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Saturday, June 22, 2013

Blog Visitor In A Fix: ''I Am A Married Man With A Pregnant Girlfriend''

                                      
A lot of people with real life problems are beginning to turn to blogs to get help for their problems,some need just advice on what to do and they do get it..sometimes after a cuss-out from angry readers.

I am so appreciative of everyone who comes on this blog to be reasonable and constructive..no one is perfect but at the same time,we only gossip on this blog..no time to wear a skirt on a skeleton!

The below post you are about to read is what i would refer to as ''yawa don gas!''
Readers over to una oh...I don go my bitter leaf farm!




Read and advise
''I'm a married guy with 3 kids and my 24 year old girlfriend is pregnant for me,she doesn't know I'm married and insists I marry her before the pregnancy gets noticeable,besides I never told her I was married cos,she hasn't given me the room to.
I love the girl so much that I do everything for her and her family,now I'm so confused and need advice,i am ready to keep the girl and the child and pay her dowry but not a proper wedding,(cos I don't know how to let her know my status,and I don't want to tell her either,don't know how she will take the whole thing,don't want to loose her,she is so fragile and such a wonderful girl)
 please SDK what do you think is the best thing for me to do,its urgent cos the pregnancy is almost 2months now, please don't curse me out,and advice is all I need before it gets too late, a friend of mine that visits SDK blog advised I tell her the whole truth and let her very constructive readers advice on what to do.
what do i do?I am in a big fix.thanks Stella if you publish this''.

85 comments:

  1. Idiot. U think with your dick instead of ur head. Now u want us to advice u. When u dey fuck the girl u tel stella? As cassalla go soon burst , u prick don die ur sense come return nirmal abi? Oloshi. U had better tel the girl u r married and allow her take her decision before its too late.

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    1. Hmn. This is a delicate issue. You did very wrong for not letting her know you are happily married. You said she didn't give you room to mention that. Why didn't you pop it to her through a text message? There were several opportunities for you to let her know but you didn't, you chose to ignore it. You know this girl better than we do, and you already said she's a fragile girl. You should have let her known earlier than now. You really did wrong, by toying with her emotions. But this is what I think you should do. First of all, pray to God and ask for forgiveness for putting this girl in the family way without letting her know your status. Pls do not delay any further. Delay is denial. You delayed and that's why you are in this mess now. Then talk to her, make her know that you are married but are willing to take full responsibility of the pregnancy. You have a wife with 3 kids. Had it been your wife didn't bear you children, maybe this would have been a different story. But you had no reason to cheat, not to talk more of impregnating your girlfriend. Just talk to her, and do not delay any further please. The more you delay, the more this issue gets complicated.

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    2. Get rid of the pregnancy... Its just two months anyway.. Abort it! Please if you don't want a heart attack!

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    3. @ Juliannah, so if d wife had nt given birth it wld be a different case? What happened to for better nd for worse? U r cold hearted.

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    4. @ Juliannah, so if d wife had nt given birth it wld be a different case? What happened to for better nd for worse? U r cold hearted.

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    5. @ yeye juliana na talk u talk so....Mtschew

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    6. @ all ye anons, what that context simply means is that he had no reason whatsoever to cheat. And what does "it would have been a different case" mean to you? Do you know the context in which I termed it to mean? Some men, would use this as a means to justify themselves if their wives didn't bear a child. Read well please, I didn't justify him in any way.

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  2. Stella I dey bring hoe and rake wait for me pls.

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    1. ​​​​​​​​​​=))º°˚˚˚°ÂºLmaoº°˚˚˚°Âº‎​°Âº‎​=))

      Like that!

      Right behind u with an AK 47!

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    2. @annabel, kolo. That was funny

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  3. Carry your cross and do what you want, because you already know what you want to do. Your poor wife.

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  4. Am tired of dis kind story!

    I can oly say u are a WICKED MAN, wat apend to Condoms, hun?

    Poor gal, trapped in a married man's dillema

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  5. I see you made no mention of how your wife would feel, but you are more concerned about your girlfriend? Abi your wife no dey significant for your life? Why don't you confess your indiscretions to wifey 1st and take things up from there?

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    1. Gbam! Selfish and irresponsible man

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    2. Gbam! Selfish and irresponsible man

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    3. This is another case for no sex outside marriage. The man would not have cheated and the not so innocent girl would not be carrying another woman's husband's child. What a mess.

