'' Good day aunty Stella,
Plz i need your help cos am in a serious mess and i need advice urgently, plz do me a favor and publish my story now.
I have been dating a pastor for about 5 months now, i just told him yesterday that am pregnant and he denied the pregnancy, am so confused as to why a man that calls himself a pastor would get a woman pregnant and still deny it.The bastard made sweet love to me from Friday-Monday morning before i left for work some weeks back.
I confronted him this morning and we had a serious fight, as am writing to u now he's preaching in his church and am just wondering what he's preaching to his congregation, i sustained serious injury on my neck cos he rough handled me.
Although am working but my salary is 70k, don't think this money will be enough to bring a child into the world, i live with my elder sister and i know she will not allow me stay in her house with this pregnancy, don't even have money to rent an apartment if i decide to keep the baby and moreover he is not financially stable, i pay most of the bill.
Now the big question is, should i keep the baby or abort it. Plz i need urgent answer cos am going nuts.
Thanks.''
I mailed her asking if it was a joke and her response was
''How can this be a joke aunty stella, i wouldn't want to mention names guess u know the reason, just need advice that's all, cos i ve discussed this with my cousin, she called him and he bluntly told her he's not responsible, she's as confused as i am as to if to keep the baby or not.
Plz this is not a joke, i didn't send this story just to cause traffic on ur blog. but if u don't believe then there won't be need to publish this story.
Thanks for your quick response.''
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*She refused to reveal the pastors identity and only stated she wanted advice...please give her advice and not condemnation.
The Runs babe with an HIV boyfriend is blaming me because the comments on her post cuss her out,how does that have to do with me?.
Are girls this STUPID? So wetin u wan hear? Okay, please, keep the pikin for the pastor and name him after the man's church.. Then carry ya things and move into his matrimonial home and assume position as wife no2 and assistant pastors wife! Dazzol.
ReplyDelete#Lobatan, see wetin u cause urself, they paito will denial ni, u wan spoil him ministry.
DeleteRead Juicy gist HERE
Name him after the church. Hahahaha. Ur so funny
DeleteSo u want make na we tell u to go abort?No!
DeleteYou know what u'll do?KEEP THAT BABY!
Shei u were enjoying d abominable calling it 'made sweet love' so keep the sweet result' dats d divident of sweet love making!rubbish
Btw Stella,y all d pple posting issues on ur blog too dey provoke person?
I no wan vex abeg*rushes out for breakfast*
Anon 8.20am I am so in love with your comment. Lol
DeleteOshisko gimme some mins I will give u my candid advise mrs ale pastor
Wifey xxxx
Hw can u b sleepin wit a married pastor?u shld knw a pastor is fake d moment he shows interest2 sleep wit u.personaly I bliev dat a pastor who has d mind 2 engage in adultery can do anythin 2 kip dat a secret.infct ur life is even@risk ryt now if he's a big pastor.
DeleteU dated a pastor for 5months..meaning u slept with him for 5months..dis is d rizn y some guys play and cheat on women cz wen 'women' do thiers,dey do so witot conscience pain..wen u were enjoying d sweet sex hu's advice did u seek,now wey kasala don burst,u run down here to seek advice.. offence no 1. U slept with a married man for 5months 2.not just a man bt a pastor. 3.u were toooooooo stingy to buy condom or pills.. my dear..run down to d nearest shop and buy rat poison..empty d entire content into ur stomach so dt u'll hav REST forever..at least dt one is cheaper for u to buy..am sooo disgusted..brainless girl..tot u were in primary school till I read "I work...." one advice for ladies... before u pull down ur pants...think deeply and ask urself if d man or boy is capable of facing any resulting consequence..if no..quickly stand up and pull up ur pants..lastly, check urself and be sure u haven't contacted any std cz u r prolly not d only girl he has slept with neither will u be d last..
DeleteNow shey make we comot pant dance azonto or skelewu as u Don preg 4 pastor?
DeleteY r u all gullible?
note dat no real pastor ll make love to u b4 marrying u.
As 4 me I'm against abortion!!!
so I won't advice u 2 terminate d baby,
I fink God just wanna punish u nd ur "supposed" pastor!
So just carry ur burden jejely nd stop bothering us wif ur agbere......
Two peeps my mum advised me never 2 sleep wif r pastors nd kings! So go fig!
