When Will The Abuse Stop?
See the heartbreaking look in her eyes!
As you read this,they have since separated and their only daughter is with the estranged wife Lolade
According to insider report ''Gbenga pounced on his wife on this fateful day after taking some glasses of McDowell. He accused her of having an affair with his marketer(Epsalum) which was later debunked when Epsalum swore with the Holy Quran.
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Gbenga Oyeyiga.
The January incident which gave her internal head bleeding and almost led to brain damage
was reported and documented at the Police station in Egbe-ikotun.
This case has a police report,medical report,and there is nothing wrong if there is media reports as well''.NB-Lolade works in a bank!
Injured part of Lolade's body.
STOP THE VIOLENCE,IT IS A CRIME!
hahaaaaaaha sdk no go kill me, afi runnin horse no. but dis gbenga looks so cute to do somtin lik dis.. na wa fr dis madness.. any man wu beat his wife should b locked up in a zoo., rubbish
ReplyDeleteGbam! The idiot don stress the woman sote pimples don full her face! Pls don't go back to him o if you value your life
DeleteThis is pathetic. Women should not hide or cover up for these goats! Expose and make them pay/suffer for raising their lazy hand on a woman!!!
ReplyDeletewho is the damn goat?
ReplyDeletev never even heard his name before
animal in human skin
if u like wifey come back and tell us u fell from 3 storey building while dragging ur kids to school
na una sabi
pass me some bitter leaf chop i beg
HYBunny
wow, I always love his movies and he always seems like a gentle guy on screen. I am very shocked. Na wa for all these gentle looking men that turn out to be an abuser
ReplyDeleteJesus,this guy dat looks like someone dat cannot kill a fly!!! Stella I think its high time the govt pass a law on any man who beats his spouse. Only weak men beat women,if u sabi fight why u no go fight man.animal
ReplyDeleteWomen pls exposé these men ooo. This is becoming too much. Gbenga Omo ale ni e oh. I love your movies, but now ...... I dey vex.
ReplyDeleteStella dear keep exposing those bastards that beat their wives.omo is getting out of hand n this should stop.if u r not matured to marry then keep ur useless body aside than marry an innocent girl n keep beating her till she meets her untimely death.a word is enough for a wise n is high time married women enrolled themselves in taekwando classes so that once it happens,u smash the hell out of d man.
ReplyDelete"Its" and not "is", pls learn to write well....#you are welcome
DeleteAbeg komot, we are talking important matter and english us ur problem. Why not go and apply to be a lecturer. This is a blog
Delete"According to insider report ''Gbenga bounced ( pounced) on his wife on this fateful day after taking some glasses of McDowell. He accused her of having an affair with his marketer(Epsalum) which was later debunked when Epsalum swore with the Holy Quran."
ReplyDeleteThats the main gist there. How can they say the husbands allegations were debunked JUST BECAUSE EPSALUM SWORE WITH A QURAN???
There is more to this gist WALAHI.
what is wrong woth her skin? abi is it bleaching cream that gives rashes. either way domestic violence happens, its up uup to the victim to seek help.
ReplyDeleteChai...dem suppose lock d guy for zoo,see as he panel beat d woman
ReplyDeleteHaha... An incidence dat happened in my area, a man was beating his wife one early morning, and there was another man who saw this man beating his wife, u won't believe what this passerby did, he dropped his briefcase and gave this woman's husband the beating of his life. Since that day the man never beat him wife..
ReplyDeleteLOL, they will soon deny! Women with no self esteem! mtchew.
ReplyDeleteYes o! She might still come back and tell us "the cow jumped over the moon". If the kitchen is too hot pls stay out! Internal head bleeding doesn't sound cute @ all. #NoBeByForce
DeleteLook at him...Animal in human skin! Neva judge a book by its cover...U tink he's gentle wt he's calm lok buh na beast....All i av to say to any woman goin tru ds in human act,Shld cry out and seek help b4 its gets to late...Imagin to the xtent of ha, avin brain damage
ReplyDeleteWomen should learn to make their own money!
ReplyDeleteHello didn't u read that she's a banker? Dunce. Besides what does money have to do with it???
Deletethat is ehnnnn! what is all this kpa-kpo-sing for? all this sick prick called men! (I mean the wife beaters o)
ReplyDeletena una wife body una go de get power, if una see una mate una no go fit fight o.
...and women, difficult as it may be, try to open up and be free from it all rather than give us part 1: I hit a mini van,
part 2, she hit a chair in office,
part 3, I am his baby, he can never hurt a fly....
all of this will not help you.
ok, check this story now! Internal bleeding! what da hell? what if she suffers a brain hemorrhage (God forbid)
Men please, be a man and stop acting a weakling. its not by pouncing on your wife that makes you the man of the house or the one in control. no matter what she's done, beating is not the way out.
please, please please!!!
