Tottenham striker, Emmanuel Adebayor has just taken to his Facebook page to air some serious accusations against his family. He claims the post is not to expose his family but rather act as a warning to other African families.
He claims that his brother stole 21 phones, that his sister rented out a million-dollar home he purchased for her without informing him and that his mother 'hung up' on him when he informed her of the birth of his daughter.
It would be recalled that early last year, Adebayor accused his mother of being fetish, negatively influencing his performances on the pitch, an accusation which his brother, Kola Adebayor immediately debunked as untrue.
Here's what he wrote....
EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR'S FACEBOOK STATEMENT
His full statement reads: 'SEA, I have kept these stories for a long time but I think today it is worth sharing some of them with you. It's true that family matters should be solved internally and not in public but I am doing this so that hopefully all families can learn from what happened in mine. Also keep in mind that none of this is about money.
'At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I brought her to London for various medical check ups.
'When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so she could consult him in Nigeria. She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2 days into her stay, I received a call saying she left.
'Apart from all that l also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his family?
'A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing. She also kicked Daniel out of that house.
'Note that the house had about 15 rooms. When I called her and asked for explanation, she took about 30 minutes to abuse and insult me over the phone. I called my mother to explain the situation and she did the same as my sister. This same sister says I am ungrateful. Ask her about the car she is driving or anything she is selling today?
'My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?
'When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories about our family to The Sun in other to take some money. They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.
'When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.
'I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.
'My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.
'I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?
'I organised a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
'Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.
'For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.
'If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my family members. I just want other African families to learn from this. Thank you.'
Stay Strong man!...This made me melt with tears inside for you,it must really hurt to do this.
My brother,this happens everywhere...Especially if you are the bread winner...
ReplyDeleteMost guys hustling abroad has a story to tell about their family...
This is so bad...
Emmanuel,just know you are not alone in this....thousands of people especially Nigerians are experiencing such...
Some family members can frustrate someone ehnnn!
DeleteMtchewww.
You work so hard to make them hhappy yet they make you feel like a fool.
Am sure all the ish has gotten to him real bad, and he prolly sniffed powder, or had so much alcohol which got him so emotional and then he turned to his face book page to rant.
Na wa
Adebayo should equally check himself, an entire family ganging up on you, something must be wrong somewhere.
DeleteI just scrolled thru though,this ain't right,he shouldn't wash his dirty linen in public naa
DeleteSee linen washing. Family is everything but they can b d cause of one's downfall too. Adebayor, God will vindicate u.. keep doing good
DeleteVery common in Nigeria. I just don't get it at all. Once ure d bread winner of the family they want to milk u dry. Am sure d mum hung up becos she does not want him 2 ve a family of his own.
DeleteIf this is nothing but d truth I think it's time 2 move on. Uve done enough.
It's happens often esp in Africa, they just want to milk one dry.am not suprise @all d dude is tired.
DeleteEmmanuel pls stay strong. Your not the only one going through this. I think I is an African /nigerian thing.
DeleteGod is ur strength.
Apparently his family sees him as just a meal ticket. He shld be strong and shldn't let them pull him down.
DeleteAre they still on this matter?
DeleteThought we have passed this stage.
Your enemies are the people you eat n dine with.
I still wonder y his own family are doing this to him.
This is what we call household enemies
If these his allegations are true, then I'm in serious shock!
ReplyDeleteEven if this is true, this is still so wrong, u don't wash ur dirty linen outside for the world to see, there re better ways of resolving family issues.
DeleteEka how re u? Let me perch here. Wink
Part of Life
DeleteSerious shock? Over another man's matter? Lol.
DeleteLol Cynhams. No mind her
DeleteSo sad.i know that type of sister and mother very greedy, just like patient ozokwo or how do u spell her name, in her movies.belive me this is the least.
ReplyDeleteSome families are worst most of my friends here in diaspora been going through alot. The painful things is they don't know how hard u have suffered to make this money, smh.
Diasporia,my huge pink pussy.
