STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WHEN THE WOMAN IS A SERIAL CHEATER..
I Almost caved in to marriage. I dated her for 6 months and was about to propose. I had to be sure I was making the right move. Tapped into her phone. Shit!! This girl is fucking 3 men! That was what I could deduce from her phone. Probably they are more. We're talking about a so-called Church girl. I thought of *doing* things to her, but I convinced myself it wasn't worth it. She still feels I don't know.
She was at the Cinema with one of them recently, I called her and she sent me a text that she was in a meeting. I laughed so hard. I know where she is at every point in time. Thinks she's fooling me. I made a post that I wanted a partner that'd give me two kids last week. Some cretins descended on me without knowing my story. The average Nigerian wants you to live their life.
They only see things from their prism. If this cheating bitch had done this in a marriage, I doubt if I will be here writing this. I for don *off* am. Is that what you judging bitches want? I will never condone my wife fucking another man. Na death warrant be that. I lack nothing. This cheating bitch lacks nothing too. We're both doing greatly.
It's just the itchy pussy stuff. The last time I monitored her, I saw her in a compromising position with a guy that wouldn't stand me one bit. I now wondered why women will always scream " all men cheat ", when most of them are shameless slots.
It's just the itchy pussy stuff. The last time I monitored her, I saw her in a compromising position with a guy that wouldn't stand me one bit. I now wondered why women will always scream " all men cheat ", when most of them are shameless slots.
I will drop this cheating bitch when she least expects. I will still hook up with a girl that wouldn't want marriage like me just to have kids. No commitment. Marriage is shit!
*I had to turn this into a chronicle because it is always Chronicles about women complaining of men cheating.....At least this will balance it up.....
*I had to turn this into a chronicle because it is always Chronicles about women complaining of men cheating.....At least this will balance it up.....
That said,it is bad enough when one has to cheat but being a serial cheater is definitely a form of mental illness..lol
Oga,there is no need to play Superman here..Please let her know what you know,present your evidence and dump her if you must......
She might change when she know why you are leaving her...
Hanging out with guys doesnt translate to gbensh oo.
ReplyDeleteWho gave you the audacity to tap her phone!!! who is tapping yours? that's invasion of privacy.You must be MAD!!!
DeleteYeah.... but why hide and lie about it?
DeleteInvasion of privacy??
DeleteIn a relationship?
Today most ladies consider their phones "private" compared to their vagina... theyre more relaxed when you fiddle with their pussy than their phones.
To sum it up, poster has trust issues, anger issues, mental issues, gbenshing issues and pride!
Deletefull stop
Anon 15:26, invasion of kini, privacy kee you there.
DeleteThank you Modella you couldn't have said it better. I noticed all this charisma you staed in his rant too.
DeleteOga carry your cross and forgive her that is what women hear everyday too.
MODELLA, GBAMEST!!!!
DeleteIn your little mind you think the girl will die single because you ended it? Hahaha, wake up and smell the caffeinated coffee, the babe go marry well.
DeleteYou are so deluded that you think highly of yourself.You are the loser oh.
You forgot to tell us if you are also serial cheat or a faithful boyfriend. If indeed you are also a cheat , may thunder fire you for judging some1 for what you are guilty of.
If your phone is tapped, I am sure we will see worse.
Common get out and free the girl, she just dodged a bullet from a psychotic stalker, oniyeye.
Who's this talking about privacy? But you're all here telling women to snoop right?
DeleteE ti ya were.
Some women stay awake at midnight just to get into the man's phone but a man tries it and you are all condemning him.
DeleteMr. Just let her know you are aware of all her games. Don't use the experience with her to miss your soul mate. Some human beings are incorrigible, there is nothing you can do to change them. Don't let her damage your emotions. Move on and search for your one true love.
Modella your head dey there
DeleteModella, your head dey there. Dude has all that you mentioned, period.
DeleteBoy you don't even need to get married because your heart is full of evil, why would you *off* her? Who are you? Are you her parents? are you God?
Just because of cheating? Boy you are sicker than the girl oo. Go find help (anger issues) . Men playing God.
* pis*ed much*
Note: I am not in support of the girl, that's really bad, I mean what she did/doing.
You are mad!!!! You must be an Ill mannered piece of shit in real life, see the way you keep dropping bitches everywhere, are the females in your house bitches too?
DeleteOne or two ladies did you bad, and so? Does that accord you the right of passage to insult or lump all ladies together? Gerrout of here jare.
Baa...baa....baa...
DeleteCry me a river...
Baa....baa....baa...
Cry me a river...
Tears flowing like a river,
Bitches this,Bitches that,
Did she promise you forever?
Too bad you got the shaft.
Lmao!Poetry isn't my calling. Calm down poster.People get cheated on all the time.Your girlfriend isn't most girls,she is just one girl.
With time you will heal and hopefully,your heart would want to try again.Maybe then,you would end up with someone who would make you grateful that this time happened.