This is unbelievable Stella I know lolade .okota brought up.omg. why why why. Are nollwood actor cursed or what if the ladies are not snatching husbands the men are beating their wife may God have mercy.
ReplyDelete*Are Nollywood ACTORS cursed?* not *Are Nollywood ACTOR cursed?*
Delete* The men are beating their WIVES* not *The men are beating their WIFE*
Stella, you almost killed me now. I was eating a spicy meal and reading this story. I almost choked at the horse part while lol. My husband really reprimanded me now. It's totally unfunny
ReplyDeleteAbeg make we hear word jor,na only u get husband?
DeleteMen bashing seem to be the vogue when issues of Domestic Violence comes up.
ReplyDeleteWomen who beat up their househelps - dashing them slaps here and there are Abusers too.
Mothers who beat their children for whatever reason are abusers also
Women who call their husbands names and hurl insults at them are abusers also.
Domestic violence is an all encompassing term that covers a whole lot and it can be emotional (depriving your husband sex except he meets certain demands), psychological (insults, name calling etc) and physical. I read thru the comments and see abusers condemning another abuser.
Gbam!!!! My God in heaven will bless you for this comment. I always say hitting anyone wheda na man nd man, woman nd man, woman nd woman, man nd woman...is a CRIME!! Only animals do dat.
DeleteMy God, this is pathetic. When did Yoruba men start doing this rubbish??? No one i know growing up, in my immediate family did this. My brother tried and was immediately stopped. I wonder where they get it from??? My brother is quite a non violent person, so i know he must have lost it. Women and men, please respect yourselves. If you cant keep your mouth shut, and your hands to yourselves, stay away from marriage abeg. And men and women, when it comes to your marriage, keep outside forces and influences outside. Some listen to friends and family to disrespect their husbands, some men listen to friends on the best ways to discipline their wives. Even the ones that never grew up seeing such. People should respect each other, and stop putting your significant other down in any way. I wish this two luck. Men, if a woman is too toxic for you. Please leave her alone. With time she will grow up. A person that does not give others peace does not deserve consideration.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteAbeg, are the spots on her face as a result of the beating? She looks cleaner in the office picture.
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Tope u are always off-point. OP master!
DeleteY don't the govenment put fine?? Any man that beats his wife will go to jail..
ReplyDeletei dont believe this story. its just a tale from nowhere. cos, how did she threw out birthday party for her hubby together with Epsalum after she packed out of her hubby's house. This just a cook story and why is the story or news just coming out now and not when the fire was burning afresh for help.make we women too search our heart make God no use us as ROD in he's hands. Dont lets judge with this tale on net. Fear God!!!
ReplyDeleteIf its a cook story,who cook the story ma'am?
DeleteComment in English pls.
DeleteDis ur english ehn...
DeleteAnon 4:58 PM.
Delete* How did she THROW* not * How did she THREW*
* In HIS hands* not *In HE'S hands*
Since DV is now fashionable!!
ReplyDeleteIt all begins with ONE SLAP!! He slaps u once, the next day twice and u still wait.
Let all this women confess,they knew from the start that they married a violent man
shut up!!!.believe what you want who cares?he beat her and that is so wrong,i dont care what she did,no one deserves this!
ReplyDeleteKai,I don't know wat to say again...hmmmmm.for me I think all this women beater's are cece's..he said his wife is cheating on him,that was why he beat her shey..but the mumu has 1,001 thousands and girlfriends.so who is going to beat the GOAT?#ratpoison
ReplyDeleteStella no kill me ooo, no be only riding horse na table for office, story tellers. Shame on him,
ReplyDeleteAboki please shut the hell up, zip it up, this thread is not for retarded fellows , go and rear your cattles, feed them or jump into the lagoon with them. What are we saying n what is ds mumuni saying? Ewu aboki
ReplyDeleteMy take on this issue is clear and strictly so....Domestic violence is a vicious, devilish tendency and should NEVER be tolerated. I agree that a lot of it goes unnoticed and unreported and I know that a LOT of women have either been maimed or killed by this unruly trend. I also understand that only she that wears the shoe knows how it fits; Truth is: this whole rubbish starts during Courtship or dating - if your boyfriend or fiancee hits you before you are married to him, take it or leave it, as soon as you two are married, the chance that he will hit you again and again stands at 95 percent because marriage has a lot of sour times that could breed aggression but require patience and if that patience has been lacking from the courtship period, forget it, he will abuse you even more. I read where someone mentioned not knowing where to run to or how to leave the relationship - like I said, only the person involved knows how difficult it is; but, if you do not have a family or friend to run to, please get to the Police station or if you have any Social welfare office close to you, go there and cry till they understand that you have had enough and I'm sure you will get some help. Some women usually say they are reluctant to leave because they are afraid of what will become of their children - the question is: if you die in the hands of the abusive man you call your husband, will your children not live without you? Infact, at that point, you will never even have any say whatsoever because you would have been dead and long gone. God forbid! So, be wise and leave while you still have your head on your shoulders. However, while I maintain that men do not have any excuses for hitting their wives, it is important for women to advise themselves too because some of these domestic abuses are caused by women themselves. Some men are the victims of their wives' indiscretions. So, women, please try and modify whatever behavioural traits that are wrong and inimical to family growth because those things could be the reason your husbands get provoked and pounce on you. Search within you and do the right thing. Marriage is a lovely institution, Men and Women, let's maintain its dignity. Look before you leap. I wish everyone the best in their respective marriages.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.God bless you for this beautiful comment.
