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hmmmmmm if their marraiges can crash, i wonder what happens to people who are not expert. May God help everyone Amen.
ReplyDeleteThank God you are fine and will always be fine.
When the deliverer need deliverance, mfm members can relate.
DeleteOkay oh. Wish her all the best
DeleteThat is why I keep saying that marriage is not the same. It comes with its peculiarities. Don't copy anyone.
DeleteI knew it!
DeleteFor ppl who do not know, Amara is a sorry ass pretender who was sleeping with married men in ABJ. She was advising her followers not to have online relationships, but didn't she meet Francis on Facebook?
The annoying part is that she pretends a lot. Sheu I said it on this blog b4. She even sends married men her photos while married o. Very wicked soul deceiving innocent ppl.
Now she has sucked the man dry like the vampire that she is , she wants to leave and not talk abt it Shey?
I remembrer how she used to post images of celebs just to rubbish them for wearing revealing outfits, meaning she seizes every opportunity to expose her dry breasts and piggy legs.
I knew it would happen. Evil ppl must be exposed this 2017, we shall soon know the details
Hmmm this world! Who would have expected this? May God give us a partner that will complement us.
DeleteYet pple abuse babe mamas. Kikikiki hahhahahaha I laugh o! Better to b a BM and have peace of mind than this shyt, Stella pls bring d story of d guy that killed his due wife after giving her 4 miscarriage in 4yrs. Look at them. Ndi di! Di gbakwaaaaa oku if na this type . killers, cheaters and Heartbreakers, I rather b happy alone with my child. Hisssss
DeleteNo one is an expert when it comes to marriage. Better to address her as a relationship adviser.
DeleteMarriage doesn't come with a manual.
DeleteThere's no rule to make it abeg.
*meanwhile
Delete@anon 22.54 tssk tssk hope this comment isn't so you feel so good about yourself though...? Each situation comes with its pros and cons
Deletethings re happening
ReplyDeletethings re happening
ReplyDeleteRelationship expert that cannot manage her own relationship, is that one an expert?
ReplyDeleteIt just means she gives advice on how both parties should make things work. It doesn't mean she should kill herself if her husband refuses to play his part.
DeleteSecond marriage crashing and this latest one is after one year. I'm not listening to her advice abeg.
DeleteThe carpenter has the most damaged door in the neighborhood.
DeleteCulture clash I believe. Well stick to your race, tho it ain't a guarantee but it works.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile I think its better to stay rich and single than marry and divorce or be bitter.
The children surfers it at last. BTW all these marriage therapist stay the least in marriage. Amada chisom I hope you don't intend to get married someday. Go get a job than deceive girls on fbk.
That one that d only certificate she has is bn Anambra.
DeleteOma waa ga bayii ooo
ReplyDeleteToh.
ReplyDeleteNa why i no dey give marriage advice and I only confide in my mother about marriage matters.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
They will start bringing all her extract advice out as they did to Toke.
Stay strong madam.
I tell you!!!!
DeleteBest person to talk to are your marriage sponsors. They can advice you without being emotional.
DeleteMarriage sponsors indeed. Very silly advice.
DeleteWhaaaaaaaaaaat? WHAT COULD HAVE GONE WRONG BIKONU??? KAI!!!🤔
ReplyDeleteJeeeeez! I kent believe this with all those advices she dishes on fb. Sad sad sad man.
DeleteNot a bad decision. It's better to quietly leave in peace than to leave in pieces...
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, I don't know whom you are.
ReplyDeleteKeep praying for you?
And we should not ask you "what happened?
That's a tough job; what do we pray for?!
What an audacious and shameless glorification of apostasy.
Madam, those kids will not forgive you if you keep them in the dark as to what's happening between you and their dad!
Best comment!!!
DeleteShe had 4 children before her second marriage. I don't think she any kid(s) with this man.
DeleteShe came into the marriage with the kids...she has no child with Mr van lare
DeleteThis woman is living in delusion and denial.
ReplyDeleteAll these rants will not bury the hurt; will it?
How will it assuage the kid's curiosity as to the whereabouts of their dad?
And who told you the kids don't know abi are you her child???
DeleteHer kids, all four of them belong to tony (t-boy) her first husband whom she married as a teen. She married this second man about two yrs ago.
Deletein that case it will be nice of me to tell her to look for another career or job.
ReplyDeleteshe and toke should go and bury their asses somewhere. they have no right to dish out any advice to nobody.
*hangs leg on wall*
I hear men and women that have had a failed marriage make good marriage counsellors.
DeleteFailed marriages*
DeleteHahahahaha iphie. What won't I read on the blog.
