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On Thursday June 26,2014 Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo told me in an erxclusive
interview that she had ended her engagement to Norway based ex footballer Ato Ubby because of lies that she could no longer deal with..Infact,she said the union was a no win situation....she said it was not a traditional wedding but an introduction
The heavily pregnant actress who is presently in America to birth her baby was very bitter and says she made the mistake of her life.
Ato who is presently recovering from brain surgery read the interview and was very sad,his friends contacted me and gave me his number to call him and balance my report which they said maligned ''the character of a good man whose only mistake was falling in love...''
I called Ato who said he was recovering and not in the mood to talk and he sent a pic to prove it,he therefore referred me to his parents whom he said might want to talk.
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| Ato in hospital. |
After speaking with Uche's mother in law,she handed the phone to her husband who said ''we went to her village and paid the bride price and after that she was still bearing her fathers name,i dont know why she didnt change it..if she is saying now that she is not married then she has divorced herself..marriage is not by force.I am the father of Ato and i am telling you now that what she told you is a lie.
I am a servant of God and i cannot tell lies,if she is saying that ''she is not married that means she has rejected us.if she has problems with my son this is the wrong way to go about it but we leave it all to God.I am a veteran Journalist,thank you for balancing this story by calling us because we were shocked when people started calling us to say Uche has denied marrying our son.''
*Let God intervene and heal them....
Stella kuku dis is wat i knw u for.....uche uche hummmm
ReplyDeleteForget all these igbo girls that's how a friend got married and went to s.a came back with stories about the guy evil stories from one to another. Only for the guy to come back in December with different versions. Now for them to return the bride price coz the guy demanded for it.rather she's flirting up and down in same denial that she was never married wtf. Is their way.u can insult me like I care.
DeleteWomen?? Hmmm fear them. They tell lies more than lucifer himself. Am sure devil fears women more than anything. Some of them come here to lie against their husbands/bfs. My own wife cheated and I found out and ended the marriage, and the next I heard all over the place was that I was abusing her domestically. Funny enough gullible people believed her and were calling me all sorts of names until they heard what truly happened with evidence, then they started begging me to take her back. Fear women, they are really truly evil, ask adam, solomon,samson.
DeleteLadyEngland, a lot of ignorance oozing from ur comment. Ones personal decision/character shouldn't be attributed to his/her tribe/religion or whatsoever. U & ur likes in this blog should grow up, it's so annoying reading comments like this from grown ups.
DeleteThis guy get wetin dey do am. Could be akwukwu and e no quick talk. I don't blame Uche. She wears the shoe and knows the fit. It's better to leave an uncomfortable situation, married, engaged or paid bride price situation than to live in regret because it will turn to hatred and that's very unhealthy. Life is too short but if you make the wrong decision, your life will be sooooooo long and miserable. Correct it while you can. What ever her reasons are, good luck to her.
DeleteI Se u bitter about ur lifestyle already much foolishness
DeleteLike I commented on ur earlier post about Uche's interview, Stella I wrote that a story is never complete until u've heard from both sides......so now whatever happens, I pray Uche & Ato sort their issues or both go their separate ways, whatever their decision, it's none of my business! Btw, get well soon Ato.
DeleteLady England you just exposed ur low mentality!attributing a personal xter to tribe ..............oya change ur name to England's idiot...............
DeleteAs 4Uche and Ato ............resolve ur Ish.......
@stel,keep up the good work and say hi 2ur cute son!(my might-be son In-law)
#ok bye
#idontrlycarewatusay2me
LadyEngland thanks for ur comment our ladies blame everything on men as if they are better. Yes our igbo women are soo useless no need to curse u anyone who curse will receive the curse 7 fold more. They are notting to write home about nowadays, most of them are good threathing their men. When you even read their comment s on this blog u begin to wonder. Anonymous thank God for ur life ohh Run away from her.
DeleteNa realest wah o!!!
ReplyDeleteThat's why it's not good to judge a one sided story!
I'm basically speechless at this point!
If they actually paid her bride price, den she is married and now separated. Probably the guy is now bankrupt owing to the brain surgery and she doesn't know to cope with that and any future relapse that might occur to the guy. Either way it is, the earlier the whole ish is sorted out - the better for them.
