This has got to be the most jaw breaking mail i have ever received......Seems some pastors commit the most crime these days and still have the audacity to climb the pulpit and read from the bible.
Some tell their lovers after church ''my child just do it and ask for forgiveness later,God will forgive you,that's why his sent his only son Jesus Christ to die for us,he understands''.
Please read the following email sent in by someone whose identity must remain anonymous for now ....read
and you will understand
THIS IS THE MAIL
''I think I am regretting what I did now. I sent a message to you b4. I just happened to hear my "pastor dad" having sex in his room on Saturday night-On what was supposed to be their matrimonial bed. Besides, I was already being threatened. I reported him to my mother who had even reported him to the wife of the General Overseer of our church. She told her what was up again and Me reported to the wife of the Pastor he is answerable to here. I told them to call off his license to preach and serve the Communion bread and wine because its an abomination to commit adultery and still climb the alter to preach. Now my mum was asking me why I told his Pastor. Imagine. I am still standing my grounds on whatever I did though.+ I moved little clothes to a church members house yesterday Sunday and I have been there since then-would be going to work from there. I know I am not wrong. I saw a vision early on Sunday morning n God showed me something on mass destruction in my family. Before it gets to that point, lemme know I have done my best to change him. I know he has back-slided and we are now fighting Spiritual battles. Thanks.''
Did she do the right thing by telling her mum that her dad had sex with someone else?did she do the right thing by reporting him to the church to have his license seized?
At the end of the day,please focus on the message and not the preacher because some of them preach A and do otherwise!
*I am not without sin and i am not Judging any Man of God...God will Judge his own all by himself!
Nothing's new!!
ReplyDeleteLa Petite.
Dull move bt thn again,u frm a religious home,I aint....same sh*t happened in my house,first,I ddnt wnt 'em to split up n I certainly ddnt wnt no fight,so I did what ws best fr evrybody...get a pen n paper,write out all d tyns u eva wanted,bold5(jst cm out thn),new clothes,triple allowance....anythng,and blackmail ur dad....n blve me,wen u hv a mum like mine,ur dad's gonna pay up lolz...hate all u like,I did it n I dnt regret....
ReplyDeleteSo people forget that pastors are human beings that go through the same temptations we do? What makes them more superior? Mtscheeeeeeeew
ReplyDeleteEven the bible says our righteousness is like filthy rags in the sight of the Lord. Stop worshipping your pastors! All these so-called church workers are the most judgmental people I know and they get their own for body. Na una know.
As for the writer, if you like don't go back home because you feel so self-righteous. Check the log in your own eye u hear! For your mind, you think that your G.O. And his wife are without sin abi? Stupidity of the highest order. Let every man walk his own walk. We will all stand individually on judgment day. It is left for your dad to change his ways.
Do u realise how myopic your reply is? Don't you know that there is punishment greater for he that is chosen of God and lives daily in sin? Do u not know that fornication and adultery is the sin against the body which is the temple of the holy spirit? It is better for the man in question to leave the holy order and sort himself out as a regular man because the wrath of God is dangerous.
DeleteAs for the writer, I believe this is the time to pray seriously. Leave the house if you must but do not leave your family because when the mass destruction comes, you will either be affected or infected.
I agree with the bloggers action (except the moving out bit). It is sickening what these churches have become. Mass production of massive egos with the pastors replacing Gid. You did right by speaking out because if it comes out in public people will rope you in.
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ReplyDeleteNa wa o!I suppose u re an adult judging from you implying that you work?is this the first time your dad is doing this since he called himself to the pulpit?This question is based on your mum's complacent attitude to her husband the pastor cheating!your mum turned the other cheek while you can't take it.I will then conclude it came as a shock to you!I totally understand how you feel if you never knew your dad is two faced!Bottomline is your dad may not repent because of your actions!Sadly,many pastors cheat!Some go as far as divorcing their wives n getting married to a choir beauty in front of the congregation!That's how cheap christianity has become!cliche' advice is,pray for him;if not to change but to use a condom and not bring aids to your mum.we don't want the vision you had to come to pass!By the way,go back home.You can't fight God's battle!Besides,you don't sound very tolerant and I see u falling out with who ever it is you re squatting with.its not easy to live with someone over some pius excuse!Signed:wide eyed!
