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How do you deal with a spouse that's so unappreciative? All he does is to nag from morning to night when he's home. He can never appreciate whatever i do but always looking for what i didn't do and faults everywhere.
He keeps malice too but sneaks to me at night for s#x. Some nights I allow him while some I refuse. I just lay down like a log of wood while he does his thing without emotions.
The annoying part is him expecting me to hold him kiss him and even moan!! For what??
SHUO!!!!.....What attracted you both to get married in the first place`???? What caused this break down of feelings between you both? I am a wrong person to advice in issues like this cos i have never experienced this kind and i will walk away if i am with a man with this description..Let me read advice but sha you are trying to still give him kpekus with this kind behaviour.
My dear nothing will change this type of person. Just do the right thing and ignore him.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
Keeps malice with you, but then expects you to xes him. Na wa.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, if u have mind to keep malice with me, your pr**k better keep same malice with my V.
ReplyDeleteHave you told him about this trait and how trying it is? Truly, he may have picked it up while growing up with a complaining parent. He likely doesn’t even know he has these negative traits that are not useful in a marriage. I would say tell him calmly that the marriage is not bringing you joy because of all the nagging, complaining and negative utterances from him day in day out. Let him know to go get counseling because it’s driving a wedge between both of you.
ReplyDeletePlease remember that ppl who are constantly criticized will start faltering, making mistakes and develop stress when this person comes around. They will start doubting themselves and likely develop low self-esteem and self-worth if they do not have a strong sense of self. It is not a healthy environment to live in, and children cannot grow up healthily in such an atmosphere. So, if things get too much take a separation and go where you can have peace. Protect your mental health.
I don't get how spouses or partners will be keeping malice or hate each other and still be gb*nshing, it can never be me, if you're keeping malice with me, you're also keeping malice with my kp*kus, it's under lock till we sort out our ish.
ReplyDeleteGod will fix your marriage.