DeleteBarbie, the fear of monitoring spirits is the beginning of wisdom. You privatised your profile sharp sharp. Lmao!
DeleteNgozi Non Braide
Hmmm I believe the lady must have a cogent reason for backing out. Cannot tell just yet, so not to pass a biased judgement to avoid sounding an irascible feminist.
DeleteA God fearing n sensible woman won't back out of a marriage when her husband is on a sick bed not to mention the fact dt she's even carrying his baby no matter what! She must b mean!
DeleteUche please make up with this man,and Uche I know u well u are a nice girl, please my dear,your in laws never said anything bad of u,please make up,alot of hungry desperate girls would want to take ur position
ReplyDeleteTake whose position kwa? Man with brain damage? Hian! Maybe d man no tell am say he get health issues and probably is in debt and all, maybe na why she no wan do again. Abeg with this picture, uche get the man all to herself hare.
DeleteAnonymous 10.32 u are as useless as ur comment. What do u mean by brain damage? Thats a careless statement.
DeleteAnony 10:32,that's a sad thing to say about a child of God!do u know ur tomorrow?u case might just be worse than his....humans sha!#sobs
DeleteAnon 10:32, pls try and triple check what's in ur mind before u finally comment.....cos what u just wrote abt ur fellow human being is very rude & harsh! May God have mercy.
DeleteAnon 11:12am: I am not the cause of your family problem. If u come from a useless family, that's your problem. Didn't u read where they said he just had a brain surgery? Did I manufacture the story? Warm yourself o and keep your useless comment for you and your useless people..Be warned! Oloshi!
Delete@diamondkay; I don't know about you o but my tomorrow will be better and brighter than my today. That is my confession and so shall it be. U people just like to dey do hypocrisy. . Someone they said na 419 he dey do? U know if na karma catch up with am? Shior
DeleteChur mma, abegi!... comment your own and waka. My opinion, write your own opinion and go.. Wetin concern you with my comment? Do you know what I know?
DeleteI know why I made that comment, so all of una should shut up and mind your business! Y'all be coming here to form child of God. I bet I have the cleanest heart if we are all put together. Awon alainikanse, pretenders oshii
DeleteNo body is forming child of God even if he was doing 419 uche spent the money too no matter the issue they av uche should atleast not leave him now not to mention the fact dt she was married to him n carrying his baby, it was sweet while it lasted, she should let him recover before she breaks away.... Fear God now
DeleteAya anon 12:22pm, go force Uche back to his house na.. The girl say she no do again! A bi marriage na by force???? Make she go die put for serial husband house?? She no do, she no do again. Make everybody carry face mind their business.. hian!
DeleteNa wa oh.
ReplyDeleteI dont even know who to feel sorry for now. Is it the lady who is about to be a single mom? Or the denied husband who is now recovering from brian surgery? Or the poor parent in laws who Uche should have gone to if there were any issues and challenges before deciding all by herself to divorce him.
This is a real life telemondo. I am confused and feel so sad for all involved. Pity the poor baby brought into all the wahala
Hian!!!!akuko na egwu ooooo...all these celebrities and thr life style shaa
ReplyDeleteI now gerrit....the guy sick, the chic wan take style apply osondu....Uche Dariz is God ooo..its well
ReplyDeleteYou see why it's always good to hear from both sides before passing judgment of condemning one party? Who is Lying? Who is telling the truth?
ReplyDeleteSeeing the guys picture just made me feel bad for abusing him in my mind. Whatever it is they should sort it out please. For the the sake of the baby
Well ur abuse will ckme back to u as most of u always think men are useless and can talk trash.
DeleteOsheyyy Assisant Jesus.
Delete@ assistant jesus lmao
DeleteLmao @assistant jesus
DeleteAhhhh
ReplyDeleteWhat's all dis
Feeling sorry for the guy and why is uche denying them,there is more to dis
Www.omosarah.com
So sad dou,but she would have seen something terrible ahead and is not ready to gamble her future dats why she backed out now,shes a strong woman jare,i respect her!marriage is not a child's play,so many factors involved.i hope it's something they can settle amicably sha,else payment of dowry is not a death sentence,her family can return the dowry and free the woman.
ReplyDeleteAll she can see is the guy is broke am sure and she can't cope. What she expected to see is not what she is seeing. No cash.
