Bianka and Late Mcloph's Late mum
My name is Bianka Johnson, I reside in the United States of America. I am from Nigeria, a healthcare practitioner, actors-manager and a goodwill citizen. Flavour Nabania didn't make a tribute song "Iwe", he made a mockery of his friend's death the late McLoph. Below is my story.
Tragedy brought us together......... That's how I came to know Mrs. Nwaozor, affectionately known to me as "Mama." Back in November 2011, someone posted a tribute video, "Iwe", by Flavor, on Facebook. On that day I distinctly remember viewing the video on YouTube and sobbing for over an hour after watching this video that paid homage to two siblings who so suddenly lost their lives. I was simply paralyzed thinking about the magnitude of grief one particular mother would have to endure. You see, Mama was the mother who lost those two adult children on the same day, specifically, a son, the erstwhile entertainer, MC Loph, and a daughter, Chinwe. All I could think to myself is that life as we know it is so unfair. My spirit was disturbed and something, I don't know what it was, moved within me and I set out to find this woman. It became my duty....my obligation, to find her, to hug her and give her some semblance of hope and maybe a little peace, if she would allow me to.So, I began to search for Mama. The first thing I did was to call Flavor's promoter, Igwe, who I knew was based in Houston, Texas. I asked to speak with Flavor and he informed me that Flavor had gone to the mall, but he would make sure Flavor would call me immediately he got back. At the time, Flavor was in the United States promoting the album he had recently released. The next day Igwe called me and put Flavor on the phone. I briefly introduced myself and went straight to thank him for showing love through his tribute song to a dear friend who had lost his life. Shortly after that, I expressed to him how his video moved me to tears and how I felt compelled to find Loph's mother. Flavor thanked me as well and gave me a telephone number to MC Loph's close friend in Lagos who went by the name Obi Mgbakor. There was absolutely no doubt in my mind that Flavor was in contact with Mama on a weekly, or at least, a monthly basis seeing as the late MC Loph and Flavor were childhood friends that grew up together. Without hesitation, I immediately called Obi Mgbakor in Lagos and introduced myself to him and requested Mama's contact information. Obi Mgbakor was guarded at first and was reluctant to give me Mama's number. He asked for my Facebook name so he could check out my profile. Without giving it a second thought, I provided it to him and his countenance changed after he was able to verify who I was and he even requested my friendship on Facebook. Obi Mgbakor gave me Mama's information and I contacted her the next day and introduced myself. Mama and I spent almost an hour on the phone the first time we spoke and she narrated so much to me. Mama was heartbroken and she said that she was actually shocked Flavor was the one that made it possible for us to start communicating. Mama went further to express her disappointment over Flavor's nonchalant attitude since the death of her son, MC Loph and her daughter Chinwe. "Flavor has not picked up the phone to call me since Obiajulu passed away, yet he made a hit tribute song on his behalf. May God be the judge," Mama said.Now, it must be noted that MC Loph died in a ghastly motor accident on September 14, 2011, while traveling on the Benin/Ore expressway to visit Mama with his pregnant fiancé Nkiru, who survived the ordeal. The phone conversation I had with Mama was in November 2011, two months after MC Loph's death and she said Flavor hadn't called? Unbelievable!Immediately I got off the phone with Mama I called Obi Mgbakor to verify what she told me. The whole thing was strange to me and I couldn't reconcile the feelings and emotions Flavor expressed in his tribute video with the nonchalant attitude he had towards his best friend's mother. Obi Mgbakor indeed confirmed that Flavor refused to call or visit mama after McLoph's death.Right now, I want to set the record straight. Since the death of Mama's son, MC Loph, Flavor Nabania never called nor visited Mama and he never sent a dime to her for her upkeep. Flavor hasn't made any effort to reach out to Nkiru or MC Loph's infant son. Mama died from congestive heart failure exacerbated by heartbreak. But for the deaths of her two adult childrenat the same time, which took an enormous toll on her health, it is my belief that Mama would have lived longer. Since her death, I have read so many untrue stories including a statement made by MC Loph's former manager, Emeka Morgan. Once again, let me set the record straight: Mr. Morgan was never responsible for Mama's upkeep. He claimed that his record label was sending Mama thirty thousand naira a month. Mama never received thirty thousand Naira monthly from the record label and Mr Morgan never adopted MC Loph's son nor was he responsible for the infant's welfare as speculated by some brainless human beings. Mr. Morgan abandoned Mama as soon as the media attention surrounding her son's death died off. Mr. Morgan till date has yet to call Nkiru, MC Loph's fiancé, to say congratulations on the birth of Loph's son.It is my honest belief that God brought me close to Mama after her son's death for reasons beyond my comprehension. I took care of Mama until she died to the best of my ability. Today, I am blessed to have an extra angel watching over me. She lost two children at the same time who can never be replaced but before she died, Mama gained a grandson, a beautiful daughter in-law in Nkiru, and a daughter in me. Mama is gone, reunited with her children and I know she is at peace now. Mama will be buried on November 12, 2013. May her very gentle soul rest in peace.