DeleteAbeg.. d baby na story teller.. I no bliv her joor...on a lighter note, hmmm dat genny channel bag way worth millions...Hehehe my friend dey sell d imitation ooh...12k Naija money...Choi, e fit be d one genny buy sef cos she was also in China weeks back...but mehn, if una go buy make una holla me...lol...it even comes with all do plenty paparazzi way original bag dey carry come... oh boy no dulling...heheheheeh
DeleteLmao @name the child after d church.
DeleteTell d mumu pastor urE going public...wats wit all dis pastors nauadays I Just dnT get dem,GOD hv mercy on us,pls dnt AboRt pLS....janE okudo
ReplyDeleteAbeg do the ese stunt.see if he won't go on his knees.
DeleteHow dare u anonymous 8:22am,na u be mumu.this wan funny born the pikin period no be u open ur legs for pastor to receive anointing? Wen she wan go fuck she tell us?
DeleteBut wait o, she didn't state it anywhere that the man is married. So there's possibility she was thinking the man could marry her.
DeleteNow, how come you didn't tell the man how abominable it is to have premarital sex despite being a pastor? Aborting the baby is commiting more sin.
Confess your sin and God would take care of the rest. You're even lucky you have a job
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Nna ike ndi pastors aguchalam,I dey fear 2 go church sef.metchewwwwwwww
Deletethis one get as e be o. Na wa for all these stories with pastors and their escapades.
ReplyDeleteI think the lady should just confront the pastor and let him know that if he keeps denying, she'll have the baby and bring him/her to church and if he still denies, she will let the congregation know and will force him to do a paternity test.
it is getting too much and messy
Nothing to see here,this is just attention seeking!
ReplyDeleteAbeg dis story is not true! Even tho it is, u already know wat to do n don't need anyone's advice. U be baby, toy? Stop acting ignorant jare! Ok, better still born d baby then u go know say life e no really easy! Pastor pastor, I hail o!
DeleteStella, u really did well to ask her if she was joking. I don't know y a lady will sleep with a PASTOR and expect him to accept the pregnancy. As for advise, u r the only person that knows what to do.
ReplyDeleteThe runs girl with HIV boyfriend should go with him to a Heart to Heart Clinic so they can get counseling on Living with HIV/AIDS, or didn't she focus on the advice given on that post? She just concerned herself with the insults, right? Too bad. Blog visitors MUST insult them, they should get used to it and put on their anti-cuss helmets.
ReplyDeleteAs for this one with pregnancy....I don't really understand why young Nigerian girls don't learn from the mistakes of others. We have heard of girls being murdered and molested at orgy parties or blind dates, yet some girls still attend orgy parties and go on blind dates! Hian!!! Pastor matter with girls have been sung about for as long as I can recall, and have only just been rekindled by our dear bloggers, yet as I write this some girls, even blog visitors, are playing **apele** under the sheets of certain pastors.
My dear, you just have to be brave, go to CAN branch office nearest to you and make your case (I hope they grant you audience). That's all I can say. Meanwhile, I hope you have your anti-cuss helmet with you, because...
Why didn't you practice safe sex with him? sleeping with a man without protection hnmm every adult knows what the result will be. how much is Condom ?
ReplyDeleteDee .
This girl dey crase. Capital mumu. Is the pastor married?
ReplyDeleteMtsheeeew. See question? Didn't you know he was a pastor? Didn't you know that unprotected sex will result to this? You are even working and earning Large sum of money, why didn't you just wait for God to bless you with a Man. So what do you want us to advice you, To abort the Child abi to Go and stage fight with the pastor? When you were Committing Sin, Were we informed? Abeg go your closet and pray to God for forgiveness and sort yourself out.
ReplyDeleteStella abeg tis time you start screening personal mails abeg.
Josephine na wa for you o!
DeleteGod uses this kind of situation to teach us the bitter lesson sometimes.. Don't abort. God will see you through one way or the other.....Stella pls show us a FULL picture of yourself...
ReplyDeleteI knew it!I just knew so many babes wud come out nd claim pastor did this and pastor did that since d Ese Walters nd Pastor Biodun story that made news last week.Really Stella am of d opinion that some of ur stories aint real,cos some of them sound very dumb.what advice is she looking for?blive me wen I say some of em just wanna be cussed out,its like salvation to them.Whatever u wanna do,do it!Wen u were busy screwing ur brains out with ur pastor did u seek our advice?Abeegggiii spare us...
