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Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Love...How? When? Who?Why?




 I am asking all the Love questions because sometimes the heart is not so smart..right?
Is it possible to love two people at the same time but in different ways?strong emotional feelings that makes you stuck on both?

Is probably possible that these feelings can be seperated from one another and one termed as ''I love you'' and the other ''I am in love ith you''.


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57 comments:

  1. That African chic18 September 2013 at 10:14

    Nope. You can love different people different ways at different times but you can only love one personae truly at one time

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  2. QOC18 September 2013 at 10:29

    SDK you 're always talking abt love and emotions.God forbid, but hope say no wahala btw you and you hubby o...besides, u dnt even talk abt him in ur beach and party paroles.

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    1. Unknown18 September 2013 at 21:24

      Imposter!nothing do u,keep d flag flying.

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    2. Unknown18 September 2013 at 21:35

      I ve never fallen in love with anyone in my life,except my kids.
      I ve seen my friends do foolish things cos of love,I can only be in lust pending when my libido and my southern region has been settled and then I move on to d next prey,I am a predator and also very selfish,always taking and never giving back and I like it just fine.typos and gbagauns na so I see am

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    3. Unknown18 September 2013 at 21:44

      Sorry for my absense sdkers,my hubby dragged me to this boring board meeting,so bored I started counting d suspended ceilings by d time I was on count 500 it was time for lunch,afterwards I sneaked out biko before they ask me to contribute to d discussion.I yawned like a million times,if boredom could kill Ezewanyi would ve gone oooo

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    4. Ada19 September 2013 at 06:51

      Hahahahaha....rotlmao

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  3. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 10:33

    I love my SD and I'm in love with my bf. Why if u care to know, my SD is loving, caring, understanding and wise. If not that he is married I would marry him sharply. But my bf is well, my bf. If u know what I mean.

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    1. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 18:53

      Please get married. I can't wait to become your hubby's sugargirl too. Lol.

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  4. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 10:36

    Lemme comment as anon now b4 my bf sees this and trouble will start. And please, if you want to cuss me out, at least do it in correct english. Lol

    Lemme state that I love my boyfriend. I fell in love with him and have been loving him for some years now but sometime this year, I found myself in love with a friend and actually went all the way with this friend. My bf almost found out and there was so much fracas about it that I thought the whole shindig would end. One thing I was sure of throughout the whole episode was that I wasn't leaving him for anybody except if he decides otherwise *rme*

    Now, being in love with somebody does not actually translate into you loving the person. You might actually just be in love with some things about such person. This is why someone can say I love my partner but I'm in love with you. Once that person shows an anomaly, you'll begin to wonder what made you "fall" in love in the first place.

    Loving someone entails loving EVERYTHING about him/her including things you would normally not accept from others. It entails being ready to stick to your guns come hell or high water in that relationship. It entails accepting in totality all of and about the person. I guess this is why people who hate the smell of cigarette smoke can put up with partners who smoke. Just an example.

    For those of you who disagree, I'll say please respect my opinion because I'm entitled to it.

    SDK, good job on your blog.

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    1. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 15:15

      Its the other way round honey.

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  5. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 10:47

    I don't think you can truly love two people at a time. loving two people at a time means you don't really love either of them rather you love what you are gaining from them a(material things, security ,sex etc)
    one can only love and be in love with only one person at a time . My opinion .


    Dee

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  6. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 10:51

    You can love one, and lust after another probably because of the thickness of the pocket

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  7. Oluwabobby18 September 2013 at 10:53

    Emotions are like water,flowing towards channels.However,it wl flow true one 'main' channel.That's is being in lov wid one person bt possibl 2 hv litl affections for one or two other persons.It takes discipline,personal standard(s) and maturity to 'chanel' and 'maintain'ones emotion towards a party.
    Anythn other than this connotes mere infantuatn which most times causes confusion and lead to cheating even wen nt intended.

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  8. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 10:59

    Yeah its possible to love two people at the same time but you can't be in love with two peolple at the same time. I have been in that situation before but deep down I knew who I was in love with,I just dint want to let anyone go cos I had feelings for both.

