No be this one dem dey call body shaming for Nigerian Internet?
Friday, October 25, 2024
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I completely agree
ReplyDeleteShooter Gyal
Loool knew you'd comment so quickly
DeleteHi love ❤️
You came to mind first when I saw it on IG.
DeleteI knew I'd see your comment. 🤣
DeleteLMAO, I knew you'd comment.😂😂
DeleteLol..your thoughts just came to my mind immediately I opened this post
DeleteNormalise minding your business. People have health challenges you know NOTHING about sometimes
DeleteMost of you do it to mock and make yourself feel better and not like you care.
BBL has also revealed how extremely insecure almost everybody is, but love taunting fat people.
Deji learn to zip it sometimes. A lawyer ought to have emotional intelligence and not chochocho. Some of us don't like fair guys, yet we dey manage you for our internet space.
I think we should normalize minding our business. Na fat dem fat, dem no thief.
ReplyDeleteAbi,persin wey fat know say hin fat.
DeleteThere's a huge difference between telling your friend she's adding too much weight and body shaming.
ReplyDeleteLet's not deceive ourselves, we all know when someone is trying to mock you and when they mean well.
Yesoo is true I may feel bad or somehow when you tell me but it will mk me to be adjusting myself to avoid extra large abeg, I don't even think been fat have any advantage sef.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteIt depends on how you say it or how much you keep telling them..
ReplyDeleteWhat about if they are thin? Abi you have a problem with fat people 🤔
ReplyDeleteIt's sometimes difficult to tell people certain things. My sister was telling me how it was difficult for her to tell her male friend that he had body odour. I told her that she's in the best position to tell him but she insisted that she didn't know how to put it to him then without making him feel bad.
ReplyDeleteWhat's the benefit of the truth??? 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteOrobokibo
ReplyDeleteOh! You think they don't know?🤔
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on how close the friends are and how you tell your friend that he/she is fat
ReplyDeleteAnd after telling them, then what. Do you plan on telling them every time you see them, will that be all you talk about? It is better to ask if something has changed in their life, if things are well. All fat doesn't mean laziness, gluttony or lack of will power, some is related to medication, hormones and stress.
ReplyDeleteOn point..
DeleteWahala for people wan get body ooo..
ReplyDeleteBut to be Fat is not a crime nah...
Hello iya Boys
It depends on how you tell the person.
ReplyDeleteNormalize minding your business, so someone that is fat does not know that he/she is fat until you tell them right? Mcheeeww activist isonu.
ReplyDeleteTelling them is not the issue here , why do we have friends? It's to tell us the truth. But the problem is the way, tone and choice of words used to pass the message. Some could be demeaning and disrespectful...
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, they know for sure but if you still want to tell them what they already know, then do it politely
ReplyDeleteI think if you met them that way then it's who they are. Leave it alone. If it's getting worse, then point it out and ask if there's a plan (fat or thin) weight is primarily about health. If its more about what they wear, then suggest other options or say doesn't promote your body well. Telling someone they're fat or fatter is more about HOW you say it not WHAT you say. And short story is, Nigerians are not subtle and totally lack finesse
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