DeleteSomeone that has failed bar exams twice or ICAN exam twice no fit coach me o.
The problem with all this marriage advice is what works for A may not work for B.
Are we all married to same MEN.
🤣😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI have seen that a couple of times.. It was hilarious the first and second times I saw it, but I think it makes little sense.
First thing i will ask the counsellor.... Why did your marriage fail?
Second question? If it failed because of you,what did you do consistently to make it fail?
Then I will wear my flip flops and pick race🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with that notion, to an extent, Iphie, my buttercup. The logic is sound if only we can be objective and put sentiments at the back burner. A person who has failed an examination, usually performs a lot better at a resit. A person who has gone through a failed marriage has the vantage point of knowing what works and what doesn't in a successful marriage. I'm not saying a person who has failed at something is better than someone who hasn't, I'm saying it makes more sense that a person who has tasted both sides of a marriage would give advice based on personal experiences, which is more advantageous.
DeleteI had a chat with a colleague who said he would rather learn from the mistake of others than learn the hard way, from personal experience. I told him I would rather learn from my mistakes because flashbacks are the best checks and balances. Remembering the bitter experience is motivation enough to prevent a recurrence.You may never truly understand and appreciate the pain and complexities of a bad experience until you've been there and done that. If you've had the misfortune of being burnt by fire, you needn't be told to avoid naked flames. Sometimes, it takes a divorce to make a person appreciate a good marriage and advice couples on what not to do.
It's only a natural reaction to give the side eye to a divorcee dishing out marriage advice. After all, "physician heal thyself", but if we can put our biases aside and analyse the advice, we may find them very useful. Though the irony must be appreciated of a sales agent with an acne infested face selling beauty products for the perfect skin, but that doesn't mean the products aren't effective. Perhaps the sales agent is selling what he/she isn't using or his/her acne is resistant to the products. The image is obviously discouraging and ridiculous, but if you keep an open mind and decide to purchase the beauty products in spite of the face of the sales agent, the products may just turn out to be exactly what your skin requires.
She may seem like a fraud and a hypocrite right now but does it mean the advice she gives are ineffective? I think not. Just because the adviser doesn't heed her own advice, doesn't necessarily affect the potency of her advice. A sound advice remains sound, irrespective of the credibility or lack thereof of the adviser.
A person who has failed cannot advice me oh. A person who has failed exam is not guaranteed to make it the second time.
DeleteA wise person learn from others experience. Gunning to experience it first hand is not always a good idea as the cost may God too high e.g. Sucide, getting infected with STD etc
DeleteMadam, as long as you don't make known what happened to your marriage, you don't have any counsel to offer to others in relationships.
ReplyDeleteNo lady in a relationship wishes to be like you or end up like you.
Another correct comment
DeleteLife goes on! End of a marriage is not the end of ones life
ReplyDeleteIts just like a comedian dieing of heartbreak...
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo...
If i keep praying for u, who will pray for me, relationship expert my ass, all these over sabi women claiming ITK can't even keep a man, Toke come and carry your your sister.
ReplyDeleteWhy are u always angry...What happened? talk to me, I'm all ears.
DeleteAnon mood gone wrong..... 😂
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I dey ground oh
DeleteHmmm....*mode....anony things
Delete👏👏👏👏👏
Ha ha ha, anonymous Mide gone A waya. Na you write something, na you still dey comment.
DeleteLaffffzzzzzzzz
DeleteSome people are good at dishing advice to others...
ReplyDeleteWhatever makes you happy Amara. Nobody knows the story better than you
Thank you. That is how my friend keeps telling me that my fiance is always travelling;it's not good. Is that how it will be when we wed next year?
DeleteMe the owner of the man said it's okay for me. Will I tell a man not to travel for business?
Meanwhile the friends husband doesnt live in Nigeria. Rarely visits. She only goes and sees him just once a year.
@22.45 could b she's trying to warn cos she's going thru it and might not be enjoying it.jus try to see it in a good way for you prepare your mind on what is ahead
DeleteAnd some BVs will laugh and poke fun at her. Nobody sabi pass o, na God.
ReplyDeleteOnly God. Hmmmn! Where is the love?
DeleteRelationship expert? Well, I wish both parties well
ReplyDeleteGood luck to u ma'am.
ReplyDelete*Bitchy, slutty mee
Relationship expert you say
ReplyDelete#GOAT™
Welldonema
ReplyDeleteAbeg no just marry again,2nd marriage over.stay single take care of it kids.
ReplyDeleteShe is barely 40 and still very HOT! If you know what l mean. *wink*.
