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REPORT OR NOTI am a 40 year old married woman living in Canada. There is this 24 year old white boy at my job who has refused to leave me alone. He keeps flirting with me despite knowing that i am married with 3 kids and constantly setting boundaries. I am thinking of reporting him to the manager...
Madam report him that what? There are so many issues here....
Do you have proof that he is flirting with you?Flirting is not even a crime cos colleagues can flirt and marry.If you report him and the situation escalates and they sack him, what will you do? The werey fit find you with gun....Be carful please...Ignore his flirting and go about your thing oh
It's 'the werey fit find you with gun' for me, Stella ooo 😁
ReplyDeleteSwears😂, I laughed so hard
DeletePlease report him asap, don't even wait for evidence as you don't know his mental state. Most oyibos are mentally sick as you must know by now. Report him before he does something stupid...be very careful too, try not to be in secluded places alone.
DeleteUnwanted flirting in the workplace is sexual harassment and also it can be a crime as she has said no
ReplyDeleteTell him you’ll be forced to report him if he doesn’t stop
Thank you! And don't let this linger for too long, except you are enjoying it.
DeleteShe did not say whether he was flirting with her or sexually harassing her. They are two completely different things. Also, you can report if you feel uncomfortable regardless of if you have proof or not.
ReplyDeleteYou can also record conversations to use as evidence
ReplyDeleteWhy are you noticing his flirting? Can't you face front like he doesn't exist ? She dey flex on herself say 24yr old want her despite kids abeg madam leave me
ReplyDeleteMumu comment of the year 🥳
DeleteMumu raised to power 1000
DeleteThe mumuest comment ever. So, noticing flirting is now a crime haaa
DeletePlease do,since you have warned him severally. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteGod help you ma
ReplyDeleteWahala too much ooo
ReplyDeleteNne Make you Pray harder for God to remove his Eyes on You..
Children of this days self
No Fear, No Respect..
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If he has not stopped flirting with you, it is because he feels he might still get to you. Naija babe dey ask how to stop people from flirting, lol. You don cut am better warning abi na still sweet voice u take dey tell am to stop. Lol
ReplyDeleteCut am final warning and behave like commando around him make I hear he no stop, Lilly livered oyibo peeps. lol
Poster since you said you have warned him severally and he has refused to listen....
ReplyDeletePlease document your evidences I mean hard evidences (hear say does not hold water) and then report him to your manager....
Be careful around him going forward.. Please be firm while giving him the warning...
All the best
Report him ,he won't stop if you don't and you may be in trouble,Canada is not like USA where it is easier to get restraining order
ReplyDeletePoster gather evidence before doing anything. Be diplomatic in your decision.
ReplyDeleteBe wise
ReplyDeleteEvidence is important here, get it before reporting him.
All the best
Just try to be cordial with him. Maybe he would get the memo and stop his nonsense. Except you have seen that it's turning to something like an obsession, that's when you should react
ReplyDeleteEnsure you have evidence. Document everything.
ReplyDeleteIs he aware you are 40 years old with 3 children? If not.
Tell him.
It may quench the randy lust.
Have evidence.
Have evidence.
Very important.
You should make a video of him while he is misbehaving, threaten him that tou will report him. You should also involve your husband so that the werey guy can stop.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, tell him you will report him, and ensure you have evidence doing so, if he continues report him.
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