DeleteBiko who is separating traditional marriage from bride price? Do you think trad.marriage is when you put up canopy,call musicians, wear asoebi and co? Before in imo state, de never used to do all these ceremonyto marry wives, its more or less a borrowed culture. So pls once bride price has been paid ona woman's head, she is traditionally married. All other ceremonies are mere formalities of 'come follow me chop and celebrate". The only saving grace is that you an refund it back if you no wan do again.
DeleteThank u for informing them.
DeleteYes, you are right anon 12:24
DeleteOnce the bride price is paid, a woman is traditionally married. The whole canopy and crowd thing is just a way of letting the world know about the union.... UCHE should not have lied that it was merely an engagement.
the only crime that guy committed is not letting her know on time, that she wont be taking selfie and living large like Adaeze Yobo and Stephnie Uche.
Paying her bride price does not mean they were fully married. I can even call off marriage after traditional mrg has been done cos its better than seein fire and putting ur hands in it. Meanwhile, Stella, stop digging for more stories. Both parties re clearly unstable now. Let the man recuperate and let Uche put the bed. The rest of the gist can com out after that
ReplyDeletePaying ones bride prize in Igbo land means you are very much married...infact,99%....you can do your white wedding or court if you wish...
Deletenot only igbo.in benin you are married already. forget court and church
DeleteIf it is 99%, wats d need for traditional and white wedding? If u no do white wedding for my area sef, e go be lik say them no even pay ur bride price.
DeleteMy mum's friend returned her daughter's bride price thru Ministry of Women Affairs in our state. I also kno a few othr ppl dt stall mrg plans aftr bride price has been paid. Its very easy for a girl to remarry wen just bride price was paid, compared to wen traditional, white, and court wedding has all taken place. Many ppl dnt start livin together til after wedding. That's why I said she wasn't fully married. But that's ur opinion anyway
DeletePaying ur bride price in bonny rivers state means u're a married woman! Church and court is formality
DeleteGbagam. You are on
Deletepoint
What are u saying Lyndy Nk?is bride price not traditional wedding?why are u arguing blindly?na wa for some people sha! I'm Isoko btw, traditional wedding day is the day the bride price is paid in my area.
DeleteLyndy,paying one's bride price means married in 'virtually' all d tribes in Nigeria. Civilization brought all ds white wedding,court wedding. Would u rather be married without trad?
DeleteNevertheless,Uche knws wat she saw to av called off whatever they had between them bt I think she shld av waited till Ato comes out of surgery
Biko who is separating traditional marriage from bride price? Do you think trad.marriage is when you put up canopy,call musicians, wear asoebi and co? Before in imo state, de never used to do all these ceremonyto marry wives, its more or less a borrowed culture. So pls once bride price has been paid ona woman's head, she is traditionally married. All other ceremonies are mere formalities of 'come follow me chop and celebrate". The only saving grace is that you an refund it back if you no wan do again.
DeleteLyndy,paying one's bride price means married in 'virtually' all d tribes in Nigeria. Civilization brought all ds white wedding,court wedding. Would u rather be married without trad?
DeleteNevertheless,Uche knws wat she saw to av called off whatever they had between them bt I think she shld av waited till Ato comes out of surgery
Uche obviously didn't come clean in your interview with her,but I can't blame her,society is too judgemental. I pray God intervenes. They've got a baby on the way and they have to think about him/her. I heard yesterday that a friend of my husband's got separated from his wife after ten years of marriage and two boys. I knew they were having problems but couldn't imagine in my dreams it would lead to separation. I'm still shocked. May God touch every distressed marriage in Jesus' name.
ReplyDeleteLemme commend your efforts first and foremost. You keep it real all the time Mrs Dimoko. You should be proud of yourself. Lol.
ReplyDeleteUche had everyone sympathising with her, now its Ato's turn to gain sympathy.
No comment yet. Quick recovery Ato
Amen...it is well
ReplyDeleteI think I can deduce the truth from this whole thing
ReplyDeleteHaba.....see as stories are unfolding oooo....me I no get time for her matter jare I don't even understand nor know the marital rites in igbo land so can't contribute....but all I know is they should kindly settle their differences out of our faces and peacefully too.
