He recalled that the poisoned food prepared by Zahara’u at their Albasu village in Jahun Local Government Area was consumed by him and two of his friends as they prepared to go to bed following the departure of other friends, family members and well-wishers.
Twenty-nine-year-old Haruna recalled that while he and his friend Isyaku Adamu were lucky to survive the poisonous food after spending a night at Kiyawa Hospital, his other friend, Muhammed Alfah, was not so lucky, as he eventually gave up the ghost.
Speaking to The Nation in an exclusive interview, Haruna said: “We were married on Friday and the ceremony continued till Sunday when the bride, Zahara’u, came into my house as the last phase of the ceremony.
At about 10 pm on that day, my two friends urged me to go into Zaharau’s room, but I said no, because some of the women that escorted her to the house had not left.
So we were in my tailoring shop when some of the bride’s friends came and told us that we should come in to eat, but I told them we were not yet ready.
Later, they came back with the food, which was jollof spaghetti, and left.
Haruna, who said that he and Zaharau courted for two years before they got married penultimate Friday, however, said the bride was only 14 years old at the time they got married.
He said: “We were married of love. She loved me I loved her too.
Since she was still a small girl, we were in love for two years before our marriage.
We saw her in a neighbouring village, Bakata, also in Kiyawa Local Government Area, and approached her almost two years ago.
We continued dating until she reached 14 years and I made arrangements for marriage.
“We got married on (penultimate) Friday and I brought her to my house on the day of the tragic incident.
Recalling the events immediately preceding the incident, Haruna said: I was on my sewing machine when they brought the food while my two friends sat on the floor.
Muhammad Alfah opened the food immediately and asked me to come down and eat, while he and Isyaku started eating before I joined them.
I had only taken about six spoons when we observed that there was a substance in the food.
Noticing that, we became suspicious and stopped eating. We all became uncomfortable and scared.
A few minutes later, Alfah started complaining about his stomach. He stood up to leave but he could not control himself, so we took him to a friend’s house which was closer.
By the time we got inside, all of us had started feeling the same. We were given milk but we felt no relief as the situation worsened.
We were then rushed to Jahun Hospital where Alfah died while Isyaku and I were rescued.
Haruna alleged that on the day Zaharau was to be taken to his house, she went to collect her new clothes from a tailor in their village where she met one of her ex-lovers (name withheld) who gave her the substance and asked her to put it in the food that he (Haruna) would eat.
I’m really surprised. We were married for love. She never showed any worries about our relationship and never displayed any sign of ill feeling before she carried out the evil act.”
Confirming the incident, Public Relations Officer (PRO) of Jigawa State Police Command, Lawal Shiisu Adam, a Superintendent of Police (SP), said: “One Zahra’u Dauda ‘f’ age 15yrs of Bagata Gabas village conspired with her ex-lover, one Lawan Musa ‘m’ age 22yrs of Bagata Gabas Yamma village, all in Kiyawa LGA, to poison her husband’s food, one Kamisu Haruna ‘m’ age 29yrs of Albasu village, Jahun local government area.
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She is still a child for God's sake!
ReplyDeleteHow is she even expected to be mature physically and mentally?
See him saying they were in love,love kor,lovelyn ni🙄
Still a child at that age? She also doesn’t know what is good and evil too, let’s stop making excuses for wicked humans.
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DeleteIs a girl of 12 years not a child?
Is a girl of 14 years not a child under the Law?
Does not the law say that an adult is a person 18 years and above?
So are you saying that a girl of 14 years is an adult and so can be married off?!
What are you trying to say?!
Try to read to comprehend!
Babyboosky was not making any excuses for the girl
She did not imply that the girl is too young to know good and evil
She was simply saying that she is too young for marriage
10:48, is a 14 year old and adult? Even if she is tried, it doesn't take away that these men were celebrating the destruction of the life of a fellow human at 14 in the name of marriage.
DeleteThe girl even had another man in his 20s disturbing her before him. What kind of accursed society are her parents raising her in ?