Lmao! Poster is obviously a short man with a tiny d**k! Mtcheewww... I pity who go born for this one.
DeleteStella where is my comment ooooo.
DeleteBorderline psycho. She knew u r sick and has checked out of relationship already, have u herd of putting ur eggs in one basket? Exactly. She don 1st decord ur mental instability reason she is back in d market searching
DeleteHahahahahah
DeletePoster who do u this?
Poster you are a monitoring spirit.
DeleteYou guys ain't married poster, so pls save it. Which one is cheating in this one? Both of una dey engage in premarital sex. Monitoring spirit man with insecurity issues hook up with "omo Ori irin" runs babe.
DeleteWhat a combo
3 gbosa for you @ Models.
DeleteAs much as she is a cheat...you are also insecure,what do u need to tap her phone for? U are not a saint either
ReplyDeleteWhy not tap her phone when u sense a rat? Dont you snoop? Whats the difference? Oya tell me why ladies snoop?
DeleteDon't mind him. yen yen yen... @poster, Is she the first? Are you perfect? From your chronicle alone I can tell you are very arrogant and abusive! you must be a short man devil in real life. bitch this bitch that. yinmu
DeleteChai... short people don suffer sha
DeleteHe sounds so rude and proud with his write up.
DeleteExactly! plus he may be a serial cheat too...
DeleteYes, he sound rude to you but saying the truth. If nothing triggered him, he wouldn't have tapped into her phone, you all encourage snooping here the last time I checked.
DeleteNo wonder she's cheating on your sorry ass! No sane chick would choose to live with such an insolent, insecure, violent, arrogant and self absolved human being like you.
DeletePlease where's that BV that writes on mental health disorders? Your attention is needed up here o! I beg of you, come and help this guy know his class or category...
😂😂😂😂 Mama Mia, chai take am easy 🤣🤣
Delete@ Mama
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You killed it
Shut up this modella girl. Do you have sense at all. Idiot
DeleteAll of you have got issues. So it's OK for a woman to hack into her man's phone, but is harram if the man does same. You dolts encourage women that have trust issues to be weary of the man, but if a man want to be "sure" of the woman he'll be sharing his soul with, it now becomes a problem. OP, I'm a man and I support you, except the offing part. Drop her like a hot potato especially when she is the most vulnerable. Marriage these days get as e be. Don't these blog ladies get at you. Many are suffering from borderline personality.
Delete@Mama Mia
DeleteYou mean to call on Yaba Left Escapee
Don't leave her yet... confront her with all your evidence..The next babe might be worst,also did you see her ontop of a man...Pls don't conclude yet
ReplyDeleteGuyman!
DeleteWhile i read through, i had this funny feeling that youre related to Jim Iyke, or youre both in same whatsapp group!
Your mentality about turning gray with a woman under one roof is already warped from the beginning, even if you meet one deeper life virgin, you'd still suspect her route to bible studies & tap her phone, how much more a slay queen.
I would advice you quietly walk away from her life while singing to dat craig davids track, you can present your evidence & watch her stutter before u exit... but with this your crossbred anger of Shark & Rottweiler, i wont advice you to keep her further before the options will be either morgue or hospital, cus i see youve concluded on her matter already.
Good luck.
PS. Marriage is NOT for all.
Inspector Gadget, you actually sound like a sociopath....this your “off” her means kill her or I’m missing something .She cheated and you’re hurting but life goes on abeg.You are not d first guy to experience heart break .
Deletelet her know you are aware of what she's doing before you call off the relationship
ReplyDeleteOga it's your business if you don't want to get married but don't drag other innocent girls down, not every girl is a bitch some are just wired that way and you can't blame your self or the remaining girls in the world. Try and love again but if you find someone like you who just wants kids then that's fine
DeletePoster,na only u knw weytin dey bite u. Until u propose 2 her, she isn't supposed 2 put all her eggs in one basket.
ReplyDeleteUna see them; scattering eggs in many basket na to fork any available and unavailable rod; anything wey dey long including snakes?
DeleteNa who dey teach una this kin thrash bikonu?
Yeye talk.
DeleteWhen a guy does same hes called a player abi, abeg shift
Anon 15.20 why do you like echoing your stupidity and littering the comments section with it? From his write up, you could see that the most increminating thing the girl has done is go see a movie "at the cinema" with another guy! Dating such a guy, you'd be forced to lie about the littlest of things...
DeleteWhat a fine way to scatter her eggs, Ode 🙄
DeleteIf a man I'm dating should accuse me of cheating and presents evidence he got from tapping my phone, my cheating will be the last thing we'll be talking about. You're a psychopath poster. Talking about killing her if she cheats. Check yourself into a mental hospital for your obsessive behaviour, it's not normal.
