This is what i call DRAMA in the house of SDK....OMG...JESUS please please please fix this for us!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.
SINGLES MINGLES CHRONICLE BETWEEN THREE BLOG VISITORS
FRED 'MET' ADA AND FELL IN LOVE BUT ADA AND JERRY MET AND ARE IN LOVE....
Good day Stella. It took me weeks to write and make up my mind sending this to your blog, Pardon my lengthy narrative bikonu. I started visiting your blog sometime mid last year after I noticed that the two most important people/case in my life now, became aquatinted through this blog. I never thought I would do this but Sometimes love makes us look like a child.
I'm 36years old good looking man from Anambra state, a project manager, perfectly okay to handle any finance or expense that comes my way(glory be to God). I'm an introvert and an open to experience person. Always too busy with business to merge it up with any relationship drama. Though I have been in a few, my last relationship played a fool of me which made me lose focus in ladies. For over 2years, I have been single, ready to settle down but haven't seen any lady( guess I couldn't make out time for my love life).
November 2015, I traveled out of the country for a business trip, was very bored, I had to call a childhood friend. Then he sent a girl's number (ADA) to me. He connected the both of us, she came around to visit. Gosh! I have never seen a girl with such great sense of humour. Very lively, intelligent, beautiful, like fully packaged in one also from same state.
I was scared at first because I felt a high chick girl like her would form and act all those annoying girly way. But MBA! Stella this girl made my sweet air conditioned room hot. We played and chatted like some lost lover birds that reUnited.
She never planned to sleep over anyway, but as someone that don't wanna let such girl out, I pleaded even got new makeups, clothes ( she came with just her hand bag) for her to stay till am done with my visit. Everyday was filled with memories. On the fifth day, she received a call to get some documents to a friend, that made us visit her home. I also had to meet up with her siblings cos they all live in same country though different apartments. Her married sister hosted us for dinner. It was just a wonderful experience with strangers turned family. I noticed we both grew some feelings for each other but I didn't wanna force it, I allowed it to flow.
Just like that, two strangers spent over 2weeks with each other.
It was either in my hotel room or her place. I finally travelled back to my country but we always communicate. I met up with my childhood friend and showed my gratitude towards him connecting me with Ada. I noticed some funny look, I had to ask what the problem was, then he told me that the girl is his girlfriend. He met her through SINGLE AND MINGLE since last year though they haven't seen anyway but that he grew feelings for the girl and was hoping to meet up with her soon but because I visited her country, he decided to let us meet so I won't be bored.
My friend never said this to me before he shared her contact, even ADA didn't even talk about him except when she asked after him and said he's such a nice guy that Both of us would have come together. After my dialogue with my friend, I called Ada, and decided to hear from her, she said same thing but denied the dating aspect and rather called it an online buddy.
Afterwards, my communication with Ada became weak but the feelings was heavy in my heart. I also lost focus talking or hanging out with my friend too (I don't wanna see myself hurting any of them) Some few circle of friends that noticed what was happening between Fred(my childhood friend) and I advised I fling the girl and move on since she wasn't the first girl I have been introduced through Fred.
Okay!
They all think is one of those major games we play when we travel. The girl in question moved me with her attitude, pleasant character and an accommodating soul .
We kissed on the last day I was to travel.
No sex, not like I didn't try to but guess her self control was stronger than my urge.
Now, This isn't LUST, I AM IN LOVE. After much drama back home, I travelled back in February to meet Ada for a weekend which was her birthday because she blocked my lines and stopped all communication with me. Thank God She called her taxi man with my phone the last time I visited. That was how I located her house again. It was hard to talk to her, the lively girl I met was all dry, weak and frustrated(that shows how the situation has weakened her).
We finally had to talk, she spoke about the misunderstanding that was up, how Fred called and sent her messages of being so lose to a friend he introduced to her e.t.c then showed me her conversation with Fred since the first day of SINGLE AND MINGLE. I read where Fred said he'd like to start a relationship with her but she told him she don't fancy online dates, until they meet then they would talk about it. As she said; Fred and herself are more like online friends who barely call nor ping but whenever they converse, its always long. She showed me the surprised birthday gift Fred sent to her. She also said the reason why she kept distance from me is because she don't wanna start issues between Fred and I.
I had to beg and plead to try resolve things with Fred when I travel back. Things became smooth again. I took her out for a birthday solo birthday dinner, 50mins whilst at it, her phone began to ring. Stella that was Fred calling. She tried not to mess our date until we got home, then returned the call and decided to explain everything. It was over 30mins call, I could hear the pity from my friend's voice.....
He said "Ada but you know I cherished you, I would have visited but work never allowed me, I didn't expect you to give up so soon"....
(The rest was Ada trying to explain herself and Fred finding it hard to give up too) I walked out of the room to allow her finish her conversation. She came out later, both in silence then begged me to try resolve things with my friend as she have already explained to him. She said she loves me but wouldn't want to see her "two friends" turn foes because of her.
I have been friends with Fred for over 30years but surprised how this would wanna mess us up. Even if Fred let go, I don't think he's gonna confide in me or my relationship with him be as strong as it was. I love this girl so much that I wouldn't wanna give up on her. As it stands, this two people mean a lot to me. I Don't want to lose any of them either. Fred has been acting busy to sit out with me so I don't even know how to start.
A phone conversation or sms wouldn't be enough. I'm so confused because once am still in foes with Fred, Ada seems bothered and disconnecting as she feels guilty. Choosing one person is a nightmare and losing them both is unthinkable.
Please Stella and everyone that's gonna read this, if cursing, red pen, or insults would lead me to a great advice(s), I so need it right now! Thanks in advance.
Woooow!!!!!.
I dont know what to Say Jerry (I am using your name because you used theirs,its only fair) but it seems you and Ada are really into each other.Your friend should never have tried what he did but its good he did cos if Ada was into him she wouldnt have fallen in love with you knowing you are his friend...It could have happened with Ada and anyone..He didnt secure his territory well.
Do not fell guilty.keep trying to make it to explaining things to him but if he insists on not wanting then leave him alone.
Ada,good that you didnt use s3x to start the relationship,if you really love Jerry then make up your mind to be with him,love happens in the weirdest of places and in ways we cannot explain sometimes.
Fred,let go and hopefully love will find you.leave both of them and give them your blessings.it will feel better if you release her emotionally.I am sorry this happened and i know you are hurt but now you learnt your lesson right?
I dont even know what i am saying cos i feel so bad for the three of you.
I pray that God fixes this situation.
Please no one should cuss them out.Thank you!
Chronicles
ReplyDeleteToo much drama for one chronicle
DeleteThis chronicle dikwa very risky.
DeleteAda please move on with jerry
Fred partake in the next
S and M
Jerry I suggest you move on with Ada, unless you are not telling us the true story. But if you value your relationship with Fred that much,then you wouldn't have gone looking for Ada the second time.