The northern part is an accursed part of this country. I wonder why they can't just separate and be on their own. Very backward and wicked lots.
DeleteI'm speechless, all these people need to stop child marriage, what mentality does a fourteen year old girl have to thrive in a marriage? imagine dating her since when she was twelve.
ReplyDeleteAt the same time, why couldn't she run away when she knew she isn't in love with her groom instead of committing murder?
I pray the soul of the groom's friend rest in peace.
Run away to where? Do you know the kind of threats she must have received from her parents if she dare say no to the marriage. Imagine this demon started harvesting this girl from the age of 12 under who’s roof. And she allegedly has ex already at what age. This girl has been damaged since 💔 it’s a pity
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14year old , a bride? She is too young now and can easily be manipulated. Even the ex - lover is still a baby. But they need to be punished for this crime else they won't see anything wrong in what they have done.
ReplyDeleteA 22year old still a baby?
DeleteVery wicked thing to do.. why didn't she refuse marrying him instead of this wicked act..
ReplyDeleteNothing like refuse to marry in that part of the country oooo. You have no say as a woman on issues like this once you're betrothed that is why you see many women from there kpaing their husbands with rat poison
DeleteShe's just 14 yrs, she still a child for Christ sake
DeleteAt this age my mum still dey pamper me
She's just 14 yrs, she still a child for Christ sake
DeleteAt this age my mum still dey pamper me
I don't think these girls had a choice
DeleteHmmmmm....Pure, am not excusing her evil act o...but you see these people and marriage...She knows what she will see back home if she refuses that marriage.
DeleteWhy force a child into marriage 🧐 she can easily be manipulated
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, what an evil act. life was lost oo 😳😳 upon this girl's age bikonu, small girl, even if she is naive why didn't she confide in her husband about the substance given to her, oh! Chim ,may the soul his friend rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteYou and a 14yrs child married for love? These monsters are not supposed to share the same space with humans.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
14years old for Christ's sake! At 14 my mama still deh wash my clothes, dem still deh diah food for me to come eat. 14 is still a baby for Christ's sake
ReplyDeleteI tire oo my dear 😳
DeleteHaa! I would have loved to give her a benefit of doubt because of her age but her wickedness knew no boundaries.. she was wicked.
ReplyDeleteIya Nimi, you are a judgemental, pretentious evil fellow yet claim to serve God. We are talking about a 14 years old CHILD that has been groomed since she was 12. I'm not condoning what she did but she is a child who was forced into an arranged marriage and in her still developing mind she thought this was the only way out. And I don't believe the story of the lover. They just want to paint her in a bad light. She might have approached someone to give her the poison that's what I believe was the real scenario. This girl need counseling and therapy. May God forgive her and I hope the judge will be lenient.
DeleteDid I read 14 years old bride? So a man would leave all these young damsels to go for a teen.isokay
ReplyDeleteThey are all wrong. He was wrong for marrying a child and she was wrong for putting poison. God abeg.
ReplyDeleteNa wah ooo see wickedness for small pinkin head. May God save us 🙏 from the hand of wicked people.
ReplyDelete14yrs old??? Orisirisi
ReplyDeleteLovers isonu 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteUseless love...because what is this?
DeleteAll peadophiles and their accomplices deserve to be keed.
ReplyDeleteI agree
DeleteMy Goodness when will my northern people wake up, this pure child abuse for crying loud sake 14 years old baby been married out for what na💔
ReplyDelete14 years old girl as a wife?
ReplyDeleteThat girl is still a child for goodness sake, dated for two years ke,so they started dating when she was 12,na wao
ReplyDeleteUnderaged marriages should not be condoned....see one of the repercussions? Stephanie Okereke showed the world a glimpse of the ripple effects it has on these young girls and society with her movie. I have forgotten the title....girls condemned to fistula needing surgeries, neglected because of the smell....it's so sad.