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  9. Love is wicked18 September 2013 at 11:03

    I couldn't marry my ex because we were both AS even though I know she is the love of my life.

    I love my wife, she's all a man would ask for but to be honest, I'm still in love with my ex and sometimes I feel I would've been happeir with her.

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  10. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 11:13

    You can be in love wif two pple....-its kraY tho',bcos deY love u diFferentlY

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  11. christabel 18 September 2013 at 11:23

    Sure!!! I can definitely love 2 or more pple @ the same time...hehehehe

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  12. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 11:34

    U can't love two pple @ d same time

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  13. ifeanyi18 September 2013 at 11:39

    Yes! I love her cos she is hot in bed and I also love another chick because of her high moral standard. I wish I could get married to both.

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  14. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 12:04

    Hmmmmmm....I'm in love wit 2ppl,differently though but I can't seem to choose between them,they're both good guys but I think I'll go for the one that's lovestoned

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  15. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 12:08

    Absolutely true. Its either you are obsessed or infactuated with the other person

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  16. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 12:18

    Am 28,slept with a total of 8 guys,dated 3(currently dating no3)d rest were 1 9testands. Am i loose?

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    1. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 14:54

      I'm 30. Dated and slept with only one guy all my life. I just broke up with him after 10 years cos he joined politics and started sleeping with male politicians in Abuja for money and political appointment. The stupid guy even gave me an STD which took me time to get rid of... I'm so sad! Was supposed to get married in December but I've cancelled everything. Thank God I found out before I married him sha. God please send a good man my way, Amen!

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    2. POSH18 September 2013 at 16:52

      Christ!!!!!! That's truly disgusting.Sorry darling, may you be blessed with a man after God's heart. Amen.

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  17. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 12:20

    I love two men deeply. One is my soul mate. The other my heart and body cannot remove from my DNA. I love them deeply. Yes stella its possible. I can never love anyone else like them

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    1. Queen Bee18 September 2013 at 23:28

      Ha!soulmate?
      How do u know ur soul mate?
      I always think those things are oyinbo pyscho beliefs' is there anything like dat.#really thinking#

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  18. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 12:22

    All I do know is dat u can love several people even at d same time but u can only be in love with one person at a time. And it's possible to continue being in luv with such person even in d face of maltreatment etc. it is so with me till date even though we are no more together

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  19. Mab18 September 2013 at 12:35

    You can't be in love with two people at the same time, not possible, if you were in love with the first u won't fall in love with another

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    1. Anonymous19 September 2013 at 00:03

      So now dat i love myself and my supervisor in d office nko?? I love her to d moon nd back. Sometimes i just pray she is a man biko... *runs away*

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  20. kemmie18 September 2013 at 12:40

    U can actually love 2 people @ d same time bt trust me u'd always know which to pick no matter how twisted it is

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  21. Meg18 September 2013 at 12:45

    D most over hyped n wrongly used word in d world

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  22. Adanna18 September 2013 at 12:47

    dats ryt africa chic

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  23. memphis18 September 2013 at 12:47

    Yes you can, in many ways. You can say "I'm in love with you" to your spouse, and "I love you" to your mother. Lol

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  24. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 13:15

    In other news, I've falling in love wit my bestie.

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    1. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 14:39

      shit happens my dear....have been dere bfor

      is just not right @ all.....but,,wish u well


      @spy

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    2. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 15:27

      You are better off as friends. You both should be sensible enough to keep your feelings on a platonic level.

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    3. POSH18 September 2013 at 16:53

      Bad idea. I've been down that road. Walk away please.

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    4. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 19:07

      I fell in L♥√ع wiv my bestie.. We started dating.. Nd we're stil datin.. Itz 3 yrs nw nd we're stil in L♥√ع.. It might wrk out 4 u..
      Vvvvv...