Bianka Johnson is the Manager/CEO BJ MOVIE PRODUCTION & ENTER-10-MENT INC.
For all inquiries please contact:
bianka.johnson@facebook.com
*Bianka please take it easy,you dont know their story as well.hopefully they will tell it.
flavor y? Na d kinda burial dey'd giv 2 dis woman 1 wud begin 2 wonda hw rich she was on earth
ReplyDeleteSister Bianca why wait till Mama died? U should have said earlier. I believe she's just seeking notice
DeleteDear Bianca without any doubt u are an attention seeker. Who asked u for story? I hope u read this. You really are an idiot. were you forced to take care of her? Why not do it for God!!!! Why come out now after mama have died? Hope u are taking care of ur own mother and sibs miss goody two shoes. Mtscheewwwww. Slandering flavour won't take u too heaven.
DeleteAm i d fost 2 comment??? Ko easy rara, running 2 3rd mainland bridge 2 swim
ReplyDeleteI hope u drown,so u don't come bak here with ur 'fost to comment'
DeleteSometimes things just are not the way they look.
ReplyDeleteNow that Mama is dead, what exactly does she want?, same cheap publicity. She shld quit advertising herself, she wld ve done this when the woman was alive. She is not better than flavour in any way cos i dnt knw wat exactly she is trying to gain. Trying to take advantage of d situation and sell her dead careeer.
DeleteBiko ezewanyi borrow me ur chair make i take do siddon look inugo?
ReplyDelete#chewingchewingstick#
Haney
Hmmmmmmmm. Foul yansh don open.
ReplyDeleteI will not say much because them go curse me well well. It's too early and I went to church yesterday. But my experience with people and also the fact that people grew up in my house, my parents took care of other people's children ; tons of them. No one has called to ask how my parents are doing and how things are. But thank God we the children are alive and doing very well if not na sand we go for dey chop. What am I saying? mc loph and flavour were friends not brothers. Therefore, Bianca rapu okwu. If flavour didn't call or care, that's him, it's his time, money and conscience. Everybody go die one day. Let it be between him and his Chi. You've done your part.
ReplyDeleteI have aunties and mothers of friends who complain I don't call them. Their kids don't call my mum. Or the one that complains I don't send airtime. That ones daughter stingy pass tortoise nyash. Or the one that complains I'm always buying abada for my mum and I don't buy for her. Na my mama o.
That's why it's good to have your own child. You see people struggling to give birth by all means. Na only your pikin no go leave you.
It's unfair but not that serious. God bless you all.
Julit, i feel u, uve said it all, dnt expect much from sm1 nt ur child. same thing happened to my popsy, trained all his sib and most of deir children, including his cousins children, though we his children didnt lack, (tnx to my mums hardwork and persistent nature,) buh until his death not one of dem came askn hw u doing and all, let alone askn after us his children, buh God was and is still very faithful.may her soul rest in d bossom of the lord amen
DeleteJulit ur head de der! Correct talk! e high five!!!
