Blog Visitor Begs ''Please Read This Before You Judge Me''

                                          

                                                


She sent in a story titled ''''DAD PREACHES ON THE PULPIT BUT COMMITS ADULTERY''
but feels she didn't send in enough details for people to advise her further.....so she has sent in the full story and the reason she did what she did.

I still maintain that I am so shocked and at a loss for words on what to say after reading her full story...Please read and leave out abuses....She is just a 20yr old lady trying to find the right path.


Here's the detailed explanation....




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Stella the first mail i sent was not detailed enough so i had to re-send another one so that your blog readers can understand well before they judge me for reporting my pastor Dad to the general overseer in the church he is also a pastor.

 U might not see this as Domestic Violence but its psychologically affecting me and everyone around me. My mum faces the whole ish and not me but I feel more pains for her. My so called 'dad' is a Pastor of one of the foremost churches in Nigeria. He is very educated and widely traveled. We used to be very comfortable until he was sacked from work. My mum did everything within her power to support the family during those times. To add-My dad stays in Abuja and my mum stays in Lagos.

 We begged my dad to return to Lag since he lost his job but he refused.. News of infidelity surfaced and I found out my dad was dating three different ladies. I even caught him with one on his bed. Naturally,I am quiet so I could not confront him or them. I am a graduate, 20yrs old and I just started work with a made company in Abuja but who isn't scared of my dad? Not me. We gist and pretend to be close but all the scars I have on my body are from my dad. He still boasts he can beat me even now. Who am I not to be scared? The very good thing is he never touched my mum for once. About three to four weeks ago,we found out different sets of women again even when he claimed he had changed. My mum found out herself now. There was no denying in this case. He is lying now but what pains me most is the fact that he's a "PASTOR" and he anoints people with his adulterous mouth and blesses peoples business with his lying lips. He serves people communion and preaches on the altar of God.


I am waiting for when God will strike him dead cos I know he's heaping curses on my family. I want to do something to stop all but I don't know what to do. My mum pretends not to be moved but I feel her pains deep within. She still prays for him. She almost filed for divorce last two years but she cancelled it because of what the church will say. I am dieing slowly cos I can't live with this anymore. I am fed up. My mum is also well educated and she's beautiful so I don't know why he's doing all this things.

this whole thing has been going on for more than 10years now and they (parents) had been a little separated for five years now-No sex..nothing. When he lost his job, he used to say that 'A man with no job has no 'dick' for sex'. He got a new job but things remained same. My mum tells me things cos m d only one she can talk to. Did I forget to add that he has a 'well hidden' male child from one of the relationships. I am not hot tempered, I am not overtly holy and I don't pretend to be. In fact,people around don't see me as a Pastors child. They just see me as one young cute lady who loves church and God. I have my own downfalls but I don't like pretense. My mum has a saying and I always like to go by it..."Come as you are so we will know where we will direct our prayers for U to". Even the bible says we should either be hot or cold. Lukewarmness is not permitted.

This is the reason i had to report my Dad...you may think i have done wrong but i cannot sit back and watch this destruction happen without saying anything,you people sit down and judge me from the fence,i am the one who is feeling the whole weight of all this.

Now read this and give your opinion again.''