A frenemy is more dangerous than a perceived enemy..A frenemy will be the first to cry with you but could actually be the one who doctored the reason you cry.
A frenemy monitors your life thus making theirs stand still..A frenemy never progresses because of the hatred and envy inside of them and every time God blesses you they go down on their knees challenging God for blessing you and asking him why it has to be you!
As you read this post,your frenemy is right behind you,reading what you are reading and wondering why you are reading it and trying to see if your life will change by reading this..they are already asking God why you should even have eyes to read.
Have you spotted your frenemy?they come in different shapes,sizes and colors....tell us about your frenemy!
Here's what someone sent me today and I am so sure this journalist is a frenemy
''Stella na wa for you oooo.I dey one press conference when one useless journalist dey abuse you.Beef with a capital B.Anyway keep writing girl shame on bad people''...LMAO!
*giving out free chilled otapiapia drink-who wants?*
My dear SDK evryone got atleast one frenemy sometimes we mistake dem for d real frnds n share deep secrets bt dey backstab..bt also we cud b anoda person's frenemy oo cos smtimes we take doz secrets we are told to our oda bff n backstab den say dnt tell ha I told u!loolz jus b good every1
ReplyDeletegbam! We all have been frenemies at one point or the other maybe thinking we were doing a favour or not been totally honest with our friends...nobody is perfect.#datsall
DeleteYes o,I know a lot of them and I stayed away for good and avoided them like a plague.vivian obande(rose)is a major frenemy no human should go close to,and jennifer(the drunk)is also one.that's why their lives are so stagnant,hustling from pillar to post,yet nothing to show for it,old bitches.the whole ph city knows them,na today!
DeleteAnd the award for biggest frenemy goes to you.
DeleteAhhhhh,i know many frenemies ooo,lol,Actresses please avoid one girl called Ifeoma Okeke,she is a friend but she talks bad about her close friends that are actresses a lot, the ones successful ohhh,the ones that are move around with her are not successful so she doesn't talk about them, if you are an actress and close to Ifeoma Okeke,runnnn,as of last week she was still running a lot of them down with envy
ReplyDeleteFatti bombom Ifeoma?
DeleteI have always known Ifeoma Okeke is a gossip,one that calls herself my friend have joined her clique,i dey wait to hear rubbish about me,i will put her where she belongs un grateful idiot
DeleteEven U̶̲̥̅̊ ∂Α̲̅T is advising people Τ̅☺ stay off her, U̶̲̥̅̊ re also a huge dirty "FRENEMY' ur own case is cretical. Please grab T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ chilled otapiapia from stella cos U̶̲̥̅̊ so need it more..devil! Don't grow up its a trap.
DeleteWhy are u pple always waiting for any chance to mention dis ladys name?I have seen her name before on this blog can't remember where. If u call her ur friend why not confront her instead of coming here to rant under anon?it just shows u r lying and a coward. Show ur face and boldly write so that at least the pple u r warning will believe. I don't know dis ifeoma but pls whoever u are beware of ur 'friends'
DeleteWomen are really too envious and hateful,I don't know why this is so. The real pple who fit into this frenemy category are women...the architects of their own misfortune ...frustrated bitch is what I wud call u cos u sound like a bitter jelos woman who lives on blogs running down ur friends....repent!
Shut up ,everyone in Nollywood,knows Ify Okeke as someone who doesn't have secret and a bitter person that runs people down,na today
DeleteThen tell her to her face. Don't smile when you see her, call her 'babes, and then come here hiding and cussing. Its obvious her recent hot bikini pics are rotting your belle
DeleteThey are everywhere, its just up to one to identify them. However, I see them as stepping stones to my desired levels in life, so I really don't worry about them, on the other hand, I also stash away the information they really desire to get.
ReplyDeleteStella so which reporter was referred t in this talk?cos i am a reporter and i was at a press cnference today and i am just wondering who and if it happened where i was cos i saw plenty of ur colleagues. smh at bad belle people--we r the ones killing each other!
ReplyDeleteNa so oooo,people,kill themselves that is why I don't need friends around to tell my secrets
DeleteLord pls open my eyes. Help me to identify my frenemies. I don't even have or keep friends. Im such a loner.....