DeleteVery very true. Alot of sense made..."it is unfair but not that serious".
DeleteJulit,did you bother reading that story constructively?no,she's not saying he has an obligation toward Mama.
DeleteShe's saying that all the claims flavour made are merely make believe,they are not true.if this story is true,Flavour should get ready.my momma taught me not to lie against orphans,widows,pastors,God fights for them.
OprahRuthie
Nne... U talk am finish.... Make God give everybody im own child o...Onye na nke ya.
DeleteUltimately God is the final God...
Ur right! I must ve my own child very soon by Gods powerful grace. Bc he said am fruitful. Nothing like ur own child
DeleteJulit, lol, after promising not to say much you still said much. You made a lot of sense. I hardly call anyone except my own mum, and can spend up to 70mins on the phone with her. Others get an average of 2mins, including dad and siblings. As for Bianka's accusations on Flavours false claims, we're waiting to hear from him.
DeleteU are so empty fool,go hide ur face in shame.just pray a thing like that do not be fall u
DeleteChop kiss Julit. Need I say more?
Delete@memphis you want to bring my leg out this morin time eh.
Delete@oprahruthie did u hear flavour say he took care of obiajulu's mum? Until he says so, Bianka is just talking and trying to get noticed at the expense of this poor woman, God bless her soul. Why is Bianka now telling us how she helped or was responsible for mama? She should gaan play biko. If you do good do it and keep it moving. There are more serious issues than this biko. This one is not that serious abeg.
Julit pls just shutup..ur secund comment wasn't needed..u shud ve ended it @ d first comment..
Delete#smiles. Anony, u r blezzzz +++++
DeleteKai! Julit said it all abeg.
DeleteChop knuckle Julit!
You nailed it squarely- "its unfair, but not that serious".
Julit, I love you. You spoke my mind ! You are intelligent, very.
DeleteSo sad, tears in my eyes. May God grant you eternal rest Mama.
ReplyDeleteThis stupid Bianca always seeks relevance, meanwhile her character stinks i know two guys that dated her and they took off after a very short time it's so sad that a fine lady like this, just enjoys talking too much and with a very bad character, always seeking notice on Facebook and social medias, that was how she was insulting Big Lawyer on Facebook, meanwhile the man actually slept with her
ReplyDeleteAnd so..is that the reason why we are here..You haven't sleep with anyone in ur life before...ur character is 100percent good abi...mstewwww
DeleteOmg! Wat have u said ? Ur comment is so senseless cos even if u knw 20 guys she has dated , my dear wat has dat got to do wit d issue on ground? Grow up pls.
DeleteAnon 8:13 in ur mind u have ran ur gutters nd sed sumfin relevant??? Idiot
DeleteAnd Bianka who made you the Judge here go and get married and have kids and stop coming up with stories that you aren't sure of shameless old hag
ReplyDeleteWow!
ReplyDeleteHearbreak is a cold dish served with side orders of despair and in this case, abandonment.
May mama's soul rest in peace.
Let me ask and you the Bianka what did you give to the lady did you help her so much in anyway that she died...fear God..remember Flavour is a very busy person, people expect Celebs to be available always forgetting how busy they can be from an insider I heard same Flavour was sending money to Mama don't know how true
ReplyDeleteSpeechless ndd heartbroken
ReplyDeleteAm really touched wif dis story!
This lady wants Flavour but Flavour said he doesn't like her that is her pain
ReplyDeleteStella come close n chop kiss!
ReplyDeleteBianca u don't no d full story yet until u confront flavour.
Every1 az his or her own demons, na cloth de cover person secret ooo.
So sad.
It is well.....
