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There's this lady in my compound whose husband traveled outside Nigeria when their child was 2 years old; now he's 9 years old. Mind you, the lady packed into my compound 3 years ago  
The husband came to the country in April without bringing anything for the wife and son. He told them he didn't know how to buy things. Even throughout his stay in Nigeria, he didn't take them shopping at all, Imagine .....
He doesn't take care of his wife and son; he only pays house rent and the son's school fees. Anytime this lady asks him for upkeep money, he says no money for now
Mind you this man lives in Germany.
This lady started having an affair with a married man who does everything for her and her son. He takes good care of them so well.

She didn't know the husband cloned her phone. He received every damn message, call, and voice note from the married man sent to her
The man came in yesterday again after he left in April maybe when he couldn't take it anymore after seeing all the messages
He did a surprise Paso for the wife he first scattered the wife obo and even tried to do it from the back but the lady refused due to the pain this woman didn't know the man was fuxking her like that deliberately.

He waited for their son to come back from school, and he told the wife to pack some clothes for him that he's taking him for a two-holiday to his mother's house
After some hours, the lady decided to call him to ask if they had already been there, but this man didn't pick up her many calls. So, she then called the mother-in-law but the mama said she did not see anybody o.

The lady continued to call him until he picked up and said she shouldn't call him again in her life, that the marriage was over
He started abusing the lady and told her he knew everything she had been doing for a long he said all her messages, calls, and voice notes that he received everything.

He said he deliberately fuxked her the way he did and he wanted to tear her anus he couldn't because she refused he was saying this and everyone was listening
Assuming the lady knew the guy would say such a thing, she wouldn't have called him in everyone's presence. She has been crying since yesterday.
I went to the lady as you guys said to comfort her. I told her to open up everything to me..

Una no go believe wetin this lady don pass through from the man hand ehn, she said the man stopped her from working, that he said he didn't want her to work because she fit go astray and she should not leave their child with anyone.
She said the man had asked her younger sister, who used to stay with her, to leave their house because that might give her the courage to go out and leave their son with her younger sister. Just imagine the evil thought oo.

She said she then stopped her work but when the man didn't do as promised, she started working for an old woman, taking care of her by cooking and doing some errands for her.

Then the husband learned about it again and stopped her from working there. They are Muslim, but when there is a celebration, this wicked man won't buy clothes for her and the son. They normally celebrate at her mother's in-law's place
She said the mother-in-law would make her work by cooking and washing all the used pots and dishes all alone and when she's leaving she won't give her meat or food apart from the ones they have eaten there..

She said when he came in April he told her that anytime he caught her with any man, he would kill her, and the man and leave the country so that nobody would catch him
She promised him she wouldn't do anything like that. This man didn't even buy anything for them when he was coming, she said she asked him to take them shopping but he refused even common money he didn't give. That he normally calculates anything they were buying..

This man has never once called her mother since he traveled. Anytime she asked why he was not calling her mom, he would say because she doesn't use WhatsApp. How can an old woman in the village who knows nothing about big phones expect a small phone to use WhatsApp? Or he's saying he couldn't have called her on a normal call?

She said he had never given her mom #1 before
He even collected their marriage certificate from her when he was traveling for the first time why did he collect it? Doesn't he know he was going to do all these things to her later, the reason why he collected their marriage certificate?

She had gone to meet her mother-in-law's place, and she met the husband and their son there. Even the mother-in-law was saying she was going out that she didn't have the time to listen to nonsense talk, meaning the husband has told his mother everything..

She said she told her mother-in-law that she must hear her side before she leaves their house. So, the woman said she told her mother-in-law she's not here to beg or anything and that all she wants is her son. Immediately the husband started calling her see and all sorts of names, that she sleeps around with different men for money and that their son can never stay with her

She said this man always recorded all their conversations. Anytime he called, the man told her that. This man has two kids with the lady his mother wanted him to marry instead of her She said she knew all along because she loved him. The first was before their wedding and the second one was when she was pregnant with her son..

When she found out, the man was begging her that the lady would come to him, and they had sex, leading to the second pregnancy. She was begging me seriously not to let anyone in the compound know about it because she was ashamed to tell me.

She said the man told her that the son would stay with his mother for now and she said no problem.
She even called the man to talk with her son; you won't believe what this man said when he picked up the call. He said yes, asewo; he then called the son, saying come and talk to your Asewo mom. I was shocked because I didn't believe a grown-up man could say such a thing to a child. 

He said the son told him everything she had done, how she would go out in the morning and come back in the afternoon. The boy told him the man's friend had come to their house. She said she has decided to leave the son with them when the boy grows he will look for her she doesn't want to fight him or the mother-in-law.....

She can stop him from travelling back by going to report him at the German embassy in Lagos that he abducted their kid....The allegations are not enough reason to take her child away from her....

That he didnt allow her open a provision store in front of the house was not reason enough for her to wander....She has every right to gbensh who she wants but she could have walked out of the marriage  because of the awful way he treated her....

I hope that someone learns  from this story.......

This was initially posted inside the in house news but the update is added in here...