Thursday, July 25, 2024
25 comments:
Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com
Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..
If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via
Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com
Mobile Phone +4915210724141
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Make I relax and learn from my married colleagues here.
ReplyDeleteSame here
DeleteWhatever you can do to make sure you don't marry your enemy in disguise, please do. It takes one second to say yes to the wrong person but the damage can derail your life for years and even lead to untimely death. Don't take this decision lightly. If you have missed it and you know in your heart that you have really missed it, don't bother waiting around for too long. After waiting 20/30 years in misery and collecting long service certificate and trauma, it will still end in divorce, might as well leave when you still have your youth.
DeletePatience
ReplyDeleteTolerance
Forgiveness
Be Strong
Waking Up Early
Praying More and More
Hello iya boys
Above all loving unconditionally
DeleteYour in-laws are your in-laws,don't get it twisted.
ReplyDeleteMarriage thought me a lot of lessons
ReplyDeleteThe greatest of all is Love and sacrifice 💗
I learn to love another as much and even more than I love myself (My kids)
Patience
Think long and hard before marrying a man with kids especially when their mother is still single (she will interfere with your relationship). If the children lack discipline, home training and show signs of dysfunction, just run, do not attempt to help because it will never be received well. From the irresponsible parents (including your husband because most men leave the upbringing of their kids to their baby mamas and just send money), they will struggle with accepting their failure and the kids, those ones will lie and manipulate the situation. People in this situation will understand, so beware, it’s vice-versa.
ReplyDeletePatience and being prayerful.
ReplyDeleteJust passing...🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
ReplyDeleteBe prayerful.
ReplyDeleteYou can not know everything 100% about your spouse. New sides can still be shown to you even after many years of marriage.
ReplyDeleteI have been with my husband for over 20 years but I am still discovering new sides of him that I have never seen before.
DOG has something to say and he will say it:
ReplyDeleteMarriage? ......hmmmmm....
I am 5 years 5 months in marriage. But eh? I don see genesis reach revelation finish. Has marriage taught me anything? I won't say yes because it is still teaching me.
Most times, when I read chronicles here, I smile. It is not a chronicle unless you choose to allow it to be. Few women here can understand what men who choose to push and pull through face. But that is his choice, just as it is mine. My wife is a BV. Don't know the name she was using. Don't care.
Marriage has made me realize that I am far stronger than I knew myself to be. The patience and endurance, the 'stick-to-it-tiveness' of it all, the heaviness of sacrifice, the continual search for something redeemable in your spouse when you are staring at that door of walking away for good because you prepared for marriage but your spouse just strolled in without even a basic understanding of what marriage entails, what makes marriage work and the role she has to play.
Marriage made me understand the concept of pre-forgiveness. You must position your mind to forgive them before they offend you. I tell you the truth, those offenses must come and may God help you that your spouse or partner is one that prefers to burn everything to the ground than admit that they are wrong or even bother to meet you half way in your efforts. You find yourself holding up a marriage alone.
You can do what the typical man does, walk away! Go out and sleep around with as many girls as you can. You can afford it after all. But then you call yourself to order and remind yourself that this is not who you are, if you give in to this path, then the marriage has changed you and you have failed.
You look at 3 exceedingly beautiful kids you have with her. You know she can't take care of them in any way tender kids need care and attention from parents. You know you brought them into the world. It is not about you but it is all about them now. They don't deserve to suffer cos they got fools for parents... so you keep pushing. Taking the good with the bad, the sugar with the bitter leaf. You swore never to fail those kids and by God you won't.
Oh my God! Did I just vent?
In essence, this is what marriage keeps teaching me. If you are not ready to be continually forgiving and also make the sacrifice to be a better person everyday, please don't bother getting married.
Continually forgive? Why?
DeleteWhy continually forgive when you can as well treat each other right? What are you still forgiving after 5 years? When you should both understand each other by now and know each other's likes and dislikes, to be able to avoid this in order to have a peaceful union. I believe once in a while, misunderstanding may arise as humans, albeit unintentionally, but not when it borders on insouciance and disregard.
When you write it like that, it looks like marriage is where you live with someone who takes you for granted, isn't intentional about making it work and who doesn't care about how hurtful their actions make you feel. Is this how marriage is meant to be?
I personally don't like it when it's one person pulling all the weight in a relationship or friendship. If that's what you are going through, you need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with her. For how long will you live like this? You seem down in the mouth.
Maybe, you could shake her up a little and act like you are really done if talking doesn't effect the desired change.
Patience, tolerance, being more prayerful
ReplyDeletePatience, tolerance and wisdom.
ReplyDeleteNever compare your marriage with others, each to his/her race.
ReplyDeleteGod's timing is the best
Always put God first
Over to the married ones.
ReplyDeletePatience, sacrifice
ReplyDeletePatience
ReplyDeleteTolerance
Sacrifice
Vigilance and many more.
Anne K
Patience,
ReplyDeletesacrifice
Selflessness
Patience again
Tolerance.
Marry your friend. E get why.
ReplyDeleteHave something doing as a woman no matter how small.
Bringing up kids is a lot of work. Enjoy your singlehood while you can. Go on that trip, have fun.
Respect your husband.
Don't take up financial roles you are not ready to continue chesting.
Good morning everyone
ReplyDeleteits not for the faint hearted. Quit if you need to. But also give room for reconciliation.
ReplyDeleteno marry man when no stingy
ReplyDelete