ReplyDeleteYour phone is gis phone, his phone is also yours.... there shouldnt be any secrets in a love relationship, so technically he tapped his phone. Wetin de vex u as long as ur hand clean, just make him trust you
DeleteWHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER, SHEBI WOMEN ARE SNOOPAHOLICS, SO NOW HE PROFESSIONALISES IT AND HE IS BAD? DON'T CHANGE THE SUBJECT-LEAVE BUGGING PHONE ONE SIDE. YOU CHEAT ABI NO?
DeleteDont mind him.Las las he will still marry a cheat as long as he keeps this attitude,which is enough to drive any woman away from him. its easy to say you will kill her like you wont go down same road...yeye!
DeleteI will advise you to call her and tell her that you know everything but you are willing to forgive her if she can change her ways. Then go ahead and marry her. Please take this advise because if it the other way round this also will be my advice. @Blessed Princess
ReplyDeleteOga, if you are all that, nobody will be cheating on you, maybe your blokos issa dimple, or is a toothpick or reciting the lords prayer lasts longer than you in bed, or perhaps you are a stingy Adenuga?
ReplyDeleteEverybody bitch bitch bitch, perhaps you grew up watching your dad call your mum a bitch and you think its ok, or maybe, just maybe, madam fiancee has realised she doesnt want you for a long term spouse and just wants kids because of her biological clock
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DeleteDamn! This is so funny.
You are absolutely right women don't always cheat on a good guy.. Something is definitely missing either good chemistry or money
DeleteI see here that men are damned if they do and damned if they don't.
DeleteNow we are blaming him for being cheated on ba?
Una too much o!
Don't mind the toyboy.. see the way he littered the post with 'bitch, crude element oshi.
DeleteHahahahaha @ Stingy Adenuga
DeleteAre you pulling Paddy on him 🙄😷?
Awon Girl Voltrons. So non of you in your relaxer fried brain cells, could think the girl might be a Nimpho, a hot pant or those girls that will sleep any thing for money, that OP might be innocent of all your accusations.
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DeleteThat was same experience my brother who lives in the USA had concerning some girls I suggested to him (one on this blog). Pressure is on him to marry and he does not want to marry anybody in the States for reasons best known to him. He wanted a homely Nigerian girl who was bred in Naija and will always make him laugh. He warned me that the girl is not "free". Took it upon himself to monitor the girl on this blog etc. and eventually confirmed his suspicions. He even made a funny comment on hers and the girl insulted him. I was ashamed to have made the suggestion.
ReplyDeleteMe that was salivating for an SDK wedding that started like a joke.
Me I no fit vouch for any Naija girl again o. Make I yarn una the three men wey the poster's girl dey fork;
1. The ATM; money/Dubai shopping
2. The fork guy; just for fork
3. The option A2
Eheee, that number three fit confuse una; na the man wey she fit fall back on when her (nderi) phone pressing for abroad guys no work.
Poster, you fit be that number 3 o.
As a comedienne that she is na, both your brother and you are mad! He doesn't know where dey do comedy shows if he wants to laugh,cause person born tell e pikin make e go dey make man laugh.Anuofia
Delete@17:18
DeleteNee Anuohia
Thank you for all the insult. When them say "single and mingle" all of una go begin chant;
"I am humorous, easy to get along with, girl next door bla bla bla" Eheeeeeee!
Now, persin say im own like in a life partner na persin wey dey humorous, im don become anuohia okwa ya?
And liver no gree you carry ya ID nak dat ya anuohia chant eh?
Make una wey get onu Y continue to dey insult everybody for this blog and SM. Una (Naija) girls just dey carry
padlock lock all una gate, carry una hand scatter every good thing wey wan come una way.
You see as the poster's girl (and the poster) carry fork scatter wetin suppose be marriage? 😂😂😂
See this Ekuke
ReplyDeleteDid you propose to her? NO!
You want her to put all her eggs in one basket so that she’ll cry tomorrow.
She’ll stop cheating once you marry her.
Just say you don’t lover so much that you’re trying to dump her just because of Ordinary Cheating.
Cheating is not enough Reason to dump a spouse. I can only support you on grounds of Domestic Violence
Exactly what I thought too. He's free to have other ladies to compare her with and dump her if he feels she's not good enough but she's not free to have other guys to compare you with. You're just a proud nonentity. Were you faithful to her? You mentioned killing your future wife if she cheats, but you didn't say anything about you being faithful. You dey try
DeleteOmg lol I cant deal! Your comment is on another level 😂😂😂
DeleteMy girl said " ordinary cheating"
see the idiot shouting bitch bitch upandan. you motherfuckers cant stand what u dish out. is it by force to marry. you sound like a psycho already who would even want to marry your kinda of man sef. see how pained u are that a lady is cheating if it were your friend or brother you will go and buy him beer cheering him up and calling Ronaldo. idiot let me face my skipping rope jare. i am not in the mood.
ReplyDeleteThanks for saving me from typing...mtchweeeeeeee
DeleteMy epistle disappeared
ReplyDeletecheating is not enough reason to dump someone you love
Ok... until they bring disease and come and dash you as souvenir abi? Its more than enough jo.