DeleteAjegunle pig like you
Tell the cheap olosho. Im sure she doesn't know what an airport looks like. Diaspora my ass. Ode
DeleteLol. Anon, calm down
DeleteHeheheheheheh huge pink pussy Ke?
DeleteOloshi u that's why I gave u lmao find that in ur comment session I know u the one. House wife.see them anon with huge baggage and chronicles Lmao
DeleteAnons una wicked I swear. Cotonou follow Diaspora na
DeleteCameroun sef na diaspora o. You guys chill hian
DeleteIt's a pity that rather than being a blessing, family is a curse to some people. It is well with you Adebayor but please somethings are still better left unsaid. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI really dnt understand u guys,what kinda nonsense is somethings are better left unsaid. Do u know countless of allegations and rumours that has been said bout him Abeegi he did thhe right thing by clearing d air
DeleteUnsaid gini?my dear,leave matter.i have been in d same shoes as him.i know d solution to all these,just enter naija and pick one Igbo babe for lag.no reach east.just lag there.their eyes go open.do like I did.goodluck bro
DeleteSad Story! Some family members are the evil but we all don't go about writing about them for the world to read nah! You should have settled your family problems privately! My 1cent
ReplyDeleteMy dear, no be everybody de take shame drink poison oh!
Delete#figurative
Dyu know what they've been writing about him??? I don't blame him for writing back abeg
DeleteBlog Legend you're so right! What they're doin to him is bad..quite alright! But that's enough reason to spill everything for the world to know abeg! It's none of my business sha
DeleteHaa auto correct, I meant BLOGLORD! Nawa
DeleteThey've been going all around to write about him too, selling different stories to newspapers and magazines just to make a few bucks and therefore tarnish his name. I don't blame him at all. With a lot of families, if you continue to keep quiet and play the "bigger, matured person", they'll start convincing themselves that what they're doing is right, that you're just an object that had no feelings and there will be no limit to the kind of grief they'll cause you (I'm speaking from experience), so it's better he speaks out publicly just like they have been speaking sbout him too. 1.) it'll help him emotionally to let go of the hurt 2.) they too can read about themselves and see things from his angle when they read. When you're a private person, some families take advantage of that because they believe you'll never publicly speak but they'll continue to publicly assassinate your character until you succumb to their wish so they can shut up.
DeleteLol @ Blog legend.
DeleteLmao!! Thought you were trying to hail yourself but forgot to go under Anon. Hahahaha!
DeleteHahahahhahahahhha people get time. So some people comment and reply their comments themselves.
DeleteAll I can say is that d real enemies are within. What family members can do out of envy and greed only God can save us.
ReplyDeleteAdebayor must either be foolish or a simply a good man @heart.
DeleteAfter all these,yet he still supports them,if it were me id have cut off any ties wv my family infact they won't see a kobo of mine,bunch of ungrateful lots cos this kind family fit kill person o
Yes o. The real enemies are always within.
DeleteAm so ashamed of his family memebers..may God give him strength to deal with the issue
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Like seriously they asked him to build a house each for every member of his family? That is the height of insensitivity and wickedness!
ReplyDeleteI don't why,but i kinda believe him.
Some family members will not rest until they milk you dry,and when it is all finished they will give you ten yards
Just be wise Adebayor.
The same way you and your mum want to finish pa Nduka
DeleteI believe this guy
DeleteMy friend's elder sis
is his greatest enemy right now
goes about spreading malicious rumours about him
jus cos he is successful
Some family members are demons
As in ehhn!
DeleteNot like he earns like Ronaldo or Rooney or Van Persie. This is a guy trying to balance in his career. Moving from Arsenal to City to Tottenham, Madrid loan et all. Some families see a rich son as door way to heaven. It's good when they use his money to establish themselves and leave him and his wife alone...not when they continue being leeches! Haba!
Some wives cannot rest from families like this. This is why sometimes, marrying a big star or a very rich dude could look like a blessing to outsiders, only you knows the battle you're facing. Because he'll be in the press looking rich, they won't know when he really has or not. And when he's not giving them every minute, they will turn on you like wolves.
I believe him too.
