Okay we are doing Reality here.
If the topic disgusts you,please scroll to another www or waka pass.
So you are a guy and your babe has p***y the size of the whole of ajegunle put together. That doesn't mean she's been around the world n ayayaaaa........might be nature,might be your handiwork sef.
You love her but you have never discussed this with her,instead all your friends know shes too wide!
That's not fair guys!
And you are the babe and your guy is as small as your tiny-est finger and all you do is complain to your best friends and look for other means to help satisfy your sexual urge.
Some of you got men with lorry sized manhood and live your sexual life in pain because he uses it the wrong way during love making...yes for some men,its bang bang bang without the foreplay!
You stay with him cos he's rich and you massage his ego by telling him his love making is the best when all you do during love making is play ten-ten in your head/cry and pray for him to get it done with quick.
You are still with her cos shes more beautiful than all your friends girls blah blah blah......
Not fair but then life isn't always fair is it?
This brings me to the question.
Does size (big or small,wide or tight)really matter in a relationship where 'love' exists?
Would you tell your partner they are too wide or too small and try to work it out or you look for solution outside of the relationship?you term it not hurting their feeling because you love them?
And now we come to the boobs questions...Some of you fantasize about women with breasts like cossy orjiakor but your woman at home has small or moderate sized boobs and you have never touched that region because it doesn't appeal to you.....
Does the size of her boobs really matter?
STELLA, hmmmm, I always like your write-up.
ReplyDeleteTo me, yes size does matter a lot in a relationship.
Stella na sunday morning u dey talk ds kin tin..u no dey go church..u jst wan corrupt our mind afta sunday service...but rily I guess 2 some peeps,size matters but av only had one guy n my life&hes still my bfrnd nw so I can't tell d diffrnce btw sizes but I knw he's ok..nt tiny&nt xxl..hehehehhe..
ReplyDeleteFor me the size of my man's thing doesn't matter so long as he uses it well. Also am one of lucky girls with sizeable boobs and cool p***y hole *smiles* all of my Ex keeps coming back so I guess am not bad atall. Stella this is sunday !!! SMH for this ur post on sunday morning
ReplyDeleteAfta u don talk finish, na em u remember say na sunday... SMH 4 u! Anyways, moderate is always d way 2 go, however, love is primary yl size is secondary.
DeleteAfta u don talk finish, na em u remember say na sunday... SMH 4 u! Anyways, moderate is always d way 2 go, however, love is primary yl size is secondary.
Delete"All of my ex keeps coming back" if u think u re too good then why do u have many ex's? Them for not dey leave u at all na. Keep deceiving yourself sweetie. Lmao
DeleteStella u done come ohhh,keep d sabbath day Holy*lol*.....OK back 2 d subject at hand,yes size matters a lot. Nd u talking abt nt discussing wit ur partner,bt wit ur frds. In a situation wher u ve spoken 2 him several times nd he feels u robbing his ego,he's nt ready 2 do anyt abt it,wat wld u advice d person 2 do,is 2 seek it else wher if u can,if nt bear nd ve a boring sex life til ur old age.
ReplyDeleteDiscuss wot wit him? His Dick size? So wot's he gon do abt it? Go 4 enlargemnt? Look, dat his Dick feels small insideof u myt not really mean itz tiny, it culd b ur hole is extravant wt space ;). If u aint ok wit size, exit 2 d left people! One man's awww is another man's ewwww... #peace#
DeleteDiscuss hw is gonna get u satisfy wit d size of d Dick,probably he's nt using it properly. If nt, "exit 2 d left people!" according 2 u:)
DeleteWell Stella it actually depends on people. Variety they say, is the spice of life. Left to me, size shouldn't matter if one is in love with his partner.. But most people would disagree with me.. Some like to 'sample' the thing before they go into a serious relationship which shouldn't be.. But personally, I feel size shouldn't matter in a true relationship.