DeleteGuess she didn't want to put all her eggs in a basket which has really backfired.
ReplyDeleteBackfire wetin?
DeleteNothing backfire.
Once she's married she'ld bade farewell to every other totoh warmers.
Thumbs up Stella! Your head they there.
ReplyDelete@poster, GBE Body ee! Because Life happens...just dump her like a bad habit,Life is too short for unhealthy drama abeg.
Stay Strong.
End the relationship, simple. Your Ego is too fragile, sticking around is dumb.
ReplyDeleteOff am for what? Oga, drink water and move on.
Let her go now,don't bother to waste her time.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not shit, it is an institution ordained by God.
Do you want to remain single all your life?
Make I complete my yarns.
ReplyDeleteWhen men complain say sisis dey fork another man, she be church girl come dey fork. Ya pain na say she dey fork another man abi na say she be "church girl", seeing that for this one, you sef dey fornicate with her.
You wey wan marry "church girl", you be "church man?'.
Anyway, church girl or man does not necessarily mean Christian; follower of Christ. She/He is a follower of a church (dogma).
And dem no dey do wetin them dey preach. Na Pharisees them be. Poster, you sef be Pharisee?
mennnnnnnn this poster is not normal full of bitterness, I will not have your type as boy friend not to talk settling down with you as husband. God forbid
ReplyDeleteAs a lady I advise my friends not to put all their eggs in one basket because guys also can't be trusted....so Mr poster except you have evidence of her having sex with another Man, going out with a man as a SINGLE LADY doesn't make her a bitch.
ReplyDeletePlease poster did you specifically ask her for a monogamous relationship?
Did you also tell her that you were courting her for marriage and not as a side thing hence she should shut the door to other suitors?
Were you specific in your discussions with her about hanging out with other men?
If your answer to the above questions are NO then she hasn't wronged you in anyway
LEP😛
"Monogamous relationship?"
Delete(Naija girl)Tohtoh chopper, una don come again?
Na so una talk about 'consummating relationships" the other time.
You wey dey chop tohtoh, na "monogamous" tohtoh you dey chop?
This ya lane dey slippery o.
Anonymous 15:38....Take your judgemental stupid talks away from my comment.
DeleteLEP😛
Dear poster in as much as i don't support the lady's act but why tap her cell phone to monitor her is not as if you married her. I put it to you that you are insecure. Your post is misnomered, its fine if you don't want to give love a chance again but trust me there are more nice/faithful ladies out there. Life and how you want it is a choice dear.
ReplyDeleteThank God you snooped and found out the unbelievable truth about her.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a gift to those who know the true\real value of it.
Calling out on the Judginas will not help to prove you right.Two wrongs don't make a right.Be bold enough to tell her or catch her in the act[whatever and however way you choose to deal will it},
Don't make the mistake of deciding to have KIDS{precious gift of love and marriage} outside.
I know you're enraged at the moments because of what a woman has caused,an innocent woman cannot come and pay for her sins.Just as there a still some good men out there,there're still some good women who deserve all the love.
#my kobo
ayaoba,God bless you for your soft kind words of advice.women with your kinda thoughts are rare.
DeleteOga that's not enough reason to say you will off her as in kill someone for cheating on you? Even if she's your wife. I'm not justifying what she's doing but women suffer this more than you think. Call things off with her. Relationship is not a do or die affair if you're not getting along fine it means it is not meant to be
ReplyDelete@DeHeroine
Poster I hope you know some women enjoys attention and hanging out with no intention of sleeping around.
ReplyDeleteGet your fact correct before concluding because you might be missing up the whole issue.
Poster, forgive her "all womèn cheat."
ReplyDeleteWhile you're at it, drink coconut oil and watch war room. You'll be fine.
Bursts into laughter
DeleteMuffles it while Oga is asking what is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI recommend Lucille coconut oil, it will help calm his nerves... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 LMAO
DeleteIf marriage is shit then you should forget about having kids. No woman will gladly become a baby making machine for any man.
ReplyDeleteAre u in this Nigeria at all?
DeleteHow many baby making factories have they shut down?
Anon 16.09, he said he's looking for a woman to birth kids for him without marriage. He's not talking about getting kids from a baby factory and even if he decides to tow that line, who'll care for the kids?
DeletePoster don't allow the devil to destroy the home you are about to build. This is the best moment to make bible and prayer your roommates. Fast over it and continue praying for your woman to come back to her senses. Don't forget to add to your prayers that the juju those other guys are using on her be nullified so you can enjoy your woman alone.
ReplyDeleteIt's well with your soul dear.
Note:
All women are gradually turning into bitches,so hold this one you see very tight. Besides, as long as it's not domestic violence, I believe something can be worked out. And yes, before I forget, have you considered marriage counselors yet? They might be of great help ooo
Lmao....
DeleteYou comment killed me haha
DeleteYou are just a very wicked sombori!! No allow Poster "off" you like TV o. LMAO.