I don't think it's too cool airing this but I definitely understand him. Sometimes, the frustration can choke you, you wish to spill for relief, besides they have been spreading tales too(according to him) and singing to the press. Sad but common.
His family are not smiling at all,hmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmm... the greed of humans
ReplyDeleteGood morning all, hmmmmm problem every where among the blacks especially Africans! God help ur children from family wahala oo. Adebayo I don't know if ur stories are real but allow God to fix it for u dear
ReplyDeleteYou see, "Family" is overrated at times.
ReplyDeleteTrue oh.
DeleteBlood is thicker than water is overrated when you meet a bad family.
To have rest of mind, you'll just have to cut them short.
I have an independent and decent family but some of my friends go through hell daily. If they bring you so much pain and tears, what is their use?
I agree with you @Quicksilver % 100. I am happy He spoke about it, instead of dying in silence. It can be very therapeutic.
DeletePassing by
ReplyDeleteWhy now?
ReplyDeleteNo matter how his family erred,methinks its a family matter,and it should have been kept in the family!
Adebayo,I hope you are still okay mentally?
Wrong move bro!
Honestly!
DeleteMy mouth just hung open Reading All Dese
and All i could think Of was 'Is he stil sound?"
no matter wot his Fam did(hurting i know it must be) buh coming to splash it on Ur Wall is just sick!
Hope God heals dem sha.
His family has granted public interview so many times saying alotta things about him and from his writeup, seems they also wrote a pettion against him to his club to fire him. Is that one still family?
DeleteOr if we wake up one day and hear he committed suicide, would that be better? Family that have divided his hardwork amongst themselves, waiting for his death?
Abeg sometimes, Family is over-rated!
Let him speak up b4 he becomes depressed biko!
GW, is he still sound? Good question... hope he is mentally alright!!
DeleteBecause he is mentioning prophets,and I remember his last saga where they said his family members where doing jazz on his head..
Hope nothing has tweaked somehow in his brain oooh?
Nawaoooh!!!
I really feel for him though.. height of frustration! Some family members just feel one "made" person should carry the whole burden of the world alone.. it is well.
Hmmmmm d story na eveywia jare. Everybody ve dia story to share. Wait untill I send my chronicles. It's not easy take care of a whole family ooo. And u won't even be able to do anytin for urself all cos u want ur family to be ok. But Adebayor sometimes re better kept in d dark. No need of exposing all dis cos u re a public figure and u shld knw better
ReplyDeleteBut, who asked him ?
ReplyDeleteOlowo kan laarin otosi mefa.
Na real waa o, kuku forget them and move on o jare. Ur family members na typical example of * Ndi oso chi egbu* tueh.
ReplyDeleteEvery family has its skeletons... Spare us yours please. You want people to learn from your family ish? Learn what exactly when we are yet to hear the other side of the story? For all we know na you fit be the black sheep in the family. Next time see a good shrink, talk to close confidants who can give good advice & if you want people to learn, write a book under a pseudonym cos all this public bashing will not create a positive change.
ReplyDeleteThis is the other side of the story dummy, he's family has been publicly harassing him for a while now
DeleteHis
DeleteBlack sheep producing white money...
DeleteMore like, richest sheep who they sheer naked for money.
Someone has got to talk nnem.
Not involving in family issues.
ReplyDeleteMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mbom.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back Maam.
DeleteThis is sad. Most families have one or two unpleasant story to tell. Just do your best and leave the rest....
ReplyDeleteI guess he couldn't settle it privately with them that's why he brought it out. It is well.
Dumbstruck!!!
ReplyDeleteHUMPH!
Let me wait for the family's rejoinder.
...this statement that they told him to build a house for each member of the family and be giving monthly wage pissed me off!!! And also aroused my curiosity... Why such boldness from the family? Did they contribute to his success? Why will his sister call him un grateful? Why will a mother hangup on hearing a good news? ... Hmm ... Let the mother and siblings speak, then we would know what is truly going on.... He has been pushed to the wall for him to go public.. ... nevertheless, they expected too much from him... Haba!
Nitty.