DeleteHumans are so greedy, Fred didn't ve plans for this girl, he wanted to pass her around as usual, Dats what he does to other girls, but when he heard all d positive feedback from his friend and how his friend loved her, he became jealous and now wants to keep d girl. If I were d girl, I ll never speak to Fred again, how ll u give my number to a stranger, as a runs girl or what? If they were married will he do that? Abeg Fred should go and sit down
DeleteI know for sure friends hook friends up with girls they don't really see in their future. I won't like a girl so much and hook her up with my guy that is in the country..odiro possible.your friend is just trying to be wicked Cos he was thinking u won't take her so serious. Do the right thing but still talk to your friend. He should understand
DeleteGuy, am a man like you... All the ladies here am sure will advice you but as a man, there is one major rule in friendship.... Don't ever loose your paddy cos of a girl..... Leave the Ada girl and move on... At the end, none of you may have her and your friendship of over 30 years would just go like that cos of a woman, guy e no make sense nah.....
DeleteThe moment you got to know they were in love, you ought to have dropped all form of feelings towards her and moved on....
Your friend is acting so immature, yes, but don't throw away ur friendship cos of Ada
I see no reason throwing insult because dis is a serious matter. Fred u were so wrong introducing some1 u claim is next to ur heart to jerry, probably u neva wanted a serious relationship with ada if not why on earth or what were u thinking to introduce the both of dem so I put it to u dat u wanted ada for a fling but it done on u when u found out jerry was been serious with her. So my frnd jerry feel no guilt in you, for you've done nothing wrong. Ur heart clicks with ada and dats it. And ada relax ur mind on whether jerry settles with Fred or not so dat wouldn't bring division btw urself and ur new found love. Who knows if Fred would ve taken u serious wen he sees u so a bird at hand is worth...u know d rest. Fred relax maybe ada isn't urs. Ur own will come. Who knows maybe d next single and mingle. Stay well jerry Fred and ada. I pray I find my own soul mate one of dis day too
DeleteAll these mum men sef. When a lady is responding to their chats online they begin to build castles in the air in their stupid mind. That's how one stupid married man is disturbing my life. See a real woman appreciates real life relationships more than BBM love. Fred count ur loss abeg. U were Ada's guy in ur bloated mind, u were just a chat buddy in her mind, u just so dumb to notice. Abeg which guy introduces his girl to keep his bored friend company? ?? Ur mum level no be here sha!
DeleteHehehehehehe
DeleteJerry my namesake, even a girl thats just a fling, i wont share her number or even let her meet u except am therr to avoid u lashing her b4 me.
If he liked the girl, he would have told ada to hook u up with her friend and not giving you her number.
I remember being bored and my guy had a girl he hadnt met before, he just said "my guy, i cant give you her number", instead he asked for the girl to give him her friends which he forwarded to me.
It took you 2yrs to feel like this and now you want to throw it away? No even think am.
Truth is this, you can never be friends with fred like before again even if you leave ada and pls no matter work situation, he would have either taken a weekend to go see her or even invite her over if he cherished her that much.
Tell ada your intentions and move forward with it, if she dulls you cos you cant make up with fred, tell her you have chosen her and if she wont choose u too then she should say so and thats that.
I am a guy who prides myself as an alpha male. Few months ago if I catch any of my guys reading this kind nonesense I go laugh am die. But I must say since my first visit to SDK I have been hooked. This Chronicles are something else. I throway salute for u Stella.
DeleteFred never had serious plans for Ada, now that he has heard all the good qualities the girl possess he's now professing undying love. How can you claim you love a girl and connect her to your friend
DeleteYou guys are missing the point here ooooo..... do you know that the Fred that's feeling bad and the ada have not yet met physically from t the story?? I wonder why some men will just be so ooo envious!! That was how my ex told me in 2014 that he's not yet ready to marry that if I see any guy I should marry. I really felt broken then but after much talk from my mum and sisters, I moved on in my heart although I was still with my ex, it didn't take long April 2015 to be precise, I ran into an old friend of mine and before long, he was talking marriage, by December we we married !!! Nothing my ex did not tell people... but today I'm so happy.....
DeleteAda please move on with jerry biko, Fred has no plan for you!!!
Forgive my punctuation errors.
In fact this your Fred is not a good friend. You think you have been friends with him for 30 yrs?? Its not deep. This kind of friend will throw away a lottery ticket because he felt it wasn't going to win. Then you pick it up for fun and later the winning numbers are announced and its the ticket you picked up! Then your friend comes back to say it was his ticket in the first instance! Abegi. What kind of friend is that? You don't have a friend in Fred. You just think you do. Ada shouldn't feel guilty neither should you Jerry. God has his own way of breaking a partnership that's like Lot and Abraham. This kind of friend is okay with you as long as you don't get something valuable off from him. Hmph! Some friend!!
DeleteAda, if you're reading this, move on with Jerry. Fred is only acting this way because you and Jerry are in love. If you mean so much to him he would have mentioned something about him liking you to Jerry. To Fred, you're one of those girls he hooks up with his friends when they need company.
DeleteHmm..... If i see Marriage, Hospital, Prison, Free flight ticket to Iraq.., i swear i no know which one i go enter.
ReplyDeletehehehehe. Marriage jor.
DeleteWhy are some guys like Fred though. A guy also added me from the snm I participated in, he kept emphasising on friendship even though he knew I liked him. He even advices me to hang out more so I can meet other guys, I followed his advice and met a guy I'm dating now and this same Snm guy came back to preach how madly in love he is with me that he wanted us to meet first before opening up. Told him I can't break up with the guy am dating now for him but he said he's willing to wait. Na wa for some guys sha
DeleteLol
DeleteAda, I know you will read this, don't make the mistake of dating any of these guys not to talk of marriage. Jerry, let Ada go, this your friendship is dead on arrival.
DeleteFred, let Ada go too, y'all can be good buddies and nothing attached.
Na wa for some girls sha ... that was how the olosho that has agreed to go home with me on friday went with another guy cos I went to peeped. It was so painful. Fred no vex girls are like dogs.
Deletelmao! dis cracked me big time
DeleteEhen? So SnM is real? Stella when is the next SnM na? For Fred's sake make it real soon.
DeleteBut come oh Fred, what were you thinking connecting Ada and Jerry without a formal introduction? Why didn't you say something? What if your friend wanted someone he could gbensh and clean mouth? That wasn't so wise of you.
Well, it happened so the scriptures would be fulfilled. It's not bad to fish for your friend, please let go and give your blessings. God would give you another girl. Pele
Ada I envy you oh, I must participate in the next SnM...kikikiki
DeleteAnon 16:22, wetin you call her? Olosho! Na highest bidder na, you been no dey talk well. LMAO. Take heart
DeleteMiss Ferragamo, it's for real oooo.
DeleteStella we(fred and us) need S and M very soon. Please don't do it this weekend. I have a big family event.
@ poster at your age you can't Woo a girl around your base. ..Mr player get served by another play girl.
ReplyDeleteWhy did your friend give you her number? I don't understand y he gave u the number of a girl he claims to like or is he jealous she now prefers u?
DeleteOh keep quiet, you ve never be in love before.
DeleteUncle Ode@ anonymous 15:07
DeleteAda has chosen you, she is an adult and knows what she wants so I don't see the problem.
ReplyDeleteFred is a man and in time would get over it.
I don't see what the fuss is about anyway. Are you ready or not to settle with this girl? If you're then no need for long story.
Fred would come around and if he doesn't that's his luck.