ReplyDeleteBest advice. All points noted.
DeleteA word they say......
Dear me!
ReplyDeleteAin't gonna comment on this
I'm tongue tied really...
billie jean
For real? Tongue tied?
DeleteI'll be on the look out for pigs flying above me.
LOL
But seriously this one is a brain twister.
You have gone too far by involving the general overseer of your. Do you know what your so called GO is equally struggling with, hahaa, your own pass boko haram.
ReplyDeletemehnnn...the things wey God go judge for this world ehnn????
ReplyDeleteI find your moves Really Immature , ok what Impacts have your actions and decision Made? Causing more harm than Good. HolyAngel. Pardon me, Its people like you that utters rubbish, like " I'm hot Tempered, I get easily irritated..bla bla". A proverbs says, Wisdom Builds up a Nation, but Foolishness tears it apart. You exposed him just like that? You left home cos ure More righteous than the rest? You're tearing things apart that's why it pricks you. You just reacted immediately, that was wrong. Does sin irritate you that much? Youre still a Spinster, with due respect re you a Virgin? You can only state the obvious and advice but, Leave judgment for God biko, .. You got it right only if u prayed and got divine direction. before taking those moves, cos The last time I checked, Every decision made in the fear and direction of the lord is a wise decision.
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To the anonymous victim, don't mind these hypocrites who are blaming you. they are exactly like your hypocrite father. You did good. this is not about being over righteous, it is about following the word. if your dad wants to live in sin, by all means let him do so. but he MUST NOT act all holy and righteous while at it. i am a terrible sinner, but you wont see me on an alter in church preaching and serving communion, mbanu.
ReplyDeletewhat your dad did is wrong and sinful. the fact that himself and your mum are even covering it up without remorse is even more deplorable.
God has shown you stuff directly right, listen to HIM and OBEY HIM. you've done your best, the rest is up to the "adults". once again, i say well done you. Don't be convinced otherwise.
This one pass me..
ReplyDeleteSomadina nd d rest of d hypocrites una dey craze. Morons! na una go dey blame govt while una religious leaders dey destroy d country wit dia sins... Lets call a spade a spade, he broke his vow nd she{d daughter } did d right thing.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree Joe
DeleteSomadina nd d rest of d hypocrites una dey craze. Morons! na una go dey blame govt while una religious leaders dey destroy d country wit dia sins... Lets call a spade a spade, he broke his vow nd she{d daughter } did d right thing.
ReplyDeleteoh too bad...
