E get one babe make we call her my friend, this girl had two kids (all boys) before falling pregnant for one cute hausa guy, this guy hold money wella, so I advised this girl to beg this man to rent her a better apartment, something a little bit comfy because of the 3rd baby on the way, she told me that there won't be any need to rent another place.....
She told me that the guy is married but his wife couldn't give him a son and what they're expecting is a boy, so the guy promised her that once she puts to birth, that he will get married to her and they will both move in together, she go de believe man, this guy was always coming, taking care of them, he even put the kids in a very good school, I told this girl to start up something and not eating money all the time like person wey wan kpaii..
She was busy spending recklessly, buying clothes, eating everything and anything, finally she put to birth a very cute baby boy, the guy told her to give him the baby and move on with her life, that day she cried so much, she came to me that this was not the plan she had with the guy, I told her to stand her ground and don't be intimidated, she refused to give him the child, this guy immediately distanced himself from her, stopped calling or coming around, after a while, he came that they want to do some ritual and barb his head, this girl followed him, they did the supposed ritual, barbed the child's hair and the father packed the hair, I was shocked when she came back and told me where she went to, now the child is about 8months old and this man is literally forcing this girl to release the boy to him and his wife..
Everybody is scared of incurring their wrath, so I advised the girl to runaway to their place which she did, this man came to the compound and met an empty house, he smiled and said when they put fire and pepper in a rat hole, it will run out of it's hole by itself, then he left, I don't know what he intends to do but i so wish our girls will mind who they open their legs for cos a beautiful face does not guarantee a beautiful heart, this man did not kept 1% out of the promises he made to this girl and yet feels he has a right to take a baby from a woman he didn't marry, if the milk is free, why buy the cow?? I personally called him, he came, I sat him down and begged him to allow the child grow with his mom, that when he's grown, he can then come for him...
He said, have you seen her kids? They look malnourished, she can barely take care of them and my own child will not suffer with them, besides from where I come from, we groom our kids into our ways because we are different, we are not like every other people, I want to raise my child myself so he can know who he is, that boy is my only son and I cannot marry your friend, I get my reason, I am a Muslim and can marry another wife but it can't be her, na so my mouth open..
I asked if he intends to establish her, he said no that she will not utilize the money well and he doesn't have money to waste, from the way he speaks, you can feel the h8te in his voice, na one chance this girl enter so oo... Mtchewww it is well
She is not good enough to be married but she is good enough to make a child with?Nonsense......
Let his original wife go and try again for a son for him...
She is not good enough to be married but she is good enough to make a child with?Nonsense......
Let his original wife go and try again for a son for him...
That guy is evil, she is not good to be wifed but good to be knacked and exploited.
ReplyDeleteYour friend should get a lawyer and report to the police if he tries.anything funny. She shouldn't release that boy since he needs him badly.
DeleteGuys like this can go to any length to get her. These girls sef no dey hear word.
ReplyDeleteHiaaaaa a
ReplyDeleteThe man is Wicked ooo
So he was just looking for womb carrier..Hmmmmm
Your friend too no try nah Material things she gain.. upon all the Advice.
This one pass One Chance
Na waooo..
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Madam Amebo you and your kind of friends shaa 🤐🤐
ReplyDeleteThis statement is rude. Very rude sef!
DeleteThe guy is a very wicked human being, he knew from the onset that he won't marry her, but deceived her into getting pregnant for him, because he was looking for a boy, why adding to her problems.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame him but the woman that opened her leg for a married Hausa man, now a baby mama for the second time in this hard economy.
Instead of her to utilize the opportunity and have something doing for herself, she trusted a human being and was busy showing off, I pray God see her through.
The guy is wicked and the lady is foolish. May God help her to raise the new baby well.
ReplyDeleteThe girl too no try for herself at all she for use the little opportunity she saw now see, from the mans talk you noticed he knows that the girl spends money unnecessarily although, he just used the girl Sha 🙄
ReplyDeleteThat guy is wicked and heartless 💔
ReplyDeleteMay God help her to raise the baby well
ReplyDeleteThis your amebo ehn, na cautionary gist wey dey packed with poor decisions, emotional manipulation, the dangers of dependency, misplaced trust, and a lack of foresight in relationships.
ReplyDeleteThe girl in question's failure (abi na oversight) to prioritise her stability and her children’s welfare left her vulnerable, while the man’s actions reflect manipulation and a disregard for responsibility. His refusal to support her seems valid from the perception that she lacked accountable responsibility, and so did he. But his decision to hold on to that is evil. I don't even know whether to make an excuse for her seeming naivety in believing vague promises, especially from someone who probably lied with the picture he painted of a complicated marital situation - it was a clear red flag. This was a situation bound to unravel.
The man’s deception reflects his cultural and personal priorities, which were never fully disclosed to her. A failure to see these differences which was worrisomely validated by the freeloading of your friend, led to misaligned expectations. Despite sound advice from you, she consistently made choices that compounded her vulnerability.
As a woman, this is another grim reminder that enabling such a lifestyle without a plan that prioritises self-sufficiency, exercising discernment in relationships, and being proactive in protecting our future concerns and those of our children - as in this situation. Is conspiring to self-destruct our well-being in the end. This is what you get when you lack self-respect, financial independence, and critical thinking in navigating emotional relationships.
Please, whatever you do don't get too involved. May God come through for her.
Greed and love of money keeps destroying our girls.
ReplyDeleteThat guy is wicked.
ReplyDeleteYour friend should sue him.
She is not good to be wifed but she is good as a baby factory.
Hope she can take care of that boy, if not she should release that boy to the dad. The deed has been done, the boy should not suffer for their mistakes, he should get a better life with the dad and the mum should concentrate in raising the two with her.
ReplyDeleteThe man is wicked??? I doubt it. He is Muslim. If he wants to marry her, he would. She should check he e character. Even the poster noted that the guy also emphasised this. Who wants a liability for a wife?
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