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    4. Gbam! Selfish and irresponsible man

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  6. How wont I curse you out? Shameless he-goat.

    You love your concubine so much, so what do you feel for your poor wife and kids?

    I'm sure you batter her and neglect your responsibilities at home.

    Where have you been meeting/sleeping with your prostitute of a girlfriend, such that she doesn't know you are married.

    You don't deserve my advice but for the sake of other innocent people concerned, tell your girlfriend you true status. If you are a coward like I suspect, take along a few friends/family members and break the news to her. If she still wants to go ahead with the pregnancy, it's her call.

    You are worried about the girl's fragility, but unbothered about the pain you are causing your wife and kids. May God fight for your wife.

    If you try to push all your atrocities under the carpet and do any "yeye Solomon Akiyesi marriage", you will meet with ultimate disgrace.

    Ole, Olojukokoro, Alainitelorun.

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    1. HOPE. u re d most wicked man on earth. @ dis sitaution u re only considering demonic feelings for d girl without feeling 4 ur poor inocent wif at home. U go about sleeping nd fuckinh without condom afta dat u go bc 2her.GOD ll punish u.beta tel sweet sixteen so u dont destroy d future of ur legal children wit polygammy nd for the girl not to be another of ur victim.Fat fool.

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    2. Gbam, Gbamer, Gbamest!!!@ anon 6.05

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    3. Rite on point,hahahahahaha

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  7. Here you are concern about a girlfriend outside and NOT your wife with three kids...looks like you aint saying the whole story here. WHAT ABOUT YOUR WIFE? WHAT ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE? WHAT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY? AM I MISSING SOMETHING HERE? #DAMN SOME LIFE WE LIVE IN#

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  8. I just pity your poor wife. Useless man. I cant trust any man in this life again. Your wife n 3kids dont deserve this mess u put them through.

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    1. Fallacy of hasty generalisation. This is exactly the same way some men say ALL women are prostitutes and aren't trustworthy.

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    2. Fallacy of hasty generalisation. This isexactly how some men say ALL women are prostitutes and aren't trustworthy.

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  9. First of all, Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ a disgrace Ï„̅☺ all married men trying Ï„̅☺ keep their sanity and stay faithful Ï„̅☺ their wives. Put urself in this girls shoes, how would u feel if a guy lied Ï„̅☺ u like that. Forming single while married and secondly put Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ self in Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ wives shoes, for Gods sake she bore u kids. What is wrong with u. U better tell Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ side chic Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ married or do u think she won't still find out? Don't worry, keep covering up, d day d cat will be let out of d bag, u'll regret everytime u spent on top of her. Ashewo oshiii. Insatiable modafucker. I pray all the nemesis catch up wt u. How can u even love 2women at once. Oleeee. Thiefffff.

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  10. Na wa ooooo. Young girls have suffered oooo. We don really suffer for this life we come. I will breathe a very long and deep breath on my wedding day cause the shit we pass through in some men's hand as single ladies are outrageous. Please Sir, tell the young lady, becos it will eventually come out. I beg u in d name of God to hurt her now than later. And ur poor wife. It is well. The lord is your strength as u do the right thing.

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    1. My dear, it gets worse after marriage. Abi u don't see how the fool's wife has been disrespected.

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  11. want some advise? I wl give u. Hw long do u want 2continue in a web of lies. D girl wl find out eventually. So uncle, d bitter bt true truth! Tell her d truth abt ur status, dnt 4get 2also tell her u go keep d child ooh. Then let her decide after. Bt bros u no try at all ooh

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  12. Lmaoo, all those wicked men around, na devil catch u ashawo oshi! I bet d babe is so happy that she is pregnant for the love of her life and would soon get married. And the animal is even considering paying her dowry. What women go through in the hands of men. U dey find advice? When u started d lies, did u tell SDK, when you were fucking d babe did u tell SDK? Na now u remember say SDK get blog. Lwkmd! Time to pay for your sins boy. Hard luck doing so too *rolling my sexy eyes*

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  13. Please why do married men cheat? Is so bad dat most married men cheat despite d fact dat dey have sexy wives @ home with good character and ready to support their husbands men still cheat on dem.why na? As for u he goat, u should have told d girl frm day 1. I will advice u to just tell d girl nd also ur wife @ home nd pray to God for forgiveness so he can teach u what to do. SDK please let's discuss this topic on why married men cheat. Thank u. Sexymama

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  14. MEN ARE WICKED! ( I know say nah Nigerian man ! ) I pity those wen marry una! IDIOT!