ReplyDeleteOturugbege e don land. Will still want to hear from Ato himself when he recovers.
ReplyDeleteGbam! oku aputa nu!
ReplyDeleteUcheeeee! come and defend what you told us oh!
what exactly happened?
why is Atoo in the hospital?
u don break bottle for im head?
u see, audi alterem partem.
ucheeee! hope u are not lying to me o! u know I like you? why did you run away from ur engagement/bride price paid engagement?
Anyhoo, if she no want again, Ato u guys should let her go.
It is not by force just as the father has said. but this leaves me to think that she may not be satisfied by some things she thought the guy was and hence....
Bloglord are u a lawyer?
DeleteNa wah ohh...
ReplyDeleteI suspected that her bride prize was paid from that picture you posted....I wonder why she lied about it coz in Igbo land,once your bride prize is paid,you are legally married by tradition....
Maybe she does not want to change her name yet coz she has done her white wedding....
Uche need serious prayers coz she is always having problems with men that wants to marry her....
Ato,get well soon and tell us your own side of the story...
I know Uche as a very good,humble,God fearing,homely girl...
And am hearing that this Ato dosent have a job infact na 419 he dey do for obodo oyibo....
You know too much about people. Who are you linda Eze? Am sure this is not ur real name.Pls we need to see ur birthday pic in the next 24hours.
DeleteLinda love good morning, Uche "NEEDS" not NEED. Again, Men that "WANT" to marry her not "WANTS". Luv you silly Aunty Linda. Mhuaaa
DeleteLinda eze is her real name.dats wht she bears in her intl passport.I hv met her b4
DeleteLol first anonymous,Linda Eze is my real name ohh...people that knows me very well visit this blog and they can attest to that...
DeleteAm a very private coded person...I don't keep close friends maybe that's why they have not said shit about me....
Linda will neva send her pictures here.I have warned her nd she will not dare it.most of u here telling her 2 send her pictures is as anonymous as I am.maybe stella nd some of u here should send urs first b4 linda.her bday is 2morrw nd she will nt send any pix.thnx!
DeleteLol first anonymous,Linda Eze is my real name ohh...people that knows me very well visit this blog and they can attest to that...
DeleteAm a very private coded person...I don't keep close friends maybe that's why they have not said shit about me....
Linda eze is her real name.dats wht she bears in her intl passport.I hv met her b4
DeleteAwww, I feel bad for the guy after I heard it was a brain surgery. Get well soon Ato.
ReplyDeleteI've got a question to ask tho,going by the way our actresses are and their notorious runz activities...
Could it be the guy is not as rich as he claimed or as she thought he was?
Anyway, may they all find comfort and seek God's face.
May be o
DeleteStella, I am weak, the poor guy probably is not in the mood to talk cuz as it is his health is priority.
ReplyDeletePeople opt out of marriage for flimsy reasons.
What happened to trying to make it work!
I think she just wanted a baby, never wanted to get married or stay married.
Uche, Uche, Uche fear God oh, if it is about money, all that glitters is not Gold.
Something is obviously wrong with the union. If she insist on divorce, then she should at least have the decency to wait for him to recover from surgery.
ReplyDeleteUr comment is soo sensible!
DeleteGbam anon10.45
DeleteThere's a difference between paying brideprice and getting married officially...They are only legally maried if it was a church/court wedding
ReplyDeletePeople break up after trad marriage sef
That brideprice can easily be returned.
How can a woman change her surname after only her brideprice was paid
Nawa oo
Madam after traditional marriage u're a married woman, no church will marry u if u've not done ur trad that shows how important it is. So it's d main thing
DeleteI know of cases where the brideprice was returned
DeleteI know of a couple that called off there chuch wedding after the trad
I am igbo and I've seen these things happen....its not even a big deal,once the money is returned,the marriage is over
No long divorce process
Lol luk at dis dumb ass. Don't people break up even after church/court wedding? People just like to defend d indefensible. Pls to cut a long story short Uche is dis guy's wife. No pity party can tk away dat fact. Inukwa. Gosh!
DeleteChristabel and co, no you can't deduce anything because his side is just that...his side. The only people that know the truth are both parties. Y'all should allow the lady. When a woman opts out of a marriage with a baby, I always know something big is behind it. How many of you here want the stress of single motherhood? None unless push came to shove right? So please allow these two to get on with their lives. Somebody will come on here and talk bout what she doesn't know.
