GirlFriend Of Blogvisitor Responds To His Mail..........OMG!

A Lady whose identity i have decided to shield because of her status responded to a blog visitor mail and tackled all the points he raised....talk about spitfire!
She is responding to this story titled she feeds me clothes me and cheats on me and i have lost all self respect..should i stay or move on?

Hi stella, I am responding to the post sent by one of your readers because I am sure he is referring to me.

• Yes true we met in the university before I travelled out to complete my studies. We met again in 2011 when I returned and we started dating.
  We had our introduction early this year as he said, and he has been jobless since I met him in 2011.  Although when we met, he told me he was working somewhere which I believe it was a lie because few into the relationship he gave me this bulls hit story of getting into trouble at work, that he was been suspended. Since then he has not had anything doing.
  He said I spoke with my dad in order to set him up with a business. Well in actual fact we lied to my dad about everything concerning his work. We live in the same city but not together. Pls stella tell me how can I move in with someone that can't even take of himself?  The house he is living in the rent will be due in few months. How is he gonna go about it. Or am I the one that will pay for that as well.?
  He said after the intro I changed, yes I did change Stella because of the following
• 1) Since he told me he had no more money in running his business. This is about 4 to 5 months ago. We both agreed he should let out part of the business in order for him to raise fund for the other part. Because I can't afford to give him money cos am into business as well. When will the well not dry if we continue like this.
  2)Stella up until now my beloved has not done anything about letting. Rather he prefers to stay at home. Even if u let out the whole of the business while sleeping at home u still get money. But na lie oo, my man na do anything. For the past five months na so so sleep sleep. Stella, but what seems to amaze me is that, this man is not lazy oo. Because. He helps out a lot with my business, which is a heavy duty work. So I don't understand what his problem is. So am upset because he is not acting on our discussion
  3) He believes he is always right. That he is good. Which truthfully stella i get angry over.He said I don't respect him, that is not true . He always feel this way whenever I try to have a heart to heart talk with him, which surprisingly I still did this morning before I read this his post.

• I am not happy in the relationship because I don't want to marry a man I will be feeding and clothing. I will support u in every aspect. But me being the one feeding and clothing u. I didn't bargain that with my God when I asked for a husband.
  He said I cheated on him. Well true he can say that because I was thinking of leaving him because he was getting me depressed and too much lies. I came back to him because I found out I was pregnant for which I had to abort.
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• South African girlfriend want to get him a job. Stella, a man that refuses to search for in his home county pls tell me what kind of work will he be willing do in SA. Safe Journey. No be malasia again na SA now. Oga ju.
  Pls advice him to quit sharp sharp. Heartbreak is not forever.
  
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  Ha and I forgot to add, I have told him to bring his Cv several times. Na so so story he go dey tell me. Am even beginning to think he didn't finish school sef.''