Abi will you marry Fred instead because you're trying to protect your friendship? Why didn't he tell you Ada was his girlfriend when he first introduced you two.
Don't let him win by bullying you to leave someone who loves you just the same.
This is what they call chronicle!
ReplyDeleteI dey tell you
DeleteFred and Ada we need to hear your side of this story, if you are reading this we await your response as everybody us their own truth
DeleteFred.. Can't you see Ada is not in love with you?
ReplyDeleteWhy did you send her phone number to jerry?
And you did not tell jerry that Ada is your "gf"....
In fact, I won't say anything until I hear from you (Fred)
I tell u
DeleteShe isn't in love jare also d oda fred is not serious about her else he wouldn't have done that. Ada don't feel bad at all. Dis jerry has come twice to see u, u can see he really likes u so give him a chance. Also ada and fred were not dating.
, he was toasting she was keeping him on a long tin
I almost wanted to say jerry shldnt let go of ada but then I changed my mind... u see we babes can be very funny.. for Fred to say that she is his gf means there is some form of connection between them. Fred added Ada up and asked for her to date him for which he didn't get a straight answer. Ada said she dosent do online dating but when they see, they wld talk about it then Fred took up d challenge to probably get to see her but he hasn't been able to see her yet cuz he hasn't got the free time yet so they both kept at it with ada still leading him on(if she wasn't interested, she wld ve made him understand outrightly and he wldnt ve raised hopes). Then jerry came into the picture, bored and looking for a buddy talked to his friend Fred to help him out. Fred recommended Ada to him(fred nd jerry r friends so fred hoped with this, jerry wld be able to tell him the personality of ada; which is something most of us do) and ada bonded with jerry almost immediately cuz she probably saw a potential. Ada shld ve told fred about the meeting even if she wasn't "close" with fred as assumed cuz manners expect u to get back to the person that introduces/recommends u to another person(ada, if fred was a babe wnt u gist her about ur meeting with jerry?).... to cut the long story short, Jerry leave ada and go and reconcile with ur friend.. he might as well be feeling bad too for loosing her. Ada carry ur legs waka away from both friends... don't come and scatter 30 years of togetherness... if they come back together and they talk over it m pretty sure they would decide but for nw I think u shld stay away..... this shld be a lesson to babes that are indecisive over relationship matters.. stop leading guys on unnecessarily and learn to stand on ur Yes/No.
DeleteGuy, if I were u, I wud let her go.
ReplyDeleteNa small thing dey kill person!
Make u no come be target cos of woman.
Gbam
DeleteUr head correct. Jerry it's not worth it. Take it or leave it.
DeleteWow, dis is really smtin, I ll advice Jerry plz kip trying 2 talk wit Fred buh dnt let Ada go cos it seems u r both ment 4 each oda
ReplyDeleteHian Stella "fell guilty"kwa.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh poster,
ReplyDeleteThis Ada is not the only girl that has that kinda things you saw in her...
There are thousands of them!...I dey tell you...
Abeg leave the girl mehn!....
Just send Stella your contacts to advertise for you and you will connect with all kinds of girls here...
Inukwa?...fighting with your friend because of a girl?...
Mbanu my brother!...
Just fuck the Ada and all these nonsense feelings wlll stop!...
How can a mum say this Na? Linda,odiro kwa Nma. Na wetin u go tell ur pikin?
DeleteAbi? Na fuck dey hungry them
DeleteMost times I see your comments and smh but then sometimes I get so shocked mostly on the fact that you are supposedly a mother. All this rubbish talk just for attention. Be wise woman!
DeleteHahahahahahahahaha
DeleteLolz
Kikikikiki
Scratches my bumbum and walk out of post
God bless you Elsie
DeleteNa wa. Single and mingles. Let me read comments abeg
ReplyDeleteEnd time love triangle
ReplyDeleteGod hates it when people call his name but are eager to have sex before marriage! It is called "hypocrisy", "having a form of godliness but denying the power", Jesus told them "woe to you".
ReplyDeleteU well so?
DeleteYour friend caused this by not telling you his feelings for the girl in the first place. You know some men think they r in a relationship with a girl but na for their mind only. Seems that's the case of your friend. To him she was his girl. To her he was her friend. Three of you just need to talk. Together. Same time. Maybe a conference call or something and sort things out
ReplyDeleteAda stay away from there two. Their initial intention was to pass you around. Silly boys in adult's bodies
DeleteFred you made the mistake, you don't send a girl you like to go & keep your friend company.....u didn't protect your teritory. The deed has been done what will be will be.....Just give them your blessings & move on love will find you
ReplyDeleteIntelligent comment
DeleteFred brain dey do overheating cos idont understsnd d part where u introduce ur so called babe to your friend to keep him company
DeleteWhat a love triangle.
ReplyDeleteGod will fix the three of you.
Just imagine...3 friends running round an endless circle.... Jerry dey dull sha, he shld be banging the girl by now after wch he let get be, no time to cry, lament or fight over a girl, that ain't happening to me. To me marriage or relationship is all about sex and not drama
ReplyDelete14yrs I guess nwa ezamgbo abi ikwo
DeleteWhich girl dey date u sef? U are uglier than d ugliest, useless than d useless, always talking anyhow because mummy gave u fone to use, silly kid
DeleteSweetie your comment shows you still have some growing up to do, because marriage is not only about sex.
DeleteCox u r still a kid,idiat.
DeleteEeey... U shattap!.. U shudnt b commenting on chronicles.. Go 2 'solve this puzzle' n use ur brain!
DeleteBros look ya sef for mirror before u come here dey yarn dust! Abeg park ya trailer somewhere... U too wan follow talk...
DeleteMy friend it so obvious u're under age I can see it from your comments you still need more years to grow and mature before you come here to comment. The girl dating you must be like you too cos no reasonable gal will lower her standard to date u.Go and wash ur sch uniform fast n gerrarahere.
DeleteAbeg forget ur friend and marry this girl asap, if he had any respect for her, he wouldn't ve given u her phone number in the first place, why did he not tell u about his relationship with her, stop feeling guilty and move on abeg, ur friend is a loser.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteBut the poster didn't say he want to marry her naa. Ada continue tying your legs o. He is in love with your body, if you doubt me, give him cookies and watch him dissappear
DeleteIf Ada is sensible she will leave both men and move on.