DeleteKosi this your comment has taken it to a whole 'nother level 🤣🤣🤣🤣😁
DeleteAnd Kosi while he is on that, he should watch war Room 😏😏😏😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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DeleteLMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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DeleteAnd drink coconut oil, 7days dry fasting will also do wonders in a short period
Deletethis poster is not just OK. only messages you saw you wanna off. What if you caught her in the act? You go "off" am. You are just too full of yourself jare pls go and yansh down and drink plenty water. yen yen yen... Keep acting smart, I'm sure she has left you already. just be dating yourself for now and enjoy it while it lasts.
ReplyDeletehahahahahahhahah aswear the guy is one arrogant idiot. talking abouy offing someone child like say him fit born frog. ekwenzu
DeleteOh lawd 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteSee your long mouth like 'i for don off am'. What do you know is 'off'? Like you have never cheated
ReplyDeleteHow is it cheating when she's single? Maybe she's testing all of you so she can pick one. That's not such a bad thing na
ReplyDeleteBut oga, she isn't married to you so she has the right to fuck as many number of preeqs as she wants and like until she's married.
ReplyDeleteWere you even faithful to her?
Oga, give yourself hbp bcos of woman that you have not yet married oh.
Ehn, not only women should be dying of hbp bcos of men.
Ndi monitoring spirit, continue oh.
I love your chronicles anyways,e dey sweet me for belle.
But oga, she isn't married to you so she has the right to fuck as many number of preeqs as she wants and like until she's married.
ReplyDeleteWere you even faithful to her?
Oga, give yourself hbp bcos of woman that you have not yet married oh.
Ehn, not only women should be dying of hbp bcos of men.
Ndi monitoring spirit, continue oh.
I love your chronicles anyways,e dey sweet me for belle.
Poster take it easy with the "shit" you keep shouting,if you want to poo,quietly go and poo na.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahaahahahaahahaahahahaha
DeleteLmao...
DeleteHaha haha 🤣🤣🤣, Stella BVs are killing me with laughter here
DeletePlease present your findings and end the relationship. I no de like to hear noise.
ReplyDeleteYes, if a woman came here whining about a cheating boyfriend, I'd give her the same advice.
The difference is, a woman who has been cheated on would probably come here crying and making excuses for the man, while the man comes here calling her names.
Please, if you don't want to marry because ONE woman cheated on you, go ahead. There are definitely women who don't want to get married and you'd be able to arrange for something with one of them.
If you're serious go ahead, otherwise you're just a noisemaker looking for someone to stick a pacifier in his mouth.
Chaiiii!!! *in Patience Jonathan's voice*
DeleteLol you guys are very wicked.
DeleteWhat is this? Are you the only man on earth? Waka pass! No oh!! I will put all my eggs in one basket nonsense! You better wake up! Slacker!
ReplyDeletePoster my 2nd name is "faithful partner" please don't give up on love while I'm here. Dump her ASAP and come to me.
ReplyDeleteSo, if this Kain person propose,you go marry am? Someone that talked about killing another like it's no big deal. My dear,repeat after me "I refuse to settle for nonsense"
DeleteLMAO. Ndi SDK fargins, ndewo nu! You people want Poster to vex patapata.
DeleteHe won't kill nothing. He's talking out of anger.
DeleteChai see faith, bwhahahahah.
DeleteWell me and this girl described her sound similar though it ain't me.
ReplyDeleteI have always been a good girl. Never cheated, then men started showing me. With the person I thot I will marry jilting me marrying someone else while dating me.
After that I decided never to keep just one guy. Although I will never sleep with multiple guys. But I don't keep just one guy. I try to have options. Maybe this is what posters gf is doing.
Recently I decided to give love a try again. I met a guy,he wasn't my type at first. But I started falling really madly and decided to give it a try. I noticed he was quite jealous. He will make comments that he doesn't like how I receive male visitors,calls etc. I started cutting toasters off,I started cutting even male friends off because I noticed he wld even get annoyed if I'm just gisting about an ex. I explained all this to a friend and she's the one that told me if this is what he wants I shld cut off all other guys. Since this is a relationship leading to marriage. We spend all our free time together. I started getting so used to him. The other two guys I was seeing before got tired and stopped communicating with me.
Now since two weeks ago he has been acting distant. I'm doing more of the calling. He's been saying he needs to concentrate more on work. He's been having some issues.
I complained about his lack of communication. And now he asked me for a break? Can you see men.
Poster this is the exact reason your girl still has a guy she is going to movies with. I will never ever cut off other guys for a relationahip again. Rather I will be smarter. I will delete all messages and make sure I am never caught. It is not worth keeping just one man.
All u wey dey ask d guy why he snoop tink say na only girls na dey allowed to snoop...guy tank God say u snoop
ReplyDeleteI don’t understand why you are using the word ‘cheating’ when she is still single. You haven’t engaged let alone marry her, you are there ranting like a mad dog. Why did you tap her phone? the lady should run fast from a man like you. Your ego and insecurity is on another level. GTFOH my friend!!!