ReplyDeleteEven wen contraceptives are cheap & pleny in d market,some gals are stil as dumb as ever.you cudnt even insist on him wearing condom,na wa ooo.only a girl can decide whether she wants 2 get pregnant 4 a guy.seems 2 me you delibrately wanted 2 get pregnant 4 pastor or wat were you expecting?.you better go 2 a reputable clinic & abort that child.d world Ȋs too harsh 2 bring such innocence 2 dis world,esp wit d circumstances surroundin d child.be wise!!!
ReplyDeleteyou must be very stupid for getting pregnant for your pastor...if the pastor lost his senses ...must you too lose yours....how can you be sleeping with a man of God....you should have reject his action in the first place ....instead you are swimming in a big ocean of Sin with a pastor...that is your reward....its now left for you, either to keep the baby or not...because i will not advise you to kill an innocent baby...
ReplyDeletegbam
ReplyDeleteI dont have time for this. Pls stop blaming the pastor and take responsibiliy. U dont know wat hes preaching today? Did u know last month wen he was making love to u? Hypocrite. Figure it out on ur own. U didnt share wen it was sweet. Now its fallen apart u want advice? Annoying girls
ReplyDeleteWhat really do girl think when they sleep with pastors?? Is this how evil and desperate we have become? U didn't need advice when u CHOSE 2 ignore the lil voice dat cried out dat u shouldn't so why need avice now? We need to remember always 2 be honest with ourselves..d pastor can't even afford 2 cater 2 u, what were u thinking?
ReplyDeleteAnd like d person who rightly asked, hate 2 admit, 'how much is condom'? Well....way cheaper than what u wud have 2 live with 4 the rest of ur life. I bet another girl is yet 2 make d same mistake somewhere! Gosh..
Anything done in secret is always deniable. U knew all d pbms u had n still opened ur legs. Before u do anyfin be ready for all d consequencies n not seeking for help when d deed is done y didn't u come for advice before u danced kerewawa? U knew what was in stock for u nd decided to carry on . Rite now ur d one wearing d shoes b4 doin anyfin think of d worse thing dat can happen n act accordingly as u would if u were trying to prevent it. D answer u seek u already have ur just lookin 4 justification.
ReplyDeleteWhat is this one again? So, to sleep with Pastor is now a thing you do without batting an eyelid? The devil has given women assignment to destroy ministries Walahi. Look at Solomon who was the wisest, just a woman brought him down. Look at Samson who was the strongest, just a woman brought him down. If a man tells you he's a pastor, why must you agree to a relationship with him? A sexual relationship for that matter. Na wa o. Then you have unprotected sex abi you think say pastor sperm get pregnancy immunity? Or HIV immunity?
ReplyDeleteCongratulations in advance on the birth if your fatherless child. Mtschew
Stella, you have done your part by publishing this Mumu girl's story. Now leave me to cuss her out.
ReplyDeleteBia, why are you surprised he denied the pregnancy? Because he's a pastor abi? On what grounds did you have unprotected sex(sorry, sweet Friday-Monday lovemaking) with him? Did he put a ring on your finger or has he done 1st level Introduction for your both parents to meet? Can you see how foolish you are?
I bet you don't know any of his family members sef to report to? If it were HIV you contracted, you would have come to SDKB for advice too. I have no advice for you. You gave out free pussy and got served. Carry your cross(Pun intended). At least you enjoyed the sweet lovemaking.
Is Stella's site now a junk site? Too much silly stuffs in here.
ReplyDeleteI agree!even stuffs dat r unverifiable!
DeleteD story is so so FAKE!!!
ReplyDeleteStella u mean,I can also cook something up and send to u to publish!!
Why sleep with a Pastor in the first place? You know he condems fornication in public and you decided to do it with him private. For me you got what you deserve!
ReplyDelete1st of all may God forgive both of u, ok, don't try and threaten him or make him feel threatened..if u decide to keep this pregnancy do it queitly without revealing names, u can beg him to just help u financially,he can discreeting hv an hand in the upkeep of the child till he decides to make it know to his wife and church(highly unlikely) my reasons being that, a MOG that can make sweet love to u for 5months and still preach is without conscience and if pushed he can have u Silenced for life.
