Ese Walters married her boo Benny ark on the morning after Valentine 2014 in a court registry....great news right?
I decided to get an Exclusive Interview with Ese,the lady tagged as ''COZA Whistle blower'' ....I wanted to know how life was with her after the sexual can of worms she opened on COZA's pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo
I told her i wanted to ask one question,especially as i sensed she felt i was going to bombard her with questions and didnt want to do it..lol
I eventually did the 'Hamburger trick' on her...I asked her three questions as one..LMAO.
Enjoy the Exclusive Interview.
-Ese you look brand new,how is the Ese of last year different from this brand new Ese?..what happened to you? how does it feel like being married to Benny?
You say I look brand new and you are right. I feel brand new too. I think I am different from 2013 because I have been on a path of growth.
In August 2013 when I blogged about the affair that went viral, I was in a difficult place. Difficult because I had lots of thoughts in my head that was stopping me from making meaningful progress in my life especially in the area of my faith.
I was confused, kind of lost and sick and tired of myself. I felt my journey was getting complicated and there was no one to talk to. The people whom I trusted with my deepest worries had let me down and turned it to gossip.
My relationship was suffering because i had trust issues and it was affecting everything.
The blog led to a sort of breakdown that brought about a breakthrough for me.
Suddenly, all the bad things that could happen were happening at the same time. It felt as though it was the end. And indeed it was. The Ese I had been for nearly three decades died, literally.
When you have gotten to the lowest of the low, the only choice left is to get back up. So, I started to build again. I left the Country for a month to get some sanity. In that time, I read a lot, prayed a lot more and stayed off the internet as much as I could. It was a sort of mental detox for me.
By the time I got back, I was in a different head space. Somehow I didn't care too much what people thought or said about me. I was a bit clearer where I wanted to go with work and what I believe to be my purpose.
I found a new focus for my energy and spent a lot of time writing, planning, thinking, implementing and loving myself. The Ese of 2014 is a lot more focused than any other year before now. I am deeply driven and have huge dreams that push me out of bed every morning as well as define where I spend my energy and the things I ignore completely.
Most importantly, I am developing my relationship with God. I enjoy a certain level of peace that I believe radiates through me and affects everything I come in contact with.
As for my wedding to my best friend coming up in March, I am deeply satisfied with my decision to spend my life with him. We had our marriage registry on February 15th and look forward to the other celebrations of marriage that will follow shortly.
I am looking forward to this new phase and to sharing my journey with someone who believes in me more than anyone I have ever known.
*Wow,this is deep!
Lol, Nnwa babe carry go! Nothing me ga!
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a journey and I wish you a peaceful one. For me, no marriage! It takes a lot to share your life with someone and I don't have what it takes.
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: she is so a courageous lady. Despite all her revelations she is now married. God bless her union.
DeleteThat awkward moment when u meet beauty and brains...u are indeed beautiful Ese. Beautiful here means who u are when u close ur legs and open ur mouth. Ese i give it 2 u gul. U r so calculated, calm, intelligent, out spoken, wicked sense of humor and confident of ur self. U know exactly who u are,what u want and where u are going. #fillls my glass with white red. Here's to all the strong ladies like Ese. May nothing bring us dwn in life. May we never give up even to our darkest times...Cheers!
Deleteu slept wt a pastor wt ur ''koro-koro'' eyes opend
DeleteShut it up already
@Galore AKA pastor Coza Voltron
will u shut that hole in your face!!!
DeleteKai @Galore ohhhhh. If God can forgive her, why can't you for once forgive her? So what about the pastor that slept with her severally? Without considering his position in the church as a man of god void of inequities, why can't you judge him aswell.
DeleteAfter Collecting the D, Well Congrats
ReplyDeleteCongrats Ese!!
ReplyDeletePastors Beware!!
telz dem jawey! Wtf! Dis babe meks me fink of wat i used my father's moni 4 wyl i was in sch!.
DeleteANONY ON POINT
The girl is so intelligent I can't fault her at all.
ReplyDeleteI wish u d best in ur marriage and pls forget all these naysayers.
They gat nuffin on u bae...
Mmmwwwhhaaa!!
Time will tell, Ese is very smart, ask her friend. She can never change she can't close her legs.
DeleteHer Morals are questionable. Ese Walter is not a good Woman. A combination of JEZEBEL, DELILAH and QUEEN SHEBA, best describes her. Ese is dangerous, unforgiving, vindictive, intelligent, desperate and sexy. She will definitely outsmart Benny Boy. What a pathetic Union !