The case of Joseph and his 11 brothers of our time. This is serious, his life is in danger and you could feel it in the write up. Not one if his siblings loves him, not one.
ReplyDeleteWow... Just Wow... Some families are greedy mehnnn!
ReplyDeleteEeeeya sick Man.
ReplyDeleteIs he still dating Genevieve?
ReplyDeleteVery sad story indeed
ReplyDeleteI think its best you avoid them for now, you can help them financially if they need it, but let it end there. This kind of family can kill, that's if this story is true.
I also think you shouldn't have disclosed this information to the public, some things are better left private, now that you've told us, has it solved the problem?
Shocking! But don't think we need this information! Some things are meant to be private
ReplyDeleteI pity him, many mother's use their hand to destroy what they build. Let him forgive his mother.
ReplyDeletePlease if you cannot see that this story is too one sided, then you must be blind
ReplyDeleteBabykinsway if only you can broaden your knowledge and get some more news outside Stella, then you will know we have reed their side. So its only fair for us to read his side as well! Knowledge!
DeleteYetinde says Seyi adebayor is a good person I know,my dear God is wiv u as yur name implies so you people see reason why some rich people dnt want families close to dem,God save us from such family members but one thing is certain wen a mother is bad,the house is definitely going to be scatter,it is well.
ReplyDeleteMore monies u come across and more problems u see. In a family one person is set aside to carry d cross,as was told by my late father.
ReplyDeleteHis family is pure evil.
ReplyDeleteAbeg let him talk jere...
ReplyDeletethey sound very greedy.
but the truth is this happens to alot of people who live abroad who are not even footballers sef but work for their money.
They want to genuinely help and buy thing for their family members and make them happy understanding that everyone has got their pride... but nigerian family members would look at the money they send and rubbish it saying it is too small or the things they send and say it is not designer....
In such cases just stop sending things Shikena.
In the UK when someone gives one a gift no matter how small,people APPRECIATE IT.and say thank you.because someone worked for the money to buy the things...
Thank you anon.
DeleteAs soon as you become successful, your family will just turn lazybones. Even those with work will resign while those in business will stop making the effort.
You will turn to their cash cows. Give them money today, the will waste it and come for more.
Rubbish! Even if they collectively contributed in his future.
Money too small? Not designer? Oriegwu!
DeleteSome family members' are worse than lucifer. Most ill luck and set backs some people experience are caused by family members, who pretend that they love you. You won't know, you will be blaming that neighbour who quarrels with you, or that person you just don't like.
ReplyDeleteA lot of family members are evil, destroyers, wicked. God Almighty will expose you all.
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ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteAm sorry darling. May the good Lord restore love and heal your family cos family is everything
ReplyDeleteBTW it's my birthday tomorrow.
Omgg, I finally have a birthdy mate.niiiice
DeleteSo why are you naked? It will be nice if you can get dressed. God bless you.
DeleteHummm I don't blame this guy at all
ReplyDeleteThey have pushed him to the wall.. The amount of jealousy and envy amongst siblings is ridiculous . I live in the UK and I am doing ok for myself , you don't want to know what I have been going through in the hands of my useless jealous envious senior brother who also lives here but is so bitter that I make more money than him . Imagine the idiot saying I have the effrontery to tell him that I want to refurbish my kitchen and that what right do I have to do that? I should give him the money instead. This is my own hard earned money o!
Story plenty!!! Family members can frustrate. I try my best for everyone but they will still sit down together and gossip about me, one of them will now come and tell me what they have said! Hummm . Sometimes I just cry!!!
Each one to his own. This thing is everywhere !!!
It's well dear...
DeleteThis has been happening in my husbands family! D senior brother and his wife are so jealous of us upon all d help we give them, they smile in front of us but go about bad mouthing us to the entire family but as God will have it, one of d siblings realised who was d devil in d family and has been apologising to me. I do not even have anger towards them and I thank God my husband also has a soft heart. God will keep blessing us cos we bless ppl around us. He shld just leave everything to God. Onu kwulu njo ga emecha kwuo nma.