DeleteExactly if she's sensible,ada if you are reading this let the both of them go......Jerry claims to be in love with you now which might be true or not....but my dear sometimes love is not just enough,he & Fred has been childhood friends for 30 years & with everything he wrote in the chronicles you can see they are more like brothers than friends. Members of bvn will tell you to forget Fred that he wasn't serious which I agree with...but take it from me even if jerry finally cut all ties with Fred to be with you darling there will always be a what if hanging over your heads..... His friends will look @ you differently coz they already know whats up about u,him & fred,his family members & freds family nko.....my dear u didn't do anything wrong but most nigerians are judgemental so they will rather crucify you instead of giving you listening ear..and you wount be comfortable around them... Wishing all the best
DeleteLol. I met M thru s and my. I used to live in London but now back in Nigeria. M stays in London so we started talking thru s and m. And I asked my closest friend in London to meet him and check up out. Today she's in a close to marriage relationship with his friend while I and M have already broken up cos oh well, he did the unthinkable after we finally met in London. This guy went to report me to his friend after we had a misunderstanding that wasn't bad enuf, his friend called me to warn me not to try it again. Stella that was the worst insult I've ever gotten from a guy. I'm imagining if I marry him our misunderstandings will involve village meetings. So I broke up with him and I've given up on s and m. First and last attempt. My point is that platform is helping pple in weird and odd ways. My friend didn't partake but thru it she's met her soon to be husband. Jerry pls fight for ada trust me it's very rare to met someone ure attracted to answer vice versa. Fred don't worry I'm sure there re lots of decent girls in s and m. Try again. Stella I'm still single...lol😂
ReplyDeleteIf this is the only reason you left him, you ain't serious yet
Delete😀 Fred u should hook up with this lady
DeleteMadam queen, no its not the only reason . But it is the one that broke the camels back. I ain't that desperate to be with a man that can gossip more than a woman then have the guts to let ur friend warn ur gf common na. Such person won't protect you. I don't wanna be sending chronicles in the nearest future. 😂
DeleteYou have God-given wisdom ,Anon.
DeleteKk I understand, good luck in your next relationship.
DeleteAda is deceitful. It's best for both of you to dump her and move on.
ReplyDeleteThis is hard o,my prayer is that God will see you guys through.....
ReplyDeleteLol. I met M thru s and m. I used to live in London but now back in Nigeria. M stays in London so we started talking thru s and m. And I asked my closest friend in London to meet him and check him out. Today she's in a close to marriage relationship with his friend while I and M have already broken up cos oh well, he did the unthinkable after we finally met in London. This guy went to report me to his friend after we had a misunderstanding that wasn't bad enuf, his friend called me to warn me not to try it again. Stella that was the worst insult I've ever gotten from a guy. I'm imagining if I marry him our misunderstandings will involve village meetings. So I broke up with him and I've given up on s and m. First and last attempt. My point is that platform is helping pple in weird and odd ways. My friend didn't partake but thru it she's met her soon to be husband. Jerry pls fight for ada trust me it's very rare to met someone ure attracted to and vice versa. Fred don't worry I'm sure there re lots of decent girls in s and m. Try again. Stella I'm still single...lol�� (had to retype. Damn autocorrect)
ReplyDeleteHehehehe.come let me marry you, you seem like my type of girl.
DeleteA man that cannot keep his affairs to himself,don't worry the right person will come at the appointed time.
DeleteGod bless u my sister. U go school 😚
DeleteWOW!!!
ReplyDeleteJerry, keep trying to reach your friend, Fred should have told you about ADA being someone he likes but he didn't so you didn't do anything wrong.
All the same, you can't throw away a friendship of over 30years like this. Try make Fred see reasons with you, talk to him and plead with him. If after all this, he doesn't budge. You know you've tried your best. Go 4 your girl.
There is nothing to cuss them out for,Fred what were you thinking introducing your Ada to him,nothing has happened between the both of you just move on and participate in the next snm,Jerry you did nothing wrong go ahead and wife her already,find a way to talk things over with Fred.
ReplyDeleteFred, we know your type. They will always take a girl for granted until they see someone treat her like a queen, such non-entities.
ReplyDeleteAda, are you listening? Don't lose the love of your life because of some foolish Fred, who gave out his birthright to score cheap points. He obviously wanted to show Jerry, he had fine girls always at his disposal, that was why he introduced you two.
Seeing that Jerry treats you nicely prompted this overnight love and devilish jealousy.
Jerry, please hold your babe tight, Fred is not a friend indeed.
THIS is the best comment for this narrative. You took the words out of my mouth, head and heart sef. Ada, Fred and Jerry, if you're reading this, take note. Lara Peperempe knows what time it is.
DeleteCan I kiss u now, Lara? You just typed my tots.
DeleteFred, SWERVE!
On point! Correct.
Delete😎
DeleteHmmm, what a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteChildish.
ReplyDeleteHian!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteNO COMMENT....
I hope ada won't fuck u up after ur relationship of over 30yrs with Fred packs up.
The situation is dicey.
I wish you, Fred and ada luck.
Jerry, you don't have to feel guilty after all Fred never told you she was his galfrend
ReplyDeleteHe just played with your feelings.
God used him to bless you with Ada.
At the end of the day, your happiness matters most.
Ada never accepted him as her boyfriend rather an online buddy.
So biko chilax and enjoy your relationship with Ada.
First of all. Stella,it is don't feel guilty. Not don't fell guilty.
ReplyDeleteNo need to thank me. My intelligence is God-given. I did not pay for it.
As for the poster.
I think u and the girl will make a better couple. Go for her.
Let your friend look for another woman. They are not meant to be.
Your mumu is on hosanna level
DeleteGbammestest!!!! James
DeleteLol @ "I did not pay for it"
DeleteOzu town council
DeleteKwakwskwakwa hohohohoho!!! All the people that always come under James to fight can you see now that there is no need. He too is correcting gbagun.
DeleteHahahaha lolz. Kikikiki
Delete@Olori rubber sandals, pls I am tall. I don't do short girls like you
DeleteChaii,ayam impressed.
DeleteLmfaooooooo James choro igbu mmadu bikonu
DeleteFred should let go mbok, Ada if I were you I'll marry Jerry and move on. Fred don't be a stumbling block to this love birds.
ReplyDeleteMr Jerry, pls if you love this babe genuinely.......... Pursue your relationship with this girl and marry her. This Fred guy is a player who was not ready to take that girl serious........ Pls go for this girl who lights up your world and dump this irresponsible and immature friend of yours.
ReplyDeleteFred has served his role in your life.......... Sending your wife to you. The friendship "can like to end now". What responsible guy sends his "girlfriend" to go meet a friend alone just like that. That Fred guy is a very very stupid CLAIMER............now i'm getting angry.
Go get your wifey Mr Man........ your happiness matters more than the opinion or cordiality with a stupid friend. By the way, you don't need such guy as a friend when you get married or choose to become more responsible.......since all he knows is to arrange babes for friends.........
What if you were a beast and raped her.....would he send his sister to a guy like that. He does not love this girl....... he is mad she is going to be unavailable to him.......... He is angry you have found love with a girl he took for granted.........Most likely, Ada went to meet you coz she could be husband hunting not meeting a boyfriend's friend.......... Do not allow fred put sand in each of your plate of garri. Do not give a mere friend such power over your life and the most important decision you might make.........Ada is not Fred's girlfriend.
Shame Fred, the devil and your village people by making a queen out of Ada.....Have the best relationship with her. Build a happy home with her...........Congrats in advance to both of you.
Dont I just love you
DeleteGbam U nailed it.
DeleteYou took this thing too personal sha.. lol. I agree with most of your reasoning. The Fred guy is a joke. And Jerry, your a good narrator..
DeleteSpot on Empress!
DeleteSpot on Empress!
DeleteWell said @ Empress
DeleteBiko,I dey multitask,excuse any typos.
ReplyDeleteFred, I bu nno hua!! Even if you guys were used to playing such childish games before, what did you think was going to happen, when you sent someone you were still wooing, who had not even agreed (even if she had), to go stay with your single and searching friend, because he was bored?