ReplyDeleteWELL I THINK SIZE MATTERS.BUT EVERYTHING BOILS DOWN TO COMMUNICATION WT UR PARTNER BCOS CASES LIKE DIS IF NOT WELL HANDLE CAN CAUSE INFIDELITY, INSECURITY OR EVEN DIVORCE. Nneka
ReplyDeleteSunday morning make I pray ridiculous prayer first father God today is Sunday and Stella is asking corrupt question which am about to give corrupt answer pls God forgive me ; no be first start the question Na Stella forgive her too . now to your question big .small p.....s no matter when you love somebody you overlook their fault.
ReplyDeleteAs a virgin , with a tight one, waiting earnestly for my wedding nite , my husband will be so luckyyy lol
ReplyDeletewhat if on the night of ur wedding ur husband tend to be xxl am sure u wont be so lucky!
DeleteEven if he's xxl it doesn't matter. As long as the vagina's well lubricated, it won't be so painful! Kip ur virginity girl! Don't let no one discourage u!
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Communication is the key, size shouldn't matter. Maybe u ve an idea how he can use that small pencil well, y not educate him instead of talking to ur friends abt it. Anyways, i ve been with 2guys, one big and one small. I didn't feel much difference, guess cos they were both gud and i also helped cos i talk too much o wen making love/having sex.
ReplyDeleteTeam size matters
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DeleteCommunication is the key, size shouldn't matter. Maybe u ve an idea how he can use that small pencil well, y not educate him instead of talking to ur friends abt it. Anyways, i ve been with 2guys, one big and one small. I didn't feel much difference, guess cos they were both gud and i also helped cos i talk too much o wen making love/having sex.
ReplyDeleteyes size matters. I like it long thin n d guy must be a 'workoholic' lol
ReplyDeletebut d size should b moderate o nor b like one guy way wound mi 4 yansh.
na tall lepa guys sabi do. Most fat guys hv peanut size n r lazy. my opinion
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ReplyDeleteStella u asked a good question. Personally, I think size, to a certain extent, does matter. I mean, no babe would be happy to be with a man with a 2 inch schlong. On the other hand, no guy would be happy with a babe with a "basin" for a "punani".
ReplyDeleteHaving said that however, I think majority of us men falls into the "average" category I.e between 5 and 9 inches long. This means skill, rather than size makes the difference. Women will not stay with you because you have a python size schlong, no. Rather, they will keep coming back because you know how to use what you have.
SIZE MATTERS!!!!!!!!! For those saying it doesn't matter if u really love the person, well that's a big lie, it matters u know why? Because no amount of LOVE can fill up for sexual satisfaction. I Love sex and my man's rod is d perfect size 4me imagine if t were smaller, I'll sleep off during sex n if t were bigger I'll alwys cry. So the prayer shud be "God please let my partner's thing be perfect for me" shikena
ReplyDeleteSize matters oh! I can't even av nytin wit a guy wit a tiny peepee, d peepee will now be swimming insyd the punany? Godforbid
ReplyDeleteMehnnnnn! Liv al dis mata"say seX b4 marriage".i must c it is workin and perfectly sound.size matas alot to me,if u ve d cash and nt gud in bed,i go waka life,i wld nt tell u so as nt to hurt ur feelings. Sex is d sweetest tin eva. If i marry u cos of d cash and nt gud in bed,i dey do myself cos i wld end up cheatin on him.My hubby knws i luv sex more dan food and he doses me wit it. I ve a friend in lagos whose elder sista was a virgin @ 35.she was datin a yoruba guy who was strikinly handsum and wealthy.He said no sex b4 marriage and she was very happy cos she felt she was wit d right man,dey got married months leta,on their weddin nite bros nor gree stand up to do em duty,he lied dat he was stressd,one wk pass,2wks,months and years.he beggd her to get pregnant outside and cum home.bt she refused and she was already clockin 40,dnt knw wot happend since den.dis is a true life story.Sex takes 40% of my life,my Hubby and kids takes 40% anD makin money is 20%.Sex is very,very,veryyyyyy important o. To me na jamb.