ReplyDeleteMy thought exactly she wasn't meant to run the guy down
ReplyDeleteno 2... I quite agree with you
ReplyDeletesorry...no 3 not2 i agree with you
ReplyDeleteHmm I ask if some of you people are truly born again? the best reply to the author question is SAMODINA'S REPLY. He said it all. Why don't you seek first the wisdom of God? When David committed adultery, God told the priest to go meet him and let him know he has sinned against God. the priest didn't announce to the whole world that David has fornicated but met David and instantly David realised his sin and wept. from my own point of view, the writer is not a christian as she/he claims. if truly you are a christian you will not only see your father as you father only but also as a fellow in the vine yard of God. When you realise that then you will know he is derailing and you should call him back to track. talk to him and let him realise what he is doing is sinful and disgracing as a child of God. you leaving your parents house also proves that you are rude and a blackmailer. A christian does not cause havoc but make things work and maintain peace. Don't you think that you attitude will make someone( your Dad) loose his salvation. My dear it has happened to me( my father is a pastor) and i want you to know that one of the vices of the enemies use in attacking the minister of God is adultery and fornication. Don't you think as a child you are placed in that family to help your dad and others stand firm in their faith. My advice for you is to 1. go back to your family 2.Ask for forgiveness fro m your dad for being rude 3. Help him build his faith back and help him make restitution with God. Seek the wisdom of God first also i don't think the social media is the best place to seek for Godly advice, you have mentors in faith so u can as well seek for guidance from them
ReplyDeleteI totally concur... Galatian 6:1 says; Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault(sin), you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren't tempted... I don't think you have corrected your dad in gentleness by moving out of the house and reporting him to the general overseer... Intercede for your dad in prayers;beg God for mercies on his behalf lest, God's wrath might rob off on you also... Stay blessed
DeleteI have a personal story to tell on dis cos it happened to me with my pastor which I still regret 2day. I will share if u guys care. Something 2 learn jus call me ADA
ReplyDeleteOkayooooo, I know say if I comment on dis one now e go be like say na Chibuzor talk am, and them supporters go begin fight me. anyhow shah… na only God know who dey serve am… all the same by their fruits you shall know them.
ReplyDeleteso I leave the matter for those wey dey know the fake pastors and those next to Jesus.
A child catch his pastor father doing bad bad things on bed,,nd she claimed to has warned him before,nd alots of you guys here comments blame the child for exposing his father pastor right?so what did the bible ask us to do when we tried to change person?is it not to go to an elder in the church?from this topic I have find out that there is no single truth in Nigeria,,so you guys want her to wait nd to be calling names like a child of a fake pastor?from swiss
ReplyDeletePastor is fucking on his matrimonial bed??Abeg where was Pastor Mrs? Night Vigil? Moved out? Pastor Daughter, you report ur papa abi? God show u vision abi? So why are u asking mere mortals if you were right? Wait o! Its the same God that asked you to HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER!! Abi no be so? Ur papa dey nack and u dey listen...Chei bad pikin. REMEMBER THAT THE SAME MEASURE YOU USE, WILL BE USED TO MEASURE U.
ReplyDeleteLet him that is without sin cast the first stone....Jesus Christ.
ReplyDeleteDo not deprive one another (sex) except during fast...Apostle Paul
If ur father is having sex on his matrimonial bed, that means ur mother abandoned the bed.
U should have confided in someone older to counsel him not report him.
Those calling her father a fake pastor, If sin makes us fake, then who among SDK readers is real
Hello, i feel the guy should have just confronted his father with it and not the church and the mum. confronting the father will give the father the opportunity to repent and make amends at his own pace. his action may indeed bring about the so called revelation God showed him about the impending mass destruction in his family. The pastor is his father no Mather what, am of the opinion that he should have covered his fathers nakedness, confronted him of it and let God be the Judge. His father could place a course on him and that course will stand.
ReplyDeletereally am speecless and sad,so majority of you are against this soul or girl that is greatly disturbed bcos of wat is happening in her home,even if d man is not a pastor what is wrong is wrong.with most of the comments the girl will be encourage to do the same bcos if a pastor can do it so there is no wrong in it and majority of u are in support of her father bcos nobody is perfect.my dear God will guilde u and be prayerful too,dont be discourage bcos God is with u
ReplyDeleteNB:those of u that said she did wrong or shes claiming holy,let ur wife/husband do the same as her father and let ur kids dont complain bt follow the same footprints
all of u judging this girl, lack conscience and if this girl turn out worst tommorow the same people will call her a waste,what is this life turning into? no moral,no conscience.why we mocking God like this,its unfair and my dear be praying for ur parents and leave everytin to God bcos the advice u seek u may not get it here.