ReplyDeleteYes yes yes, I can deduce from both sides what really transpired but then again its none of my business
Deletestelakuko! u see why u are distinguished as a true blognalist?
ReplyDeleteYou present the meal on two plates and leave us to taste for conclusion
Shut up. Famzer oshi
DeleteThe same thing you said to Linda Ikeji just before youwon theNokia Asha she was giving away..nne your 2face no be here!I throway salute for you.
DeleteLolokikikikiki
DeleteStella, Stella. I think you practice your journalism with a shovel. You sure know how to dig to the root of the matter. Now we have a balanced story.
ReplyDeleteWaiting to hear what Uche will say next.
This was why I reserved my comment in the first publication. I think Igbos do not celebrate introduction like the Yorubas. The traditional wedding is usually to pay bride price. I hope it has nothing to do with his health. However, I pray for his healing and God's intervention in their marriage. Rose
ReplyDeleteMy dear in igbo land, there is a diff between introduction & traditional marriage. In introduction, d bride price is not paid, it's mainly for d 2 families to know each other, & for their intentions to be known, & to know if d family of d bride agrees/not. If they agree, then d traditional marriage 'll commence on agreed date, & that's when d bride price 'll be paid. So if her pride price was paid, it means there was a marriage & therefore she's married.
DeleteSHe found out he had cancer not long after the bride price was paid and selfishly backed out.....
ReplyDeleteThis reason sounds true to me but why did he not tell her he had cancer before the marriage???
Delete@ anon 10.57AM Are u sure of dis ur write up, no sane woman will back out in such condition..
DeleteGod please restore Ato's health n grant uche safe delivery. Amen.
Ahhhh Ahhhh!
ReplyDeleteEvn though bride price na evidence of marriage bur abeg na customary marriage be dat 1& to me it dosnt hold water ra ra.. why wud she change ha name cos dey paid bride price? e be like the bobo get plans of takin other wives.. Bcos dats d effect of payin jes bride price on a woman's head..mbok d guy's Parnts shud goan nyash dwn jare..her parents shud return d bride price if dia daughter say she no marry again.. Btw Get well soon Ato!
ReplyDeleteQuick recovery ato
ReplyDeleteThis is going to get dirty
I pray none of them get depressed
who dash me lawyer?
ReplyDeleteMaybe I should try becoming a charge and bail. lol
if he has cancer and they are truly in love, she wouldn't opt out just like that. there is more....
ReplyDeleteHuhhhhh u are so irritating. U can't comment once???
DeleteHeeya! Poor Ato. Get well soon.
ReplyDeleteok! both parties are not in the mood to talk.
ReplyDeleteTo-be-husband is recuperating, Was- to be-wife is almost at the point of delivery, she needs no hypentension.
Blognalist-S to D K, lets adjourn this case till both defendant and plaintiff are fit and in good shape to come forth to tell this honourable Blog what actually transpired.
(Stella oya hit garvel now...ah!)
Blogggggg!
Stella this blord person must be a loner and thinks she's funny or so. Like seriously. See how many times she's made her useless submissions under one post? Get a damn life biko. Dry as crack
DeleteOh! Shut up! If the above is noy funny to you, that's fine. Some of us find it funny so cock it. You must be a crack addict that's why you have asked someone to get a "damn life" - or perhaps like many Nigerians you use words without FIRST understanding them.
DeleteSo many ups n down already...Lord help we d singles nt t make mistake of a lifetime as ds. Anyways get well soon Ato.
