Some of us have lost people that we are yet to get over and it is affecting our present surroundings and making people walk on egg shells around us.....
When i was down and in serious pains, I tried so badly to connect with my Father, hmmmmm that is another shocking story for another day....
I have made peace with losing him and i know that i have finally released him to rest in peace......
Some of you need to tell your story and release that loved one..... We understand that it hurts but you need to release that person.....
Tell us what happened and how it shattered your World...Tell us also what steps you have made to releasing this person from your pain....
Lets gist!!!
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ReplyDeleteSDKERS BlogFam How are Y’ll doing?
Fine p.. happy new year dear 🎉🎉
DeleteI lost my father around March 2024.. When we went to the hospital he was diagnosed of last stage of postrate cancer.. We did everything as a family to save him but he didn't make it
ReplyDeleteFirst time we ever celebrated Christmas and New year without my father being present. I miss him everyday. REST IN PEACE DAD
So sorry dear 🤗 May his gentle soul rest in peace 🙏
DeleteThanks sis
DeleteI'm so sorry about your dad. May his soul continue to rest in peace.
DeleteMay his Soul find Rest in the Bosom of the Lord
DeleteTake care 💕💕💕
One year anniversary and three months pregnant, my husband died in car accident.
ReplyDeleteI thought my world had ended , starved my self so that the pregnancy will be miscarried. But no way. My mother took me after the funeral and my husband people always check on me.
Had my baby boy looking exactly like his father.
I have strong feelings that my baby is my husband coming back to me as my son.
Now he is ten still looking like him which made it hard for me to move on.
My son told me to my face that he doesn’t want me to have male friend after I introduced him to my male colleague.
I told him that I can’t be single for ever, he was so furious that I wonder how a ten years boy get that from.
I have tried for him to stay with his grandma but he refused.
The way he carries his father’s pictures everywhere is so annoying now. But I can’t do nothing after all that’s his daddy he never met.
The day I told my son that I am planning to marry so that he can have physical daddy, he told me that he don’t want me to marry anyone again.
Harrr!!!
Abeg I am planning the wedding and he has been crying that I want to leave and go, I have explained thousands times but this boy doesn’t want me to move on.
May God guide u
DeleteCan you maybe wait till he is a bit older? I'm sure he'll understand then. Please consider him o.
DeleteHe’s scared you will send him away if you marry. Seems he knows What he’s talking about, cos what do you mean you want him to go live with his grandma???. Na wa for you oo. A 10 year old?
DeleteMay God be with you and please get married if that’s your heart desire but don’t send him to live with his Grandmother
DeleteOh some deaths are so painful and to let go is so difficult. 😭 😭 😭
ReplyDeleteI don't understand what you mean 'to release them', you mean to forgive them?
ReplyDeleteWhat that means is coming to terms/accepting the fact that they are gone and never coming back and being at peace.
DeleteWhen I lost my dad and my course mate was when I knew life is fleeting 😨 My Daddy know has lived a fulfilled life even though we were sad at his demise 😔 But my course mate was still so young...a brilliant man who had dreams of becoming a multi billionaire & supporting his family 😊 He had been very ill and we contributed to help offset some hospital and personal bills...he fought hard to live but I guess that's how God wanted it. All the time we visited at the hospital, he was always smiling & praying the rosary 👏 I feel so much for his mum, we still use to call her back then until we lost contact. Typing this brings tears to my eyes...rest well my brother, rest my dear father ❤️
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your dad Stella 🤗 it's so hard living without loved ones especially during festive periods like this 😔 May his gentle soul rest in peace 🙏
DeleteMay their souls continue to find rest🤗🤗🤗.
DeleteAdunni Dearie
DeleteSo Sorry🫂🫂
Amen ...thanks my dear Candy 🙏
DeleteChika dear, thanks so much 🙏
Take Heart Doll
DeleteMay their Soul Rest in Peace
I lost my son two years ago and I don't know how to let go. His death is so painful and 2022 was the darkest year of my life. God please grant me the grace and strength to live with pain amen.
ReplyDeleteOh... That's so sad! May God comfort you 🤗
DeleteBig hugs momma 🤗 may his beautiful soul rest well...may God grant you to strength to go through this grief 🙏
DeleteSo Sorry Dear🫂
DeleteComfort To Your Family 🙏
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May God console u
DeleteMay God comfort you sis.
DeleteE-Hugs to you
DeleteMay God give you the Fortitude to bear this irreparable Loss
🤗 I pray you receive the strength to bear the unforgettable loss.