ReplyDeleteI will wait for the day you go advise woman wey him boyfriend cheat on her before I tell you my mind
DeleteRubbish comment from Mummy MAA
DeleteJust imagine. So it's now advisable to keep more than one boyfriend abi?
DeleteMummy MMA, i want to assume u are married...so ur husband had multiple fuck partners while dating u yet u married him still, meanin u knew he was cheatin on u and yet u married him afterall he wasnt married
DeleteWomen are scums
ReplyDeleteWho will marry this rottweiler of a man..
ReplyDeleteVibrating with unnecessary anger like you caught her gbenshing.
No marry na, at least one more rabid dog who will unleash DV on someone's daughter out of d way
I noticed a lot of ladies here saying "did you engage her?" "then she is not cheating" Maybe I'm old school but I thought the essence or "due process" was to be in a "committed relationship" comprising of 2 people ALONE, no 3rd, 4th or 5th partner especially unbeknownst to one of the couple. If it is the norm now to have extra options in the relationship why hide it- why be having meetings in Cinema hall 2? She no engage then make she tell am say she dey date legion. But no she will come home, wash pum-pum and say Oga food is ready. It's simple she has been caught, stop all the distracted driving of he is "prouding" he is an abuser.
ReplyDeleteBreathe, sweetie, breathe! You are lashing out from a place of pain and disappointment. While it is expected that aggression will be transferred to the wrong people, could you, please, reduce the "colourful words" to the barest minimum? Using foul names like "cretins" and "bitches" for people with opposing views is juvenile and uncivilised.
ReplyDeleteCan you really blame some people for reacting the way they did to the comment you posted? The shock value was on point, if that was your goal. Now real talk darling, you are not that socially evolved to want kids without marriage. You believed in marriage but was disillusioned by your lady. You are not hardcore, my love, just a very pained young man on a self destructive mission to screw as many women over because you got screwed over by ONE lady.
Do you know how many ladies with the best intentions have be stabbed in the heart by men? I mean like 1 lady getting shanked by at least 4 men before she meets her Mr right, that's if she's lucky. Some get married and find out the loves of their lives keep side chics and mistresses. Heartbreak is a right of passage. Wear your hurt like a badge of honour, keep your head up and take it like a man! If all the women who have been betrayed behaved like you, do you think any man will be left alive?
My darling, you are weak! There's nothing manly about going all psycho and losing your religion and your principles because ONE lady cheated on you. If it takes just one betrayal to get you this bent out of shape, you aren't mature enough for marriage. What's this rubbish about bidding your time and planning to dump her in a spectacular way? Are you that idle? Hasn't she messed with your head enough? What makes you so sure she will even stay with you long enough for your plan to see fruition? Baby girl may be planning her own grand exit.
If you are done, be done. Spending another minute obsessing over the person who betrayed you, is so 1999. Oh! By the way, please keep those perky swimmers of yours to yourself until you are done being angry with the world. Do go siring kids in anger and with vengeance. Children are Blessing and not way to stick up the middle finger at the entire female populace. Betrayal may bend a real man but only little boys get broken and start looking for others to break. So which one are you, sweetie?
e-hugs.
Chai this comment just reset my brain 😥 i will not laugh again
DeleteI love you Ronalda. God bless you for this comment.
DeleteRonalda, I have been following your comments ever since on this blog. Your comments are incisive and effective. Your usage of caring words go make angry man just let go. Please keep it up. You have a fan right herem
Delete😍😍😍😍😍😍
DeleteChai.. this ronalda.. you just pleasantly told him he's an idiot.. you're manipulative jur.. I don't like you again... Lol..
DeleteStella please post iyeh..
O my world! You Ronalda are diplomacy personified!
DeleteYou can tell a full grown adult to go to hell and s/he would actually be looking forward to the trip!
Poster you can ignore my comment earlier but, this up there is all the advice you need.
"bent outta shape" lol
DeleteWow.. Ronalda, you really do have a way with words.. I love reading your comments.
DeleteReading comments in here makes me cringe.
ReplyDeleteLike what is this world turning into? So a lady can't stay faithful in a relationship? B'cus the man hasn't proposed? I see why many ladies are still single.May God Deliver y'all.
I’m quite surprised also. I am wondering If the reverse was the case,will many of these comments take the same stand?
DeleteEtsako pls don't blame ladies. Many of us have been totally faithful to men and it hasn't gotten us anywhere. The last guy that jilted me so badly people abused me why did I keep just one guy. That who does that.
DeleteAnother one I just met too. I had many other guys on my case. Even very rich guys,some married that didn't mind taking care of me even knowing I have a guy. I cut off all toasters,even friends. Now he is behaving funny towards me. Without me offending him. Just because I complained we aren't spending enough time together,he is always busy etc. He said i nag. That for now he wants out of the relationship. I can tell you I didn't cheat on this guy nor offend him. When we do reconcile,I have decided to harden my heart and have a back up guy. I will socialize with other guys too,keep them as friends,go on dates. I won't even disturb him. When I see him I see him. Even if I dont see him for two weeks I won't talk nor complain.