DeleteNever heard of her...
ReplyDeleteEarly marriage can work but not for everyone. In this 21st century, I won't even advice it because the world is now so bad. At least allow a girl finish her first degree. My friends younger sis stubbornly got married at 18. She's now 27, divorced and emotionally battered with a child being trained by her own father. At 27!! Now I pray she gets married again, but she's really scarred. She used to be calm when we were growing up but now she gets irritated easily and can scream at the slightest provication. Bad marriages really scar the victims longer than even they themselves know. And it takes the grace of God for that person to have a successful second marriage ESP when (four) kids are involved.
ReplyDeleteOmotola is a perfect example of early marriage and some people I know. Most of them wants to lord it on the man and it can't work
DeleteYou always know someone who something similar has happened to. You are older than the person you described here and you're praying for her? Hope she is praying for you.
Delete@21:25 My mum is also an example. Remember I said not for everyone.
Delete@21:28 yes i do. As a matter of fact i was counsel the said girl on how to pick her life up again. As for prayers... naah she doesnt have to. I'd do it once and for all with ZERO stories or chronicles 😊
*Was called to
DeleteHmmm this is to show that even those that dish the advise aint perfect at all. Hope she didn't snatch van lane from another woman... I remembered when she was gushing over the old man on Facebook.... Tales of her wicked deeeds and sexcapades echoed during that time on one certain blog. Its well o!
ReplyDeleteMarriage isn't for everybody after all... Her second marriage tho.
Eyah, I don't like this type of news. May God strengthen u
ReplyDeleteI heard about this lady's story some few years back, how she suffered domestic violence for many years before she walked away. I was sorry for her but
ReplyDeleteAnother broken marriage? Is this one also a wife beater? Some of these ladies got to sit down and reevaluate their lives. Ish might be from you
At least if nothing else, think about your kids you keep changing homes for, most of it usually have a traumatic effect on their lives.
Everyone would turn to the man as being the evil one here but there's Abs no need for you to walk into sth you're unsure of, most of you lot should stop playing victims like Tonto and co is doing.
If I remember correctly, Stella shared her story here some years back. Na wa o
DeleteWell....shit happens.
ReplyDeleteNo two marriages are same ,age , or experience has got nothing to do with marriage ,some of our mothers got married at 15 -18 years old as virgins and naive young women and yet had a peaceful marriage ,marriage is wrapped in a gift box you never know what you will find .some men you can please them with food and some men dont like food ,some men love sex more than food ,and some love food more than sex ,nobody have PHD in marriage .Amara be strong for yourself.
ReplyDeleteNa wa, nobody knows it all. God is the keeper and sustainer of marriage. God first over all. She will be fine.
ReplyDeleteWhen a marriage counselor divorces na serious wahala be that ooo.. And to think this is her send marriage.. God should just come already
ReplyDeleteWhat of her sent marriage
DeleteYou no wan die but you wan make God come? You guys are amazing here.. Lol
DeleteI guess she made the choice herself, whatever is the issue may oluwa see you through.
ReplyDeleteFor some reason I feel so sad for her. May God guide she and her kids.
ReplyDeleteHandled like a pro. Own your own tea so there is nothing for others to spill.
ReplyDeleteYimu. Is there any difference btw her and Toke. All they keep advising is leave ur marriage. Dump him,dump her. And gullible people will keep listening to them. She will still enter the third one and jump out. I stopped reading her advise a long time ago. My marriage success is based on Gods word,not on what my fellow human being said .
ReplyDeleteBeautiful woman. It's the Spirit of God that keeps a marriage. I wish her well.
ReplyDeleteI don't know her but I wish her well.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI have read about this lady here. Can't remember much though.
Wow!
When one has a failed marriage already... It is heart wrenching going through Divorce again, especially in Africa. Kai!
3rd time is a charm i guess.
3rd??!! 😣 @Iphie dearie I'd advice her to just leave that matter and face her kids. It haff do.
DeleteHow are you today? 💋💋💋💋
My dear. I think people should not give up on love.
DeleteMaybe after the kids have left, she can take a chance at love if she feels like it. No pressure.
Lmao!!! But what is wrong in trying a 3rd time though?🤣🤣🤣😂 It sounds huge right?
My day was Hectic!!!!😢😢😢😢
And yours?
3rd marriage? For what? She already has 4 kids, does she necessarily need a man to complete her any further? I don't think so
DeleteIphie 3rd time in Africa.
DeleteYou want her to be another Stella Damascus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan(or how is it spelt).
Let her face her kids and forget marriage. It ain't for her.