ReplyDelete*hypertension
ReplyDeleteAlways running around, the ogbanje wey dey their body no go let them settle down
ReplyDeleteBride price or no bride price, uche knew y she left. In fact she would have packed up d marriage 3 days after d event if nt for d love she has for her in laws. Dey begged her to stay n she listened for a while bt d harassment became unbearable. Every gal in Enugu was promised marriage by Ato. Infact his second name is Ato I go marry lmsao. See uche with enough enemies already on her own inheriting more cos of her marriage to Ato. D threat follows. She had to think fast cos by den she was thinking for 2 already. Uche is nt my person bt she really wanted dis marriage to work to shut up pple like me so for d fact she left speaks volume. Cheers
ReplyDeleteMany pple talk as if they lack good education. Both traditional and statutory weddings are recognized in Nigeria. Anyone is conclusive. You may decide to add statutory wedding after your traditional, that's your cup of tea. If a man that married you before the pope wants, he will get a second or even multiple wives. Just don't get silly and know it that Uche is a fat liar, maybe her pregnancy symptom is lying. Igbos don't do introduction like Yorubas do we do "ime Ego" "igba nkwu" and add statutory (church or court) bt the first 2 are usually done once. The only intoduction done in Igbo land is were the boy takes the girl to his house to meet his pple. The inlaws may never meet till the "ime ego" or "igba nkwu". Uche give birth and go for confession cos you told a fat lie.
ReplyDeleteNwanne, you fail am.
DeleteWe do "iku aka" which is introduction. So yes, Igbos do introduction.
After iku aka, then ime ego. The igba nkwu is optional. The ime ego and igba nkwu can be done same day. Some even do iku aka and ime ego the same day.
This gist is getting twisted. At this point na siddon dey look I dey.
@bloglord; It's either u r a lawyer, a court registrar or a court bailiff cos U seem to knw much of the terms...But dats none of my business tho..
ReplyDeleteShe could just be someone who is smart or reads wide.
DeleteChai what do i say now that this matter is on another level? Both party should just sought things out when they are in a better mood.
ReplyDeleteI wish both parties well and pray that they find peace in whatever decision they take.
ReplyDeletelol @ kandyposh.
ReplyDeleteLaw is far from my jurisdiction.
I am none of those.
The issue of change of name should never lead to any trouble because my sister in law did the same this,that after 3 years of marriage,she maintained her maiden name (no compound name either)but i called her and corrected her,evn though her husband (my brother)was indifferent about it,and she changed it reluntantly but i could care less.In this case there is more to everything,i think for the lady to have made up our mind to give birth without the help of her inlaw is a very strong thing to do,lets pray for strenght for her,and healing for the husband/the man.God will intervene and heal every broken heart
ReplyDeleteSo serious! For Uche 2 have made d decision of ending d marriage means dere is more 2 it dan we could see. I guess we should just let her be
ReplyDeleteUCHE what is ur plan to divorce him now because of his health runs girl.
ReplyDeleteUCHE what is ur plan to divorce him now because of his health runs girl.
ReplyDeleteGet well soon Ato! Safe delivery Uche...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteUche is not a proud person. But she did not do proper investigation abt the guy bc she saw yankee husband without knowing that all that glitters are not gold. I wish you safe delievery and ato quick recorvery.
ReplyDeleteUche is not a proud person and any contractual relationship on deceit always end this way, But she did not do proper investigation abt the guy bc she saw yankee husband without knowing that all that glitters are not gold. I wish you safe delievery and Ato quick recorvery.
ReplyDeleteGreat lesson leant! Always hear from both sides before you judge! Uche i am disappointed in you, WHY? Because no matter what you should have stood by that man until he is well enough.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWow!!!! This is madness… People just open their mouth and say all sorts of rubbish and believe them too. This new post just got me so angry that I just have to say something. I KNOW UCHE VERY WELL, I KNEW WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP ALL STARTED AND AS AN INSIDER, IT’S TIME TO POINT OUT A FEW THINGS THAT’S WRONG IN THIS POST.
ReplyDelete1st this picture of him in the hospital is as old as last year December, so how can he say he is not in the mood to talk if he has nothing to hide? And then passes it on to his old parents to speak for him. Stella, if you were so keen on getting his story, why didn’t you pay him a visit in person?
2nd his parents try to say that they never knew about her intentions to move on, making people think she made her decisions without letting them know. Why did they refuse to take a refund of what they paid when it was offered to them? NA BY FORCE TO STAY MARRIED TO UNA SON WHEN A LADY SEES HELL AND SAD LIFE INFRONT OF HER?
3RD This guy is a pack of lies walking around tricking loads of gals in Enugu State. He just proved himself again by trying to make people believe he is still in the hospital with an old pic.
