Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Advises Men On How To Treat Their Wives ......

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, the founder of the Christ Embassy Church has advised men on how to treat their wives....

While preaching to his congregants in a Live Video, he said..

"Take your wife as your first daughter more than as your mate
If you take her as your mate, you would be offended at the things she does because you would expect more from her....

If you take her as your daughter, you would be more gracious and you would overlook all the nonsense, I called it all the nonsense because in your mind, it's all nonsense but atleast since the nonsense is coming from your daughter,it's not too bad

Think that way, and then if you wanted to get very angry, you just she's your daughter anyway, so even if she told you to your face I hate you, then you remember she's your daughter and you can't change the situation anyways and it will not hurt you.

But if you think your mate is talking to you, you will be hurt and you will find a way to get back at her to prove to her that she would need you and then trouble starts cause she didn't mean what she said, she was trying to hurt you and you felt it, that's what you wanted, now you plated the kid, you're her son, so you see, you gotta make a choice

A man that acts according to how he's hurt by his wife is a boy, he is his wife's first son, so she's actually training him, so when you find out that you are getting angry at your wife, you're in training , that woman is training you, she knows how to handle you, when she wants you happy, she knows what to do
So change the way you're operating in your home, don't say am trying and she has to try too, No!, it's one sided, she doesn't have to try, take it that she doesn't know you so then it's your responsibility to show her the way"