ReplyDeleteI do not want to say much cos i believe everyone has a reason for their actions. But one thing I can categorically say to u Bianca is that, not everyone has a good heart. Some people are termed 'surface friends'. When the going is good, they are all over you, when things become bad, the move!
Bless your heart for the love you showed mama before she died.
At the end of the day, God sees all, HE knows all...at the appointed day, HE will judge all.
Stella please remove my personal number there. thanks
ReplyDeletethis story is so sad,i wept bitterly when i heard abt d death of her children nd how she had been suffering. It's so heart breaking. May her soul rest in peace :'(
ReplyDeleteWhats Bianca's iss? Whats her concern? Why does it pain her so much? Onye ka anyi ga-aju? Ppl think differently, and most certainly act differently. Just lik Julit rightly pointed out, they'r frnds and not siblings. Inasmuch as Flavour sounded lik he really did care, mayb it was nt extended to Mc's family. Let it rest abeg, so d'dead can rest. Ʊ can't force one to b generous. Sey make we no buy im songs again bc he's a wicked pesin, abi? Do not judge him leave it for him and his God, I nugo? Make we hear word kwanu.
ReplyDeleteJulit, i beg to disagree with you.
ReplyDeleteSometimes the children you take care of would be the ones to take care of you after.
Your own children would even become strangers to you.
I'm saying this 'cause i'v seen a situation like this before.
For Mama to have complained, it means they were more than friends.
If this is true, Flavour, ori e o pe rara.
His manager, well.. You'd get paid in your own coin.
I am shocked at Flavour's attitude (if this lady is to be believed) but what's the point of this writeup? You want praises for taking care of the woman or you want to hype your entertainment outfit. Either way, it is in bad taste and you are absolutely no different from Flavour who according to you made a hit song out of the situation.
ReplyDeleteGoing on and on like it is a contest of na me love mama pass, who dey follow you drag? Nkiru who is more entitled to complain is not even uttering a word, what's your own? Can't people be selfless without begging for recognition? You did a lot for the woman, God bless you but keep shut.
Don't mind the idiot that is how she seeks attention always on Facebook, always good at insulting people always I know her very well she is as fake as anything
DeleteMy thoughts exactly! You have said it all. Madam Bianka, God bless you but please keep shut!
DeleteLike julit said, it's only your own child that will never forget you. Don't blame flavor too much that is how life is. Every man for himself and God for everybody. But please flavor it is very wrong, try and improve your perception of life.
ReplyDeleteVisit koolblend.blogspot.com for true life stories you can't afford to miss!
God knows best,but I think flavour could have given half of the money he made from that tribute song to loph's family,and loph's manager is an idiot let me stop here.
ReplyDeleteThere are two sides to a story. I will wait for the other side*sips garri with straw*
ReplyDeleteI agree with Julit on this one. Only ur child can take very good care of u, flavor, emeka et al are just "friends" with mcloph not sons to mama. I guess they both have their own mothers to take care of. Sometimes, expecting sooooooo much from humans, will end up in heartbreak. Live life as it comes, trust in God alone!
SLK
Steraaaa abeg you never see useless children before.Even your children could end up disappointing and totally neglecting you ( God forbid oo) but it happens.No man is an island we all need help and love not just from family.If this post is genuine then Flavour is wrong .After listening to tht tribute I felt that naturally some of the monies realized from it wld be given to the woman. If He didnt do tht then the song was a mere hit for him and the words mere lyrics.so sad.
DeleteGod knows best,I thought flavour could have given half of the proceed he made from that tribute song to loph's family and loph's manager is an idiot,let me stop Herr.
ReplyDeleteAttention seeking whore, Miss perfect Bianka that was one of the reasons Mike left you,you talk too much , no carriage
ReplyDeleteJulit u talk weller
ReplyDeletePlease what's Bianka's own? Why the noise making? What is her angle? What is she getting out of this publicity?