I wonder o. Some of the advice here are just annoying me.
DeleteAnon 17:04.Let me apologize on behalf of those yeye guys.
DeleteWhy not zip up and say no to Sex before marriage?
trust me the right man will come for you.
cheers
So good you snoop on her to know where you stand. Don't tell her you findings, Just keep acting like a fool, play your role well and dump her at your own time. Bang her till you're tired of her pussy.
ReplyDeleteAll women cheat. na person wey then cheat nai be thief. Deal with it
ReplyDeletePlease speak for yourself.
DeletePoster, abeg jejely waka go enter priesthood or follow your heart and get an official baby mama. You are absolutely right. Marriage is not for your kind before you go go "off" person pikin like tap.
ReplyDeletePoster, you have a right to be hurt and dissapointed.
ReplyDeleteIt is also ok to end the relationship.
But your ideology should never change because of a person or few persons.
If you can commit to a marriage relationship, I understand. But if the above is the reason, then you have missed it.
There are one million girls out there with good morals and faithful to death, they are also looking for faithful men...
PS: i noticed most of you ladies are being sentimental because it is a man that posted this.
Don't support evil for any reason.
I'm this same blog, most ladies talked about being TeamSnoop. If they can, why shouldn't the man?
I'm a "forever" journey and increase in divorce, isn't it better to do a thorough check before marriage?
Pls, free the guy. He did nothing wrong.
Don't mind them,giving silly advice they can't dish out to their brothers.mutcchhheeewww
DeleteThis is the only sensible comment here...shebi we are in this blog together,a girl wld soon write a chonicle of being cheated on by her boyfriend and i wld gladly refer her to this post to read comments
DeleteSo i finished reading the story and comments .. Refreshed the page and noticed more comments have been added let me resume reading comments 🤣🤣😁😁This thing is sweeting my belle
ReplyDeleteHey Mr, I Dont understand you! she is a church girl and you are f*"&ing her yet you are surprised she is doing other guys. If perchance you meet a real church girl and she says no sex till marriage cos she wants to honour God, you will be the first to scream blue murder. The same God who made her a good girl in the first place, who is ensuring that she won't step out on you tomorrow, you refuse to honour him. how then can you complain?
ReplyDeleteThere are ladies like you, they Dont want marriage but they want kids and free time. Ask Stella to post your email they will hit you up. you can have the kids four times in a week every other week and she will have them four times too. every other week. you both split responsibilities. something can be arranged but if you end up catching feelings OYO is your case. cos the one I know is very hot and sexy but is scared of submission and commitment. you live your life she lives hers, everybody happy. you also have to pay for surgery after the two kids. And pay for a boob job after breast feeding and pay for damages as well....everybody happy.
Pay for surgery and boob** job ke???
Delete@18:54, yes na.To reset the breast to its initial state. Do you know the transformation, the body of a woman undergoes after childbirth and breastfeeding? and all this for a man that's not her husband. Yeah boob job.
DeleteAnonymous 17:36, kai you no go kee pesin with laugh 4 this blog o. You my friend, is the real MVP
DeletePoster a woman will hardly cheat on you if u break her bed well, give her money, attention, n love. Is your penis small? Do you cum under 5mins? Do u have smelly ballz? Six packs nkor? Stingy?
ReplyDeletePls watch war room, forgive her,pray for her, go to d gym, look neat so she won't look outside.
Bitch bitch, shit shit, get a life pls, na u woman first cheat on? Abeg swerve, go and be a better man so you won't turn a perpetual side cock.
OmG!
ReplyDeleteSee comments na!
Mr poster, it is well with you.
So cinemas now have room for sex
ReplyDeleteShshshhshs! Stop ranting! The lady really got to you. Damn!
ReplyDeleteMy piece of cake.
1. You are not the first to be cheated on and you can never be the last.
2. You have anger issue, if you can rant like this on top girlfriend matter just because you suspected infidelity, you can cut your wife into pieces alive.
3. Please and pleaseeee, don't bring faithful children into arranged marriage. Everyone deserve a happy home. Peradventure they don't get, fine but don't plan a failed marriage for the innocent kids,
4.Get busy instead of planning epoch making heartbreak, no medal for it.
5.last last, you will be alright.
N.B
Don't forget to look sexy, neat and have good shape/six packs. Lol. Just kidding tho.
I am not supporting the lady, your write up is just not it, you need emotional intelligence
Stella BVs don finish this guy ooo....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteSo according to many of you here, it's okay for a lady to date other guys even if she has a fiancee?
ReplyDeleteNa WA o
Poster, from your write-up you really love this girl and you do have great and good plans for her hence your intense anger and bitterness. You never expect her to tow this line but that's life and humans for you.
