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WHY DO MARRIED WOMEN PLAY GAMES.?

Dear Stella, how are you.. Family nko? Well let me go straight to my narrative. I am a man, a very comfortable one at that. I am 40yrs old and i am single not because i am a player.... No, I am not a player. i respect women a lot. I just decided to keep simple relationships with ladies since i was focused in studying further and my job requires me leaving the country very now and then. 

My Dear Stella, My heart is broken, I cant sleep... I cant eat... In fact i am restless.

I turned 40 last year, So i wanted to give dating a try. I needed a serious relationship, that would lead to making my own family. With that in my mind, i started noticing every ladies i met. Quietly searching for that someone. I observed the ones in my church, office, friends party and all. 

One night, i couldn't sleep, so i stepped out to buy suya meat from the Mallam at my junction. Getting there i met this lady who was paying for the last piece roasted

meat. I couldn't help but openly express my disappointment. So as i was about leaving she called me back and said if i was not in a hurry she wouldnt mind sharing the suya meat with me. That it was way too much for her alone to chew to boredom. 

So i indulged, still shocked. So i offered we should hand out at the nearest bar and get cool drinks. she agreed. That was the day i fell head over heels in love with this woman.

She is 29yrs, beautiful, strong headed, soft spoken and very very intelligent.

It felt like i had known her forever. we kept talking till i asked her to visit my home. and she did, No dull moment at all..... we laughed, joked.. argued about politics, football and academics... Wow... i was smitten

i  became addicted to loving her... She is such a simple soul. Sometimes she come over and tell me to hold her and she will cry for minute or so.. then she will get back to her usual self. she talks to me about everything single that goes on in her life. gave me access to her phones, her laptop. she takes all calls in my presence, sometimes she tells me to put it on speaker that is if she is busy making us something to eat. 

I got to know know her colleagues, her sister and her her distant childhood friend.

she was as open as a book, drama free. I started learning to live my life in a simple way. I gave her access to my phones, my wallet, credit cards and my life inclusive. I LOVE THIS WOMAN.

When the sexual tension started building between us, She said that it was to be a slow process because she is a mother and cant deal with another bad sexual relationship. she told me she had a son and told me she would give me space of 2weeks to think it through and decide if i still want her with her baggage or we should just stick to being just friends.

During the 2weeks break. she went cold. no more late night calls.. no text messages... no more grabbing quick lunch during work break... no more shopping together...no more snooker evenings,,,no more movie nights.. no more nothing... i couldn't breathe. i was loosing my mind. She taught me all these things i just mentioned. She gave a meaning to my life. After a week of staying away i begged to allow me see her, so that we can talk. 

When we met, i told her that her baggage isn't an issue and as for the sex part i am willing to take it slow...

She stood up and gave me a very deep passionate kiss in public, not minding who was watching. and that craziness is what i love most about her. so we got back together, this time much stronger/deeper that before.

So one of my buddy called and invited me for his house opening that he wants me to turn up with my woman. I accepted. Since that Sunday was our Snooker Night Date. So that day we talked, she said she will certainly make it.

I waited for her for hours but she didn't call or text.

i decided to go to the dudes place, congratulate him and rush back to the house, so i don't miss her. 

While i was with the my friend and some known faces drinking and chatting. one of the guys there said that his wife was texting him that they should start leaving. So the celebrant teased him about his beautiful wife and all. They both stood up and walked towards my woman... the same woman i was texting..

Our eyes met, when she was hugging the celebrant. Later she left with her supposed husband.

I started asking the celebrant questions about them. He clearly told me that she is married with kids for 9yrs. I died a million  times. How can it be possible? we talk all through the night,we hang out in public places and all.. how can she be married? how can not tell me that she is married,

 Since then she had not called me. its about a month now. I need to talk to her. I need to know why she gave me HOPE...I need to know why she USED ME.

I am so confused. I need to SEE her. But i cant bring myself to call her. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WALK AWAY? HOW DO I WALK AWAY... PLEASE I NEED HELP. Thank You,

TOO SHOCKED FOR WORDS......Why dont you call and ask all these questions?she is the only one that can answer why she used you.I dont understand how she could have so much time for you and still be married...maybe she and hubby live apart,maybe she is second wife and does not live with him..maybe,maybe,maybe...what do i know?

Anyway,singles in the house,this is his email.you know what to do!

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