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    1. Thunder fire U̶̲̥̅̊ and all T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ •̸Ϟﻉ in ur dead country. Bastard!

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  15. this is what happen when a man married someone he doesn't love either because of tribal issues, or his wife got pregnant for him and was forced to marry..Goodluck bro

    I pity your wife, children, unborn pikin and the "innocent" 24yrs old girl who is caught in the middle because she doesn't know you are a married man.

    Gbe agbelebu re kowu wo bi ko wu wo...

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  16. Eeyah,I feel for u,
    ​​​​​​​​​​=))º°˚˚˚°ÂºLmaoº°˚˚˚°Âº‎​°Âº‎​=))
    If I hear!(˘̯˘ )

    Mr he-goat or bingo...hmmmm,choose the one u feel describes u!

    U intend to continue lieing to the poor girl and her family and u claim to love her *confused face!

    Truth is,u don't know the meaning of love.olodo and stop watching indian films!ure a confused selfish bat(blind)!

    The most alarming thing is that you don't seem to care about a woman that bore u three kids! I'm still trying to define your kind of beast!

    I won't waste my time advising you cos ur mind is not developed enough to understand.its like expecting a kia to run like a ferarri!

    All I will say to ur story is that God will console ur innocent wife and kids.☹

    Need I tell u that as a man you have failed at your primary responsibility of protecting your home!
    What will u tell ur wife and kids???

    Ure a real God-forbid of a man!

    Solomon Akiyesi's evil twin!
    (˘̯˘ )

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    1. I love u fearless for dt

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  17. Aboki Na Mallam22 June 2013 at 19:06

    My advise to you is to tell your wife and then she will tell you what to do!!! that is if you are still alive.

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  18. Dear bloggers, enough of condemnation and lets assist God helping us. What an interesting story! You are married and still have enough time to be with a girl friend so much that the challenges of keeping a home with a wife and 3 children are lost on her! Maybe your wife and kids are outside Nigeria and that gives ample time to feed your excesses.
    As it stands, if you do not want to court further wahala, I think you will have to own up to both your wife and the pregnant girlfriend. Your wife would be mad at you but confess and seek forgiveness. You have toyed with the emotions of your girlfriend and the scar may be deeper than anyone can imagine. She is innocent and so I can not ask her to abort for she can die in the process. She will come to terms with the deceit from you but she needs her family members around her when you are breaking the news and even after that. If she chooses to abort and she survives, to God be the glory. If she does not abort and chooses to carry the baby to term, you must cater for her and the baby but do stop any amorous relationship with her except you are ready for a second wife. You are a callous fellow by your act and should go on your knees seeking the face of God for your action. You will get your punishment but pray very well so that it would be bearable for you. Next time, be satisfied with what God has done for you rather than seeking comfort that is not meant for you.

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  19. iLoveMiLaif; that's a myth. Men are just wicked and can't be satisfied. When it comes to their dicks, they follow it brainlessly. I wish your wife can start praying earnestly so the pregnancy will drop and you will retrace your steps back to her and your kids.

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  20. Hahaha...the thing wey dey sweet,dey kill.This is a mess that u got urself into,and I think it up to u alone to fix it thesame way u started it.Feel sorry for the wife and the poor baby in the middle of all these mess.ZIP IT UP.I believe that was one if the reasons u married ur wife?if u had caught some disease,u would have passed it on to ur wife...In all,U SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF URSELF.As for ur "GIRLFRIEND"a've got nothing to say to her.MY OPINION!!!