ReplyDeleteSo many bible believing and tongue rapping believers in here, what have I 2 say again? Stella I get shocked everyday wiv stories as dis, U̶̲̥̅̊ won't believe, a frnd 2 my close frnd lost his wife last week and b4 she died, she confessed 2 her hubby dat her pastor slept wiv her b4 agreeing 2 wed her in same church and has also been doing dat 2 othr spinsters b4 wedding dem in his church... God can neva be mocked, his silence shld neva be taken 4 granted
ReplyDeleteHaba, we were asked to offer advice and the next we do is condemn. Na God sabi wetin we for do if we be God o! Anyway, I think many of us do not really understand the story as was presented. The girl said she caught her father in the act and she was being threatened. Moreover, she had a vision of an imminent destruction upon the family and we are querying whether she is truly a Christian.
ReplyDeleteDoes anyone think it is very easy for a child to convince the father who has many years of experience as a fornicator to repent? Yes the mum may have been aware of it in the past or not but we are not told. I think if the mum would rather cover up the shameful conduct to protect the family image. It is not unlikely that it was the threat that made the girl spill to the supervising pastor while the mum ran to the GO's wife to intervene so that the severity of the sanction would be mellowed.
Now there is nothing wrong in the girl telling the mum. Let's not forget that when destruction comes calling, she may not be spared. She is okay to report to the supervising pastor because she is answerable to God to explain what steps she took after the revelation. For all you care the mother is powerless to stop the husband except God intervenes. Know however that God will not come down to do for you what you can do for yourself. She does not want further desecration of the alter of God, that is why she ran to elder. Please let her be. As for leaving house, we do not know the content of the threat but it is real. Corruption fights back. I can understand her fears. She is the only witness. If any harm befalls her, who can explain it? He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. My prayer is that God will be merciful upon the family and stay judgment IJN.
This is the best reply here...
DeleteAnon July 2, 2013 at 3:25 AM; it looks like you were in the toilet when English classes were going on in Nursery school.
ReplyDeleteSomadina, like really? Joseph. W has answered you properly.
We all deal with things differently. I like how she handled it. But I'm worried about the passiveness of your Mum. If she's okay with it, then it's BAU. Sad!
I totally agree with Joseph William. She did the right thing.how would you encourage someone to concede evil in the house of God.. by the time the judgement comes, it will surely pass over her.. did these guys actually miss the part where she sed she had a dream???
ReplyDeleteliars and deceit can describe most of the comments here,during the DVforum one girl experience sometin of such bt quiet different,majority of u adviced her to confide in her mum or an elderly person bt this wonderful girl was brave enough to tell her mum and the pastor everybody is aganist her.God have mercy,do u know wat dat girl is passing through,well if some of u enjoy living life full of deceit and immorality does not mean u cant encourage a young fellow to do things right because if u support evil na inside ur house u go see am.if that pastor is a real man of God atleast he will even feel ashamed dat his own daughter is against him.my dear be prayerful dont mind them bcos i used to think in midst of 12 there will be judas now 11 na judas,hold God tight and he wont disappoint u.
ReplyDeleteI pity Nigerians! All of u condemning the writers action, condone the pastors action indirectly. She did d right thing. The truth must come out. y'all should stop being stupid n face d truth. The father is a scumbag of d worst kind! Cheating on ur wife in ur matrimonial bed is an unforgivable crime for any man, not to mention a man of the cloth! Tueh!!! Abomination! He should be hung by his balls.
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The kind of comments I see here saddens me. What have we degenerated to? What wrong has the writer committed by reporting the situation to her mother and his superior- the overseer? I cover my face in shame. My ppl go say "yeye dey smell". @the Writer, you have done no wrong. You have behaved well. You have not joined the crowd in trying to cover up such a disgraceful act. A shame your mum took it the way she did. My mother made a point not to cover any of our naughtiness growing up and we are better for it today. If living in the house will be difficult after this whole episode, pls feel free to stay with who will accept you and where you feel comfortable. I wish I was half as brave as you are.
ReplyDeleteNigeria my Country. The future remains bleak. With comment like those of the likes of Somadina, then their is trully no hope. what a shame!!!!
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