Blog Visitor Update: Husband Files For Divorce.

THE CLIMAX HAS RESULTED IN A BITTER FIGHT AND HUBBYS SAYS
'' I feel nothing more for the woman who is my wife''


I think some women need the wisdom of Solomon in their lives....Really!
I still believe everyone deserves a second chance ......until they they default.
Why should a mother in law(MIL) use her own hands to end her daughters marriage?
I am at a loss for words and i can only chew more  #bitterkola!

This an update to the story of the man whose wife used bathroom slippers to hit him because he couldnt provide the 50k she asked for..he ended up returning her a slap and her Mother came to pack her and her stuff away.The story on this blog is titled  DOMESTIC VIOLENCE-MY EXPERIENCE!

This is the result of the meeting meant to resolve the matter....The husband read all the comments here and heeded the advice..he went down on his knees to beg but it all went wrong!



'' Dear Stella
What do I say? Saturday (June 15,2013) was a black day. It was a day of heartbreak, it was a day of pain. It was a day I will never forget.

As I told you before, myself, other members of my family including two elders all went over to my MIL place at Gbagada to make peace and possibly bring back my wife.
My parents and the elders present all pleaded with my MIL to forgive and allow her daughter come back, but she said not a word. My wife was asked to speak up whether she wanted to come back home but she refused to decide unless her mother speaks first. All this while, my MIL just sat there like a statue and said nothing at all.
Trying to appease her further, I was asked to kneel down and beg her forgiveness. And I did Stella. I swallowed my dignity, my pride, knelt down like a little boy in front of my MIL and begged.

That was when she erupted with abuse and curses on me again. According to her, I’m a beast, an animal that should be chained down in a cage and because all men are liars, and animals, she will never allow her daughter go back to "that beast". She went on to say a lot of other horrible things which I would rather not repeat here. She got more and more furious until she was shouting on all of us.
My mother had enough and cautioned her. It was like pouring petrol. She shouted at my mother and my sisters responded hotly and it became a huge, huge fight. I was so heartbroken I cried.
You fight for what you love, why didn’t she fight to save our marriage? Am I not worth fighting to keep? I spent two good years of my life making her happy, didn’t that count for something? Or was the whole marriage a lie from the start?

That was the day love turned to pure hate for me. I hated my wife and her mother with a passion.
By now, my lawyer has already served her with divorce papers. The hearing will come up soon but it’s only a formalty. This marriage is already over.
Even if she wants to come back now, its too late. I can't live with her again. There's nothing left for her in my heart any more.
Only hatred and bitterness.
Mr Anonymous''