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  21. Guy! if ur wife comes to u to tell u that she's carrying another man's child, how will u feel?You cheated on her, as if it's not enof, u plan bringing in ur trophy home without thnking how she 'll feel.U 're very wicked and cruel, wen God decides to pay u back, dnt ask questions.As for d gurl u deceived, it's not by force u marry her cos getting pregnant b4 marriage involves a lotta risks so I'd say she was ready.I 've one lady with me in a similar case as urs.The man told her he was married immediately she announced her pregnancy, and he takes care of his child but didn't marry her.So I guess u do same.u must'nt marry her.All this serves as a lesson to the girls who com on this blog to proudly say they 're dating married men.These married men 're liars, time wasters and just com to destroy a young girls life!U girls better borrow som senses and leave married men alone.If all d young girls decide not to date them, they 'll stay faithful to thier wives.

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  22. Hhahahahahaha,ppl abeg una too blast dis guy o,hahahahahahahahhah,chai nwannem u r really senseless,big time o,olodo rapata,

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  23. I just knew people will still insult this man! I don't blame you guys oh: what the man did is pathetic!

    As for me, I gat no advice for you sir.

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  24. Someone pls help! I can't play embedded videos on my BB anymore.
    It started after I inserted a Glo SIM.
    Does anyone have a solution?

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  25. This he-goat didn't even mention his wife's feelings. Just going on and on about how he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend. Olorigbeske oshi. Devil. I hope your penis falls off and gets eaten by an ekuuke dog. Idiot. Advice weyrey ewo are you looking for? Better advice yourself.

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    1. Gbam! I noticed the same thing too. The idiot made no mention of his wife or how it'll affect her and the family. This man is very wicked and heartless and I pray the wrath of God doesn't fall upon him.

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  26. Wait o. You still want to marry her without telling her your status? Abi did I read this story well? What kind of devil are you? Hey my God. I can't believe this? How can you be so wicked? Where is your conscience? Are you a human being at all?

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  27. This man is wicked sha. Oga, no advice for you cus you know what you are doing. I can only predict what might eventually happen to you. You might die, yes, one of your women might kill you eventually. Right now, you have two ENEMIES of your soul in the making but u don't know. No worry, continue in your wicked pranks.
    You are nothing but a useless prick Sir, I swear down.

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  28. paying her dowry&marrying her is not an option. tell her d truth. be responsible for her pregnancy. confess to ur wife n family. keep ur dick to ur wife alone. God help u as u do d right thing

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  29. I am tired of hearing stories like that. @ the anon calling the girl prostitute, for real? And if someone insults you now, you will start blog war. I am sure you read where the guy said the poor girl still doesn't know that he is married with kids......so does that make her a prostitute?! This is the kind of bullshit single ladies go through and they are called all sorts when shit blows up. I am sorry to say this but married men are worse than single guys. Most don't even wear the wedding bands sef. As for you Mr. married lover boy, you are so wrong in every way! You even have the fucking nerves to be saying " don't curse me out" ok should we praise you or get Ayefele to come and sing for you? It's so obvious that you don't love your wife sef because you are just going on about this your girlfriend even saying you want to marry her!!! You already know what you want to do so why are you sending this in? Pretty sure you want your wife to see it so that she can leave your punk ass and that will give you the opportunity to be with your pregnant girlfriend. Since you are man enough to give a girl belle, you should be a man and tell your wife!!!
    To all the single girls out there still searching, shine your eyes well well. Go into a relationship with your head first! Not your heart or pussy! ( excuse my language). God will give you your own and not one yeye married man!

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  30. *whistling and strolling*

    what does he need? Advice? I see! Oga, no parking here! Go front abeg!

    *continues strolling, stops! buys groundnut, throwing one after the other in mouth, continues strolling...

    Its a beautiful evening down here... enjoying the breeze!

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    1. @ BL abeg nor kill me with laff abeg..kip buyin groundnut n enjoi d breeze..

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    2. Hahahahahahahahaha!
      You are something else I swear! This got me laughing so hard. I love you for this!! #NoHomo#

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  31. Dont let it cross ur evil mind to abort dat innocent soul. Make sure u provide for & train dat child ( in addition to d 3 poor kids at home) properly.
    I pray in 25 yrs time u will find out dat d child is not urs.
    Maybe den u will appreciate ur wife.
    Olobushun

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    1. Hehehehe Hehehehe. ...wallahi I for like make it happen to this shit of a man.

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    2. Love d 25yrs part.......