Does she look like a pet of entertainment to you?
I don't blame Jerry at all, at all.
He saw a single, well behaved girl, and he fell in love.
Fred, please, for the sake of your friendship, you've got to let go. Make out time and listen to your friend.
But Ada that said that she doesn't do online stuff, didn't she apply for the S and M? I don't understand.
You can't let something like this come between your friendship of 30 years. Not making sense.
Even if you fight against Ada dating Jerry, she's not going to date you, because obviously, she doesn't want to. And that'll be asking two people who love each other, to go their separate ways.
And then again, Jerry may never forgive you, if it happens, because you can't have her, and you refused to let your friend whom she wants, have her.
That's selfish.
I get it ;dibs, but a lot is at stake here.
Ada, you would have mentioned this to Jerry at first na, so that whatever was supposed to be trashed out, would have been trashed out.
Let's just assume that God used you to find a wife for your friend.
Yours will come, of course.
I pray that the three of you hash this mess out in a way that everyone ends up happy.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Oga Fred so u used your supposed girlfriend as kola nut abi? Anytin u see abeg manage it. Oga poster allow Ada to go so dat u dont soil urfriendship wit Fred but if d girl is so in love wit u , pls give it a try
ReplyDeleteGogongo Ni
DeleteIt's Fred's loss till he replies tho.
Fred take heart ok?
Use ur gf blow kite
Oga, but your friend is a nice mumu.
ReplyDeleteWhat was he thinking sending her to give you company?
Foolishness at it's peak.
What type of man does that?
How many times do u want to comment? Jobless senseless man go find doing pls.
DeleteA hard nut to crack. Fred dohhhh o but allow them. Yours will come sooner than you expect
ReplyDeleteSee Telemundo sha, Fred you probably realised Ada's worth when your friend fell for her n had great things to say about her. Be sincere to yourself, you probably 've other SM peeps on your phone, so why let Ada make you lose a dear friend. You and Ada probably would not 've connected Luke she did with Jerry. Pls just let them be and face your naija gf.
ReplyDeletePlenty likes.. Exactly what I had in mind
DeleteFred, make out time to see Ada, talk so both of you can decide on what you really want. Ada if after seeing Fred and you still feel you're more in love with one than the other, by all means, go for the one that makes you happy and you are in love with that also loves you back. Don't stay with either of them out of pity. At the end, your happiness matters a lot.
ReplyDeleteJerry, let Ada go.. Even if things don't work out Btwn Fred and Ada, it's best to secure your friendship than ruin it.
ReplyDeleteFred shouldn't have tried what he did.. I don't even understand how Ada on the first day of meeting you, chose to stay with you, good thing sex wasn't involved.. But this is a real triangle.
Stella, loving someone doesn't mean they are in love. I love you, but I'm not in love with you
Ada should decide on who she wants.. Fred, I think if you really want her, you'd make an attempt to go see her aswell.
Anyway, what do I even know..
I wish you all the best!
This happens Stella. l lost a friend who says l married a man reserved for her. My hubby had an arranged date to meet my best friend. My friend invited me along to her date because she felt shy. The guy met both of us and took our numbers. After that day its me he went after. He said he fell for me not my friend who is fair and beautiful. l am dark complexioned and normally men use to choose her before me. Even my hubby aunt wanted her for the kids to be fair and tall but he chose me. l miss my friend in my life. l hope one day she forgives our love and l can have old times back. She is beautiful but wont let go of this issue.
ReplyDeleteEeeeeyah, your friend will forgive you when she gets married too but if she is already hitched and still holding onto this grudge then please fleee from her because she can entice and hate gbensh your husband just for revenge
DeleteThat kind of friend you are better off without! He chose you! You didn't go after him. And she can't let go of the issue? Those are not good friends. Abegi. Friends who would never be able to sacrifice or give up something good for their other friend to have.That isn't a real friend. Greater love hath no man than he lay down his life for a friend... The true test of friendship! But this one is sulking because you got a husband that she wanted? That's no friend..
DeleteGirl u broke the girl code. It was her date...why did you even give the guy your number when he asked?
DeleteMr Fred to slack o
ReplyDeleteLet go Fred love will find you
Hiannnnnn
ReplyDeleteBabe, your head is there.
ReplyDeleteVery dicey situation.... They should all find time sir together and solve this Bodmas
ReplyDelete***sit
DeleteWhat a chronicle! Ada, pls follow your heart and don't settle for pity.
ReplyDeleteFirst,if she was dating ur friend,he wouldn't hv connected u to her. It's upto u and ada! Forget ur friend jor
ReplyDeleteFred cannot be normal friends with you again. He just feels betrayed. Even if na me, I cannot just deal. But Fred should just free the said girl to do what she wants. It's her happiness in this case.. Na this kind girl I dy even pray to get.
ReplyDeleteJerry leave that girl alone first! Apologize to your friend for everything then Advice Fred to visit her in her country and wait to hear the outcome. If they fall in love during this visit and work things out because she might in love with the attention you show to her and not your person,then it means she wasn't meant for you.if she doesn't fall in love with him or don't feel that chemistry then let her break up with him by herself before you know the next step. Ada kudos to you for not opening your legs for him. It would have been another sad complicated story to deliberate upon.
ReplyDeleteBreak up with who? Was she ever in a relationship with Fred?
DeleteThis is really a confusing one..its like Ada has made a choice if Fred can understand so that you both can be 2geda.
ReplyDeleteChei!!! God when will u pick my call see as this story touch me....*teary eyes*
ReplyDeletePoster plz try and resolve the issue between u and your friend but your friend made a big mistake,he shouldn't have introduced u with his girlfriend without him been present.but both of u took the advantage of falling carefully in love.
When is the next single and mingle
ReplyDeleteExactly
ReplyDeletePoster you did nothing wrong by falling in love with Ada, Fred is the one that is wrong at the first place. Oga, you will have to let one
ReplyDeletego inorder to have one.
If I happens to be Ada I will dump the both of you for peace to reign. please you both should fix this shit before someone goes down.
like seriously girls have become toys? well who's to blame but de girls?
ReplyDeletewell, this is the first time am commenting on this blog, though I've been a keen visitor. let me go straight to the point cos I've been in this kind of situation. The only advice I have for you, is for you to marry Ada. guys have a way of considering their friends when it comes to issues like this, they end up with "No girl can come in-between us"..my question is< does Fred really love Ada>, cos if he did, no matter the distance he will never give you her contact just to have fun and trust Me, i know what Fred had in mind the moment he gave you her contact. Don't take a step that you will regret, his your friend and u've known him for years,but it can't determine your happiness in the future.Your life partner will. most especially pray about it, God see our heart and he knows all our intentions.set up a meeting with other of your friends and call Fred to attend, then you guys can talk this out. Biko go and pay Ada's brideprice. God be with you.
ReplyDeleteWhy would you give jerry a girl's number and not tell him she was your girlfriend? It's not his fault @all and it's obvious Ada doesn't love you because if she did,she would have told him wen they met. Please let them be abeg.