ReplyDeleteif what bianka said is TRUE then am so disappointed in Flavor, meanwhile the tribute he sang for Md Loph must hve fetched money and should have been given for the son and the mother' s upkeep si what happened to the money. if flavor is too busy to reach out ti her he can pay people to do so. wicked world we are in.
ReplyDeleteSure this lady no photoshop dis pix as it looks like mama had dis dress n position in her last pix. Just asking
ReplyDeleteFlavour and Loph are good friends and not family friends, they are from different states, Loph died and flavour did a heartbreaking tribute, listening to dat tearful song, yu will knw its from a broken heart, so how dare yu call it a mockery!!!
ReplyDeleteHe touched lives wit dat song, people who didn't even knw of Lophs existence knew of his departure, mothers, fathers, boys, girls cried wen dey listened to dat song
Flavout did his part! If he didn't contribute to the burial, we don't know and shouldn't conclude
BUh please u'll nid a stronger jazzed writeup to make his fans hate him or defame his character, Flavour is already blessed, and yu also 4 taking care of her
You should have published this story when mama was alive so all parties involved can clear the air. There are three sides to a story; your side, their side and the truth. I have this feeling we would never hear the truth. And what's it with doing good and announcing it?
ReplyDelete3 years ago I called my cousin, who went to the villa for a burial, to ask if her mom had arrived safely. I was shocked to here someone say, "you're speaking to the original tax collectors of Eastern Nigeria. Do not call this line again". I thought it was a prank, called back, and the same person said, "Look, this man! Don't try calling this number again or your cousin will come back to you with bullet holes!" Kidnappers! I went straight to the cops but they said I should "enter bus begin go East now now" because there was nothing they could do from Lagos. During the trying period I was in touch with her siblings, but couldn't reach her mom because she didn't pick any of my calls. Emotional trauma, I realized, and didn't call her again until my cousin was released. When her mom finally came to Lagos she rained abuses on me, saying the whole world had called her but I failed to do the same. That I was insensitive and wicked. HIAN! Me wey I argue tire with mopol for station, them even threaten to lock me up, I'm now insensitive? I tried to clear myself and explain to her but to no avail.
ReplyDeleteJust like SDK had implied, it's important we get stories from both sides before stones are being cast. I think Flavour must've called but mama's (RIP) trauma wouldn't let her receive most phone calls then.
Anon 10:09am don't say wat u don't know. Flavour & Loph are both frm Umunze in Anambra state. Thank me later.
ReplyDeleteYeah wikipedia mislead me...google is no longer my friend!
DeleteAnywys He kips reppin 042 all d time
Ode he reps 042 because he grew up dere..yes I knw him personally..
DeleteVery silly to pass judgement until you have heard from Flavour. There has to be another side to this story.
ReplyDeleteSecondly how does bringing this to the public help matters,besides the woman is already dead.
Thirdly, the Obi Mgbakor that gave her the number, did he also not talk to the old woman?
If you dey do good continue, if you dey do bad continue, i can assure you that there is reward for every action.
ReplyDeleteNkemu akolam,RIP Mama loph
ReplyDeleteIn short this is the best thing to say.
Deleterubbish talk. So busy that he could not call the woman once and send one of his hangers on with a cheque of 50k at the end of every month to visit the woman?that 50k no reach the alcohol wey de dey drink one night for Festac abi na the money wey dem dey give the girl wey dem carry for the weekend.
ReplyDeleteYet i believe that this story is not complete until we hear from Flavour.
And your point will be what, Bianca? Is this the first time anyone dies and the family left behind is abandoned by friends and family? If you have a personal beef with Flavour, i think you should both sort yourselves out instead of riding on this!!!!
ReplyDeleteAbeg make una all close mouth we dey say flavour no owe d woman.we are all humans and with hearts.dis was his bestir's mom.who lost her two kids same day,tragically.shebi no be mac look squat flavour for hi house.u all know dis is wrong. D world is wicked...so we should join it.and not even try to change it or at least educate others on how to be brotherly.dis is sad on all levels!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm if what bianka is sayin is true dear flavour u do well ooo, flavour ibu onye aka gum?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm if what bianka is sayin is true dear flavour u do well ooo, flavour ibu onye aka gum?