DeleteThis is so unfair!!!
ReplyDeleteStella you are WICKED!!! Lol @ fell from a running horse.
ReplyDeleteI saw this same story on Linda's Blog!but its more detailed here. So linda don dey copy your domestic violence diary make she self dey get visitors abi?
Abeg diarybyemmy don finish all her clients (rubbish 50,000 advert pictures wey dem dey pay her). Stella,make u just stick to ur truth o! Even if na only ds dosmetic violence diary,I dey ur syd kampe!
Back to the matter,make we wait 4 part ll sha, whether na Video d guy go record abi him go reply you say na the ink from him "Office Printer" develop legs pour 4 him wife body.
Post my comment o! Ehn
Aboki is very correct, some women also abuse their wife terribly.
ReplyDeletewhat kind of man is this? let somebody click on the makari experience on the top box, her face is full of crawcraw, common that face must be itchy
ReplyDelete@Anonymous #31, you are a typical example of what I was just saying. What you did is called verbal abuse. Talking about cows and lagoon. So you feel that you are better than the guy who beats his wife? You are worse. STICKS AND STONES MAY BREAK THE BONES BUT WORDS WILL BREAK THE HEART. May God give you a "retard" for a child so that you will appreciate what parents of Mentally Challenged children go thru. You think its an insult to call someone a "RETARD". I am sorry for your ignorance!
ReplyDeleteThank your for this reply. Don't mind the ode. We just hurl abuses just because no one can see us.
DeleteDomestic Violence is one thing I kw that won't end in our country Nigeria or anywhere in the world.I feel so sorry for those who are still going through this miserable,horrific and disgusting act for act from their HUSBANDS,WIVES,etc.I've been there before and I thank God it only happened and ended in my relationship days.So greatful to God for blessing me with the man of my dreams.!
ReplyDeleteSticks and stones ko? Wood and rock ni, yes if you are not retarded you will address the issue at hand n stop scoring cheap points, a woman has been abused, u did not show any empathy, u did not find the mans action unacceptable and condemn it in strong terms, you are talking about women who beat house help and mothers who beat their children? Seriously with due respect,u are not making sense ,eeeeeish go n buy some brains.
ReplyDeleteAboki Boko Haram thank God someone else has seen you chat crap. You had to come back to abuse? Typical.
ReplyDeletePlease keep exposing them. You do well stella
ReplyDeleteI think its about time people began to name and shame these scumbags so that unsuspecting ladies would be mindful of these low lives.
ReplyDelete...and the award for women beaters association of Edo, Lagos State Chapter goes to EHINOMEN.E.AIRIE aka CHACHANGI/EHIS and his 419 maga croonies. how he sleeps at night knowing how many women they have forced, battered and abused in your 419 haven in Abraham Adesanya estate and then Ajah is a mystery? you all may have forgotten but my pain and humiliation still lingers. only God will judge you for what you did. I hear you and your yahoo-yahoo friends still haven't changed from your evil ways, I hope your atrocities continue to haunt you until the end of time. wicked souls.
ReplyDeletefrom, Rehabilitated abused lady
(Pls SDK post my comment. Thank you and keep up the good work. u are truly a wonderful lady)
From the look of this lady's picture, this is idroquino cream abuse and not sign of domestic violence. Pls. tell our Nigerian sister to stop bleaching,she is beautiful without straining her skin into yellow.
ReplyDeleteAnd you look like a wannabe fuji musician from Onipan.
ReplyDeleteThis is totally unacceptable!
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ReplyDeleteThat epsalum boss no dey put his prick for his trouser. He sleeps with any woman in skirt
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