ReplyDelete*chewing on some bitterleaf and agbalumo*
for me SDK i think every body around me is a frenemy ............releasing information about me............. how do i treat them,cause in this life i still need friends
ReplyDeleteI have one frenemy my step brother trusted him told virtually everything about my life because of small family issue with my mom,went behind my back to tell my husband.God in his time will judge him
ReplyDeleteIf your secrets are sooo bad then mmmmmmhh...
DeleteWe av been close ryt from secondary school.we always spent time together.I use to tell her a lot of things bout me and thot she wld be happy for me but whoosai!!!. When my relationship of 13yrs ended she cried n cried, but later went to tell someone dat I deserved the heartbreak. When I eventually got married , she did not attend mr wedding even though we were supposed to do d planning together. She told someone dat she cannot attend my weddin cos I didnot introduce d guy to her b4 marrying him, and funny enough, for d first time she did not kno d guy I was dating I ended up marrying d guy.I got a job n she said I would neva av gotten a job b4 her if not for my father's connection.she's still jobless n single and constituting a niusance in ogbogoro community in ozuoba, in porthacourt!people beware of such friends!!!
ReplyDeleteAmadi picken, I see you oh. Meeka oh!
DeleteEven to spell correctly for pidgin na wahala. Your case don pass be careful o. Whish wan is picken again?
DeleteI have long identified mine and I'm waiting for her to jump on here(as she's a faceless coward n blog hopper)spewing vile with her bile filled stomach,then i'll open can of Worms on here that will shock everyone who doesn't know her already!sterra I join u dey sip on ur chilled OTP
ReplyDeleteOlodo ode Stella. Its the person who came to report to you that's your frenemy.
ReplyDeleteYou are such a fool for coming to derail this important. I am sure u r even d journalist or the one who squealed to her. Fool.
DeleteAnyways I have been so burnt by frenemies,na where I want start?
Why are you so pained? Are you Stella? Anuohia. Of course you've been burnt. You yourself are a frenemy. Aturu.
DeleteStella u're so right,they re so fake & can pretend.Right 4rm my Secondary skool days I stop keeping g/fnds due 2 deir bad mind I prefer guys 2 girls & am always protected & covered with my problems & secret with them....
ReplyDeleteI call them Friendly Enemies, I got them too, some are even Related. Some go to the extent to search your comments on Blogs, and cuss you under anonymous. You shouldn't Avoid them, they be the one to avoid you when you know what to do. If u have same spirit as me, bring up their case and cuss them to flee. Should I tell you, You present them to your God in a simple prayer? **kinda sounds foolish** Try it and make their existence a curse, till they change for Good. You dnt worry over certain people, their Identity shouldn't bother you at all.
ReplyDeleteSabi sabi. Dem say e break u say e tear. Whish wan is friendly enemies again? Is frenemies not even easier to pronounce? U jus like looooooong tinz sha
DeleteNo mind am. I too know!
DeleteHe even sounds like a frenemy sef. Mscheeeeew
Lmaaoooooooooooooooo I know the friend.she has never added weight till date.
ReplyDeleteWhich friend are you referring to?its confusing cos u didn't reply any of the commments. Abeg call names cos gossip only happens here!..ngwanu biko.
DeleteLinda ikeji
DeleteHiding under anonymous and still can't call names... And u calling somadina sabi sabi, shame on u all cos ur the frenemy he's refering 2. Cowards!!
ReplyDeleteHiding under anonymous and still can't call names... And u calling somadina sabi sabi, shame on u all cos ur the frenemy he's refering 2. Cowards!!
ReplyDeleteBose kembi,confirm frenemy,wherever you are,you no go die better
ReplyDeleteI call them unfriendly friends. pretenders! never do wells! they are everywhere. those that tell you to calm down are usually the ones who got you mad in the first place.
