anywhere else, always at home.
The turning point came when I got born-again and began praying about it seriously. One day at a fellowship somebody gave a word of knowledge that God was going to deliver someone from bed-wetting. I don't know if there was anyone else suffering from the condition there, but I claimed that word for my self.
More than 10 years after that incident I have conquered that terrible condition and the only time I have wet the bed since then was after child-birth when my pelvic muscles were a bit weak.
When a child bed-wets, it's natural cos their bladder capacity is small, but for an adult I believe it's unnatural. I'm as pragmatic as they come. I don't see demons and evil spirits in every corner, but whether we like to accept it or not, there is a spiritual realm that is even more real than what we see physically.
For the poster and anyone else suffering from this, turn to Almighty God for the solution and it shall be well.
Natural home remedy using Indian gooseberries, turmeric powder and honey:
ReplyDelete1. Cut, de-seed and crush 2 Indian gooseberries
2. Add a pinch of turmeric powder
3. Add 1 tsp honey
4. Mix well
5. Have 1 tsp of the mixture in the morning
Natural home remedy using milk, fennel seeds and sugar:
1. Take 1 glass warm milk
2. Add 1 tsp fennel seeds
3. Take 4 tbsp of sugar
4. Add 1 glass of water to this sugar
5. Heat this mixture till it becomes a thick syrup
6. Add 2 tbsp of this sugar syrup to the milk
7. Mix well
8. Drink this everyday
Tips:
• Eat 2-3 walnuts and about 8-10 raisins at bedtime
Natural home remedy using Indian gooseberries, turmeric powder and honey:
ReplyDelete1. Cut, de-seed and crush 2 Indian gooseberries
2. Add a pinch of turmeric powder
3. Add 1 tsp honey
4. Mix well
5. Have 1 tsp of the mixture in the morning
Natural home remedy using milk, fennel seeds and sugar:
1. Take 1 glass warm milk
2. Add 1 tsp fennel seeds
3. Take 4 tbsp of sugar
4. Add 1 glass of water to this sugar
5. Heat this mixture till it becomes a thick syrup
6. Add 2 tbsp of this sugar syrup to the milk
7. Mix well
8. Drink this everyday
Tips:
• Eat 2-3 walnuts and about 8-10 raisins at bedtime
the truth is that most bed wetting goes beyond medical cure, at a point it becomes abnormal and spiritual. First you have to watch your fluid in take, and set your alarm to wake up at interval to use the toilet at night. Above all enter into a special time of prayers. Most of this blog visitors ou are so gullible, small thing you will say run to this man of God and the man of God. These men of God are use by God as a guide they do not have solutions, it is only God that has the solutions and he choose to use it in the way He likes. So learn to depend on the Holy spirit and stop running around. God is no respecter of person He can heal you in your house if you have the faith.
ReplyDeletedis luks more spiritual dan medical, y must it happen on wen u visit people who are important to u or is dr somtin or an habit u do @ home dat u don't do wen u go visiting. I suggest u seek the face of God thru fasting & prayers
ReplyDeleteGenny, na 'wardrobe' them dey call am oh, u re welcome.
ReplyDeletesince you say it is only when you are out your problem may just be anxiety the same thing happens to men with erectile problems its all in the mind, maybe u should learn techniques to keep yourself calm and as much as possible avoid sleeping out.
ReplyDeletei bedwetted till 15 an advice from my grandma helped she says everytime i dream am about to pee in a a toilet i should just force myself up
maybe it would help you
i would keep u in ma prayers
always remember to be calm and less anxious
Anxiety is far from it sir,I am a very careful person and dere re times u can't avoid not sleeping out.a friend mite be having an event and boyfriend family events but am grateful for d advise.thank u
DeleteAnnon 2:08pm and 2:22pm......sincerely i still dont believe we still have people like you who believe medical science is the ultimate,,,and that some things u consider "little" do not have spiritual stuffs attached to it.......we live in a world where the person who u think is ur best friend is the one plotting evil against u.....if medical science is the ultimate,,y havent they found the cause and cure of cancer??? pls grow up ooo,,,,moreso the poster said it happens only when she sleeps out in her boyfriend's place or a friend's place..so u should see that devil is all out just cause her disgrace and embarrassment....
ReplyDelete@Poster,,,pls seek the face of ur creator quickly thru FASTING AND PRAYER,,,yes there are some special miracles that dont come free,,u have to deny urself of food and some pleasures.....am not saying u shouldnt seek medical help,,,but i tell u where medical help fails,,God never fails(from experience).......but for now if u MUST sleep out(which i advice u not to),,try use adult diapers like someone said to avoid embarrassment and adhere to other precautions earlier suggested........