DeleteMy goodness! You should give him the money instead? I am learning from people's experience
DeleteHmmmm....its usually like that when you are the only success story in your family...its just so sad that despite depending on him so much they add evil join am. i just hope God heals his Family.
ReplyDeleteJesus fix it .
ReplyDeleteAt the end of the day, love is thicker than blood.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of mother will never allow his son to marry, see her face now.
She will be the type that if she becomes a mother in law, she must frustrate her daughter in law.
XOXO MYSTERY
Hmmm! I live in the Uk! And stories I hear daily from those who genuinely want to help their families but turned sour are a lot. Imagine some one sending millions home to his brother to assist in building him his house! After some years he went to Nigeria to inspect the house. His own brother took him to a site, luckily for him his brother's shadow betrayed him when he lifted a big rod to strike him. The way the guy ran from the site, same way he ran to London and never looked back or is it the case where a lady's husband was deported back home. She worked as a nurse in one of those hospice, taking up hours just to build a home in Nigeria, trusted her husband, sent all her savings to build a house, bought two cars and sent home. The greedy man was demanding and she was providing. She wanted to surprise her husband, bought her ticket and landed. Went to the said home, who answered the door? A younger woman and a baby? The whole drama attracted the family and the stupid husband lied that the house was his and it was his money he used in building the house. She back to the uk but with a bitter taste in her mouth. When you hear certain things don't judge immediately. #the bible even says " our worst enemy is from our family"
ReplyDeleteOMG I am stunned!!!!!! @idoma juju are you serious? Heyyyyyyyyy I fear the living oh!!!!
DeleteWhat! He wanted to kill his own brother? Black heart!
DeleteThat husband is wicked! Women should learn and stop sending money to men.
Family . Unnecessary evil I call them. When ur successful if ur not careful they can kill u. My family is worse ,jealous bastards .
ReplyDeletewhy did you ask your mother to go to TB Joshua. Is the man God to solve una problem.
ReplyDeleteYou all should check yourselves and know where the problem is coming from. I know enemies are within your family.
Go to God in prayers. i dont know if Togo go to church self.
Although I have not met this guy in person, I believed all that he said. Am a victim. So many things are better left unsaid. Am glad he is still alive to tell the story. Many are gone without this apple opportunity to say what they went though. This world is a mystery.
ReplyDeleteSome family members are worse than the devil, wowwww.
ReplyDeletei wonder why some people just intend to be parasites all their lives...dis issue is very common in africa and it saddens my heart when family sees this as a norm in our society. it has been happening for a long time now when relatives think that you owe them so much to the extent you cant even cater for ur own self and immediate family..of course its great to help the less privileged in the family but in a case like this when they see you as a honey pot and dont consider your own life,pls cut them off..in life you meet people who you do not share name and blood together but they are way reliable than so called families...thank God for my life...God sees all..it is well with you..
ReplyDeleteThank you! Omobola. They don't think you have your own needs or problem. Not everybody likes to complain. It is good to help but it should not be taken for granted. Sometimes the people you help have better clothes and shoes than you. Nansense!
DeleteSometimes your family can be ur worst enemy, I don't blame some ppl who stay away from theirs, or don't allow family to live with them.
ReplyDeleteI once had a neighbour whose son has lived in the US for close to 30yrs,he hardly vists Nigeria for whatever reason. The one and only car d mum ever bout, its this man that bout it. Even d house dis woman is staying he built it,becos when d mothers husband died, she was sent packing, oda step children needed her to leave so dey can rent out the house. Even while building d house,dis woman chopped a lot of d money.
You can imagine dat dis same woman does jazz to d son in America, consulting diffent alfa's bcos she feels d daughter in-law in America is smhow blocking her from gettn more money from her son.