ReplyDeleteBut you need to calm down and take things easy because if you allow your rage to control you, you might end up where you don't plan for your life.
Have you asked your self why this lady got involved with another guy? Why she decides to be with another guy despite your attention to her?
Cheating is cheating and totally wrong whether in marriage or in a relationship. Stop piling up this anger before it affects your health. Rather, bring your evidences to the table and let her know you're aware of her game.
Also, do not conclude on all women because one lady cheated on you. There are still decent ladies out. Do not intentionally bring children out of wedlock just because of one girl cheated.
With time you will heal and desire to be a loving and caring husband and father.
Cheer up.
I'm thinking this is my friend's boyfriend o. Cos she just asked me how to check if her phone has been tapped as she has been suspicious of her boyfriend and the way he has been suspecting her movements. Chai, gbege. And she isn't even gbenshing them o. Just hang out
ReplyDeleteThis guy has small dick, mostly guys with small dick that have plans of killing an offing a woman.. awon alayebaje
ReplyDeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteSo because you think you are the only one who can or who should cheat, you are here disturbing ??
She is fucking three men like you caught her in bed with them.
My only issue with the babe is the lying but that could be as a result of your anger issues. She was probably trying to spare herself your usual drama.
If you are moving on, move on.
Meanwhile one of my friends who was claiming 'I go just carry one babe make she born one pikin for me' got married last month. Talk is cheap.
Do something about your black rages before you find yourself in a deep mess.
sicko ni poster yi.
ReplyDeleteAnger is not cool. I will tell you a little story. Someday I might send it to stella. I cheated but God sees my heart that I was ready for a new life. This was prior to me getting married. Found out I was pregnant few weeks after my wedding.i could have easily gotten rid of the baby, or wait patiently to get back to my base and remove the baby and life will continue!!! But no I did not want to do such evil against my hubby.I sincerely asked for forgiveness as God was the only one present when hubby and I had this conversation.After I returned to my base,I dont know if he wanted his own pound of flesh, but at the end, he ended up contracting HIV. I am negative and he is positive. But I had to forgive with all my heart. No one is perfect my dear as I know how u feel.Despite his HIV, I loved him and brought him to live with me abroad. And guess what? Only for him to come here and finally opened up to me that he was gay. Now tell me poster do u think I do not have the right to off him? Let me borrow your word. But I chose to let him go. Bcos I blive that he was part of my life to teach me one lesson. Madam stella thank you for the platform. We all should learn how to speak to people with peace and love. I am sure the young man might have learnt his lesson. Poster just so u know I am only 32yrs old but I am grateful to God for all he has done for me. Dont pay evil for evil. You might just get burnt in the process. And pls slow down with those name calling. I dont see you attracting a serious person with the kind of language u use. Poster so so sorry but pls forgive and let go. God bless u.
ReplyDeletePlease send your story to stella, we need to hear it. I'm glad you picked up the pieces and moved on
DeleteYou lot on this blog are pure hypocrites. If it was a lady that sent this in, comments would be different.
ReplyDeletePeople react differently to heartbreak; most women cry, men get angry.
This young man is in obvious pain. It's clear in his writing. Instead of you all to advise him as you would your brother you're taking out the revenge of men that have hurt you on him.
So, it is ok for a woman to cheat in a relationship? If a lady had sent this chronicle in about snooping and catching a cheating boyfriend y'all won't be saying this at all.
Men have emotions too! Poster wasn't saying he'd kill the lady. He's saying if he'd caught her when they were married he just might have. The man is in pain.
I know people that swear and cuss out a lot when angry and in pain.
Dear Poster,I'm sorry this happened to you. Heartbreak is tough on everyone. Be grateful you found out now. Confront her but if you feel it might cause you to go violent,just cut your losses and leave her be.
Never, let a selfish human be it man or woman hurt you to the extent you think of killing or of carrying the pain around and hurting other people.
Don't let one bad apple, steal away your dreams of a family and generalize that everyone of that gender is bad.
You may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the right one. I know you had plans and dreams with this one but she may be wrong for you. Be sure your findings are true and not exaggerated conclusions. If you were right and she is cheating let her go and have your peace. Plan nothing against her. You deserve better.
Stay hopeful, there are lots of faithful, committed, love seeking and family oriented women out there.
You will find one. Don't let her change you into a bitter and angry man else she's won even long after you've broken up with her because you let her actions change you and your life's plan.
Don't let her win. I'm so sorry about the pain you're feeling. Let it out, cry if you have to, talk to God if you can't but please let it out and let no one change you into a bitter and angry man.
You will be fine. You will find love that's worth it.
E-hugs from here.
Frances O.
Oga ,your dick game may suck, your attention spam may be short , you may have body or mouth odour have u tried to find out why she's with a man who u feel is below u?common I'm sure u hail your guys for cheating oya manage your cheating bitch and shut up, I'm sure u r the problem
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