Should Anyone Die Because Of Their Faith?Please Read This!

THIS IS A SHOCKING STORY AND AS YOU READ AND COMMENT PLEASE DO NOT CUSS OUT ANYONE'S BELIEF,JUST ANALYSE IF IT IS RIGHT TO LET THIS HAPPEN...........I AM TOO SHOCKED FOR WORDS!

  

 

From someone's FB wall

"Meanwhile b4 now, I know that jehova's witness are all up2 no good.... I got the first phone call just before 2:00pm. This was Friday 19th octoberb 2012. It was from my sister in Lagos She was frantic. Our elder

brother’s wife was bleeding, losing a lot of blood, laid out on a bed at the Gbagada General Hospital, Lagos. She had just delivered a baby, their second in just over two years. My sister informed me that despite serious pleas from everyone in the family, from clinical staff at the hospital, and from concerned strangers, my brother refused to give his consent for his wife to have blood transfusion.

Why? Unfortunately for his wife, my brother is a Jehovah’s Witness. I called my brother and spoke to him. He didn’t budge. He said his faith; his religion forbids its members from accepting blood under any

circumstance. Though I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, I said that it was ok. I told him that he could refuse blood transfusion when he is the patient, but since it was his young wife at death’s door, he should give consent for the treatment for her. I added that after his wife has been

saved, he could go ahead and ask for forgiveness from the anti-transfusion god, and once again reconcile himself to his faith. He declined.

I then went into the medical aspect of what was happening. I informed my brother that the average male has only about 5.5 litres of blood in their body. The average female has even less. I told him that if the body

loses too much of that, there wouldn’t be enough for the heart to pump, and the heart would stop beating. The patient will die. He still didn’t budge. In fact, he promptly hung up on me. I called him back a few more times but the young man refused to answer his phone.

I called back my sister in Lagos and reported my failure. The second call came at exactly 3:10pm. This time my sister was crying. The young lady has died.

I immediately called my brother again. I wanted to tell him to take a bow and to clap for himself. But he was still refusing to take my calls.

I spent the rest of the afternoon thinking about religion. I know that religion has its many benefits, but I am beginning to wonder whether these are outweighed by its negative aspects. Most people appear to

check their intelligence at the door when it comes to their religion and practicing their faith. Unfortunately, my brother is one of them. I couldn’t believe that an educated man (he holds a Bsc from UNN ) would

sit around and watch his wife die when he could have very easily prevented her death by signing a piece of paper. What has religion done to us?

I called my other sister in Lagos too to get more details. I wish I hadn’t. She informed me that she spent more than an hour on her knees begging our brother to give his consent for his wife to be given blood, but he refused. He refused her, and he refused all pleadings from the medical staff, some of whom were begging him with tears in their eyes. He was told repeatedly that without blood transfusion, his wife would die. He wasn’t moved. He informed them all that if his wife died from bleeding and never got blood transfusion, she would go straight to Heaven. This is a novel idea. If only Hitler, Saddam Hussein, Idi Amin, Abacha and the rest of them knew this nice little secret. All they needed to do was slit

their own wrists and the express lift to Heaven would have come for them.

Then it got worse. I was informed that the young lady’s mother (my brother's mother in law) was present throughout at the hospital. The doctors went to her to give consent for her daughter to be given blood to save her life, but the mother also refused! She too is a Jehovah’s witness. She maintained throughout that only the

husband can give consent, she would not.

In desperation, the doctors called the young lady’s younger brother who is a junior doctor in Enugu. The deceased worked in a bank and was the main breadwinner in her birth family. She paid for the education of all of her siblings, including that of this junior doctor. As the doctors in Lagos pleaded with him on the phone to give consent for his sister to receive blood to save her life, this junior doctor demurred. He directed that she

be given some coagulants and blood clotting agents. He was informed that

all of that has been tried but the patient was still losing blood. In the end, he refused to give consent. He claimed that it was the duty of his sister’s husband, not his, and terminated the call.

He too is a Jehovah’s witness. A doctor! What has religion done to us?

Before this, I have never imagined that any mother could sit on a chair, fold her arms and watch her child die and not do something about it.

This was a child she gave birth to and nurtured, and who in turn, had been taking care of her in her old age. I don’t know whether I’m the one losing my mind. What has religion done to us?

Anyway, the mother and my brother were finally called to go to the lady’s bedside as it became obvious that she was struggling through her last breaths. Mama ran in the opposite direction shouting, “Jehovah o!

Jehovah is life! Life is Jehovah!”

My brother took his place by his wife’s bedside and watched life ebb out of her. He stood there and watched her die. What kind of boldness is that? What kind of cold-heartednes s is that? When asked why he did what he did, he responded that when he dies, he would marry his dead wife again in Heaven! Is this logical? I have to confess that I am not the most religious person in the world, but are there marriages in Heaven?

Are we going to continue having more children in Heaven? More importantly, would God be pleased with a person who had the power to save one of his children, one of his creations, but deliberately

refused to do so? It is one thing to watch helplessly and only give comfort as someone lies dying on a motorway, but to deliberately and actively withhold life-saving consent? Especially to your own wife? Your own child? Your own sister?

My brother has become a latter-day Abraham. He even went further by

sacrificing his wife on the altar of religious principles. But why are some religious people like this? Is it the fear of going against the grain of their faith’s community? Is it the fear of being seen or being thought as not faithful enough by their fellow religious comrades? Is it the shame of being considered weak by one’s religious peers? And if this is the case,

are these feelings not trumped by love for another human being?

Personally, I think that it has got to be illiteracy of the mind".