ReplyDeleteI dnt know what to say. I won't judge anyone, bianca is seeking ffor relevance and trying to defame flavor. I bet flavor ignored her advances. This is a family matter, it shldnt be brought out in the open.
ReplyDeleteStella i think its not every story people give to you that should be published. This lady obviously wants cheap pubilcity, and you just gave it to her. She should go get herself a job.
ReplyDeletewhat a heartbreaking story . may her soul rest in peace. am not to judge cos Flavor never claim that he is the backbone of Mama as she is called. May mama's soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteWait o! Flavour no get him own mother? If Bianka wants to do charity work that's fine & commendable but she can't force anyone else.
ReplyDeleteIts like saying all of us from Delta on this blog MUST contribute money and send to SDK's mum since we read her blog.
Flavour and loph are from the same village in Anambra.Umunze to be precise.Flavour,u didn't do well.nobody knows 2morrw,even if u dnt ask of MAMA,what of Loph junior?Fake friends everywhere
ReplyDeleteIf Flavour gave the woman money, they will say he used her son to do "ogwu ego" and is giving her money for appeasement.meanwhile, doing good is not compulsory.
ReplyDelete@julit.....u are just a cheap dog,geraway anu npama oshi radarada...........yinkus
ReplyDeleteJulit you are so on point. Took d words straight outer my mouth.
ReplyDeletePeople should learn how not to look on others for their well being cos not everybody thinks same way. Do what you want to do nd keep it to urself nd ur God and no need to look for who did or didnt do what
Pam Pam
Memphis hit it right on the head.
ReplyDeleteWhy would people just talk bad about good man. Emeka Morgan signed Mc Loph to help him, he died the man lost the money and he still renovated Mc loph's house sponsored the burial and paid for Nkiru's hospital bill is time for MC loph wife to come out and said the truth because the goodness of this man did to their family will not wiped out just like this. As for Bianca she is looking for name but she cannot get it by lying against an innocent man I believe the entire family of Mc loph owes Emeka Morgan a big apologies
ReplyDeleteChoiiiii pinchaunnn pinchaunnn gbagaunnnn
DeleteNigerians are always quick to judge i swear. Madam Americana Bianca! This ur story get as e be o! U wrote an open letter two years later! U kept quite 2011, 2012, and decided to talk 2013, so if u took care of Mama as u claim why re u telling us? Don't bring someone else down bcos u think u did good. What u did is betwn u and ur God. Don't rubbish flavours name in the process and u had to wait till Mama died! Who we go ask? Bianca mind ur business! if na me be flavour I no go even reply this cos na waste of time. Bianca onye oma Emeka! Anyi afu too gi ...
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,did u pple even find out if the Flavour takes care of his own mum?
ReplyDeleteU are talking about a friend's mum?hehehe!
Human beings are selfish by nature!and some are even too selfish to help their own parents or family talk more of...
thats how BOY EDISON ONYEKA AMAEFUNA died and his friends chuka, osy, touch, degaulle,etc abandoned his family
ReplyDeleteNne cool down...
ReplyDelete>>seeing as the late MC Loph and Flavor were childhood friends that grew up together.
Flavour and Loph were never child hood friends. Yes they are both from the same town, Umunze. Their paths never crossed until they met at a recording studio in Lagos. While working together on a collabo, they discovered they were Enugu boys from the same town.
As far as I know, they were not best of friends. RAW Nwanne can tell you better.
Your self promoting article serves the same purpose you've accused Flavour of doing. Seek to take advantage of this tragedy to promote your self. It would have been better you kept quiet rather than posting a picture where you posed with Mama.
Or rather since you had access to Flavour why didn't you ask him why he failed to contact mama as you alleged in your article. That would have been better than writing an article to slate him after mama's death.