ReplyDeleteSize mataz oh... Datin a guy presently & he's big: so big dt I dnt enjoy sex since am always in pains, I bleed after sex & infact, sex for me is lyk punishment... But he's so understandin dt its only 4tyms in a month we av sex as a result of d pains I usually av! So ma bro, size mataz
ReplyDeleteWell for me,size don't matter at all,its how u use it that matters.. Av been with a guy with abig dick and he can't do anything,I've been with someone with small dickand he performed better than the guy with the big dick maybe because I have a very tight pussy even though its deep(hope u y'all know there a difference between deep pussy and wide pussy)... My boo's size now is very moderate and I call him my tiger cos he's the best av had..
ReplyDeleteSo what am saying is the size of a boat doesn't matter but how well u swim in an ocean,lake or river
To me moderate size is better, but with communication and love one can overcome several issues. What if u marry a guy with the big dick and he later becomes impotent, what happens? will u leave him . love to me is the basic, with sex toys one can still enjoy sex
ReplyDeletena wa o. so NO virgin dy naija again? una too spoil for hia. c as una dey comment and today na Sunday o lol
ReplyDeleteTechnique is key
ReplyDeleteFor me as a guy, i love ladies with boobs, but my GF has a medium size. The boobs is not the reason why i'm with her in the first place so it doesn't really matter to me. Just appreciate ladies with bulks...
ReplyDeleteWell size doesn't matter as long as u know how to use it n other techniques. But wt love u Don't see any fault in ur patner. If u r sexually frustrated becos of size, instead of talking to ur friends n ridiculing ur Partner,take a walk n leave him or her for someone dt will appreciate him or her.u might even be surprise wat ur ex say about u after d break-up.so Don't go feeling irreplaceable.
ReplyDeleteAv dated one idiot with a python size dick and was even hapi wen I saw it but he was a complerte terror and waste if time and dat was d last time he saw me. My new date dick is as small as a 5yrs old and he's 49yrs old but with dat dick I come twice in a session of love making. Peeps size doesn't matter, its d user dat matters and with my current one I hate guys with big dick......pray GOD not to av one as a husband.
ReplyDeleteThis topic is sooo handy for me. My ist guy was moderate. And I think I enjoyed d sex, even begged for it. But my present guy is massive( infact I'm confused) I don't know if my pussy is too small or his size is too big for me. Sex is punishment, lyk I'm even scared of it now, I even bled once. Aldoe we don't frequent it, like once in three/ four months, weneva it comes, I anticipate d pain, so I do evrtin to avoid it. I love this guy, and he loves me like hell, buh I'm seriously confused, cos all indications shows he wanna spend d rest of his life with me, and I really want to too...
ReplyDeleteD only issue I have is his size, don't know how how long I can endure this pain
My dear, for your church mind,do u think the guy doesn't have sex with no other person? Do u think the only time he has sex is once in every 3 to 4 months..do u think a marriage can work that way? If u don't mind him cheating while u are married,then no problem.
DeleteAs much as size dnt matter, it shldnt be too big or too small.......just know hw to use ur equipment effectively n efficiently......thats all
ReplyDeleteSize of the pussy is not as issue. The pussy will always stretch after a child birth. Will you throw your wife out. Bed skills is the panacea. However size is everything when it comes to boobs.
ReplyDeleteAnon 3:26am,My dear,nt every1's pussy stretches after child birth,I stil blv it depends on ur body tissue...I've 2 kids already,bt I'm stil very tight like I start having sex yesterday,nt dat e married me a virgin anyways,*nt proud 2 say dis tho*2gether wit d fact I fkd 4 guys b4 him,so u see,it depends dear!nd is nt dat my hubby's Dick is even close 2 bn big..its jst der.I've 2 b properly wet 4 him 2 penetrate freely,if nt I can end up getin hurt.