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honestly speaking, just follow that doctors advice.Try the scientific approach to things. this is clearly a urogenital issue. i really don't know why at the slightest provocation, Nigerian must call Temitope joshua or MFM. i was clearly waiting for an answer like that and they didn't fail me. Just listen to the doctors advise. i mean from everything you've outlined, that's the only option you've not considered.
ReplyDeleteI believe this is not ordinary.This can only go through praying n fasting.Wait upon the Lord for 3 or 7 days,pray fervently.Give a special offering in your church,pray over it,ask God to intervene in this situation and put ur enemies to shame.You will testify in Jesus' name.There is no problem beyond God,have faith pls n trust him.
ReplyDeletePLEASE LISTEN TO DR. BLOGGER THATS THE BEST ANSWER SO FAR. AND PLEASE its not neurologist its urologist for those of you asking her to see are neurologist. Urologist should be the first specialist she should meet. And everything is not spiritual so stop saying prayer this prayer that. God helps those who help themselves biko
ReplyDeleteOkay, nobody will read this as I haven't mentioned Church/Alomo Bitters or Prayer but I will continue anyway.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your bedwetting. Sounds like it is stress related.
It would be worth going to see your doctor to exclude more sinister causes such as diabetes or a urine infection or any muscle (bladder etc) problems or neurological problems (unlikely)
Once that is resolved, you may want to consider simple lifestyle measures such as reducing your fluid intake after 6.00pm but making sure you drink as much as you normally would over the cause of the day. Also, avoid caffeine as it makes you produce a lot of urine -- so no caffeinated teas, kolanut, chocolate or coca-cola. No alcohol if you can avoid it too.
Bladder excercises/Retraining is also good and useful. You can always look online for leaflets -- google "stress OR urge incontinence bladder training"
In terms of specific bedwetting interventions, you may want to try an enuresis alarm which wakes you up at the cusp of wetting/when the bladder is full with the logic that over time you are sensitised to this in your sleep. This could take 3 - 5 months to become a learned habit and if all goes well, issues should stop after.
Another option is getting someone to wake you or waking up on your own to empty your bladder
Another option for short trips away from home is a drug called Desmopressin which inhibits urine production (most basic explanation). You would have to be given this by your doctor. This is by no means a long-term solution but useful for the occasional trips away from home. It won't cure the problem.
There are other drugs -- an anti-depressant which has a side effect of urine retention so preventing you from bedwetting but that in itself is quite a dangerous drug given all its side effects and is really only used when all else has failed. Again, it does not deal with the actual problem, just masks it.
To the reckless person who suggested Lithium --- that is misinformation. It is not indicated. here. Lithium is also pretty dangerous to take without CLOSE supervision.
Dr. This no be Oversabi, You make plenty sense. Chop knuckle!
DeleteOne more thing, there is only so much a specialist can do for you in this situation except to exclude sinister causes and show/prescibe relevant options. You need to take ownership of this and be determined to motivate and push yourself through getting over this frustrating patch. Soon enough, you will forget you ever had this problem.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!!!
Ps. Lots of sensible suggestions on here. Well done SDK readers.
i dont trust Tb Joshua. He may be using fetish means to heal people. I advice people to pray for themselves before you end up adding another problem indirectly to your life
ReplyDeleteI have never commented here, but i have to now. Forget Spiritual ish.
ReplyDeleteI stopped bedwetting regularly in my second year...yeah regularly. In my third year it was like once in six months or thereabout. The last time was about five years ago. Forget all the talk about reducing your water intake, drink water as your body needs. The most important thing you need to do is to bring some discipline into the way you sleep. Learn to take short naps..especially during the day. That way you do not oversleep in the night. If you play a lot...reduce it. Most times our dreams are related to what we did during the day, ensure your activities during the day are things that ensure the complete use of your brains. That way you train your brain to wake u up when ever you feel like urinating. Another important thing is that you sleep in a room that has a toilet inside, beside, or near to it. That way, your body do not feel tired or lazy to stand up anytime you feel like urinating (you will observe that most times you are half awake when you bed wet ). Ensure you urinate before going to bed, anytime your eyes are open while on bed, stand up, go to the toilet. Train your body like that...bring some discipline into how you sleep, and trust me swerie, you will be fine. Forgive my typos....