4th even “if” he is as ill as he says he is, why has he not made any effort through his family to make sure his unborn baby is fine and will be fine? No one from his family has been of help to Uche through this pregnancy, she did it and is doing it all on her own.
NO ONE IS PERFECT, SO ALL OF YOU THROWING JUDGEMENTS AROUND AT UCHE… CHECK YOURSELVES AGAIN. SHE HAS TRIED SO MUCH NOT TO SAY BAD THINGS ABOUT THIS GUY AND IS STILL NOT GOING TO DO SO, SHE JUST WANTS TO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT SHE IS MOVING ON WITH HER LIFE WITHOUT THIS MAN.
Ato are u a serial liar? 042 babes show!
Deletethis guy in question dont deserve Uche ooooo, at first i thought uche was desperate to wanna marry him. am sure she not making a mistake here.
ReplyDeleteWhether customary marriage or statutory marriage, if a man has decided to take another wife,in Nigeria, the highest you will do as a woman is walk out of the marriage with only your personal belongings and nothing more.
ReplyDeletenawa ooo, no be enugu we dey again? this guy no dey hospital as we dey yarn so. person dey lie ooh
ReplyDeleteBut why? why uche come hook up with this kian man sef?
ReplyDeleteAbeg Aunty Stella, the story pass wetin this guy dey talk o. This picture is almost 8 months old. Make the parents talk true too. I can't blame you and others for believing what you do but people...if you were Uche, you would carry your leg and stay far away. Uche did not look well but now she is backtracking for the sake of her and her child. There is no work it out here, at all. Take it from me.
ReplyDeleteGod bless y'all. Single ladies and guys, be looking well please.
Am on sdk blog now. deal with it!
ReplyDeleteStella telling you that i know ato very well. He is a serial husband!
ReplyDeleteWho doesn't know him in Enugu?
Im sure he has properly married two women , Uche is the third wife , that's from the ones i know o!
I just pity poor Uche who didn't investigate the guy very well. She is an Enugu babe and so is the guy so she should have asked questions.
His parents are just protecting their child . They know how Uche tried to save the marriage even after finding out that the guy deceived her.
The thing is that i couldn't hold myself from letting you know and this is because i know Ato very well. Right now he is with his oyibo wife and they have kids together. So does the other babe he married two years ago. Infact this their gist tire me but Uche doesn't deserve what they are doing to her.
I learnt she even begged them to support her until she gives birth but the guy warned them not to talk to her again because of his oyibo wife.
Ato and his man of God father should fear God and stop painting another persons daughter black. They know the truth about their son. Afterall na them carry him go pay bride price for the other girl head.
Nawaooh...Tory Don worwor..chaii
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ReplyDeleteNa waa o. I said It! Uche had a reason.
ReplyDeleteOMG! See revelation!
ReplyDeleteUche nne biko stay strong! I know u are going thru so much right now but shun all criticisms and stay happy....do whatever makes u happy(hobbies etc) till u get over this shock. There are women who have been thru worse. Women contracting incurable stds by their husbands, staying married and investing more and having more kids for a lying deceitful hubby or worse getting killed in messy love webs. I know its hard right now but believe me, a year from now it will be like nothing to u. U will just look back and smile. See that child as a blessing despite who the father is. Let her be ur light and joy. Sometimes,the worst situations produce blessings in disguise. Nne u are not and will not be the only single mother in this world or Nigeria. Its better for people to run their mouths now and forget this gist in about a month when another hot gist takes over, than u staying in that horrible marriage and putting up a front just to prove naysayers wrong. I commend you for walking. Remember; THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
We hear breaking news on this blog everyday but ask me the ones published last month and i don't remember because people forget!
Good luck with everything and stay strong!
Those on this blog that claim paying bride price doesn't amount to being married are those that have never been to their home town or have gone once or twice and know nothing of their culture. They are the ones that have lived in lagos all their life. Why church/court union is happening now is due to the law of the land where some foreign institutions only accept white weddings as means of getting married.
ReplyDeleteAto didnt say that was a recent pic,he told me he had been operated on and could not talk and said he was still recovering from the OP he had in december so i asked for the pic,he sent me his recent pic as well and he still had a plaster over the wound.
ReplyDeleteMaybe i didnt explain well,he didnt say it was a recent pic,he indicated the pic was taken after the operation.