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  32. @d poster u have a daughter right?well what goes around comes around.some men ar just..... Seriously nor word 2 Describe ur action

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  33. Chai lwkmd.sdk readers una too much.see curse

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  34. She has not given u "room"to tell her that ye r married.The "room" that ye were doing ur chuku chuku wasn't big enough for u to tell her?u did this disgusting act and ye expect ppl not to curse u out...Good luck with that or better still cross ur arms and wait for a pat on ur back for a job well done.

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  35. Oga poster ...pray u are not my hubby o.Cos if u are,walahii...nothing and I repeat no preaching,will stop me from poisoning your meals slowly and watching you eat knowing you are soon gonna die....Useless things called men.

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  36. Idiotic Element..Evil wizard..see ehn #angry face#u guys shud stop coming 2 blogs 2 seek 4 advice.wen u alredy know wat ure doin.wen u started d terrible lie did u come here 2 ask if#u can date a single lady without disclosing ur marital status??ehn Ewu

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  37. Some Men r funny breeds.
    See aw he deceived. The poor innocent guy.
    Same thing almost hapnd 2 me. Met this we started going out, he will shower with gifts. Always dsturbing he wana c my pple, bt won't let me c hs. never taken me 2 hs house. Will gv excuse "my sis is home, we r trained 2 hide our relationship, dnt want ha 2 c u yt" a man of 38 ooo.
    He wants 2 b introduced 2 my pple, yet its only hs pals he wana introduce me 2. Me ws jst playing along. Now he wants sex, told him, I can't sex u I gt no urge. He screams, its over! 4 3mnths v known U, we v nt had ex. I can't continue. Nd I ws like" Oh my God! Thanks so much.

    Men? Fear them

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  38. Too bad! Sir how could you do such a thing. you too heartless! this is not love if you really loved this girl you would not toil with her feeling abeg! Same thing happened to my sister now she has a two year old daughter for the man. pretty girl she is! but ehn sometimes i pity that little girl born in the mist of all that Drama and mess!
    My sister was dating this guy thinking he was single the foolish man never told her he was married even with 4kids Alas! when she finally got pregnant the man told her he is married my sister started to weep ehn! it was a big issues woman came to attack her.
    Any way the man aske dto marry her but she verhemently refused but then she choose to keep the babe.
    Boss i just don't know what to tell you all i can say is do what you believe is right and pray to God for Direction. It has happened already solve this issues deplomatically and afterwards move on be happy life is too short to be worrying! God be with you and please afterwards never make such a mistake again. God be with you! #Phantom#

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  39. Stella abeg wait too ooo !....
    me go follow you go dat farm!...Chei wey mine axe na?

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  40. Wat u have done to ur wife and kids is very bad..Let me tell u something...u are considering paying her dowry..hmmm u try dat just be ready to have hundreds of children becAuse without planing for it u will continue to sleep with other women...it is karma wat u have don to ur first wife nature will find a way for u to repeat urself and do it to as many women as possible.....from ur word u are BOLD to say u are not going to tell her u are married because she's fragile...I PITY u...

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  41. i wanted to be sympathetic when stella wrote "none of us is perfect", but this senseless man spoilt it by saying he wants to pay her dowry...lolz
    Honestly, i cnt start racking ma brain for this annoying plea. d only thing i can do is to ask God to forgive u.. Smh

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  42. this man has taken we men to the highest low right now.... See genuine pain and anger in all d comments... I wont curse u Mr man... But knw that u will surely pay for this act..
    Stories like this makes me get scared of how much of a husband and a father am gonna be someday.
    Now because of you, more girls now believe that men are born cheaters.
    Bcos of u, more women now call we men monsters, beasts, and many more terrible names....
    i didnt really read through the comments when i posted my ist comment.
    On behalf of we men, that wants to be a faithful husband wen we get married, i am appealing to the ladies not to take this one too many incidents as proof that men cant be better... There Good, faithful men out there ! !

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    1. A na ma nu!

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    2. Uche hapu dat preaching mehn

      U men of nowadays are already branded monsters,cheaters etc

      That's how my ist love left me and married some SU that used fake-virgin status to deceive me.

      Then he didn't have shishi and I was so in love, now even his marriage is such joke,cos madam-virgin turned out not a be a virgin as she claimed, her SU union attitude was an act too.
      Now dude can't let me be, he keeps professing love and how he was blinded by distractions, the anuofia want me to have a baby for him etc.
      Thank God I've left that una Nigeria. I just cnt understand this married men of nowadays. They are now so worse compared to the single ones!