DeleteHer Morals are questionable. Ese Walter is not a good Woman. A combination of JEZEBEL, DELILAH and QUEEN SHEBA, best describes her. Ese is dangerous, unforgiving, vindictive, intelligent, desperate and sexy. She will definitely outsmart Benny Boy. What a pathetic Union !
DeleteAwwwww.Ese you are such a strong person. God bless your union jare.
ReplyDeleteCeeCee
I love this phrase - when you have gotten to the lowest of the low, the only thing left is to get back up...
ReplyDeleteAll the best, Ese.
Oluyomi Odukoya
Go girl...u won.
ReplyDeleteContinue in that path.
I wish you both a happy married life.
Yes indeed she won! I love her. Wish you all the best darl
DeleteShe won ?! Indeed !
DeleteI am happy for you. You are a strong woman.
ReplyDeleteLucky girl!
ReplyDeleteTold u guys i saw some sdkers yesterday, i tried posting it on d Tiwa Savage post but i didnt see it. I ll try again later, correct gist dey!
Haney
happy for her she deserves to be happy......stella dont bring her stories here everyday for people to start getting irritated with her......i also pray she will stop granting interviews too cos bloggers and the media are hawks who will use people for all kinds of attention......
ReplyDeleteShe is enjoying the attention. Pls let her remember that what goes around comes around.
DeleteOh most definitely ! What goes around, must surely come around ! And hers, will be a DOUBLE PORTION ! A smarter, more sexy, more beautiful, more intelligent, and a much more younger Daughter of Eve, will pay her a visit. She will cause Ese, soooo much Agony, Ache, Pain, Emotional Turmoil, Shame, that she, Ese Walter, will wish she was never born. The affair will be public ! The Shame will plunge her into deep depression. If she handles it well, the end will not be Tragic. Ese Walter can never run from Karma ! NEVER !
DeleteEse may GOD bless you, and countinue to direct your path.
ReplyDeleteI've always had a strong admiration for this lady, from the moment of the scandal till date. This marriage is like a tongue out to all those naysayers and detractors. Those bladdy fools who pointed fingers at her while praising a PASTOR who was caught up in a sex scandal. I'm so happy for Ese because from what felt like the end of the world for her came growth, development, opportunities and favour. Go girl! HML.
ReplyDeleteGood thing no get two names. Something wey good, good. Ese is an intelligent Babe. You could see that from the way she writes. Strong opinionated africa woman. rare specie if you ask me. Benny has definately found a good thing !!!!!
ReplyDeleteNa true. Let wait and see.
DeleteBenny will be her Karma ! You guys lack depth and deep understanding. Shallow idiots ! A whole lot of you, are FOOLS. Benny married a Curse ! But, HE IS HER KARMA ! Watch and see. Hopefully, we will all be alive when KARMA strikes ESE WALTER ! In a year, two, ten, fifteen perhaps ? But KARMA, must surely come !
DeleteKarma's child! We have heard you! Seems u believe in karma more than God sef and you're soooooo pained by this girl's existence that you could literally fall down and die if 'karma' doesn't come calling.
DeleteSomeone has made peace with God and you're having a miniature stroke over it.
Get out of Ese's rear view mirror and get a move on.
Haven't seen a chic sound this intelligible in a very long time.
Congrats Ese
Conqratz Ese. HmL
ReplyDeleteAll the best Ese, God bless your union.
ReplyDeleteEse you are bless , enjoy your new found love . Sweet girl
ReplyDeleteShe is an intelligent woman. God bless you dear. Rose
ReplyDeleteIt isn't easy babe, spot on cos God is ur strenght.
ReplyDeleteAnother level of peace...congrats girl...u are a strong woman...we need more of u in dis world...
ReplyDeleteEverything nozi unto another level of thingss.....issokay
DeleteI see a very intelligent woman here. Keep going higher and let the past remain were it belongs
ReplyDeleteabeg its walter
ReplyDeleteOyinbo po.
ReplyDeleteHow i love this girl, always very simple in her English. I new it that people you trusted let you down and turned all you told them to gossip and as a brave girl you are you helped them spread the word. God bless you and your hubby he is the real man.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless you Ese! you are a strong woman.
ReplyDeleteStella I've been waiting for you to share pictures of abuja Big girl Alice Jackson who married Charles Orie last weekend in Uyo.
ReplyDeleteI wish you all the best Ese.