ReplyDeleteJerry you have been manipulated by Ada tell the truth. You knew yout friend had interest be honest. However Ada did not love Fred she was looking for bigger fish. She thinks you are bigger fish. Ada l hope Stella post my comment so you see this. ADA you are a trickster. l doubt you love this Jerry as well. If a bigger fish comes you will use your feminine charms to move on and break Jerry's heart. This woman is sweet poison
ReplyDeleteFred and Jerry remain friends. Jerry if you marry Ada your own heart break is coming. Anyone wants to know how l know this. I was once like Ada. l made sure not to give sex so the men could respect and fall in love. Jerry be careful second heart break loading
I wonder, y would he send a girl he loves to keep another guy company?? Jerry if u really love Ada and u knw u want to settle down with her,then go ahead but try to confront ur friend if possible u and ada should go and see him and let him know that u love each other and that she only tks him as a friend. Hope that helps....
ReplyDeleteJerry, you shouldn't step over your friend just because he made the mistake of trusting you with a girl, and you had the advantage of meeting her first. What if he hadn't given you her number, won't you find another girl to be with? Don't build your happiness on someone else's pain. You had access to Ada because he trusted your 30 years of friendship, i doubt he would have given you her number, trying to help you out of your boredom if you were just a mere friend he didn't trust. Know that this is betrayal, and i doubt you can keep both Ada and Fred. Do you expect Fred to stay friends with you while he's constantly reminded of the mistake he made if you go ahead and date Ada? Be considerate and put yourself in his shoes. Is Ada worth losing your 30 years of friendship over?
ReplyDeleteFred, next time set boundaries. Hope you've learnt your lesson? No matter how close you're to someone, they're certain things you don't share with them. Mistakes like this hurt really bad. If jerry cares about your friendship, he would back off, if he's the selfish type, he will be teaching you a lifetime lesson.
@anonymous 15:58,Fred didn't tell Jerry he was wooing Ada,he gave Ada's number out so she can entertain Jerry and Jerry was entertained and fell in love.Fred wasn't in love with Ada,he wanted to pass her around and have his share if he hears she's good in bed.Jerry,please do the needful and don't make a fool of Ada.
DeleteNobody seems to be seeing wat im seeing, Jerry went on an official trip but he was always with Ada, hmmmmm...........Fred should man up and let go, wisdom is a principal thing! Lack of wisdom caused this brouhaha.
ReplyDeleteIn this life and in the next, you would be wiser, Fred!
Fred if you want to be happy please let her go and give them your blessing. Do not lose your friendship with Jerry because of Ada. That's DESTINY.
ReplyDeletePoster, please advise your friend to come and carry bv Emjay.
ReplyDeleteWe taya for her
Jerry thrive for peace, just remain friends with Ada and Fred. You are just being fast about this whole thing about Love. Love is patient,it endures, it is kind, does not hurts. In Sdk's platform, you can hook up with another lady. I don't see any big deal about this situation, it's just simple if you let go
ReplyDeleteHonestly the 3 of u are confused. If fred took her serious why wuld he introduce u to ada. Its becos both of u play games with girls thats y karma is catching up on u and fred.
ReplyDeletewhy didnt ada explain everything to u at the point where both of u started having feelings.? U jerry why didnt u ask fred who ada is? Y didnt u ask is ada one of those our gbenshing excort runs when we travel? Y didnt u ask whats her status...is it gbenshing or excort or runs? Infact the 3 of u are the good ada, the bad jerry and the ugly fred. But I ve a good advise for u. Give it time. Dont rush things with ada, explain things to fred 5o understand and if fred doesnt understand then dont force it. Allow them to date and go back to ur 30yr old buddy. My guy don't trust these hoes becos when ada starts revealing her true self..I promise u wuld wish u left her to fred.
Fred does not have an iota of respect for Ada. Please tell me that man that will send his girlfriend to go keep another man company, is he from benue that serve their wives as kola to their guest.
ReplyDeleteJerry please if what you feel for her is sincere and vice versa then please dont waste time to wife her.
Fred next time learn to protect your thing. We learn everyday.
Maybe Ada will prefer Fred if only she met him in person. True Friendship is next to family. Be wise
ReplyDeleteSending your suppose girlfriend to help your friend without even setting boundaries or letting him know she's your girlfriend is not a wise move. Jerry speak with your friend, let him know how you feel. Follow your heart.
ReplyDeleteFred you are wicked. You and your friends sample Chics and you sent someone you were wooing to be sampled and now you are crying. No man, it does not work like that.
ReplyDeleteJerry, she is single and Fred is probably with someone else as we speak. He is just being territorial because she is taken. You know how we act. Fred, stop being a small boy and talk to your guy. Work blocked you from seeing this girl e kwa. That means she is not as serious as you are faking her to have been.
Wait o! Is it all of u that dont knack? Even after a long while y'all will say 'mind u there was no Sex' hian! Dis are lies biko, una dey lash wella!
ReplyDeleteKelvin dat Edo Boi ( Stellz cousin )
Are dey scared of u DAT dey would be knacking and not say so...? Hian!
DeleteBro's ova ho's
ReplyDeleteJerry, Ada really loves you. Fred is so self centered, he never like Ada, why will he send her to you in the first place.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Ada, I won't date any of them because no matter what, your name will always be mentioned as the reason two friends parted ways. This should serve as a lesson to Fred. How can you send your would-be gfs number to a friend just because he was bored? Mscheww
ReplyDelete@whitediamond, S and M is not only those looking for relationship. Some people are just looking for friends. Jerry and Ada, please follow your hearts. It is becaus eyou love eachother that you are trying so hard to make sure your friend, Fred is not hurt. Please both of you should talk to Fred. infact, 3 of you should sit together and talk it out. Fred and Jerry please be mature about this. Ada, go with the guy you love. May God see you through
ReplyDeleteLove triangle.
ReplyDeleteHe should have told you he was sending his babe to you in the first place. She should have also told you about Fred when she came too. Nawao. Ending a friendship of 30yrs over a woman aint cool at al cos things like this breeds hatred in the heart of the oda friend, prompting them to plan evil. But, all you need is, try to clear the air with your friend Fred. Fred let them be, you threw away what you had stupidly, you obviously have no respect for her. Maybe God used you to connect Jerry to his life partner. Yours wil come. Love coms in mysterious ways, and this is one of such way.
ReplyDeleteMake fred go siddon e, Jerry and Ada are in love, fred was only jealous cos his friend got to like the girl he gave number to. Mtsheew
ReplyDeleteI laffed out loud at oliva's comment.
ReplyDeleteJerry, do u want to marry fred?!
Lmao!
Now Fred,do you love Ada or you were just planning to hit and run?? Cos if you really do,you will not think of arranging her to Jerry without leting him know what you feel for Ada.I think you just got yourself when Jerry told you Ada is a cool girl and that he likes her.Right now,dont blame Jerry but yourself and settle things with Jerry. Jerry,you are already inlove with Ada.I hope she is really what you want?? Hope not love at first sight as you claim you ve not been having time for girls.Check yourself wella and weigh the risk of loosing a 30yrs relationship.I will advise you not to break a relationship of that long cos of a woman.In any case,try and fix things with Fred. Ada.It will not be right to cause problem between two friends.Why did you not tell Jerry that you are friend to Fred? Ok maybe cos he didnt ask.And when Fred told you to go there,did you not ask him his reasons for sending you?Well this is serious.Check yourself if you can do it.I hope you will not change from this wonderful woman that Jerry has found in you? And i hope you dont run back to Fred as you have started discribing him as a good person?