Hi stella God bless you richly for airing this topic here.I can relate to this,when I say that I really mean that.And to all of you saying she shudnt eat or drink wen its past 6pm, trust me that has lil or no effect on the bedwetting issue.this is a spiritual warfare,and it is to be fought by you and only you,no babalawo no pastor no scoan e.t.c. You're gonna intercede for yourself and by urself in agressive and fervent prayers,and trust me u won't even know wen God has made you whole,I am a 23 year old girl and I stopped bedwettn in my 100lvl in the university,thanks to my mum who always stood by me and never got tired of interceding on my behalf.Dear poster have a one on one chat with God, seek his forgivness for strayn in ur quest for answers and miracles,sow seeds of faith.and watch God give you a smile(healing).I wish u the best.stella post my comment biko,this is my 1st post ever on this blog+keep up the good work God bless you richly. POSH
ReplyDeleteDear it is well.you have gone to so many places,medically.spiritually or other wise.I don't know how deep you are with the word of God,this is one of those times you have to begin to eat,drink I mean being an addict with the word.it is written God have given you power over unclean spirit.pray in the spirit all the time.the power is in you.cast it out of your body.it's a gradual process don't be discourage.pray in other tongues every time and declear your healing.mark 11v23,24.I pray the holy spirit give you guidiance show you scriptures to medidate on.sdk commentors let us all present her case to God.YOU ARE HEAL IJN AMEN.
ReplyDeleteMy dear I used to have the same problem. I shit my self all nyt went to all hospitals I could think of bt no help with time it just stopped.
ReplyDeleteLook at them going on about spiritual smh why wont Africa remain backwards. Big ups to dr blogger jare.
ReplyDeleteJust Wear Diaper Whenever You Are Sitting People.... #Simple....
ReplyDeleteU r very stupid
DeleteStop advising people to go to synagogue......TB Joshua is not to be trusted
ReplyDeleteAww, my darling, I sure know how you feel. Didn't stop bedwetting till after graduating from university. It sure is d most depressing and embarassing thing ever. I sure tried it all, medically and spiritually. All I can say is when it stopped i just knew it was God cos I never stopped crying to him.
ReplyDeleteMy advice to u will be to reduce ur fluid intake, and no fluid whatsoever after 6pm, seek medical help (incase its a bladder prob) and most importantly continue to cry to God to take the shame away (incase its a spiritual attack cos na naija we dey) don't get tired of deliverance gatherings( I recommend mfm) and personal fasting and prayers(with a pure heart). Believe me u will look back and just realise its no more cos that's exactly my story
Dnt worry everything will be just fine, pray, drink little Water at Night and always remember to urinate before going to sleep, try as much as u can to wake up every 2hours to re urinate. God Will Solve It.
ReplyDeleteThank u everyone,I am grateful and happy for all the comments I read trust mi I have done everything aside from going to the moutain that is my next step.then someone said something about stopping fornication,I was told a long time ago to stop it. I ll retry everything I have read here and I ll come testify God bless everyone had to talk to someone aside my mum before she dies of heartbreak.thank u again
ReplyDeleteWhen I mean tried everything,I mean everything but d one that baffled mi the most was when it happend in the afternoon during a 30mins sleep trust mi am not a deep sleeper it was a nap and it happend.tears didnt finish from my eyes but when I have my testimony I ll come out open becos I need u guys to know the depth and wat God has done for mi I have faith that he has done it.stella thank u very much u ll never be put to shame in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteTry doing kegel exercise , it will work 4 u aided with prayers u shld feel better,ask d doctor or go on d internet 2 know how 2 practice kegel ..
Deletemy dear u need seriouse pray
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is that it is all in the mind. Meditate and master your mind so you control it and it stops controlling you.
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GOAT. Are you the devil? Your kids will bedwet till old age idiot. Why r ppl so wicked?
ReplyDeletePlease go for deliverance @ MFM prayer city or visit any MFM branch, i can assure you after the deliverance the arrow will go back to the sender. We have heard of such cases before.
ReplyDeleterev father uwaifo of holy rosary catholic church said it is the spirit of iresponsibity syndrome....rebuke this spirit always
ReplyDeleteRead Isaiah 60, there is nothing God can't do. Get None of these diseases by Pastor Chris oyakhilhome. Satan has no hold on you,if only u know. Knowledge is power! All u need is d word. Who d Son of man set free is free indeed! Make this ur personal revelation.
ReplyDeleteits really a sad one. my dear my friend dis has happen to me as well..av been bedwetting for more 25yrs. my mum always feel sad and wake up in d middle of the night to pray for me.. my fiancee too has been so supporting..i will advise u to keep praying, do alot of exercise by not running to the restroom often n av faith in God. mine av stop..try and do dis it will stop. i would av love to give u my mail or contact so dat we can talk beta.
ReplyDeleteGet her charcoal, light it with fire and let her pee on that fire before go to bed every day, do it continuously for 3 to 4 days i guarantee you it will stop.