Nne ehn, dat gist is seriously hawtt!!! D wedding was off the hook plus its his 3rd marriage.
DeleteVery deep stella
ReplyDeleteI'm very happy for this lady
I wish ha d best
Haters can go suck cow dick
Wishing Ese all the best in her next step in life ...... Continue keeping the faith in God, he never fails . The world might fail u but God never does
ReplyDeleteGlow more girl.They got nothing on you.
ReplyDeleteSomebody dat opened her eyes and fucked someone's husband koro koro. D only thing I wanna hear from dis trashy girl is "I'm sorry for my actions, please forgive me". She's not a hero as u guys r making her out to be. She went publc on dat affair with d pastor bc she's scorned. Can't u people see dat? . If d pastor still dey shag am she 4 no talk. As to her marriage, I cant ever forget d law of sowing amd reaping. As u mk ur bed so u will lie on
ReplyDeleteit. And let me tell u, d easiest part of marriage is d wedding.
Oh STFU! She should apologise for what? Your pastor should be the one apologising to her, his wife and congregation. Gullible mumu. Whom the Lord has blessed do not curse.
DeleteCeeCee
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
Delete@ anon 2:31, I don't know where people place thr morals this days. Am with you on this. God is watching us on 3D. But wait ooh if what she did is all right in its self why all this drama na?
Delete@Anon 2:31pm..... I am also with you on this. Most of the Peeps here, are a hopeless lot ! Shallow, dumb, and totally stupid ! ESE WALTER is now Celebrated ?! Is she now a Role Model ?! Jeeeeezzzzzz ! Are you all retarded ? Can you not see or think ? She was scorned ! That was why she went public ! The vindinctive, desperate, scorned Jezebel, unleashed Hell, in fury ! She is not the Victim here ! We do not even know the real story. The Pastor may, or may not have. Perhaps, it was a near miss. He almost did. So, he can't deny or accept. Men of God are human too. They make mistakes. JESUS said, to look unto Him, as the author an finisher of our Faith, and not the Pastors ! Please cut Pastor Biodun some slack ! Delilahs' like ESE WALTER, seduce Pastors, and lure them to commit sexual Sin. Do not get me wrong. Both parties share the guilt, equally. So, to crucify one, and leave the other, is most definitely unfair ! It was a mutual affair. She was not forced, raped or blackmailed into it. I bet she looked forward to the shindigs every night. So, why cry Wolf when it was over ? And for the records, I am not a member of COZA. I never knew the Church till the 'ESE WALTER SAGA'.
Delete@Anon 2:31pm..... I am also with you on this. Most of the Peeps here, are a hopeless lot ! Shallow, dumb, and totally stupid ! ESE WALTER is now Celebrated ?! Is she now a Role Model ?! Jeeeeezzzzzz ! Are you all retarded ? Can you not see or think ? She was scorned ! That was why she went public ! The vindinctive, desperate, scorned Jezebel, unleashed Hell, in fury ! She is not the Victim here ! We do not even know the real story. The Pastor may, or may not have. Perhaps, it was a near miss. He almost did. So, he can't deny or accept. Men of God are human too. They make mistakes. JESUS said, to look unto Him, as the author an finisher of our Faith, and not the Pastors ! Please cut Pastor Biodun some slack ! Delilahs' like ESE WALTER, seduce Pastors, and lure them to commit sexual Sin. Do not get me wrong. Both parties share the guilt, equally. So, to crucify one, and leave the other, is most definitely unfair ! It was a mutual affair. She was not forced, raped or blackmailed into it. I bet she looked forward to the shindigs every night. So, why cry Wolf when it was over ? And for the records, I am not a member of COZA. I never knew the Church till the 'ESE WALTER SAGA'.
DeleteHaba! 2 days Marriage, she don already de grant interwiew?
ReplyDeleteStella my hand sha no dey lol!
Nice interview btw, very well composed in her response .
Ese happy marriagable
All these people calling dis adulterer courageous amd a strong woman, I wonder ig u would call her dat I if it was ur husband she fucked. I'm sure u 4 don curse she and her generation tire.lol. The real victim is dat pastor's wife and no one seems to acknowledge dat fact. Tufiakwa! Nigeria of today dey fear me die.
ReplyDeleteIf u like Tufiakwa from today till next year that is irrelevant. It is not man condemnation that makes someone , God's glory will always shine through.
DeleteAs long as she has made her peace with God that is what matters the most . She learnt from her mistake and moved on so I can only wish her goodluck ....