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  25. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 13:33

    yes...i can love both...equally

    @spy

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    1. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 20:25

      There's a guy I'm loving. And my bf is at his work station. I love having sex with the new guy while whenever my boyfriend is in town, sex becomes like a chore. Truth is mu bf's dick is larger&my bf is better in bed sefso I can't figure oout y my initial Lust is balling out of control- he's such a cool guy sha. I'm afraid not to spoil what I've built over the years sef

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  26. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 13:59

    Stella how did you know what am passing through?? Am 27, currently single and have dated 4guys in my life, the 1st and 4th ones are the 'loves of my life' They have both asked me to marry them but cant choose one, yea i might sound selfish but they both fill different needs in my life (not monetary) I miss them the same way even my siblings are confused on this case. strange enough they have similar characters, love God and can die for the ones they love. My aunt has said we should goan pray about it somewhere but am scared, before one funny prophet will say one nonsense about both of them not being the one. If it were possible i would marry them both

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  27. Martha Ikeji18 September 2013 at 14:03

    Righty O

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  28. Martha Ikeji18 September 2013 at 14:04

    Righty O

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  29. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 14:14

    depends some people are masters in the art of loving so many people and can handle n balance the love well whiles some have trained themselves to love only and give their heart to only one person.

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  30. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 14:24

    Yeah

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  31. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 15:12

    You love your mother, and you love your wife too; you are already in love with two people at the same time...funny enough, all men are 'wired' this way...so men are polygamous in nature...they may be in love with even more than two people at the same time

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    1. Unknown18 September 2013 at 23:02

      Who wired men that way? Whose nature is polygamous? God's? Lai lai.

      Man is made in the likeness (attribute/nature) of God. God created Adam with ONE eve and commanded them to Procreate. So which nature is polygamous?

      Do not be deceived, the nature of man is the nature of God and it is not polygamous.

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  32. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 17:34

    Iv loved just once.
    Once.
    Apart from ma siblings n' bff dou,
    This guy in question wuz a close friend/ chyker. He did cray sh*t I never liked n' I culdnt date him coz of dat.
    But even wif all cons et al I realised oneday that, I loved him unconditionally, poor rich good or bad.
    That's love.
    Iv neva loved anyoda psn dat much.
    I probably will someday.

    End of story


    Eve.

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  33. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 20:03

    truth is.... all my life, i've never really loved anyone. i only crave people who are of limits... once i get them? i'm off to the next unreachable guy...

    i'm actually a self centered person and cant think of anyone else but me...
    BTW.. i'm 25 and have not dated anyone for the past 2yrs... no sex, no smooching...
    maybe i love myself too much or i'm celibate or frigid...
    i really dont know and dont care!!!

    *Cheechee...

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  34. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 20:34

    I dnt tink its posible...one wil defintly be greater dan d oda.

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  35. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 20:38

    You either love or lust for the other.

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  36. Anonymous18 September 2013 at 21:08

    Ok,here is my story,I av bin datin dis gud luvly hardworkin man 4 ova a year nw and av had dis frnd 4 ova a year nw too....dis frnd who I wil call Alex is a luvly man,we av bin quite close n all dat,I am very much attracted 2 him n I av developed some genuine feelins 4 him,a few months back,we kissed unexpectedly n after dat,we av bin intimate,we av neva had sex or anytin aldo we kiss a lot n a lil romance,he is hustling rily hard also lyk my bf....am nt gainin anytin 4rm him or my bf materially or sexually cos am nt d type dat asks 4 moni or anytin,dis guy has bin out of d country 4 a while nw n I tot my feelins wuld reduce but it hasn't so as of present I am datin 2 men..sumtyms I feel so guilty but I cnt help d way I feel abt dem both...I luv my bf n I also luv my frnd wo is also nw my bf....is dat possible?

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  37. Queen Bee18 September 2013 at 23:32

    Well about loving 2pple at a time,i don't think it's possible too.
    Cos there is a saying that: if u are in love with two pple,then u never really loved the first person on board!cos if u did,there wouldn't be a 2nd!

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  38. Anonymous19 September 2013 at 08:20

    Ladies and Gentle mehn, all that have been said are just Nonsence!!! Listen one can love 5 or more people at the same time, believe it or not. If you disagree with me, then holla at me, lets have a personal discussion about it. Gbam!!

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  39. Phrinkies19 September 2013 at 10:08

    My own definition of luv surely koms with Money. I love my boo bt Am in love with his Money. Shikena!

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