ReplyDeleteThat is what happens with most of this stupid guys. Instead of you to be serious with a girl, tell her ur intentions, show commitment towards her. Secure a relationship with her. But No, you will say lets be friends and see where it goes.
ReplyDeleteI met a guy thru S&M, we knew eachoda for almost 1yr, spent a lot of weekends together,went to places together, I even met him mum on several occasions. Still yet he was unable to make a commitment with me. And cldnt even say I was his girlfriend after sleeping with me severally. I wanted it, bcos sex wasn't an issue to me and I loved this guy. Still yet he will keep singing 'lets see where it goes'.
When I saw it was getting close to a year and this guy still didn't give me commitment. I walked, bcos even some ppl know eachoda for 6mths and get married. And in a yr I am still waiting to know if he was my boyfriend.
I went cold and stopped all contacts with him. Moved on and started dating smone else. He now so it on my facebook n instagram that the other guy proposed to me. Then he started forming love. He loves me, wants to marry me. 6mths before the guy cldnt even say he was my boyfriend.
Poster/BV's that is what this man did. He didn't want commitment with Ada, he was still shopping ard and try to see if he wld find a better girl. Now his friend saw the diamond he threw away. Now he wants the diamond(Ada) back. SELFISH MOFO
Did you not read where he said Fred asked for a relationship and Ada replied that she didn't want online dating even though she participated in s n m ?
DeletePersonally, i think both of them are hustling for Green Card.
DeleteJerry and Ada follow your heart...... Fred should have told Jerry his feelings for Ada from the onset but he didn't... maybe they were destined to meet through Fred... i see nothing wrong with Ada N Jerry being in love.... it can happen to anyone
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I enjoyed reading this chronicle, Jerry you are well articulated I must say.
ReplyDeletewell, Jerry you have found love do not let it go. As for your friend he will come around. But do not stop trying to reach out to him...you cannot afford to leave your friend of over thirty years.. you both have come a long way. Keep your love strong with Ada...I pray God intervenes in your matter.
but still on still this chronicle has a right to reply. Fred and Ada please let us hear your own side of the story. Before we conclude matter...
Gracias!!!!!
Isn't it obvious that Ada is a runs girl? How can a man you met online give you his friend' number and say go and keep him company and you go? That is what runs girls do nah. Jerry that girl is an olosho.
ReplyDeleteHello Stella. Since all the parties involved are BVS, let each give a right of reply. As for me, the one Ada has requited love for wins.
ReplyDeleteEven runs gals end up being wifes tk a chill pill.they also marry 1day
DeleteI don't like guyz like Fred. .why didn't you tell Ada your feeling..and why will you use your girlfriend as an entertainment to your male friend.abeg leave Jerry and Ada alone,don't make them feel qulity that they are not.jerry you didn't nothing bad.to be serious the man I married, our meeting was just similar to yours,you know what his friend stop talking to him,that she Introduced me to him,he never say a word to me,and I won't have accepted him,but just I meet him before his friend who is my hubby today,and nd na two of them sabi,it was after our marriage that hubby told me what happens between them.fred Mbok leave them alone....and guyz please always make your intention known to ladies.
ReplyDeleteI wanna be logical about the issue on ground and i will like to point it out that Mr Fred didn't secure his territory well enough and if he truly love Ada he wouldn't have give Lucky Jerry her number...........Fred realized he messed things up from the start seeing how Ada and Jerry clique so he wanna mess things up again. Learn your lesson Mr Fred that "Always make your intentions known from the start and stand your ground about your motives, even if the lady ain't giving you attention" Move on bruva and let the love birds enjoy the chemistry between then.
ReplyDeletesame thing happened to me
ReplyDeleteI met a dude here guess he wasn't really into me as was not really communicating he later introduced me to his friend and then started feeling bad shortly
my advice
If Fred was so into ada he won't introduce you to Jerry
He didn't want you so pushed you to his friend
Fred is just jealous of Jerry's success with Ada
I love this type of love circle lol.
ReplyDeleteAda please follow Jerry oh! he means well for you. Fred wouldn't have shared your number with Jerry knowing fully well that he loves you. In my own opinion, Fred does not love you that much so "ctrl shift" to Jerry with immediate alacrity.
Fred let them be oh! they are in love thank you sir. Better love will find you soon.
Please Ada and Jerry should send us card soon thanks and happy married life in advance.
Fred and Ada we need to hear your side of the story, if you are reading this, we await your response to know d real truth because am sure all of you have your truth
ReplyDeleteThat Fred is not a serious guy. Jerry biko carry on with ada.
ReplyDeleteWOW! This is indeed a dicey situation. Sometimes in life, we have to make tough decisions even when they threaten to hurt those that means so much to us. I feel the fundamental question here is, what do I stand to lose? How can I deal with such loss? Is it bearable? Will it cause me a perpetual regret? This may come off as selfish, but we are humans---it is US first!That is REALITY. As much as we make compromises we must not shortchange our happiness in the process. That is why so many people run into depression. Jerry, whatever advice you read from here is a base to inform your decision. The final decision is yours to make. You are of marriageable age, getting a mate- a soul mate- is not easy these days given the fake realities of our time. My understanding is that your friend is yet to meet Ada physically. Who knows, he may not feel so strongly towards her as he thinks he is. So people may say fight for who you love but I will say give it time. If she is for you, Fred will naturally withdraw as the force of attraction will take its course.
ReplyDeleteWOW!This is indeed a dicey situation. Sometimes in life, we have to make tough decisions even when they threaten to hurt those that means so much to us. I feel the fundamental question here is, what do I stand to lose? How can I deal with such loss? Is it bearable? Will it cause me a perpetual regret? This may come off as selfish, but we are humans---it is US first!That is REALITY. As much as we make compromises we must not shortchange our happiness in the process. That is why so many people run into depression. Jerry, whatever advice you read from here is a base to inform your decision. The final decision is yours to make. You are of marriageable age, getting a mate- a soul mate- is not easy these days given the fake realities of our time. My understanding is that your friend is yet to meet Ada physically. Who knows, he may not feel so strongly towards her as he thinks he is. So people may say fight for who you love but I will say give it time. If she is for you, Fred will naturally withdraw as the force of attraction will take its course.
ReplyDeleteAda ada ada, o sweetie ada. Fred is only been selfish. He shd just b happy 4 them, his own ada will come someday soon.
ReplyDeleteExactly.
ReplyDeleteAbegy leave story, d Ada gal no pure wat decent lady sleeps in d same room with a stranger 4 2weeks? jerry stop lying u guys already slept wiv each other, you are jst in luv n u want us 2 see ur (angel like Ada )like a gal wiv morals, no she has none, so she is so jobless dat she had 2 keep u company 4 2 whole weeks plzzzzxxxx. She is not a decent as u portray Her biko, and I bet u will regret marrying her leta, coz she is a constant reminder dat u left u best bod of 30 yrs 4 a lady dat will gladly hook up any man 2 keep company with.Fred is not innocent also he dnt Ve deep feelings 4 her, coz if he did, it wud ve bin stated, no sane man leaves his fish beside a mouse#side eye
ReplyDeleteYou have a point here.