ReplyDeleteThe title is DRY
DeleteI feel sad for the teenage girls up north.
This culture of marrying off young girls needs to end soon, I am not excusing that the young girl did bad but they should stop this nonsense.
ReplyDeleteWhat's love to a 14year old.
No one should expect a 14 year old to be mature. I guess the law doesn't apply to people from that region because this is a like a criminal offense. A child of that age can easily be manipulated and doesn't have a mind of her own. The loser in all of this is the late friend.
ReplyDeleteAll of you shouting when will this northerners wake up,answer, they will wake up when sleep tire them. All of you will be talking down on other bvs when they generalise, tongue click
ReplyDeleteHow much do you even imagine you know about the north or you think Abuja that a few of you have been to is a true reflection of the north
I am a core northerner, I have lived in sagbama bayelsa and seen 12_14 years old girls as young mothers and neck deep in olosho biz.
I had 14 years old ogoni neighbor who helped babysit my child and she was a mother of one, and so many others like her when I lived in portharcourt.
Same case in Lagos, especially in bariga , even among my in-laws in epe, and you all read news and go ballistic about the north, abosi pro max. Oh i forgot, Hauwa, miss H is your evidence, she started having children at 10and now she is a grandma, trying to study nursing. (I am being sarcastic obviously) .
Forgive me pls,Miss H.
Better learn constructive analysis and criticism,learn from my angel Phoenix.
11:29, the examples you sighted were not married off as young teens, they were either molested or they had boyfriend's early and had s#x which resulted in pregnancies.. That one is not a deliberate act of child marriage by the parents and community. In the North, it is their custom to give out 12 yr olds and 14yr olds in marriage which was the case here. It is totally wrong.
DeleteThis right here is an example of constructive analysis& criticism 👍
Delete14years Old marriage
ReplyDeleteSMH....
When will this their yeye culture stop
Na waoooo
Hello iya Boys
Oga pedophile!, dating a 12yr old,married her @ 14yrs old,what is really wrong up north?
ReplyDeleteYou started dating her when she was just 12yrs old! A baby fa haba mallam Haruna!
ReplyDeleteI blame her parents and no one else!
ReplyDeleteAt 14 her body is not developed to be accommodating the physical needs of a grown man. I can’t even imagine the pain that child endured. And they wonder why bone structure damages and fistulas happen. The wicked part is that when these young girls develop issues related to their reproductive systems, they end up as outcasts in their communities and the man simply gets a new young wife. The people even lack the common sense to see that it is the seckual and reproductive pressures that their bodies were placed under at young ages that contributed to their conditions as adults, sometimes before they even hit 30.
ReplyDeleteGrown azz women who have been around the block a few times can’t even accommodate some of these men and the size of what they have between their legs, much less a virginal 14 yr old. I don’t even want to imagine the pain. And I am sure these ‘husbands’ are not gentle, anybody who thinks a 14 yr old girl is fit to be a wife is sure not going to be gentle and patient with her. Look at this fool’s statement, that he thought she loved him. Beech, the meal should have reached its destination. The girl should be in school getting her education, not being pummelled by your yam head azz. Sickening these cultural practices that sees these girls as mere workhorses and nothing more.
Getting married to a Child. Someone who is not matured emotionally
ReplyDeleteNa that Haruna suppose die,next time you will stay away from child marriage,anuofia!!
ReplyDeleteReading the whole story makes me sick. Saw her at 12, courted for 2 years & married at 14. The way the guy is throwing "we were in love" all over his narration😡 Girl child don suffer oo!!! You people won't allow these girls mature, it's still you that will push them out after destroying their reproductive system. What she allegedly did is terrible but how much of this act is borne out of a 'bad plan' to escape. The North needs to purge itself of this despicable act.
ReplyDeleteWhat business does he have getting married to a 14 years old girl for crying out loud? He even opened his mouth to say he started dating her at 12, hmmmm.
ReplyDeleteNext time when he sees a child he will flee away. Rubbish