HOW CAN A MOTHER BE DOING JAZZ TO HER SON, just bcos he started feeln uneasy abt d way d Mother is embezzling his money. She doesn't even work,but lives on what her son sends her..................FOREVER 16
I suspect mine is doing same to his son. My husband came abroad, and later we were together. His mother wants him to also bring his younger brother. He is reluctant because he spent a lot to move I and our kids abroad and he is not ready to spend that amount yet, and his brother is the lazy type that like to be spoon fed. There was a time he was keen on going back to Nigeria. Another time, he wanted to bring them over. It was another relation that told him to sit down and plan for his own family, let his brother hustle himself to come abroad, than to carry a burden too heavy for him. The recent happenings is that my husband sometimes talks out in his sleep and will be calling his mother and say he has heard. And I have a dream 3 weeks ago, where I saw I and my MIL walking, she was the one directing me where to go and I knelt down to greet her and gave her a chair to sit down when her legs began hurting her. When I woke up, I knew this woman was doing something.
DeleteI beg go sitdon,family is important whatever ur family has done forgive them cos they are part of u and remember u can't buy family.Family 1st
ReplyDeleteI suppose when you were born, your family members all passed your through mothers birth passage at same time as you? and when you finally exit this world they will all be buried in the same casket as you. Pls wake up and smell the coffee some family members are the devils assistant here on earth. Stop being sentimental and use your brains!!!
DeleteFamily members are usually very ungrateful especially d indigent ones,if any of their sons make it,some are jealous and will want to run him down with incessant demands,some might never want him to marry so he will remain their cash cow,cos once a woman is there,their excesses will be curtailed(Adebayor where is ur wife?)if u don't have already,dats wat I am talking abt.
ReplyDeleteBtw He has also been over indulgent with them,how can he buy a 15room house and keep one woman in it,dat what is she supposed to do with the remaining rooms when she's not a ghost?#rme#dat is temptation abeg!what she did unto d house was smart of her IMO#sideeeyes#
I have a girlfriend I like so much because I learn from her tough ways even dou I think she's too strict sometimes.lol!she taught me never give an impression to family members,friends or even ur children u constantly have money to throw around or sort out their issues,pretend to be broke sometimes,when dey make demands,intentionallyy delay to grant it,tell thhem to pray d money comes cos u also get broke...else ehn,u wiill just turn to a tap that they will just open and water(money) will gush outt.human greed is insatiable!God help us.
damn.....What kinda family is this...
ReplyDeleteAdebanyo's case is deep rooted family issue, he's a nice guy but stingy even to his very close friend "Delayo luton" Ade's "messenger" for more than 8years he can't even fix that guy up. Education didn't play role in his family so everyone is in disarray.
ReplyDeleteHis mother dislike for Adebayo's wife are reason she didn't bother with childbirth issue but that's no excuse from his mum. A lot of families are faced with similar situation. That is the price you pay as a breadwinner but doesn't mean you should bring your family issue to social media as a public figure you're still expected resolve every problem privately. My advise is to stay away from family members for now and face your immediate family in UK. Well there's no Empirical evidence to prove Adeboye's case.
Chai I bless God for my family ooo. Though we r few, but the bond we share is bliss. Adebayor may God make things right between you and your family. Umu uwa ekwe mmete, imee n'elu mba, imee n'ala mba..Mtschewww
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmm family war
ReplyDeleteBuild each family member a house nd place dem a montly wages,not even a family house,after establishing dem,haba family wahale sef...Emmanuel-GOD wit us(you)
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Devil don enter everything scatter.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Nigerian families are too demanding.
ReplyDeleteNigerian families are too demanding.
ReplyDeleteI hate this about the African culture, the more you give the more they want. Very ungrateful people, they are even ready to kill you.
ReplyDeleteGbam! 12:00. I hate this warped way of thinking in Africa! It is like sucking an orange dry of all it's juice, and then discard it, to look for the next ripe orange. My husband is the elder son, he does his best, but his family still called him stingy, having their hope on the younger brother, because he has boasted that when he finishes school and get a job, he will always give them.
DeleteHe graduated, got a job and married. He did not keep his promise. He complains before he gives. He does not even give half of what my husband gives to them. Now, they are praising my husband, and calling him stingy, because he is not consistent like my husband who does not miss their monthly payment apart from other request. The youngest son graduated, got a job, and cannot manage his income because he complains it is too small. And still depends on the monthly allowance, my husband sends. He now appreciates my husband, because he has seen that life is not easy, and he was the person that bad- mouthed my husband most.He is afraid to ask the younger brother money, because he will shout at him, after serious interrogation. Only my husband, will give. When a man comes from a hungry, greedy, poverty family, this is what happens.