ReplyDeleteOr u could have an abortion and be done with all the disgrace and wahala that must surely come with having a Child whose father u don't(won't) reveal.
Mumu of life...so u expect the 'pastor' to accept ur pregnancy?? Wait..are u dumb,drunk or retarded?? U berra go and park well in one garage..that's what u get for fucking a "man of 'god'"
ReplyDeleteBabes, you already know what to do...
ReplyDeleteDon't come distracting us already...
Lady Lynch
Notin wey we no hear for this world.na wa o.
ReplyDeleteNa wao, wat kind of wahala is dis sef, am tired of all this pastors, everyday u hear different horrible stories abt them, i tink is high time the senate look into dis cos is getting out of hand. It's either they are involve in fraud, rape or getting women pregnant, how can he deny the pregnancy, shebi wen he was pranking the babe it was sweeting him, abeg go remove the belle cos u can't ve a child for an irresponsible man, period.
ReplyDeleteA real pastor will not fornicate. If the pastor was sleeping with u, then he is a fake pastor n so u shouldn't b surprised by his actions. Girls, use your head b4 opening your tohtoh for a man. Its gud for u so u can learn to use your sense
ReplyDeleteNo be only sweet love,bitter hate nko? Are pastors supposed to commit fornication sef? If yes,what exactly do they teach their followers? Go and sort yourself out with him pls.
ReplyDeletethere is one Redeem pastor In lagos...He traveld to anoda state...Rented an apartment for a Lady...the lady neva knew he was married...bcos he is a Young Man...
ReplyDeleteHe got the lady Pregnant......later,,the lady discoverd that he was married.....
Smh...on the Judgement day....we shall all be full of surprises
@Spy.
You should be grateful.... The pastor taught you a new level of grace. Hehehe
ReplyDeleteLaffing my head off...u sooo GBAM am!!!hahahahaha.Btw stella,Biko I am tired of all these senseless stories o.If person go fuck man,she go come ur blog come narrate am,if person touch him private part,na so them go write u,if person don chop bellefull na so them go write u.Abeg no answer them again,de wan dull ur blog.And stella I really do luv ur blog...u connect with ur peeps.
DeletePls is d pastor married?first of all before u bend down low.
ReplyDeleteSo
ReplyDeleteAbeg this story is not true jare. With all the wahala on your head, you describe the lovemaking as sweet. This is obviously fiction. Hints thrills and Boon resurrecting.
ReplyDeleteThis girl has itemised why she needs to remove the pregnancy. The pastor doesn't want it and has "rough handled" her. 70k a month salary cannot raise a kid. Her sister will skin her alive. Did she give reasons to keep the baby? No need to make sense with any monologue. This babe may as well be on a way to the hospital.Not to register for ante~Natal but for a D and C. I am pro life.My advise therefore is keep the baby.The world will fall down around you for a while;the World will not end! Signed:wide eyed. Ps.happy birthday High highqueue.
ReplyDeleteSee gobe,wen she wan go chop clean mouth she tell us? ok maybe she tell stella.na the anointing don catch you.oh girl carry ur cross.
ReplyDeleteNa wao. it seems pastors are on demand.lol. how can u open ur leg for a man that is not ur husband without condom? or may be u want to use pregnancy to hold him? now he is denying. even me that is getting married in Nov still refuse "sweet Friday-Monday lovemaking".lol
ReplyDeleteyou ve to keep the baby, who knows if he/she is gonna be president or wife of d president.
EKWUCHA KWA MU KA ORA MU N'ONU.
if you are sure d pregnancy 4 d pastor!!!...keep it !!!!...and don't do anything silly .....gud luck.
ReplyDeleteif you murder that child, someone else will murder you. And God says that he hates hands that shed innocent blood. See the scriptures;
ReplyDelete"Whoever sheds human blood, by humans shall their blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made mankind.
Proverbs 6:16 These six things doth the Lord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
17 A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
18 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,
Solutions: Repent and receive Jesus. Begin to stud your Bible. Have the child; yes the Lord will see you through. And give him to the motherless babies if you don't want to keep him.