She can have a long-term partner like Oprah winfrey and Stedman.
@Iphie dearie aha! You just reminded me of someone. what if i told you i know a Nigerian lady (in Nigeria) who has wedded thrice and the third time she did to a pastor? 😂😂 so she's now pastors wife 😁 and she's still complaining that only that the last time we saw she was still complaining. I was like 'aunty 'please naau 😭
DeleteMy own day.... hmm!! I went to work looking like hot shit after a 5-hour wait at the airport, getting home at midnight courtesy of Air Peace. 😂😂 ndo oh? 💋 oya take candy 🍬🍬🍭
DANA, according to bvs here😂😂😂😂
DeleteBed and Roses. Not everyone might love that Oprah's arrangement you know😁 Some women just want to do the do in the confines of a home while most don't know how to be single.
In all things,her happiness is priority👌
@Chikito.. 'Aunty' kuku married a pastor to acoid stories that toucheth🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh boy! I think my day is learning where yours is. Pele.
I'm not a sweet tooth. Lol
Love is the saddest thing when it goes away.
ReplyDeleteNo be by being relationship expert na
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.....Who then is a relationship expert! Is he/she somwone that can adhere to all the wrong doing in a relationship/marriage and tells you same or someone who can't? Do people really book appointment with this group of specialists? Do they know it all or you just follow your heart and instinct or you follow their advise. All this Tokes and all I don't understand them. I believe if you can work things out please do, it can work out, sure it can, no matter what, except on domestic violence grounds. Once he hits you, if you can wait for his apology before leaving all well and good, but my advice is for you to please go before he apologises because he would definitely do it again and worse.....i am just typing, energy from nowhere. Hmmmm, i can feel one of those nights of insomnia today.
ReplyDeleteMy take on your first question: YOU ARE YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP EXPERT. Who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. And the only person needed to validate your decision is God because man can fail anytime - as in this case. From my observation, there's a diminishing number of people who trust their own guts and instincts - especially women. And a constant attack on women who actually do, by insecure men/women. And many people are cashing out on it in various ways.
DeleteOne key aspect is marriage and relationship. Too many insecure women. First, they say they want love from a boyfriend so they try to please him, next phase is to make him marry you even when the cap doesn't fit him because men are 'scarce' and 'time is not on your side' and 'the devil you know....', afterwards it is to keep him faithful to you because of side chics and possibly start praying them away - even when they only exist on your head and the man is human-size penis. So they are running helter skelter seeking advice on this and that to make it 'work'. As if there are actually any rules. There are a certain group of people that must cash out from such levels of insecurity.
Please let's allow them.
Honey, life is laced with ridiculous ironies. Doctors make the worst patients and some doctors who are super caring and amazingly dedicated to their patients, do not have time for their families. A lot of comedians who fill other people's lives with fun and laughter, are they themselves depressed. A number of them actually committed suicide.
DeleteThere are pastors who pray for couples believing God for the fruit of the womb and they conceive, yet the pastors and their wives are still believing God for their miracle. One in particular is a gynaecologist, a very good one at that. Ladies troop to his Hospital because his reputation precedes him, plus he is a pastor . His wife is in the medical field as well. Do you know they had to wait 17 years before their baby arrived? Even if you want to challenge his authenticity as a pastor, what about his prolific medical skills? Women travel from all parts of the country to see him and the success rate is very impressive. How can you explain that?
Sweetie, to answer your questions, a relationship expert is a person who has studied the art of relationships and is qualified in that area and is licensed to give relationship advice to help couples going through challenges. They themselves may have dysfunctional relationships yet they've helped save thousands of relationships. Yeah, people actually book appointments to see them and they render tremendous help. God forbid anyone knows it all but they know quite a lot. They've spent years studying human nature and relationships and some have vast experience under their belts. Unfortunately, being the best marriage counsellor is no guarantee of a happy or successful marriage. The importance of marriage counselling cannot be overemphasised. It has helped save a myriad of marriages.
I'm not sure why it happens the way it does and it's quite unfortunate but it is what it is.
Oga ooo, Amara, only God knows what happened and she married a matured in age man o.You know what's best for u
ReplyDeleteI guess they started living together and realized they are not compatible. It happened That guy looks like he won't be sexually satisfying her and she looks like someone who runs her mouth and may have a temper. But Amara no try, what could be so bad that she will allow her 2nd marriage to crash. She should have used her experience in dealing with bad relationships to fix hers
DeleteLawd! What happened?...and to think I was looking out for this lady weeks back.It's well,you said we shouldn't ask what happened okay lemme face front
ReplyDeleteThat means she's not an expert in her field
ReplyDeleteOlybekee Amawbia ugbo ogiriga
It takes two.
