Don't believe every negative thing you hear concerning Marriage,it is a good thing but you have to keep your eyes open for Marriage killers......
Shine your eyes and read!
Shine your eyes and read!
· Laziness kills marriage
· Suspicion kills marriage
· Lack of trust kills marriage
· Lack of mutual respect kills marriage
· Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)
· Arguments kills marriage
· Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage
· Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)
· Poor communication kills marriage
. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.
· Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage
· Lack of, inadequate or enjoyable sex kills marriage.
· Nagging kills marriage
· Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage
· Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage
· Being too independent minded kills marriage
· Love for party, money and spending/partying kills marriage
· Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage
· Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life
· Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.
· Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.
· FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.
· Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage.
· Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
· Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage
· When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.
· Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.
#copied
BY Tina-soft
Very good to know
ReplyDeleteSigh. It's only God that can save our marriages these days coupled with hard work on both parties. If the ooni can divorce his wife? Who am I to stop others from divorcing themselves?
DeleteShut up! Ooni na God? why are people like this?? That is why one friend said if her pastor Tunde Bakare can have issues in his marriage that who is she not to and i was like wow!!!! are you crazy? by the way your pastor had marital issuea long time ago and he has said it often tbat knowing what he knew now would have helped his early marriage kivk start well. If people you lookup to hv issuea they are man not God and never equate it that its a foundation u too must have issue. If Ooni get cancer doea it mean u will have it? ode talk! dumb people
DeleteAlways making a list of "what kills marriage" kills marriage.
ReplyDeleteGod has given us the manual of life and that is the bible.
OK! We don hear!Married and un-married pipo take note!
ReplyDeleteSo true, we learn every day especially things that have to do with marriage. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteU didn't state that some men kill their marriages
ReplyDeleteI agree with you 100%
DeleteStella, also add that some women kill marriage.
DeleteBad Sister in laws kill marriages
ReplyDeleteLmao...very true😂😂😂
DeleteLet me add Terrible mother-in laws kill marriages.
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Deletetotally agree. my young sister in law has been very nasty to me and I am finding it difficult to move on
DeleteSisters-in-law
DeleteMothers-in-law.
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ReplyDeleteNow let me go back and read to the end.
Marriage is not just good, its heavenly.
ReplyDeleteFeminism advocacy does not kill marriage.low estimation of self and not knowing what u deserve kills marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis has said it all.. I endorse 100%
ReplyDeleteI can't even add anything because this is the summary of it all...
lack of sex kills marriage
ReplyDeleteFeminism advocacy kills marriage.
ReplyDeleteTina do you Know what feminism is? Smh. #ShakingMyVeryBigHead.
Feminism Advocacy does not affect marriage, men who love their wives will advocate for equal pay for their wives. Don't get feminism twisted. Feminism is all about equality and giving the gander what's good for the goose.
ReplyDeleteThis opinion is more subjective than objective. Buyers beware.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is really amazing and beautiful. Especially when your husband loves you to bits,misunderstandings querrel fights will come but with love and friendship you will always pull through,above all always respect your husband.
ReplyDeleteI'm praying for a partner that loves unconditionally...
DeleteMarriage is very easy but yet difficult...people get it wrong bcuz of "after all we Don marry"..no!!! Tell ur wife how she punished u to get her,tell ur husband how u feared his dick d first Time u saw it,tell her how sucking her breasts make u feel in heaven...etc..Marriage shouldn't b boring, make it sexier each passing day...many couples now can't remember seeing each oda naked because..during sex,light is switched off,hubby baths earlier than wife or vice versa n leave for work??? No walking naked bcuz of children...etc before u kw it,years have passed n u can't even remember looking at his dick or her breasts....keep d fire burning each day.....stella I hv learnt a lot from this blog...this is 150% truth said....
ReplyDeleteI remember when my ex husband made that statement "afterall we don marry" I was really disappointed at him. I was like what kind of boy did I marry. That was the minute I knew that I had made a very big mistake. We had absolutely nothing in common.
DeleteDon't i love you. I will make my boo never regret the day he met me when we get married. Marriage shouldn't revolve around sex only but the romantic spark should always be kept burning oh me don't joke with my love life
DeleteAll this talk we should shaa have money to spend. Don't come and reminding ourselves of what poverty has made us forget.
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DeleteNice 😀😁😁
ReplyDeleteSchool Blog
Some are true sha but what did I know, am single.
ReplyDeleteBut you start learning now, choice i have too much love to give.
DeleteNice write-up
ReplyDeleteIF YOU PRAY YOU WORK.dnt pray for your marriage to work and yet do nothing towards it.abi God go fall from heaven help u, do ur part while God does his part. good write up anyway
ReplyDeleteThat post is very accurate. More than half of what was written above killed my marriage to my ex. Especially family interference, when ever we had a problem, he would take it to his parents and siblings. He put them before his spouse in marriage. Eventually, they took his side and encouraged him to quit his marriage and the idiot 'followed through. Not to even mention that I was the one being abused physically and mentally but because of the way he had twisted and turned the story. His people thought I was the problem and never asked for my own side of the story when events took a turn. Anyways! I'm over it and have moved on. I thank God for strength and grace. There's no going back
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ReplyDeleteI believe in the golden rule,if your partner truly loves you and treats you the way he or she wishes to be treated then all this points will reduce drastically.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk...
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