Don't kill him! The Lord will lead you to someone who will take care of you till you deliver this child. If at that point you don't need him, give him to that lady or the motherless baby home
ReplyDeleteAre your brains located inside your sweet pu**y that you couldn't think to ensure he has solid plans for your before opening up to his - no umbrella - sweet love making from friday - monday. You are advised to keep the sweet result as a memento of the sweet love as well as a deterrence against future sweet errors.
ReplyDeleteWhy are Nigerian girls so cheap and stupid? ( most ) Are you sure he is not married? Deal with it after all you enjoyed the sex! OLODO! You will see a married man and still open your legs!
ReplyDeleteHow hold are you? You are so stupid to let this happen to you and now you're blaming the so called pastor. What happen to condom? What happen to emergency contraception? it seems you purposely get pregnant to trap him down or what do you think will happen if you sleep with a man without protection? Oh! you think because is a pastor the holly spirit will protect you?
ReplyDeleteYou won't get the advice you want from this blog and I can't give you one either. You need to cry to God & ask for help.
I can't stop laughing at dis comment but come to think of it don't u know this a man is married and for a mrried pastor to still come and toast u don't u know u will end up destructive it a pity girls fall victim of cicunstances this days all I will u is just ve the baby and they take the baby to the church and let everyone know what as haPpened bt be ready to face the SHAME.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like safe sex again jare!!! Had sex with my bf with condom(durex) and later took postinor 2 after the sex.Bam!! after a month I was pregus funny thing was that I saw my period o bt noticed that my bboobs whr so heavy I couldn't breath!!!!! I was so sad,scared and happy, bt he said he wasn't ready 4 a child and took me 4 an abortion. These days I don't even wanna here the word sex!I hated him cs he started insulting me nd calling me a slut. If after all this precautions I still go pregnant imagine having sex without condom saying u guys made sweet love. My dear u better make a choice o! I'll advise that u keep d baby bcs trust me I still feel guilt for allowing him convince me 2 remove it, bt iff u decide nt to I suggest as long as it isn't up to 2 mons u go ahead bt if nt pls keep ur baby. God will see u through!!!
ReplyDeleteThe did has bin done, no use crying over spoilt milk... no human is above mistake, I won't condemn u.. if truly he is married u guys should come to plan on ow they child would be raised.. that child is innocent n shouldn't be tempered with.. u might loose ur life or womb..u won't go unpunished..the best solution out.. u have to accepted they fact tht u r a mother now.. totally surrender to God, he would see u thru..good luck
ReplyDeleteHnmm, Jesus is Lord.
ReplyDeleteI wonder why ladies are quick to let down their defenses for a man bearing the pastor tag. Not every one who is called pastor is called by God.Some may just be running their own errand which include teaching the ladies a new level of grace.
ReplyDeletevisit leyejisola.blogspot.com for home remedies for stretch marks and dark elbows, knuckles and knees.
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this is a good testimony, she should share her story with the church during testimony time.... how God has bless her with pregnancy, having had marathon sex with the pastor from friday to monday. haleluyah
ReplyDeleteDon't try to abort coz it's d worst nightmare u will have. I had an abortion twice and now that I know Christ better, I wish I could turn back d hands of time. Talk to ur sister about it but neva abort d baby. Tell the pastor u will born and raise the baby whether he accepts it or not. In years to come u will be happy that u didn't give the devil another chance 2 use u. Please also make sure u trully repent of ur sins. Best of luck.
ReplyDeletekip d baby cos u dnt knw d purpose f him or her being dia, promise urself neva t indulge such act again,i bleiv JUSTICE wl b done by God
ReplyDeleteBut she didn't say if the pastor is married or not. Give advice and dnt assume!!!
ReplyDeleteDis gurl is really stupid*sry 2 say*...u made a statement dt "how can a man oF God deny d baby" were u on drugs b4, y did u sleep with d man of God knwing fully well dt he's a 'MAN OF GOD'...they are men jst like every1 of us nd jst like men, they have their weekness...y didn't u cover up up body when going 2 his place, probably his weekness is BOOBS nd u stupidly went 2 his house flauting ur boobs nd u expect him nt to fall....any small thing u ppl will say" how Can a man of God bla bla bla"..iranu
ReplyDeleteAbort it and move on with your life. Sebi na wetin you wan hear be dat. Idiot of life. Next! (Sipping Seaman Shinapp with kulikuli).