Delete"Getting married as a single mother with four children is not easy." Her words.
ReplyDeleteI came across this woman's story of her ist marriage some years back and was delighted then to see that she was in a more stable marriage and happy at the time.
ReplyDeleteOh well... nothing surprises me these days . Things are not usually what they seem.
Wish her the best in whatever decision makes her happy.
Such is life.
Anyone who takes the advice of these so called social media relationship experts serious is playing poker with his relationship. People like Toke Makinwa, Joro etc
ReplyDeleteOh my god what happened I saw her story few yrs ago.
ReplyDeleteAmy my name sake Pls try go settle ur spiritual husband cos he is seriously @work
There are no textbook rules on successful marriage, as what works for A may not work for B but the two factors I know is non negotiable to s successful marriage is respect and compromise.
ReplyDeleteYou are 100% correct
DeleteShe quickly make the announcement herself because she doesn't want it to be an exclusive on any blog!
ReplyDeleteWhat would the prayer point be, if I may ask?
Relationship expert indeed.
I only pity for the kids, they're the real victims here.
Exactly,the kids are the real victims..
DeleteI just tire for all them Marriage Expert.
I don't even know her.
ReplyDeleteAm I the only one who saw the date she wrote? Shebi we're in August of 2017? She has a time machine? Before someone comes to tell me it's typo and she probably meant 2016, please remember that there's no way she would have been able to keep a lid on such "big" news for this long. As for her being a relationship expert, she can only advice not help implement. We are all relationship experts in our relationships cos nobody but the two people in a relationship know the complexities that lie therein
ReplyDeleteDivorce are granted in advance. That is when the divorce takes effect.
DeleteNo one is infallible. Even clergy commit sins like the rest of us. She is a relationship expert(adviser) and the man is a Pastor. One would have thought it was perfect match but NOTHING in this world is perfect. It takes the grace of God to make a marriage work.
ReplyDeleteThat girl you got it gbam. Firstly she's a liar and told a lot of lies about her first marriage. Secondly, she was a mistress to the top man/land owner/tax collector general of Lagos state. Did she use this man for papers? She has a nasty serpentine spirit and gbammest about MFM prayers. When the deliverer needs deliverance.
ReplyDeleteCulture clash I believe. Well stick to your race, tho it ain't a guarantee but it works....what culture clash? Francis Van Lare is a Nigerian with an English name.
Stella God bless you for not shaming her by using d pic of her hubby grabbing her boobs. Women should learn to support each other.May you live long
ReplyDeleteThey are now "your children" as if your husband is not part of it or whosoever you had them for. Why do nigeria women abroad divorce more? Because if women have little freedom they will be something else. If a woman knows too much it always doesn't end well. A woman becomes a little bit sucessfull she starts disrespecting her husband. Abegi
ReplyDeleteStella honestly I'm tired of my marriage, I'm not happy with mysef and my parents, I was forced into marriage at age17 with someone I never met before until the day they came to ask my hand in marriage, I refused bcs I never think of any relationship talk less of marriage, I have 4kids now Stella still haven't gone to school which he promised before everyone tat he will make sure I go to school. I'm like a slave and nobody bcs of my family background,he beat me with any little of my mistake, my mum that caused all these is late, my father sick, I can't even boast of 20k as a mother, no friends. what do I do, I feel like leaving but what will people say about me, my kids are all I got, no family now again bcs I don't have money, he hardly allow my family to visit me. I'm 36yrs old now with no money no biz no job nothing to boast of. Stella plss help me and post this to hear their advice please.i swear I never sleep with another man since I was born only my husband, I'm not leaving bcs I want to meet another man but I'm not happy there since the beginning, I have parked to my father's house several times my parents will still beg me not to bring shame on them, that I should endure. Stella God knows I'm not enjoying any bit of it. I need your advice please
ReplyDeleteI just pray for Olubunmi Layode too the
ReplyDeleteWay she flaunts her hubby on Facebook not all people laughing with her
Are happy BTW I don't like the way she made a post sort of mocking Amara on her divorce no wonder Bunmi Tella insulted you the other day you're way too naive for your age and keep your relationship and how you fuck tunde off Facebook too much tmi for an adult
I stopped reading from Amara when she continually painted herself as an Angel in her advice. I hate hypocrites and Amara is one. She will finish Van lere the way she finished her 1st husband. Whatever rocks her boat. I personally don't take advice from people who aren't the picture of what they advice others.
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