Tonto Dikeh And The Message Behind Her Suicidal Confession

First and foremost this matter was something I didn't want to get involved with but there were too many people calling me to tell me Tonto tried to kill herself some days ago and I saw that the importance of what she tried to do got lost in all the brouhaha of ''hey did you hear Tonto tried to kill herself becuase she is on drugs blah blah blah......?''


Tonto Dikeh tried to kill herself a while back and nobody heard about it because it was well wrapped up....I mean well wrapped up.Who will hear a story that a Celeb almost committed suicide and will not blog it as a breaking story?if I had heard I would have blasted it for sure,with details and all...and so would anyone else who runs a portal for news!..ohon!

Now back to the message I am trying to pass across,A lot of celebs have seen the importance of coming out of the closet to share their real life experiences and let others know that they are only human..if they
survived it,so can you!
Kefee Don-Momoh,Monalisa Chinda and Chika Ike told us their domestic violence stories..yes their stories have opened further the domestic violence can of worms.

Eva told us how she was abused as a child and she did so unashamedly. The reason they decided to share with you was not to be cussed out and if you people keep cussing out the ones who have spoken,the others will keep quiet. ...oh yes the voice of a celeb to any cause makes it fly on wings,makes it easier for the oga's at the top to listen and effect a change/law...do whatever it takes to eradicate.

Tonto Dikeh tried to kill herself a while back and it is not a new story. She decided to share with you because she was encouraged by Chika and Eva's stories.You may not see her as a role model but she chose to tell you in her own way. No one has a right to laugh at or cuss anyone when they talk about moments like that....moments that can relate to people who have been there.

Tonto didn't die,she is alive today and whether we like it or not she is one of the household names around.--she is a celeb.
When they come out of the closet,please tamper justice with mercy in your comments and encourage them...who knows tomorrow?
You can cuss them out when they wear the wrong shoes,make the wrong moves,wear the wrong clothes but hey isn't cussing them out when they tell painful stories as sensitive as they have done a little over the fence?...I am also guilty of some mistakes in time past and i am talking to myself as well so you don't need to remind me by saying ''look at Stella talking as if she isn't also guilty....''

Our celebs are not spirits,some of them have been raped,abused,tried drugs,been on the bottle 24/7 et al..... They have been there.
Some of them right now are going through stuff that will shock you,some are as so broke their shoes crack the floor when they walk on it. Some are so heart broken by love and circumstances that they cry real tears in their movie roles but we applaud them for carrying out those roles well when in they have actually told us how it is and are scared to let people know ''hey i just acted out my real life story''.

As I aim to correct,Tonto Dikeh talked about her suicide attempt in other to encourage anyone going through that phase in their lives not to lose hope.....don't judge her with the present! 
I hope this message is not lost on you?Thank you.

Big shout out to all the brave women who have told their stories-Kefee,Monalisa,Eva,Chika and Tonto.....and whoever else is willing to come out!