ReplyDeleteEse came out public and you people condemned her. No problem just dress up and go to his church on sunday with your family then you announce that you are pregnant for him and let him deny in church if Acts5 will not reoccur. He enjoyed it and does not waNT TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.
ReplyDeleteHBD to high high oueue,may God grant u all ♈ōϋя heart desire.
ReplyDeletethe pastor is impotent....
ReplyDeletelol..
she fucked the choir master too
she wants to enjoy offering money
na she sabi o
no advice for fools
dey neva listen
Threating him. A̶̲̥̅̊♏ sure he W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ comply
ReplyDeleteGuls make una take am easy..no b evry guy u date must marry u..nawa oo
ReplyDeleteThis kind of nonsense pisses me off big time when women who should know better behaves like 5 yr old girls. You know he is a pastor yet you allowed the devil to use you in destroying his life & the anointing (that is if he was called by God) that was placed on him, to bring further disgrace to Christianity & make unbelievers to mock God eh nne? I know I no holy pass BUT fucking a pastor? I tire for women oh! If he wants to destroy his life, must you also sacrifice yours? If he loves you so much, then he should have made plans to marry you (no be so?) You fall mugu finish & you are here looking for advise. You are feeling pained that he denied the belle, what were you expecting? a man who sleeps with you in secret will deny you in public together with the result of una tangling abi you don't know? You feel upset he is mounting the pulpit to preach now that he has denied you right? but when he was sleeping with you & mounting the pulpit it wasn't paining you right? I have to say you are as big a hypocrite as he is.
ReplyDeleteSo its either you abort (compounding your sins) or keep the baby, keep quite & turn baby mama or keep the baby & expose him (also exposing yourself to what he might do to your & your baby out of anger) Make your choice.
Madam Stella, biko all these I slept with a pastor & he has denied me & our baby or I slept/ still sleeping with a pastor please advice me posts should come with evidence & names so that people can know who & what to avoid when looking for places to worship, before demonic filled men transfer demons all in the name of laying of unholy hands.
First, is the pastor already married before you started the relationship?
ReplyDeleteWhatever your answer, DON'T ABORT!
You are going to hell. Did you not hear??? "TOUCH NOT MY ANOINTED" and you went to touch. See the result na. If you try to abort the "holy" pikin, na devil go receive you.
ReplyDeleteTouch not kini? Abegi. No be the Pastor carry anointing to fuck different woman. Oshisko.
DeleteTouch not kini? Abegi. No be the Pastor carry anointing to fuck different woman. Oshisko.
DeleteAll these stupid, brainless girls like this poster. First you are having unprotected sex! You do not value your own life, obviously. Then you are paying the bills because your boyfriend isn't buoyant. Obviously you have not learnt anything from this life. Pay bills on top wetin? If he were to be your husband, you would be duty-bound to help him when things are rough, but footing bills for your boyfriend? Now you are pregnant, SDK readers should help you? Did you confer with us before you started displaying this level of stupidity? Abeg park right here: ___________________________________________________________________________________/ I gave you this much space so you can sit, lie down, roll in the floor, have enough room to actually seriously think about your life. Yeye!
ReplyDeleteAids is real!
ReplyDeleteI guess popping kids out of wedlock is the "in thing" in Naija now. We are so desperate to emulate stupid things.
No shame at all.
Oh, and while you are enjoying this ample parking space I gave you, get it into your thick skull that it is girls like you that give the rest of us a bad rap. You are sleeping with a pastor, now you are trying to make headlines again. Did you not know he was a pastor before you spread your legs? Abi were you forced or raped? We should use our bras as sunglasses because your pastor boyfriend denies the pregnancy? Nne, sit right down and think long and hard about your life. Yeye squared!
ReplyDeleteNot all that calls him Lord will enter the Kingdom of God.Pls don't abort.Go to CAN or PFN and tender your case.
ReplyDeleteI beg which position she break her neck?
ReplyDeleteI want to avoid it.
Am really pissed nd tired of these stories with pastor this, pastor that. Are u a child? Can't u think?. As is if this pastors are not human beings or wat. So u knew he was a pastor and u kept on sleepin wit him?. Most men deny paternity, so why shuld his be different?mtcheeew. If you like abort, if you like don't. Just sort your mess out yourself. Pls stella post my comment.
