I have known this girl for about 6 years and i know we have an attraction and a deep connection. the first 3 years of knowing each other i was in a relationship but the last 3 years i have been single and pursuing her.
we go on dates and hang out and we have a fantastic time you could tell she is always pleased , but every time i try to initiate a relationship she runs scared.now i have just heard she has just got into a relationship(confirmed)....
i feel sad but not distraught , i know life goes on but for me I'm sure she probably feels OK dating someone else where she feels less intensity,not saying she doesn't love him......just curious how some girls feel so much love for a guy and feels scared to date them and would rather date someone else who they have less intense feelings for.....
Stella am not being BIG HEADED but you know when you have mutual deep feelings with someone and it is not one sided.please Stella of life its eating me up please help a brother.
Why do girls walk pass contentment looking for roses?
*Ol boy do ''north west'' ya time,you are not her speck.move on already abeggy!
What most guys don't understand is a. Girl might really like you bt doesn't want to date you. Sometimes we jst want to be friends bt you guys always think she wants the D
ReplyDeleteGbam!! Pleassssseeeee tell dem!! We don't always want the 'D'! Its sometimes Jst nice to know you have a nice friend in ur corner who cares about you. This babe has probably friend-zoned u a long time ago. It feels a lot lyk "mutual attraction" trust me. For ur sake and hers, move on.
DeleteGuy na ur face cause am,na ur ugliness she de run for
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ReplyDeleteYou srsly can't tell or know how she feels so don't what you are not sure of say, from what am seeing, it's Chemistry from your side and Physics from hers. So go and look for your own Atom.
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DeleteLmao girls r confused, we want u but we don't also loool
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You srsly can't tell or know how she feels so don't assume what you are not sure of say, from what am seeing, it's Chemistry from your side and Physics from hers. So go and look for your own Atom.
DeleteI know that's right @ Barbz! That's how one ex saw me on FB and sent me an inbox.He went on and on about how its OK if I don't accept his request as he wouldn't want to ruin my marraige.That he "knows" how I feel about him and accepting him on FB might start up temptations.Infact he's coming to the US in few months and it's ok if I don't see him cos he's "Sure" I wouldn't be able to resist him and he wouldn't want to disrespect my marriage.I literarily LOL at the way he's so SURE when really he's one of those let me say yes so I wuld hv BF kinda guy.Lil does home-boy know dt his sex wasn't dt great,so bad I cn hardly remember.And no,he's not "d one dt got away" eventho he assumed dt position.Above all,I don't hv an ex I cnt resist cos I neva knew love n passion bfr I met my boo.So mr blog visitor,all dos ur chemistry might be in ur own head ooo!
Deleteshe dumped u coz u're not man enough..period...
ReplyDeleteOmg! You're the sperm that won the race?! How dense can u be?!
DeleteLife goes on Bro..
ReplyDeleteLucas my hottie...S to Da K I love you mehn. Back to the matter life truely goes on bro.
Delete***EDO BABE***
She don't. Like you! Period!!! She proly sees you like her brother sef!
ReplyDeleteI hate ur type, u are extra ordinary compound coward. V met ur type before, anyway this is the sixth year also n still counting by God' s grace, boys not men who can't really state their mission until its late. My dear go kiss a ratle snake
ReplyDeleteCheck yourself brother, you probably have bad attitude she can't put up with.
ReplyDeleteYou can like to hype yourself sha.
ReplyDeleteWho says she loves you?
Stay there, dey deceive yourself.
Stella said it all...Oga, move on.
ReplyDeleteMr Man, wen u meet ladies like dt, respect dem n respect der wishes...they sure knw wat dey want.
ReplyDeleteWas in dis situation before, ad dis guy that I ad a magical connection wt...he practically gives me the butterfly feelin...I dream abt him, think abt him almost all d time....but weneva I av to think wt my head, I knw he is nt good for me. I cld be in a relationship wt him for ever but I can never marry him or live wt him. Such guys r good for dates or seein once in a while..they sure take d stress off u, knw wat to say everytime n which button to press. Tho one must be very cautious wt dem.
