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LETTING GO ISNT EASY...

Hi Stella,

 I met this girl 2 years ago through my Kid sister. Initially,we planned to date for 2 years then get married.All through the dating period ,we had issues, there were too many guys around her and she lies a lot. Last year,She cheated on me with a guy she calls her friend and totally ignored me for  the 2 months the guy was around, she came back to beg me after the guy left, I forgave her because I loved her and our relationship continued but I became suspicious and over protective of her. 

In one of my snooping on her phone, I discovered she was still in touch with her ex,I warned her to stop  and this led to yet more issues. 

  On one occasion, she lied to me about a number that called her, I looked up the number on true caller and discovered it was the same ex I warned her about. The guy sent me 2 sms and  called me later asking who I was because he noticed I looked him up on true caller, I apologised to him saying it was a mistake. He went on to tell my girlfriend,who now confronted me saying I called the guy and threatened him to leave her alone.

 I told her the truth of what happened and that I neither called nor threatened the guy. I thought the matter had ended, only for her to bring it up again last week and even said the guy sent her a record of our voice conversation. This got me mad and angry and got me wondering why the guy had to lie and why my girl chose to believe him over me. I decided to add the guy on whatsapp and we got chatting. He told me stuff about my girl, he poured his heart out to me and I told him stuff too, I told him about my anger with my girl and that I give her everything and don't know what else to do. 

I believed we were chatting as mature men but this guy copied my part of the chat and sent to my girl. She got angry and said she wanted a break up, I felt messed up and pleaded with her cus I love her very much, our families are aware of our relationship. She eventually said she would need a conviction from me that I have changed and I promised her I will. We began talking well and got back together.

    During the sallah holidays, I went to see my dad to discuss plans for our introduction in December. You can imagine my surprise when my girl told me she's no longer interested because she's not feeling me anymore. I begged her , crying like a child, promised her heaven and earth , yet she won't change her mind. I feel she never loved me because if she did, she would accept me. I always forgave her because I love her. 

  I feel used and dumped. How do I continue to live with this pain? I can't eat, I can't sleep, couldn't  even go to church. I have to take a casual leave from work. How can I begin to love someone else again? I NEED ADVISE

  Please help me beg her because she reads your blog, she introduced me to it. 

 Thanks.

Hmmm,since she reads this blog and will read this,i would prefer to hear from her first before i beg or advise you cos you practically painted her black and still want us to help you beg her?

Why would you want someone as terrible as you describe to be your wife?

Babe,please if you read this and know it is you and want to explain to us what happened before we beg you,please send in your narrative,you have a right of response honey!

*sit down look mode activated*