ReplyDeleteCOuld c dat nacking a pastor is d iN tin now.buhahahaha,are somegals dat stupid andfoolish. Now every gal wanna date a pastor! I laugh again.dumb ass am sowie don't have advice to u, make u pack well plssss.oshisko. Swtst
ReplyDeleteCan someone please tell me what is this mighty attraction ladies now have for Pastors?
ReplyDeleteWell, I suppose you do know that abortion is not only illegal here, it is also the taking of human life ... please pardon me, I'm not trying to sound self-righteous, just stating facts.
Anyway, I'd like to state again that the fact that a man is a 'Pastor' doesn't mean he is holy or is a man of integrity for that matter, so let's be a little cautious ladies.
Now as to what you should do ... only you can decide. None can make that decision for you. But be sure that whatever you do, it is something you can live with and not later regret.
Hehehe,d attraction for pastors is d level of grace,they wud be tot new levels of grace...
Delete... Jasmyn 12:45 has just killed it all.
ReplyDeleteHow come everyone is blaming the girl! What about the married randy pastor. Shame.
ReplyDeletei tire o! at d very least u can buy dat 50naira own, iv forgotten d name...or u take a morning after pill,although it doesn't work all d time, but at east she should have used some form of protection.
ReplyDeleteDear Stella, you didn't post my comment. I commented earlier in the afternoon. My name is TowBeee please post it o. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAfi how hold are you na. Serious H factor.
ReplyDeleteSister go for prayers
ReplyDeleteStella post ma comment ooo #slimfitdiva#
ReplyDeleteIf this story is true, then Stella why are u approving comments that reign insults on this girl since u adviced against that . Biko this story na forge forge.
ReplyDeleteHehehe best answer!!
ReplyDeleteWhen will people learn that a married man will not leave his family for some random girl outside? You can't tie a man down with pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteThe pastor jus tot her another level of grace which she wud never understand.pj
ReplyDeleteif the pastor as a wife go and tell her .kown his church and tell his pepole
ReplyDeleteD girl is very stupid,wt ws she finking wen she was sleepn wit a married pastor.I tink d devil is trying to use her jst for us to lose our faith in God.
ReplyDeleteIf u abort the pregnancy u'll be guilty of two sins
ReplyDeletea. fornication or adultery (not so so grievous)
b. Murder (one of the worst sins on earth, very very highly grievous)
but if you don't abort u had committed just Fornication or adultery. so chose one.
A man is a man whether a pastor or not. As for the pregnancy, 70K is more than enough to keep the pregnancy. But, if you want to abort it, then it is your decision to make. Don't ask me. Calm down and think of what to do before its too late. what happened has happened. You just need to move on with life.
ReplyDeletePastors! mschewww!
ReplyDeleteYesterday,[Thursday] a pastor was moving to a bigger flat. In the process, pornographic dvds were found in his drawer by a close friend, who asked him how come? He lied that it belonged to xxx. The friend just laughed and asked to be given, which the pastor obliged.
This morning [friday] he was telling us how 'conc' the film was! not amateurish! His wife was speechless when she asked him where he got a porno film. He threw it away after watching because he just wanted to know more about the pastor.
Please seek God personally.
please why are these ladies running to us whenever a pastor sleeps with them, they should avoid them in the 1st place but they go in with them and after enjoying themselves they come to us to ask for advice they should have asked for advice b4 sleeping with them or do they think that pastors are not human.madam please go and sort yourself out and don't disturbs us here. Next CASE please
ReplyDeleteInteresting!! I highly doubt. Every one is saying all sorts of stories. Why did u not say No in the first place? Why kiss and tell. You all just want to tarnish the image of the church. Unfortunately, the church is still moving on.
ReplyDeleteSelah
Interesting!! I highly doubt. Every one is saying all sorts of stories. Why did u not say No in the first place? Why kiss and tell. You all just want to tarnish the image of the church. Unfortunately, the church is still moving on.
ReplyDeleteSelah
Why are we Nigerians so judgmental and condemning?
ReplyDeleteAgreed she has made a mistake? But she does not have to take her life after reading comments here before she knows she made a mistake.
My dear, ask God for forgiveness, keep the child, forget the pastor, move to another area and live your Life. That is all i can say.
Take care.