My Boyfriend's Father Offered Me N30million To Leave His Son Alone!

When blog visitor sent in the first mail titled MY BOYFRIEND'S EX HAS DRAWN THE BATTLE LINE.....WHAT DO I DO? we taught it would end here but the ex paid her a visit and had her car damaged for daring to post the story on Stella's blog!

The story got messier and blog visitor has taken a stand and she thanks you all for the advice given to her on the first post.
Remember as you respond that the supposed ex is reading as well,maybe a word of advice would do her a world of good.

  
''A LOT has happened since my last mail 11 days ago. Two days later, my boyfriend proposed to me and I accepted. His mum was so happy, she invited me to have lunch with her last Saturday where she told me that as long as she's alive and kicking, no Jupiter will impede my union with her son. She even started asking me to give her suggestions on aso ebi and wedding favours...lol. Bless her heart!

That night,at about 9.45pm on my way back home, his crazy ex ambushed me as I was driving into my estate. She came out with four "Omo ghetto" looking obinrins, she ordered them to vandalize my car. They smashed my headlights, broke off my side view mirrors....I drive a Toyota Corolla 2010.

She was just standing there laughing like a mad woman drinking from a Hennessy bottle and smoking one thing that looks like a brownish cigarette but was smelling like igbo/snuff.

She kept on shouting "You bitch! You think you can pour my shit out on Stella's blog, abi??
 You bitch! You won't have him!! His dick is mine!

Then she said, "My mother is half Senegalese and half Kwara. Don't make me ask her for help."

I was like WTF? Am I supposed to be scared by that?
Please help ask your readers, what that means?


I told my fiancee what happened, he was very, very mad. I think he confronted her because on Wednesday, I got an alert of N300,000 in my account from her. I was happy O! At least I had some money to fix my car.

I got a call from his dad asking me to see him. When I got there, he said that I can't marry his son for three reasons:

1. I'm Igbo not Yoruba.

2. I don't have pedigree therefore...

3. I will taint his dynasty.

4. His son's union with the ex will open new horizons financially to all concerned.

He then gave me a cheque of N30 million naira for me to call the whole thing off and sever all ties with his son.

I told him to keep his cheque and that he couldn't pay me to leave his son. I then excused myself and left.

I told my fiancee that I was calling this whole thing off, because I cant fight his dad and ex.

On Thursday, my fiancee bought me a Toyota Corolla 2013 in apology for what happened. I told him I didn't want it so that that crazy ex will come and smash it, abi??

I'll be leaving for Canada next month once I finish repairing my car and selling it.
 It won't be a permanent thing. I just need to clear my head and have some peace and also develop my business ideas.
I love my fiancee but dead (wo)men can't talk, right?

He's so shattered. He went to confront his dad and I heard there was a huge showdown.

Right now he's not speaking to his father.
His mum has also been trying to convince me otherwise. She is the dad's original wife i.e. the person that started from the bottom with him but he left her after he hit it big and right now, I think he's on his third wife now.

Wahala wa...Nsogbu e ri ka...too much drama/stress...not good for me.

I told him once he has sorted his family issues out, he knows where to find me but I won't wait forever.

I would like to thank all your readers,their comments were very helpful. Almost everything they said were true.They were so non-judgmental  I respect them for that. Hugs and kisses to them all.

Thank you, Stella for your encouraging emails, God bless you.

P.S. Once again, abeg tell Busy Body Correcter to grant me grammatical pardon.

For those asking about my PR visa, I did it myself but I applied from U.K. with the help of my brother who lives there.It's much faster from there. Do it yourself, just take your time and do enough research on it.


*HIAN!.....what kinda father is this oh!.....i dunno what else to say but to ask you to hold on to that man if you are sure he is the one.
To the ex...why do you want to marry a man this way?it wont last,if you end up marrying him,he will run.....