Stella and dear blog visitors, anyone who thinks Emmanuel is wrong is either not African or not successful! Is true that in most families...God lifts one up and the others take a lifelong holiday from hard work...someone ever told me "God made my hubby successful bcos of the entire family so y shud anyother person suffer"? Parents just Relaxing bcos their children are "successful"....iv worn that shoe with my few thousands n can imagine what some1 like him has faced! And it hurts deeply wen u cant count on ur mother.
ReplyDeleteFamily Members!!!!
ReplyDeleteGreedy Lot.
My family is no different!
Very ungrateful lot!
Smmmmhhh!
Stella and dear blog visitors, anyone who thinks Emmanuel is wrong is either not African or not successful! Is true that in most families...God lifts one up and the others take a lifelong holiday from hard work...someone ever told me "God made my hubby successful bcos of the entire family so y shud anyother person suffer"? Parents just Relaxing bcos their children are "successful"....iv worn that shoe with my few thousands n can imagine what some1 like him has faced! And it hurts deeply wen u cant count on ur mother.
ReplyDeleteMy mother will always tell me a parable that says "if your house does not sell you, the streets will not buy you". This is a typical example, his own house has put a price on him SMH. My brother don't hold anything against them please. Now that you have a child they are no longer as much of a responsibility. Save up for her future and leave them with whatever they have gotten so far.
ReplyDeleteGbam! 12:35.
DeleteADEBAYOR is happily married to a very georgous wife Charity, very very beautiful humble and they have a daughter. He is very faithful, no genevieve or whatsoever!!! The guy himself dey humble die, very very extremely generous!! I believ his story
ReplyDeleteTogo/Benin Republic people!! Wickedness.com
ReplyDeleteSome family are like that. Once you make it, they want you to leave for them only. If you try to marry a lady/wife, then ure done for. "Ara ile eni ko fe ka la, be ni won ko si fe ka ku".
ReplyDeleteGbam! Deji. The wife will become their rival. Some will not want their son or daughter to marry or if they marry, they won't have children. A woman decided to have her children in quick succession, because she married late. Her BIL told her she was doing it on purpose, so that his brother won't have time for them.I was seen as a rival by my in-laws because she wanted her son to train all her children and build a house for her. What I endured, the nonsense I swallowed, the shit I packed, only God knows. I was vindicated at last. He did all they wanted. I am having peace and enjoying my marriage after 12 years, then the youngest brother said he wanted to come and stay with us, because his place of work is far from home, I refused, my husband did not argue with me, because he saw their true color when he suffered a little financial set back before getting back on his feet. He told him to go and rent a room close to his work, and assisted him with part of the rent. These families will use you until nothing remains, when they have their own family, they will please and satisfy themselves first.
DeleteFrom what he wrote, he's mentally fit. There comes a time in someone's life when he/she pours out everything for people to see/hear.
ReplyDeleteSome people do not appreciate at all they believed you planted a tree that produces money in your backyard. He has done much for them just that some people are lazy.
If this guy announces his retirement from football now, everyone will adjust. God'll see you through, and make them no kill him.
That was how I suffered to build a house back home, I said my parents can stay in one of the flats whilst I rent out the other flats. Before I knew it they were claiming I built a house for them now I don't even know what to do. well I have decided to build another place for me and my family I can't fit shout.
ReplyDeleteHe must be tired of settling privately so he decided to settle publicly. Maybe now they will leave him be. It's annoying u know. And with family u can't discard unlike friends. Pele tie jare. Ogadinma.
ReplyDeleteA man's enemy are members of his household. Have you ever heard of household wickedness??? Mr Adebayor unfortunately that is what you are experiencing. My candid advice- cut contact with every one in your family yes that includes your mum, remember you came to this world alone and will also exit alone.
ReplyDeletePlease I know it is hard but if you were an orphan wouldn't you have survived?
They genuinely do not love you!!!