ReplyDeleteEvil report
ReplyDeleteThank you my sister/brother
ReplyDeletePlease! There is more to this life then what is physical. Try the science and try God almighty. Never visit a native doctor again please before you sink to where you can't come out from. Let not your heart be troubled! Jesus loves you!
ReplyDeleteI am not really sure but I was a late bed wetter till abt 13 and that was a huge deal for me. I think mine came from psychological issues. Parents always fighting, fear, being abused physically and emotional. My bro as well though I think he was just a heavy sleeper and he liked rough play, till abt 18. This is why for me, I never advise beating, for me it made it worse as I think it was anxiety and I could fear. Speak to your children, love and help them. For some it might be indiscipline, you have to help yourself. I thank God we managed it and I know this will pass for you too, but now that you are mature you need to help yourself
ReplyDeleteMy 12yr old son pisses. His father pissed till he was16yrs. Do u think it is hereditary?
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I feel really sad. I know your pain as I had a younger sist with same problem. I took her to a herbal doctor ( I did not say babalayo SKD people oo I said herbal doc) he knows the herbs for it (that is if you believe that all meds come from plants) and it stop after 3 to 4 weeks and now my sist is married with kids it never happened again. will be more than happy to give you this contact if you want it.
ReplyDeleteHow do I contact u
Deletema exact thot,used to hv a rommie dt does dt too,n i did it too for a while,nuh Godz taken charge.Amen!d lady said she went to d hospital n told me d medical name for d syndrome!God wld locate u n help u ijn
ReplyDeleteWoow our generation now feel dey have answers to every problem..We are soo wise we have removed spirituality from everything.My dear der is nutin impossible for God..Christ paid the price to takeaway your shame and infermities.Humble yourself and go before the one who sees ur pain.He will be moved with compassiona and heal u.Also take d advise about fornication.When u are trully delivered the enermy might come back if you open the door tru sin.So if u have decided to seek God's help u must give Him your life.You are still precious and ur problem is not worse dan anybody's.You are luved.
ReplyDeleteI'm going tru dis shame too,tho I will be 20 dis yr,its embarassing,tru out my stay in d campus,v bin lucky,i neva messed up once,its even asif my bladder is weak,cus I can hold my pee in d daytime sef,i pray God of Mercy will v Mercy upon my life........its so sad
ReplyDeleteHOW TO STOP BED WETTING WITH THE HELP Of DR PETER
ReplyDeleteBed wetting also know as nocturnal enuresis and nighttime incontinence, is a condition when a person unintentionally urinate while sleeping.and it is now a problem to most adult who are suffering from Urinary tract infection
Lower level of the Anti diuretic hormone
Constipation
Diabetes
Epilepsy
and so many other causes.there is a herbal medication to stop bed wetting problem. no matter the condition of the victim. contact Dr PETER at peterherpescurehome@gmail.com to get more information on how to get cured.
Am writing a project on this topic but all the stories here could not solve the problem of bed wetting in adult, I really need to hear from one who have this problem and how it was cured
ReplyDeleteAm writing a project on this topic but all the stories here could not solve the problem of bed wetting in adult, I really need to hear from one who have this problem and how it was cured
ReplyDeleteBed wetting is spiritual thing and solution can only be got when one goes through deliverance in deliverance church.
ReplyDeleteI do not know which country you come from,but I will give you some of the prophet names and country,you will go and get full details on you tube as you even watch similar cases being delivered.
one SCOAN Nigeria.Prophet TB Joshua,prophet edd Branson Jesus generation ministries,Zimbabwe,welcoming prophet easily reachable for help.Charis missionary church south Africa this is church of high Grace by Apostle Jerry.B. Makananisa,tembisa,this man of God is like Dad
make arrangement to see him even on one one is very possible and am very sure
you will be sorted out,get their contacts on net.no money or thing is required only your faith.
To resolve long term problems may require sacrifice,so do that and you shall sure see God at hand.
Be blessed!!
this is spiritual not medical or emotional.
ReplyDeletefor some of you who are saying this not spiritual, let me ask you.
1. y do you always see you're self in a dream urinating before you wake up and finds out that you have wet the bed physically.
PLEASE this is a demon spirit at work.
Now to tell you it is spiritual drink lots of water late in the night. to tell you what I'm saying is a practical solution.
SOLUTION.
1, if ur above 20 and you have this problem
now listing.
A. give ur life to Christ
B. consciously pray against that demon spirit that always comes to ur dream to make u urinate on bed.
C. read five chapter every day of ur bible especially the new testament.
God bless you and thank God for ur healing for life.