Tuesday Spontaneous Post

 The hailing in 2024.......

2024 hailings come to an end!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

I am working from bed.....Food has refused to stay peacefully in my stomach....The pain i go though after eating, it is better i forget food oh...

Miss H, Miss Ess and the other people that had Myom surgeries and did not come back to tell us how painful this is, I dont if i should igve flowers or just smh at you guys..

I remember a BV mailed me that she ran away from her home cos her hubby wanted to gbensh a week after this surgery..I was wondering why she ran then but now i understand.....Na who go Journey know the route....

I need to be entered into wierdfacts cos some days ago, i was speaking a forgein Language that i did not learn at all...
If you have ever had Myom surgery, please take flowers...I cant stop talking about this and na me know why.....

I will bounce back soon but for now, the silence is luxury for me
Helloooo....My nose is not big again,it shrank....lol..i pray it gets its groove back.

Enjoy the rest of the day and eat well, I hunger for nothing at all right now....

Tight hugs to you all...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

Over the weekend, I travelled down to the village for my father in law’s birthday, before going I decided to ask questions and do a little research on what’s expected of me since this is my first trip to the village since I got married.

I learnt that I am an Inyom Ona, a direct opposite of the Umu Ada . The Inyom Ona are women married into the family, while Umu Ada are the women born into the family. As part of the Inyom Ona one is expected to join in food sharing and all, regardless of your class and status, it’s regarded as being honourable to join in and I gladly did with a smile on my face.

There were also Yoruba in laws that were old enough to be my parents so I ended up spending a lot of time on my knees greeting, some I had to kneel several times to greet because more than one person kept trying to introduce me to the same people over and over again, my knees ached .

Barely two hours in, I had completely lost my steeze, I had to tie up my gown at the waist so as not to trip over it, help out with the little kids and mine. My face was aching from smiling too hard for too long. When I couldn’t take it anymore, I went to a corner and sat down away from anyone’s view.
My sister-in-law's were amazing, cool, and loving. They kept on encouraging I rest, but how dare I do that when they were busy pounding such large amount of Yam. I kept on looking at how (ripped) muscled their upper arms were and, for a minute, considered learning how to pound Yam to help combat my mini “ church mother” upper arms.

Despite having access to the latest kitchen gadget and how posh they were, their skill with the grinding stone left me looking on in total admiration. I really had a lovely time and I was gifted enough food to last me for days, my sister in laws made sure I got my share of everything and for the first time instead of being the one in charge of running things, I was pampered and felt like a loved up last born.

Na because you marry man from better family and dem no dey drag anything for the family.....So happy for you....

There was THIS oruba man living in Yankee that wanted to marry me and one of the family members told me that the marriage would not last and i laughed and asked why, she said cos i dont kneel down to greet and the yoruba devil agreed with her despite living in a modern Country.....Ah after that comment i know say i never see husband oh......I ran and he ran after me saying they were joking...STORY!!!

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WEIRDFACTS

----95% of the time "I don't know" is just an excuse given by someone who is avoiding the truth.

----[The difference between like, love and in love, is the same as the difference between for now, for a while and forever.

 ---Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, you know what to do.

----Some people are actually afraid of being too happy because they think something tragic is going to happen soon. This is known as Cherophobia

---Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person.

---Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations, and go with the flow of life.

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