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  43. Mr Oga....ure a very very stupid man, not once did ur cheating ass mention ur wife's feelings. ..ure now asking us what to do.....go and hug transformer na.....dumb fuck

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  44. I guess everyone who has commented has spoken my mind! Can I ask u exactly what kinda advice u hoped to get on SDK's blog? U said ur gf didn't give u "room" to tell her u r married. She didn't give u room or u conveniently left out that info. Stupid man! May u die a slow and painful death for ur insensitivity to ur wife n 3 kids!

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  45. julianna..u are a very heartless and wicked woman...Had it not been that his wife had children...u wld ve suggested he kicked his wife out and marry the girl, right??? U are very stupid..Now, back to the topic....Mr man, u are very hearless, all u think about is your yourself...Foolish man, have u considered how your wife would feel about all these?? IDIOT

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  46. At comment abt SU,ma sister so her own was serious after useless(SU)chai!As for uncle,(dnt knw wat to call u sef)ti e ti ba e(ur own iyaff catch u)alayi ni te lorun(non-contented man)!She dint give u room to mention ur marital status,buh there was enof room to get her pregnant(abi it was d 1st day u had sex,she got pregnant)definately not!u sound so 23yearz old,n therez a page facebook oponuz like u visit(sexlife in 9ja)u wld get advise so te ehn,u wld almost die(rubbish)!Such insolence to d poor wife!Olohun ku suru(God is indeed a patient God)if man was God(me esp.)Ma thotz towardz u nw wld sink groundz(so lemme shaatap)alaraka,oniranu,olojukokoro okunrin!God save us women!H to d L=H.L

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  47. Tours won't be the first not the last.tell d babe truth and that you
    One her make her accept I.then call your friend.and family.to.talk.to.tour wife for you she will accept her Faith.just be just when it comes to been caring.don't let the babe hear from people outside that gonna make I dirty.sage kust

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  48. Just tell both parties the truth. It will really hurt now...but that 's the only sincere choice you have. You owe them that much. Besides, I hope you are EXTREMELY CERTAIN that the child your girlfriend is carrying is yours?

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  49. Please you must tell her the truth now and also your wife too. Sad as it has turned out for both ladies, the deed has been done. But I wonder how she dated you for this long without finding out you were married. Big mistake on her part. So she never visited to know were you live. na wa o. Anyhow you are in africa and an african man so u can take a second wife if she doesnt mind.

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  50. The deed has been done, no remedy.Let the lady know your true status as a married man with children. Confess your situation to your wife, who knows she may forgive you. Let the pregnant girl friend, decides on what to do(Not to abort the baby), but whether she is ready to be second wife, or a single mother.Since you two decided to have an unprotected sex,the result should not surprise anybody. Face your cross with determined agility, you will live above the mess. Goodluck to you.

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  51. Stella my story is worse than this...i dont know how to contact u for full details.My introduction is supposed to be on d 29th june......on d 20th i found out my supposed fiance has been married for years with 2boys....he left me hanging after makin wedding preparations and all.Up til now he hasnt contacted me,the shame is too much for me,to think that i dated him for 4yrs and 8months.

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  52. This guy must be a learner or mugu, which one is worse sef? Did you seek for advice when you were doing the do??
    Please leave this space so Stella can put better gist.

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  53. Hi,

    Frankly speaking, no one can give you right decision,its your life, you know, your life better than us and whats is your position. so take decision fast.Dr Malpani

    Regards,
    http://www.drmalpani.com/

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  54. you date man for 4years plus and you no know say him dey married? Where do you ladies meet these devils masquerading as humans? I struggle to understand these tales.

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  55. Just tell her the whole truth now. It will still be better for her to know the truth now than later because she is going to feel that you are not a sincere fellow by hiding this from her. She is already pregnant, so there is no going back on that. I hope your wife knows about it. Two women may not find it easy sharing one man or leaving under the same roof. It is a different scenario if you are no longer with your wife on a mutually agreed platform.

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  56. its very sad to here this kind of stories but life is not that fair all the time and as long as we live we will comeacross with this kind of stories .

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  57. I think you need to just keep being honest with the wife. Things are rough with you but twice as hard with her.

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