Despite al dat, dis guy has a very diff background frm me, as a very diff view abt life n lifestyles. We av diff ideas on career, investment, wat to spend money on, family n almost everything under d sun...in other words...apart frm havin that mills n boon kinda feelin abt each oder, we do not agree n most things. Marriage is more than feelin, its about compatibility in every area.Tho we cld do anything for each oda bt I dint want him to change becos of me cos I knw dt wl only b temporary. Even my bf knws dis n so dint try to severe my friendship wt d guy. Allows me see him once in a while...lets me talk to him...and always says 'u guys love each oda bt ur marriage myt nt work'. But sometimes last yr I stopped seein or talkn to him as a sign of respect for my bf...tho I stil miss him bt I knw wats good for me.
Guys this is an emotional issue for this brother, kindly treat as such. All the harsh words and bashing are highly uncalled for plz; show some empathy.Thanks.
ReplyDeleteLucas ugo plssssss na!
ReplyDeleteHey! She is just not that into you period. That a girl smiles at you or bears ur silky dates doesn't mean she wants to date you. Bros ur not a catch.
ReplyDeletewhy r ladies on here hypocrites! I rembr y'all insulting the day light out of a giy dat was leading his feiend on without the intention of dating het, now that d dude is on d receiving side, y'all e saying he wasn't bold! the girl friend-zoned him nd its not his fault! u pple shld take several seata abeg
ReplyDeletewhy r ladies on here hypocrites! I rembr y'all insulting the day light out of a giy dat was leading his feiend on without the intention of dating het, now that d dude is on d receiving side, y'all e saying he wasn't bold! the girl friend-zoned him nd its not his fault! u pple shld take several seata abeg
ReplyDeletetruth is there something about you shes not crazy about.
ReplyDeletethere was this guy who was crazy bout me,liked me and everything but his form was turning me off..he was always slouching and had no muscle mass. i ddnt find em attractive in d least despite the fact he had a good job and was well matured
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ReplyDeleteGoogle the word "friend zone'. That is where she had long put u. In other words, u have been cursed. Remain there or move on!
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Kilagbe kileju?which one be curse on dis issue na?
DeleteHahahahaha. The girl does NOT SEND YOU. She was hanging out with you and having fun with your money, when she had nothing better to do or no one else to chill with. Trust me, if she likes you she will be dating you. We girls don't play. Keep wasting ur time you hear? I'm sure there's one chic that has been dying for you but you treat her like shit because you're in love this someone else(who doesn't give a flying fuck about you). Stay there till six years becomes ten years.
ReplyDeleteVALERIE.
Dude you was in the friend zone. A dangerous zone for men who wish to go further but has no liver or means to do so.
ReplyDeleteIts either she loves you not or she feels you can't afford to take care of her ( which means you are better off without a lady who sees you as a meal ticket)
Not to worry, your own will come inugo
she is not into you 100%.
ReplyDeleteThen again, some people fail to value what they have till they loose it.
Move on bro! One man's poison is another man's favourite meat.
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DeleteWhat's all the name calling about? Why can't we all just get along and eat pie? Let peace reign Ladies! Smile y'all;its the next best thing to do with your lips.
DeleteOgbeni it's not by force to love.
ReplyDeleteDude, my bro.. She had long ZONED you!
ReplyDeleteGuy ... Moaning and groaning about the cards we have been dealt in life is only human nature. After all, we sometimes look around and see others with seemingly much better hands than ours. Rather than take the cards we have and then play them for all they ’re worth, we sometimes fold, figuring that the good life is just not in the cards for us. It may surprise you that the most successful people on earth felt exactly that same way at one time or another. But these champions didn’t fold their hands, not at all. As a matter of fact, they took the cards life had dealt them and then aggressively played them with every ounce of energy and electrically charged enthusiasm they could generate. By giving life their very best shot and holding absolutely nothing back, they were able to determine their own fates — and so should you. i dont believe in relationships but sincere you do, it will do you no good to continue brooding on a girl that has already move on with her life with D SOLID guy... is that not all what they want D SOLID guy
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