ReplyDeleteI have them o! there is even one that comes on the two blogs i read, hiding under anonymous to insult herself not me. I just de give am long rope but my scissors is ready now...any pem! I cut. I know her cos she has left too many clues. when I go burst her bubble she wouldn't even know what hit her.
abeg! if nobody talk about you then you are nobody. what causes frenemies or unfriendly friends? answer: beef, envy, pepper body, frustration....
and that's exactly what will kill them. RIP
#no face
Thank God i have no friends! I just LOVE my life!
ReplyDeleteWe shd just pray to God to open our eyes to see them. They are all around us,
ReplyDeleteSuddenly everyone on this post has frenemies. Who come be the frenemy as all of una be angels? Yeye dey smell. All of you should check yourselves. Stella inclusive.
ReplyDeleteComment #27; exactly. No need for all the drama that comes with it.
ReplyDeleteIv got plenty. Found out late though...
ReplyDeleteSo m trying to get on ma feet.
Thing is just avoid em... Stop telling pple all about you.
Dey'l do anything to stop ur progress.lol
Just wish em wella n' keep away.
A.
Don't have any frenemy cuz i take my time in choosing those i relate with, i'm also a secretive person so i guess if walls could talk my mata for bad... Nd i'm no one's frenemy
ReplyDeleteFrenemies plenty die, God jst saved me frm a bunch of dem last year (3 @ once for dat mata) D̶̲̥̅̊ never-do-well wanted to end ma relationship cos dey don't av stable ones buh thank God for D̶̲̥̅̊ kinda man he gav me. Nw am Ђå̝̅p̲̣̣̣̥p̲̣̣̣̥Y̲̅ to av ma boo as ma one and only friend, can't trust gals again.
ReplyDeleteComment 28 by Moi I meant.
ReplyDelete#10 and Bloglord, seems like both of you know each other...lollll
ReplyDeleteWalai,i like this site....na only here gossip start and end.........oya bikonu ndi be anyi..ka anyi kuba asiri na ebea.But wait ooohhh,na from gossip we dey sabi the truth. Sterra i gbadu you biko.Who be Ifeoma Okeke bikokwanu?.The gurl must be a camelon cos her name is in every site cos of her big mouth, if na truth.
ReplyDeletei just discharged one!! damn! that bitch is the most jealous person i ever met in my whole life!! my blessings is like a heart attack to you!!
ReplyDeleteI just discharged one too ooo!! I noticed she's got issues when I realise she doesn't have friends, she fights wit all her "so called besties" and wen she started cliching to me I neva knew it was her way dat made her nobody's frnd. She's d biggest backstabber ever!! She would ask u to do smthng good and den go behind u to ruin dat ting and do it for her self.
Deletethis is very common with females, they constantly get jealous of each other. even when they are doin better than you, they still want ur downfall. never been lucky with female friends, they are a huge pain in the butt. i have been through alot and i think have learned my lessons. females will use their mouths to destroy you even if they knw nothing about u, and the ones that know a little would add lies to it to make their story sweet. i believe strongly in karma tho, everybody will get served, sooner or later.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt in the hardest and painful way. I am my own best friend and confidante. What I don't want anyone to know about me, I don't say it out at all.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Why would any sane person tell another human EVERYTHING? You have to keep some things for yourself. That's the only way to have healthy relationships. So if you find that people around you keep bitching about you, check your self.
DeleteFrenemies, unfriendly friends, household enemies, their names plenty abeg.. I've got mine and I know her she was my late mom's friend, when i was seeking admission she was the person who advised nd prayed for me the most but she went around telling people "she go write jamb tire, my daughter in secondary school will get admission before her.
ReplyDeleteWhen my mom died na she cry pass, but later told someone "e better for her to die afterall wetin she don achieve for dis life"
When i was abt to get married she was happy, but later said "d stupid girl don go carry belle wan com do wuru wuru marriage #she dint come o#
When i got admission, she called to ask me "so it's poly you ended up getting?? Na wa o, none of my children will ever go to poly
When i had my baby girl she told people "no be her mates dey born boys, she dey happy say she born girl
I could go on and on but let me stop here... Aunty esther change your ways.. You condemn everything about me but God has kept taking me higher and higher.. I don leave lagos for you ooo carry am for head..
So Aunty Esther succeeded in sending you to the village? Chai! She's a real frenemy.