DeleteI miss my father so much. He was so dear to me. I did my best to take care of him when he was alive but I felt I didn't do enough. He was sick and died at the age 74. Daddy R, I release you and may your precious soul continue to rest in peace amen.
ReplyDeleteAwwww....you did your best dear 🤗sometimes our best will not be enough to keep them here on earth 🌎 Be consoled that he's in a better place, may his soul rest well 🙏
DeleteSo Sorry Dear 🫂
DeleteGod knows best
DeleteTake heart
I don't think I'll ever heal from the loss of my mum. Everything reminds me of her, especially this difficult stage of motherhood I'm in.
ReplyDeleteMy mum and I used to talk every single day, like 3 to 5x daily. Immediately we see something worth gisting about, we just call each other. She was the first person I called when I was pregnant. I am so emotional typing this🥺
I feel like I live every day waiting to die because this whole life just stopped making sense since she died. Deep down, I feel so hollow, so sad, so dead. Nothing makes me happy. I'm just existing😢
I really hate her for dying😭
Ouch Fidel!!!
DeleteMy father passed 2019…my sister 2023 but her killer died November 2024…it hurt leaving her kids..it’s well
Can I hold your hand my love?
DeleteCan I hug you?
I want to do this with you right now.
Jehovah's witnesses have books on grief. Grab one and read. God will heal you
DeleteThis is just me and my mom,may God take away this pain 😭😭😭 currently in the village for her burial which is in few days time...I've never lost anyone close to me until my mother's death! I don't wish this pain on anyone, it's hard for me. Crying as I'm typing this
DeleteOh! Dear Fidel is ok,try my dear and let the feelings reduce I know it will not go entirely but just talk and counsel yourself that's the best one please dear .It is well, I am more emotional oo hmm God help Me I haven't lost someone so dear to me
DeleteMe that even cry on behalf of people chai 😭😭😭
Oh dear, so sorry Fidel 😩 This feels so heartbreaking & sad. Losing a mum is devastating 😰 moreso a mum, friend, gist partner and confidant rolled in one...I pray you heal dear 🤗 May her beautiful soul rest in peace...am sure she's watching over you all 😇
DeleteMy darling sending you 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteOh dear Fidel, come get a big hug. It will get better, be consoled and know she would loved to see you happy and make her proud. Lots of love sis 🌹❤️
DeleteOh Dear So Sorry🫂🫂🫂
DeleteComfort To You And family 🙏
You will be fine Fidel. It gets better with time .
DeleteKai, this is painful. May God comfort you.
DeleteThis is depressing
DeleteMay God take care of you
May you be comforted dear🤗
DeleteLost my father last month, few days to Christmas. So I am basically an orphan now. Guess he couldn't live without my mom. The whole food we bought was just stocked away because we was in no mood for celebrations anymore. My elder sis was crazy with grief, I was in denial. People that came to offer condolences were asking for food we cooked(no one had strength to cook) Since my sister wasn't in a mood to reply, I told them that we are orphans now, they should show some compassion and STOP ASKING FOR FOOD !!! one aunt said she was gonna slap me for being rude, that when my elder sis lost it, she pounced on this woman and rearranged her face: you now have the guts to threaten me coz my parents are no more? Na there you jam craze. Anyways, We are prepping for the funeral some unruly extended relatives n aunts have been disinvited already, no negative relatives will be allowed in. He was the first son and only boy of his mother with 6 married sisters. He will will be missed.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry BB. May God give you the strength you need. Sending you 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteSo sorry about your loss
DeleteMay God comfort your family and may his soul rest in peace.
Sending You Love🫂🫂
DeleteSorry BB Dear
My condolences Blackberry. Who asks for food when someone just died? They didn't cook in their houses? Mtceeeeeeeew.
DeleteI like that your sister pounced on her.
May your dad's soul find rest.
So sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace 🙏
DeleteSending you my love BB.This is a painful one.
DeleteMy Sincere and Heartfelt Condolences 💐
DeleteThose Relatives are from Demon Kitchen.
The one that hit me so much, was my sister in-law. Uptill now , I can't get over her death.
ReplyDeleteShe was my everything, especially my prayer partner. We discussed about everything.
Today I console myself, with her little daughter, she handed over to me before she died. Her complete replica, even her behavior. Above all bearing her mom's name. I call her Mimi, because of that.
KEEP RESTING SISTER INLAW.