Thr is no mistake with Ese, leg opening is her way. So Stella I beg we don tire for Ese story I beg when you tur LIB that post boring gist.
DeleteKARMA must surely visit ESE WALTER, whether she has made peace or declared War with GOD. It is one of the Principles that govern the Earth ! Do I admire ESE WALTER ? No ! Do I envy ESE WALTER ? No ! Do I care for ESE WALTER ? No ! Ese Walter is a hard hearted Woman with low Morals. I look forward, happily and eagerly, to her KARMA ! I can't wait !
DeleteI hear she can't keep those Legs together ?
DeleteThis anon sounding so bitter with the Karma talk, u dnt even knw how ur end ll be.....u r filled with so much jealousy, please free urself so good things can come ur way.
DeleteSomeone dat shud be condemmed and shud be hiding her face in shame is being hailed as a strong woman. Strong for wetin nah? Anyway, her husband will fuck another woman and pls wen sat happens dont cgange ur view om still call her a strong woman bc den is wen we shall determine how strong she is.
ReplyDeleteI detest ESE WALTER ! She caused another Woman, PAIN ! I hate her for that ! KARMA will visit, surely ! Yours, ESE WALTER, will be brutal ! It will be public, it will be shameful ! You must face the Music ESE WALTER ! You must !
DeleteTo me d only one whose character is worthy of emulation is dat pastor's spouse. She is d strong and courageous one hia bc she's d real victim. All others r evil and as I hv noticed from dis incident, evil no dey hide again 4 Naija. Its in ur face and claiming bold and courageous. Wat a tasteless society. D other day 98% of women hia stated dey prefered a generous and shameless he goat to a stingy and faithful man. HABA I lost faith in dat soceity from thence. No thots abt making ur own money. The job of d average Nigerian girl is how to hook a rich guy. This is d only thing dey r diligent in doing. From morning till night they r seeking a man. Tufiakwa.
ReplyDeleteMay u b annonymous 4 life.....anupam
DeleteLooooool. Pot calling kettle black. But I won't use a curse word here bc experience hs shown dat it's people who hv Nothing to offer dat curse. It also speaks a whole lot abt d kind of home training one got
DeleteAnon 7:38pm...... You are as hopeless as you sound ! The TRUTH was spoken, yet you cursed the Mouthpiece ?! IT IS YOU THAT WILL REMAIN ANONYMOUS FOREVER ! And as for you, ESE WALTER, you disgust me ! KARMA awaits you ! I heard you have a Penchant for casual SEX and destruction ? SMH.
DeleteKarma pikin, u still dey here?
DeleteShe disgusts you and what of the pastor/religious leader? Oh yeah, he's still laying hands on you...
Get over this already, it's old news. Even God has forgotten about it and forgiven her.
Pple like you are still throwing stones @ David for sleeping with that chic meanwhile, Christ himself came through his lineage.
Shout yourself hoarse, it changes nothing in God's plans for her life.... and pls give your life to Christ. He'll help you with the frustration you're struggling with.
My regards to Karma...
I have tremendous respect for her intelligence,she expresses herself so effortlessly,with regards to her past I think she has erased that unpleasant phase of her life and moved on,Ese I wish you all the best your presnt status has to offer
ReplyDeleteMmwhaaaaa
ReplyDeletejux think u can learn frm your mistake Hapi Union
Sholamatty
Wow! May God continue to uphold you dear.
ReplyDeletewww.kaylachanai.blogspot.com
Clap 4urself u who is without sin.go ahead n burst a vein on top her matter.you say she was unapologetic? Oh well what do you know? She has made her peace with her maker.you go ahead n keep accusing.Let God who knows our deepest sin n secret judge us on the last day.
ReplyDeleteYay it's a rain vedutti photo.....dts my bro.
ReplyDeleteCongrats Ese
I'm very happy for Ese. GOD isn't sleeping on her. Those who thought they could ridicule her and not show remorse surely have their case files before HIM. Only a matter of time.
ReplyDeleteI just want to ask one question, are these sdkers not the same people that castigated this girl when the COZA story broke? The dynamic nature of man..smh.
ReplyDeleteEwe you rock!!! God bless u.
ReplyDeleteI never applauded her for what she did, but her ability to repent and confess her sins to the public. The pastor used his charismatic power on her. He was her idol and had much influence on her. Rose
ReplyDeleteAnd she seduced Him.
DeleteAnd she seduced Him.