DeleteHehehehe na you be aunty Esther frenemy cos you refused to leave her Radar!someone said all these since your childhood and you kept the connection?na u wan worry her kids naim make u go poly,end up for village!sorry o!
DeleteShe might have gone abroad
DeleteAnon. 8:10, u nid to recharge ur sense of humour.
Delete@Mummy K, aunty esther sounds like she was unhappy and hurting
Anon. 8:10, u nid to recharge ur sense of humour.
Delete@Mummy K, aunty esther sounds like she was unhappy and hurting
Mama kamsi abeg no vex ehn, aunt Esther own pass frenemy she be frenewinch.
DeleteChoi! Na you try pass for the woman hand with tolerance. I no blame you say you run comot for lagos o!
Her own bad belle no get rival. The thing fit give her mental problem if she no see who to pick on, na wa!
Keep ur secrets to urself koz ur best frnd has anoda best frnd
ReplyDeleteNa my mother in law be that.always dragging my hubby with me..after she don kill her own
ReplyDeleteChai, u be frenemy ooo!
DeleteWicked daughter in law. Shebi one say you too will become a mother in law? Heartless creature, u want to deprive a mother if her son's love just because he married you?
Deletenobody is a saint but some re more worse than the other, they always come when they need help but turn their backs when u need them most coz they're envious of ur little life dt u're still trying to build. sighs!!!
ReplyDeleteFemi, more worse ke? You for kukuma write worser. BBC, see your student o
DeleteHe should ve said worser naa!what's so hard about english wey people dey fumble!worsest sef is allow biko nu!
DeleteLmao
DeleteActresses shouldn't bother making friends with each other, just work together no need to get personal. This post reminds me of you Stella in your relationship with actresses.
ReplyDeleteKemkem queen of frienemies!
ReplyDeleteKafila Shogunro, Jumoke Odofin!
ReplyDeleteIf to say una no appear this thread for no complete!how about season 2.episode 1 to 13 of kafila sogunro's soap opera?I miss it!pls bring forth ur latest dirty linen to wash!stella's got water and basins plus canoe soap!
DeleteSo anybody who isn't in lagos lives in the village abi ?? My hubby stays in port-harcourt, after my wedding i moved...
ReplyDeleteI wonder o. What if she moved abroad or even moved to Abuja sef. Is Abuja not better than ur Lagos? How can you just conclude that she's moved to the village. Lagos is for hustlers incase you neva know
DeleteHaba, it was obviously a joke. We don't need to know about your PH hubby and Abuja runs.
DeleteAnon 3:40 AM, why did you waste your time answering them? Dem they talk about frenemies, they are talking about another thing. Home trouble and frenemy na the same thing? And then, they can't even catch a simple joke. They can like to relocate to the moon and leave lagos for aunty Esther, who gives a pig's yansh? #oshisco
DeleteLol@ d Linda Ikeji comment. I pity anyone wye be Linda close friend.
ReplyDeleteYeah yeah
ReplyDeleteLike the one sleeping with my husband and asking him for commitment....
I really don't get!
Nigerian girls need help
Stupid bitches
Someone u know is sleeping with ur man nd u still refer 2 him as 'husband'? U're right, u really don't get. Nne, u're the one who needs help. Siddon dere, the commitment don dey happen already.
DeleteHappen indeed
DeleteShe has already been disgraced
I have 4kids and if you want to come and have a share.....
Come on
He will chop u ,clean mouth and move on
We live in the same house but we have agreement for the sake of our kids.
Once u are able to identify the frenemy or frenemies, cut them off totally. It pains them the most. May God expose all our frenemies. Amen.
ReplyDeleteAmen oh
Deleteif there is one thing have noticed abt this block, it shld be the fact dat the owner and visitors of this block are very envious of linda ikeji. plesssse is not her fault she is succeeding instead its bcuz of people like u who make me and other visitors want to know more abt the most talk abt blogger linda.
ReplyDeletestella do ur blogging let linda do hers. u two were not born on the same name nor ur frm the same parents dat u have to b the same.
* block? , guess you pronounced that with calabar accent. #tongueout#..
DeleteNo vex o, i yus swy yoke wit u