SERIOUS SITUATION
Stella, I am writing this for my friend. He asked if he should open up to his wife to be, that he used to sleep with her cousin? To later to spice things up, on the suggestion of the cousin who is s#xually experimental, it became a constant thing doing it not only with her but together with her female friends, Threesome things. Mind you, it was before he met her three years back.
Before he met his present babe, he wasn't interested in getting married back then, so he just had girls for fun. It was nothing serious, just strictly f...k buddies.
The cousin was fine with it till she later tried to pin a pregnancy on him when she caught feelings and asked that they formalise the relationship so he discarded her cold turkey style after offering her a huge sum to pay her off (he is wealthy) though she rejected the money, told him she wants him not his wealth.
The lady is from a rich home too, but just lives a wild life. He later found out that she aborted the pregnancy.
The cousin in question is her favourite cousin she trusts and likes very much. He spoke on the phone twice with her when his babe told him to say hello to her, but he didn't know she was the same person until his babe posted her picture on Whatsapp and wished her a happy birthday.
Wife to be doesn't suspect that aspect of her cousin's life because she always says decent things about her, like how she admires her a lot, goes to her for advice and how she is her best friend. She even wants her to be her best lady on the wedding day....
The cousin in question is her favourite cousin she trusts and likes very much. He spoke on the phone twice with her when his babe told him to say hello to her, but he didn't know she was the same person until his babe posted her picture on Whatsapp and wished her a happy birthday.
Wife to be doesn't suspect that aspect of her cousin's life because she always says decent things about her, like how she admires her a lot, goes to her for advice and how she is her best friend. She even wants her to be her best lady on the wedding day....
Well if he doesnt tell her now, she might come back to bite him with blackmail.....When a woman confesses, the wedding is called off or problems emerge but when the guy does, it means he loves her and wants to come clean.....This is the Nigerian mentality.....
Being a close cousin is too close to home...He should talk before he marries her cos this cousin will be frequent in his home....
He should tell her. What will be will be.
ReplyDeleteIs this not almighty incest. People can so complicate their lives
ReplyDeleteIts not incest
DeleteHow is this incest?,abi I did not read well
DeleteNo naaaaah it is not
DeleteIncest is when two people related by blood collide through the genitalia, the man is not related to them so it not incest.
Confess to her, if she didn’t forgive then her loss.
ReplyDeleteHusband scarce ooo
That last paragraph isn’t needed
DeleteHow is it her loss and how is husband scarce?
DeleteThat's how you people will be capping nonsense and using nonsense to console yourselves, so that you can marry rubbish or others can join you in marrying rubbish and share in your misery.
#LongHiss
I seriously hope that his wife to be is the same as her cousin but just forming.
ReplyDeleteUna go live wild life finish then look for an innocencia to destroy with cheating after marrying her
looooooooooooool you is wucked
DeleteOmo ehn!! Things go dey straight like ruler, human beings go make waka zigzag complications....
ReplyDeleteIt's between him and his conscience: if he tells his wife, there are 2 certain outcomes: either she no do again or she forgives and you both forge ahead... Your action alone will be discord to that family...
To be honest,let him tell her and he must be ready to face the consequences..I won't even advise him to go ahead with the marriage; let them just break up and kiss goodbye to each other...
All the best
The way he said pin pregnancy as if it wasn’t his in the first place. Na wa for una lifestyle
ReplyDeleteIf the wife to be is that close to her cousin then the cousin must have seen his pictures . He should tell her everything. It was in the past na lol
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
Na wetin Yoruba people Dey call yam pepper scatter scatter be this.. isu ata yan yan. But truth be told, the issue is with the wife to be, can she overlook, can the cousin comot eye?cos this cousin can scatter everything if she decides not to comot eye
ReplyDeleteHe should come clean, there is no two ways about it.
ReplyDeleteHas she run the std tests HIV and ndiotuya ? Everything is not preek and toto
ReplyDeleteWhy hide your past from the person you want to spend the rest of your lives together?
ReplyDeleteThe matter is kind of complicated
tell your friend to tell his wife to be before she tells his wife to be. Lies cannot hide for long, someday the truth will be out and he will be so a shame to tell his own side of the story. He should take her out and speak to her about this past life, explain everything you said here and do not miss any word. That her cousin will become his sleepless night cos will come to their home on purpose, she will make advances and she will threaten to tell his wife.
ReplyDeleteCome clean now that you both are not married, if she want to walk away let her do so in peace than you bringing up this issue in the future. You cannot hide this one cos the person is very close to your family. Telling her now will make her to put boundaries between her home with any friendship that may give room to her cousin asking for more from you.
All die na die, just open up and save yourself all the stress.
You need to go for deliverance Mr. Man. You are unclean being.
ReplyDeletePlease advise him to cleanse himself fess before anything.
DOZZYBEST.
Thank you very much. See lifestyle haba!
DeleteLmao! Poster this here is the end of the matter.
DeleteHe should tell her.
ReplyDeleteSo men self dey hide their past sexcapades, I think it's only women that do this, anyways confess everything to your wife to be, hope she doesn't mind.
ReplyDeleteIf he really cares,he will come clean. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteHe should tell the wife to be now , than for her to find out herself or the cousin tells her.
ReplyDeleteJust tell her after all is your past, and is better she is aware before she hears it outside or as casting
ReplyDeleteWhen they must have spoilt girls finish, when it's time to get married they will leave those ones and go for innocent ones that don't deserve them.
ReplyDeletePoster telling the wife will make her to distance herself from her cousin and also create room of suspicious whenever the cousins is around since they are close.
If at all he wants to tell her, let him wait for the right time,
I dnt think this wedding should hold o
ReplyDeleteClean or no clean
Make them no marry o ..
Cos that cousin go dey take style still collecto..
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