DeleteYeah right, so did the other chics that oga pastor slept with. He will forever be a victim, the dude considered a spiritual 'leader' with tremendous influence on thousands of people gets seduced by his mere subjects....
DeletePoor man...
3rd marriage kwa? Hian.
ReplyDeleteVery true that the fact that Ese found love is indeed wonderful. I really comment Bennie. However if that were your husband she did the nasty with dear women praising her, would you still give her props? Somegirl broke my marriage. I have left my husband and the girl is married today even though the scandal was public for me as well. I have tried everything to forgive her seeing she has moved on with her life but I just can't. She was very wrong to sleep with a married man, publicize it to ridicule the wife and then play victim. It takes two to tango biko nu
ReplyDeleteTrue ! ESE WALTER will be visited by KARMA !
DeleteTrue ! ESE WALTER will be visited by KARMA !
Delete@ anoy February 17, 2014 at 7:54 PM that pastor did not use any charismatic power on Ese. She is clearly a very intelligent seductress who knows what she is doing. She probably fucks real good too. Please let's not trivialize her role in this. Shame on Fatoyinbo but also bigger shame on Ese too. That was a bleeping married man for goodness sake
ReplyDeleteGod bless ur home Ese...
ReplyDeleteHmmm..... Indeed.
DeleteHmmm..... Indeed.
DeleteAre response was strait no doubt......buh tbh she should just live a quiet life she isn't a good example of anything...
ReplyDeleteTrue !
DeleteTrue !
DeleteI dont still get why this lady is celebrated this much.....i sincerely believe there's more to her confession than what we could see...if she wanted to make things right,,,she could have just asked for forgiveness from God and probably see some other senior pastors in the church without making it a headline story like this,,,making things right does not mean blowing a trumpet...Someone said the pastor used charismatic powers on her,,,but according to Ese,,she said the sex went on for a whole week,DAILY....if the pastor used charismatic power on her the first time,,,did he still use the charismatic power to drag her from her own house to his hotel room the rest of the days??? If we are condemning the pastor's action,,,then Ese has no justification too......they are both adults....she consented to it,,she had the option of walking out on her Pastor and not communicate with him again....dis is not a rape story,,,she was not drugged....so what is "strong woman" everyone is screaming???Pastors are firstly men before been of God....so they can make mistakes,,,but if a pastor will fall,,must she offer herself as an instrument to actualize the downfall???
ReplyDeleteAll the same...Congrats Ese....May you enjoy "new level of grace" in your marriage....
God bless you SLEEKREEK ! You have depth and intelligence ! It gladdens my Heart to know that People like you still exist. ESE WALTER is a wicked, vindinctive Woman, who felt scorned, and unleashed FURY ! SHE WAS NO VICTIM ! I bet she looked forward to the Shindigs, every night, for the seven days, and enjoyed every second of it ! KARMA awaits her ! How could she go public ?! How do you expect Pastor Biodun's Wife to feel, afterwards ?! ESE WALTER IS A WICKED SOUL ! Gosh !
DeleteGod bless you SLEEKREEK ! You have depth and intelligence ! It gladdens my Heart to know that People like you still exist. ESE WALTER is a wicked, vindinctive Woman, who felt scorned, and unleashed FURY ! SHE WAS NO VICTIM ! I bet she looked forward to the Shindigs, every night, for the seven days, and enjoyed every second of it ! KARMA awaits her ! How could she go public ?! How do you expect Pastor Biodun's Wife to feel, afterwards ?! ESE WALTER IS A WICKED SOUL ! Gosh !
DeleteBut Ese Was not the only victim . Another victim has challenged the pastor to deny it, then she will bring out Evidence. If he knows he is not in the game, let him come out and deny it.
ReplyDeleteEse Walter is no Victim !!!
DeleteNigerians! so gullible! So when did she meet this Benny? And they are married already? Good luck and may someone else sleep with your husband 2.
ReplyDeleteThis Jones u sound really really pained and hurt. Are u biodun's wife??
ReplyDeleteAs for Ese, u look to me like a very cunning and crafty woman who uses her feminine wiles to her own advantage. U are no victim my dear, u absolutely enjoyed and still enjoy every bit of attention. And please stop using Christianity to shine. Nigeria is the only country I know where people never take responsibility for their actions. And somehow Nigerians interpret being a christian to being a good/moral person.
As for Benny, I wish u well. U are not my brother so it's really not my business.
Sade.
@the karma preacher
ReplyDeletekarma sure would visit her as will as the man she was adulterous with.
it goes both ways honey, never forget that.