DeleteAll these comments about Ada being indecent. It's not always so. Sometimes love can make you do things outside your character. A friend of mine slept with her boyfriend within 12 hours of meeting and they have been together for 20 years now. It was love at first sight for her. For the guy it was just an easy lay but he later realised that she loved him. They are happily married today.
DeleteIf Ada was easy the poster would have sensed it.
Plz, when is the next SnM? Can sm1 tell me?
ReplyDeleteMy own is why would a good girl from a decent home and with good home training stay with a stranger for 2 whole weeks ???????
ReplyDelete2. I think the babe is easy - and that's why Fred passed on her number and refused to take her serious,
3. Jerry i think she's fooling you . With her chaste act , what girl stays with a stranger for that long ? Even abandons her own home ... Chai !
Jerry my advise - don't rush things , date her for a long period , observe and do surprise visits - be careful .
Fred , you just want her now because she's now wanted . You don't love her . Be honest
But Jerry said he was bored he didnt say he was looking for a fling.
ReplyDeleteLike my dad will always tell my brothers ''3 things put enmities btwn brothers, land, money and women.
Ada dear, follow your heart, so that when it backfires you will know you entered the relationship with your eyes wide open.
Y'all should make love not war.
Have you ever heard of the word 'trust'? You trusted your friend and your supposed future lover so much, that you carelessly allowed them to become friends. Maybe Ada realized that your friend has better prospects than you, and she decided to pitch tents with her. Well, there's not big deal there. Feign forgiveness and truce, then jejely wait to laugh last, because I'm sure Ada would break Jerry's heart again.
ReplyDeleteJust being a meanie.
But on a second thought, Nigerians are wicked o. So no one even managed to think that Jerry's actions may have been based on his love and trust for his friend and Ada?
Nigerians are selfish!
From this chronicle I read here, Ada is clearly a runs girl. Which sane decent woman leaves her own to go visit a stranger and then stays for 2 weeks? What kind of children are parents rasing these days? I'm sure ada's case is a case of bad parenting. Cos no mother would train a child to go spend that long with a stranger all in d name of keeping his company that they now refer to as " finding love" which love? Woman you're too loose and should be told! Cheap whore like you forming love. Taa!
ReplyDeleteFrom this chronicle I read here, Ada is clearly a runs girl. Which sane decent woman leaves her own to go visit a stranger and then stays for 2 weeks? What kind of children are parents rasing these days? I'm sure ada's case is a case of bad parenting. Cos no mother would train a child to go spend that long with a stranger all in d name of keeping his company that they now refer to as " finding love" which love? Woman you're too loose and should be told! Cheap whore like you forming love. Taa!
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:34 you're a wicked friend! She's better off without you actually. I don't even think is about forgiveness, She's has probably forgiven you but she has to keep you at arms length and she's a wise woman for doing that. Yes! You're wicked. Desperado oshi! You knew that she really really liked the guy. As a good friend she trusted you and told you to come along to meet the guy, thinking you got her back. You now went and gave the guy your number and you guys started your own behind her back. First of all, why did you give him your number, second of all, why didn't you tell him your friend already liked him and even if he insisted, you should not have agreed to have anything to do with him till she gave the go ahead. But no Oo, you were always jealous of her beauty and complexion and the fact guys flocked around her and you were so fascinated that a guy is chasing you and not your friend who already likes him and trusted you.
ReplyDeleteAs you said it yourself she's beautiful and must have been getting guys constantly but she really liked this one and wanted him. You should have said no to him and talked to your friend till she's okay with you dating him. No Mehn! You're the wicked one. You threw away years of friendship for a man. Abeg continue missing her. She's safer without you around her. You're the type that would have affair with your friend's husband when they're having little issues in their marriage and say "he came after me and we fell in love and besides you guys were already having problem." You broke friendship code. Something that your husband won't even do to his own friend if the tides are turned. Abeg with friends like you nobody needs enemies jare. Trust me she's has forgiven you, she can't just be friends with you because she doesn't know what next you'd take from her or how badly your next betrayal would be.
I pray it doesn't happen to your daughters, so you won't know the hurt it can cause. I pray it doesn't even happen to you too because anything can happen between you and your husband. Hope a friend doesn't take your spot and say "after all you guys were no longer together and he chased me and came after me, even his children didn't want me but we are in love". I know friends like you. Forming innocent and naive meanwhile your heart is dark. Mischewwww! Better forget about that friendship and stop missing her and concentrate on what next to take from your other friends. If she is a wise woman that I think she is you guys would only be high-bye friends and nothing more because you're not a good person. You're lucky sef, I think she's a good person at heart, maybe she still likes your hubby so she doesn't want to cause any rift between you or "snatch back" so she is staying clear of you guys. This tin pain me ehn. Please stop missing her. If the friendship was so important to you, you would have saved it. Mischewwww! Please swerve Biko.
Jerry I suspect that Fred sent her to you so you could survey her. If you had returned with bad news he would never have described Ada as his girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteIt seems like even if Ada doesn't continue with you she still won't consider Fred.
My advise is this; stick with Ada. Fred may turn his back on you both but he will come around. You and Ada have to have a long talk and make a decision to stick by each other Cos it's going to be a tough battle.
i fought my fellow guy becos of my wife ,
ReplyDeletei really fight my guy to marry my wife cos i hate loosing a fight
but today am paying the price cos she has slept with all my men friends
and all her good characters then was a pretend to have me cos my ex gf.
then was telling her how good and nice am to her and on bed toooo
and i dont want to regret the marriage cos we have a child together.searching love
again....
my guy please allowed her Ada.and Fred to do the settlement alone
let only Ada and Fred solve the problem by them self alone and give her and
Fred 7 till 8 months to settle the matter but always being there for her.
give both of them a chance and time to try there luck and see if both of them
are really inlove or just online friends things,,,
this is becos of ur future life,,cos either Fred or Ada must be ur problems
in future if you ever rush into marriage early with her like as i did,,,
my guy give them time,and learn,,,am paying my fast guy price till now,,bewarned,,am not in niaja
You married a runs girl..ntoor!
DeleteSo you left your gf for hee friend abi? I am glad she has shown you pepper.
I think since Ada told Fred to wait till they meet before they can date Fred decided to friend zone Ada and continue with the other gals he met during the s n m, dat was why he could gv out her no. If he was really interested in Ada he wouldn't like to see another guy around her not to talk of giving another guy her no no matter the closeness n boredom. At least he would hv feared His best frnd will sleep with her or tk her from him. He only became jealous and betrayed caused the girl kept him on hold an met his frnd through him and they are both in Luv.
ReplyDeleteAda,jerry and Fred u guys shud Mk up and go ur ways cos 5 years frm now Fred will tell pple his best frnd of over 30yrs snatched his gf(even tho they were not dating)from him. Except Ada and Jerry are really in love and can't let go then am sorry Fred u hv to learn ur lessons the hard way.