Sorry Mama
DeleteMay Her Sweet Soul Continue to Rest well🙏
Take Heart MAMA
DeleteGod will surely take care of you and her Daughter
Hmmmmm,today happens to be my late bros 2nd death anniversary,he died after a brief illness, doctors couldn't say what was wrong,he was just 39,married for just a year and left a little baby and wife behind,he was our father,our everything,I still miss him sooo much😭
ReplyDeleteHmmm, where will I start from, am just trying to be strong becos if my hubby and children.
ReplyDeleteMy mother gave birth to 7 of us, She died when I was just 7yrs, I never had motherly care, , after that lost our first born, in a nutshell, out of 7, we are 2 that is alive, the most painful thing is that they dont grow old except my dad that died at 78yrs. The one that happened that shocked us was our fifth born, so sudden, can't hold back my tears. Myself, the last born and our third born are the two that is alive. I always beg Jehovah the hearer of Prayer to pls let the remaining one of us, including all the children my sisters and brother left behind to grow old in good health. Pls, sorry for my typo, my eyes are wet.
So sorry for your loss. May God protect you and answer your prayers 🙏
DeleteCan you guys perform autopsy on any of the dead?. Especially the sudden one?. Many inherited conditions cause sudden death. It will be good to know and get help on time
DeleteMy late brother. It's been years, but I still see in him in my dreams once in a while.
ReplyDeleteI miss my elder sister so much. She was more of a friend than a sister and we were so close. She died of renal cancer occasioned by SS anaemia.
ReplyDeleteI single handedly raised her 2 daughters because I promised her I would.
Sadly, I dream about her most nights since she died in 2010 despite being told in church that it’s bad to dream of dead people; playing and cracking jokes as if she’s still alive…maybe because I don’t have friends. 😭😭
I don't know how to forget my daughter. I lost her 10years ago. The sad feeling is always there, it's even more difficult not being able to have another yet. I thought about her big she would have been by now this afternoon and boom I come on SDK and see this😭😭.
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest on my darling.
Eyaa! This is heartbreaking! It is well with you 🙏
DeleteSo sorry for your loss
DeleteMay God remember you and give you double and triple for your loss.
Amennnnn!! Thank you Helen and Fabulous Momma.
DeleteIt's hard to release them. Loosing my Dad hurt me, but loosing my younger sister broke me. I just stopped being me. She fought soooo hard to stay, but I guess God has his plans right? Sometimes it feels like this is a dream, but then I'm back to reality. May God continue to give us the strength we need to hold on.
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DeleteOh dear, big hugs from here 🤗🤗 I think God just wants them to be with Him...to ease their pains 😨 Our painful loss is God's gain of another loved one ❤️ May their gentle souls rest in perfect peace 👏
DeleteI just lost my sister a couple days ago. The pain is something else. She left three young kids.
ReplyDeleteMy father died over thirty years ago. The pain is still there. The worst thing about losing a loved one is never seeing them again physically. Everything about them becomes a memory.
EVERYTHING BECOME MEMORY DEAR.
DeleteEeeeeya, this one is still fresh 😫 So sorry dear 🤗
DeleteMissed my Mum so much, Christmas reminds me of her absence, I still can't get over it, then my brother's death a year six months after, the only time I released my brother was when he appeared in my dream on father's day when I was crying and missing him, he told me he is in a better place, that he finished well, that will I finish well? That what does it profit a man that gains the world and lose his soul? That really hit me, I have stopped crying since then, it is well 🙏
ReplyDeleteI am truly sorry guys, may God comfort you all🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteMay God comfort you all and grant eternal rest to the deceased.
ReplyDeleteI miss my dad so much,he was very caring, anytime he call you or you call him,he always pray for you,next month will make it two years he left this world.....He was a very peaceful person....I miss him so much,I miss the way he plays the keyboard and sing anytime we are go home......rest on sweet dad...... Josaria
ReplyDeleteMiss my dad so much 😢 😭 😢 😭 I miss him so much 😢 😭 I miss him. The pain is so unbearable 💔
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ReplyDeleteIs been 21 years I lost my dad, the pain nevers goes away, no it doesn't. To think he died without eating the fruit of his labour. I still cry over him when no one is watching. My mum became a widow in her thirties and choose not to remarry but to take care of her four children.
Dear Lord,
I beg you, I beg you, I beg you don't take our mum from us, give her long life and good health to eat the fruit of her labour in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen!
🙏🙏🙏
I lost my brother inlaw in July 2024 and a gas explosion at work. I was just coming out of it when I lost my Mum Dec 1 after a leg amputation. She didn't make , it was one of the most difficult times in my life. May the Lord heal all grieving souls in Jesus name.
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