DeleteStella my darling I've always said size does not matter n it friends on how the man uses his Dick but Stella I've been married for 3 years now n all I do is fantasize about big dicks. 3 years with my husbands small Dick that I dream of mighty mighty things. All I want is an anaconda penetrating me from behind so I can cum. I have thought of purchasing a dildo or vibrator but I'm afraid my husband will find it and all hell will break loose. I'm constantly horny n never satisfied by my husband. Sometimes I just want to have someone to chat sexually with, nothing serious, hmmmmm just horny now thinking about a good sexual encounter
ReplyDeleteAnon 7:50am,I feel ur pain dear. I can imagine wat u going thru,I've come 2 realize we 9ja wives we endure marriage,rather than "enjoy". We do suffering nd smiling in our marriages. I'm going thru worse,yet I refuse 2 leav,capitalising on our kids,as if d kids re gonna stay wit me 4 ever. Enough said Jare,b4 I start writing "essay". May God help us all.
DeleteBabes i feel ur pains. I was oncce in ur shoes but now,its all gud. My hubby has a big dick but he doesnt know how to use it . Sex with him is always missionarry,so annoying. But now,im always happy since i met dis guy that works with dstv, he keeps our secret & gives me mind blowing sex. Omg! Hes so gud. After smoking his joint in our love nest,na to hammer me dey go till eternity. I can link u up if y"al care.
DeleteHmmmm well to me size matters a lot oo. Dats y I wld prefer tasting b4 d marriage so no excuse tomoro. Buh @ early stage of a r/ship u can't jus tell a guy dat he is too big or small. D best thing is to take off. Except u re very close dat guy!
ReplyDeleteStella I'm new in ur blog nd I've really notice dat u're v.rude.ur 1st paragraph was v.rude.u really have 2 take it easy on ur readers if u must go higher dan dis.u don't av 2 respond or react 2 d bad comments u get on dis blog.if u wana be a celeb u must get ready 2 deal wif d insults dat comes wif it witout retaliating.u don't av 2 post my comment.tnx
ReplyDeleteI love me sum mandiago abi na mandigo,woreva jare.werin i wan use small pee pee do?
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm dis na true talk ooo, size metter wel wel oo, i think both party can do someting abt thing if the love is there.
ReplyDeletehole as big... we ladies shud du alot of pussy massage and also sit on a plastic half filled with hot water it works. some have big but cannot use, some can use but have no big, hubby has big and he can use thank u LORD for everything amen. i married d man i wass sexually attracted and connected to. luckiest me.
ReplyDeleteomo SIZE matterssssssssssssssssssssssss! ah ahn? abeg I no wan explain but HELL YES it does.
ReplyDelete@ bloglord wetin u wan explain? u sef dy brag like say u 'carry sumthin big' abeg commot mke we hia word.
ReplyDeleteBloglord is a woman
DeleteAnon 23 and 32.. i think the reason why u hve pains during sex is not because of your guys penis size perse but because your vagina is not properly lubricated. if you are wet enough you should feel no pain. You can buy a lubricant, use vaseline or even simple saliva can help a lot. You girls should also talk to your guys about spending more time on foreplay to help you get properly wet before penetration. Meanwhile your guy making love to you once in 3 months has only one reason he's shagging someone else so dont b decieved because the male libido cannot endure for that long.
ReplyDelete@8:52 AM, how can we get in touch?
ReplyDeletePls whoever dropped d num below is not from me. Annonymous 8:52am. Pls becareful of scammers. U can open a new mail & drop d add here & i will send u a mail for verifications. Im a married woman not a guy
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ReplyDeleteam a virgin waiting patiently for that guy in my life. but ehn stella size matter oh! i dated this guy whom well i can say i loved and wanted him to be the one to break my virginity but he kept on telling me jockingly that he has a very huge prick when he realised i was a virgin. i never took him seriously my dear until the day he tried to penetrate. i nearly cried my heart out. it was so damn painful. i wish i hadn't even tried. it could never penetrate through not even the head. so we had to stop. even bought lubricant that same night. useless venture. couldn't still. am happy am still a virgin though i loved him and he loved me too. but we both figured we just can't be together.
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